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Ngaba wakha wakwimeko apho abanye abantu abanobundlobongela baba nobuganga bokubuza umntu lo mbuzo: 'INGABA UYAZI UKUBA NDINGUBANI ??'
Impendulo yalo mbuzo yile: 'Ungumntu ongekho mkhulu okanye ongaphantsi kunomnye umntu ebusweni bomhlaba, nokuba ungakhokelwa ukuba ukholelwe ntoni.'
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Akukho mntu ugqibelele
Akukho namnye kuthi. Sonke sikuluhambo olukhulu lokufunda ukuba singoobani kwaye ngethemba sishiya ilifa elilungileyo kule planethi incinci, kodwa elowo kuthi uzokuphazamisa okuhle nokulungileyo ngaxa lithile. Kuwo onke amathuba, siza kuphazamisa kakhulu. Siza kuzenza iimpazamo, kwaye sibenzakalise abanye abantu (ngamanye amaxesha ngempazamo, ngamanye amaxesha ngabom), kwaye ukuba sihloniphekile kwaye asizalisekanga, sizocela uxolo ngokwenza njalo .
Ukuvuma into yokuba singabantu abaneziphene kusivumela ukuba sikhule. Abantu abanoluvo olugqithisileyo lokubaluleka kwabo bahlala bekholelwa ekubeni abanasiphoso. Banokuba nekratshi, kwaye bayala ukukholelwa ukuba nasiphi na isigqibo okanye isenzo sabo sinokuthi, enyanisweni, sibe sesingalunganga. Xa oko kusenzeka, umntu akazivumeli ukuba azivulele nayiphi na indlela yophuhliso lomntu. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba sele uyazi yonke into, ungayifunda njani into entsha? Ukuba sele ukholelwa ukuba ugqibelele, liliphi igumbi elikhoyo ukuziphucula ?
Zama lo msebenzi: hlula iphepha kabini. Kwiphepha elinye, bhala phantsi zonke izinto ozixabisileyo nezixabisekileyo ngawe. Kwelinye icandelo, bhala yonke into ngawe oyaziyo ukuba kufuneka usebenzele kuyo. Nyaniseka. Ngobundlongondlongo kunjalo, ukuba kufuneka njalo. Kungenzeka ukuba kufuneka uyeke ukuthambisa ikofu yakho yasekuseni kuba uyazi ukuba iyalicaphukisa iqabane lakho xa uyenza, okanye inyani yokuba uyazi ukuba ugwetyiwe ukuba ungangxami kulo mntu ungamthandiyo.
Qaphela ukuba iimpawu ezidweliswe kuwo omabini amaphepha zikuvumela igumbi lokuphucula kunye nokukhula komntu. Nditsho nabona baphathi babalaseleyo bayavuma ukuba banokuba ngcono kwinto abayenzayo ngokuziqhelanisa nokuzinikezela.
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Ukwamkela Ukufa Kusenza Sibe Nemfesane Engakumbi
Akukho namnye kuthi ophuma apha ephila. Ukufa akunakuphepheka , nokwenza abahlobo ngalo mbono kunokunciphisa uxinzelelo oluninzi malunga nokufa okusondeleyo. Xa sisazi ukuba sihamba nokufa yonke imihla, siyaqonda ukuba sonke singabadlali abancinci kwinqanaba elikhulu: sonke sinendima ekufuneka siyidlalile, sonke sihamba zizinto ezipheleleyo, kodwa thina ' Sonke siyalingana (ukulingana kusentliziyweni yokuthobeka njengoko le nkcazo ingentla ibonisa)… kwaye kuba sonke siza kujongana nokufa ngaxa lithile, sinakho yiba novelwano ngakumbi kwabanye .
INkosana okanye ihlwempu, indumasi okanye igxothiwe eluntwini, elowo kuthi uya kuphuma kwinqanaba elishiyekileyo, kwaye ngokubanzi sizakufumana ukujonga emva ebomini bethu ukubona ukuba loluphi uhlobo lwempembelelo esibe nayo ngelixa sasilapha. Ngaba sasiphila ubomi be ukubawa , okanye ukungazingci? Ngaba sithathe ithuba lokuba nobubele, okanye ngaba sasikhohlakele kuba kusonwabisa ukusenza njalo?
Nayi imibuzo embalwa onokuzibuza yona:
- Loluphi uhlobo lwelifa ofuna ukulishiya?
- Ufuna ukukhunjulwa njani?
- Ukuba ubuza kufa ngomso, abantu bangathini ngawe?
Ukuba u gcina ingxelo , Bhala phantsi iimpendulo zakho kwezi njengesiqhelo sokukhula ngokomoya. Ukuba awuzithandi iimpendulo, zibuze ukuba unganakho ukwenza ntoni ukuphucula indlela obonwa ngayo kwabanye abantu. Ukuba awulithandi ilifa oza kulishiya, ucinga ukuba ungenza ntoni ukuze licace?
