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Kodwa kukho ukubuyela umva ngokuchasene nokuthanda izinto eziphathekayo, kwaye yeyona nto unokufuna ukuyihoya. Zininzi izizathu zokuba kutheni ungafanele uthande ukuthanda izinto eziphathekayo, kwaye aba balandelayo bali-12 bephakathi kwezona zibalulekileyo. Zifunde kwaye ufumane ukuba kutheni ungazithandi izinto eziphathekayo, ukuqala namhlanje.
1. Iinjongo zeNjongo zihlala ziHamba
Eyona ngxaki inye ekukhokeleni kubomi bokuthanda izinto eziphathekayo kukuba, nokuba ubutyebi obungakanani na kwaye naliphi na inqanaba lokonwaba ngezinto oziphumezayo, ungasoloko unyathela ukuya kwiimveliso ezinkulu kakhulu.
rosa ukusuka endle n ngaphandle
Oku kwenzeka ngenxa yokuba ingqondo yomntu iyakwazi ukuziqhelanisa kwaye naziphi na izinto ezintsha zifakwa ngokukhawuleza kwimeko yesiqhelo. Ngokusisiseko baphela kwimva nje emva kokuba uzifumene.
Oku kwaziwa njenge-treadmill yokusetyenziswa-akukho nto iya kukusa kufutshane nolonwabo, iya kukhawulezisa i-treadmill ukukunyanzela ukuba uthenge izinto ezibiza kakhulu.
2. Ulwaneliseko olulindelweyo ludla ngokuba phezulu kunolwaneliseko lokwenyani
Rhoqo uya kucinga ngokuthenga into kwaye ube nolindelo oluphakamileyo lolwaneliseko lwakho, kwaye ke ufumane ulwaneliseko olusezantsi kakhulu emva kokuba uyithengile.
Olu luhlobo lwe-dissonance yokuqonda, apho isimo sakho sengqondo sitshintsha into ngokukhawuleza xa usenayo. Xa ingasenakuba yinxalenye yefantasy yexesha elizayo, kwaye xa uqonda iinyaniso ezibandayo, ezinzima malunga nokuba luncedo kuwe, isibheno sayo siyancipha kungekudala.
Oku ngokuyinxalenye kukukwenza kunye neenjongo zokuhamba ezihanjisiweyo ezithethwe ngasentla, kodwa kukho enye into edlalwayo. Xa ucinga ukuba unento yakho, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ikwimo engekho ngqiqweni ekhululekile kumaxhala noxinzelelo lwehlabathi lokwenyani. Xa usiva into leyo kwimeko yobomi bakho obubanzi, iyasilela ekufezekiseni ulindelo.
3. Abantu abathanda izinto eziphathekayo bonwabile
Kukho uphando oluninzi ngaphandle (Google ukuba ufuna ukuyifunda) ebonisa ukuba abantu abathanda izinto ngokubanzi bafumana iimvakalelo ezingalunganga kwaye bambalwa abanesimo esihle. Banomdla wokuphazamiseka koxinzelelo, uxinzelelo kunye nezifo ezinxulumene noko.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo, ke, ukufuna ukufumana izinto ezibonakalayo kuhambelana nobomi obungonwabisiyo kwixesha elide.
4. Uya kuba Nombulelo Ongaphantsi Ebomini Bakho
Isidingo esithe rhoqo sokuthenga izinto ezintsha kunye nokugqithisa kukhokelela kubantu abathanda izinto eziphathekayo ukuba baphulukane nombulelo. Baye bathabathekiswa yinto elandelayo, kangangokuba basilele ukububona ubutyebi 'bezinto' abasele benazo ezibangqongileyo.
Ngenxa yokuba bayixabisile into nganye nganye, bayasokola ukubulela ngokuchuma okubavumele ukuba bayithenge kwasekuqaleni.
Oku kusilela kombulelo kunokusasazeka kubo bonke ubomi babo kubudlelwane babo nabanye, imisebenzi yabo, kunye namava abo ngokubanzi okuphila.
5. Uninzi lwempahla lusetyenziswa gwenxa
Esinye sezonyeliso kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje yindlela encinci esiyisebenzisa ngayo uninzi lwezinto esinazo. Ngelixa ingacacanga kubantu abathanda izinto eziphathekayo, inxulumene kakhulu neminqweno kunye nemikhwa yabo.
Izinto ezingakumbi ezizezakho, kokukhona ungazisebenzisi kobona buninzi bazo. Ngamanye amagama, ukuthenga izinto ezingaphezulu nangaphezulu kuthintela ukuba ungazisebenzisi-mayeke ukonwabela-izinto osele unazo, ngenxa yokuba unesithintelo esikufumanayo kuwe.
6. Izinto ezingafunekiyo Zinoxinzelelo
Ngaphandle kokuthetha ukuba okukhona utyekele ekuthengeni, kokukhona ungxola uya kuthanda ukuzuza. Nokuba akusoloko kubonakala, ukuba uneekhabhathi, uphahla, kunye neewodrobes ezizele zizinto, ungasokola kakhulu.
I-Clutter ichaphazela ingqondo yakho ngeendlela ezininzi , kwaye akukho nanye kuzo eluncedo, ke unokufuna ukushiya ukuthanda izinto ngenxa yesi sizathu sodwa.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Iindlela ezi-7 I-Mindset yokunqaba ikubamba umva (kwaye iNdlela yokuTya okuNinzi ikuqhubela njani phambili)
- Iingcebiso ezi-3 ezilula zokuQala ngokuPhila ngokuNcinci
- Iindlela ezi-5 zeMinimalism ilungile kwimpilo yakho yengqondo
- Iimpawu zeTelltale ezi-15 Ujongana noMntu ongekho nzulu
- Izinto ezi-7 kuBomi oziThathayo ziyaNikwa
7. Izinto eziphathekayo azinakuphucula njengomntu
Xa sivavanya nantoni na ebomini bethu, kufuneka sikwenze oko ngokwembono yophuculo. Kuya kufuneka sibuze ukuba ingaba iyayiphucula na impilo yethu yasemzimbeni nasengqondweni, kananjalo ingaba iyasiphucula na thina bantu - ngokuziphatha nangokuthembeka.
Ngezinto nezinto