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Ukwamkela ngokunyanisekileyo kwabanye
Xa siziqonda ngokuthe gca iintsilelo zethu kunye nemicimbi, sinokubaxabisa ngokwenene abantu ebomini bethu abasinyamezelayo ngesixa esincinci sesikhalazo. Abahlobo bethu, amaqabane, abatshatileyo-abo banganyanzelekanga ukuba babekhona ebomini bethu, kodwa bakhethe ukunamathela ngenxa yezizathu ezithile ngaphandle kwezinye iimpazamo zethu.
Xa sinokuzijonga nge ethembekileyo ukugxeka kunye nokuvuma iimpawu kuthi ezinokuthi zibeke-ukubeka kwabanye, kwaye ubone ukuba siyathandwa kwaye samkelwe nangona (okanye mhlawumbi ngenxa) yezo mpawu, sinokwandisa olo hlobo lokwamkelwa ngaphandle kwemeko kwabo sibakhathaleleyo.
Ukuthanda abantu ayikokubenza iikopi zekhabhoni, okanye ukubatshintsha ukuze indlela abaziphatha ngayo ikholise ngakumbi kuthi. Imalunga nokubabona bephelele, abantu abaneziphene ngokwabo, kwaye bebaxabisa njengokuba benjalo.
Ukuziphatha kwabo kunokwahluka kokwakho, banokuyithanda imidlalo endaweni yenyani yeTV, okanye banokuba neenkolelo zokomoya ezahlukeneyo kunawe. Nokuba yeyiphi na iyantlukwano yakho, ungavuma ukuba banamava obomi angathethekiyo, bafumene ulwazi kwizilingo zabo, kwaye banobulumko bokwabelana nawe. Banokuthakazelelwa njengabantu ngabanye, kwaye iyantlukwano yenu ibhiyozelwe.
Ngaba lo mntu unemvelaphi yenkcubeko okanye yenkolo eyahlukileyo? Xoxa ngeenkolelo zakho kunye nokukhula ngokwenkcubeko ngokudibeneyo kunye neentliziyo ezivulekileyo. Mhlawumbi yiya kwimibhiyozo kunye nosapho lomnye nomnye. Yidla isidlo sangokuhlwa. Funda amagama ambalwa kwiilwimi zomnye nomnye, uqala ngo ' enkosi '.
Ngaba bakho abantu ebomini bakho ekunzima ukubamkela? Yintoni le uyilwa nabo? Ungayisombulula njani le micimbi?
Umbulelo
Xa sivuma ukuba 'asityalwanga' nantoni na ngenxa yokuba sizinkosazana ezikhethekileyo ze-unicorn faerie, singavuya kakhulu xa abantu besenzela izinto ezintle ngenxa yobubele beentliziyo zabo. Ukuba umntu usipha isipho somusa, okanye usinika ithokheni yomzimba, kungenxa yokuba senze into ukushiya ifuthe elihle kubomi babo, kwaye basinika imbeko ngento ethile. Oko kuhle kakhulu kulahlwe ngokukodwa.
Cinga ngomntwana omncinci ozobela umntu amkhathaleleyo umfanekiso. Umntwana akananto ixabisekileyo, kodwa ufuna ukwenza kwaye anike into exabisa ububele obuncinci… kwaye banokwazi ukwahlula phakathi komntu ophuma kunye nee-aaaahs ngokuvakalayo xa efumana isipho somntwana, nomntu othabatha umzuzwana Ukucinga ngenene ngento eyenziweyo ekudalweni kwayo, emva koko unike 'enkosi' enyanisekileyo.
Ngaba uziva unombulelo onyanisekileyo ebantwini ebomini bakho? Okanye ngaba uthabatha isenzo sabo kuwe ngokungakhathali kuba uziva ngathi unetyala kubo?
Abantu abaninzi banomdla kakhulu wokugxeka abanye ngenxa yeziphene okanye ukusilela kwabo, kodwa elowo kuthi uphuke ngendlela yethu, kwaye uyakusilela amatyeli aliqela ebomini bethu. Inkcubeko yaseNtshona ibonakala ngathi iyachuma schadenfreude (ulonwabo oluvela kwilishwa lomnye), kunye nemiboniso yeTV edumileyo ebeka abantu ngokuchasene endaweni yokukhuthaza abantu ukuba basebenze kunye. Eminye imiboniso inikezela ukugxeka nokuthotywa njengeendlela zokuzonwabisa, kwaye abantu ababukeleyo bathi imiboniso ihlala ijika kwaye yenza olo hlobo lokuziphatha kubomi babo bemihla ngemihla. Bababeka abanye abantu phantsi, bagculela abanye ngeempazamo zabo abazibonayo, kodwa leliphi ilungelo abanokukwenza ngalo? Ngaba bakholelwa ukuba bangenakungcikivwa?
Gcina ukhumbula ukuba abo balatha abaphantsi babo abanazo.
Musa ukuba nekratshi njalo-ke-ke yiba nobubele nanini na ithuba livela, kwaye ube neempazamo zakho ngokuvuma nangokuxolisa ngokunyanisekileyo. Ungaphelela ekubeni nefuthe elihle ngokumangalisayo kubomi bomnye umntu, kwaye loo nto iyakudlalela ngaphandle kwaye ichaphazele wonke umntu okwisangqa sabo.
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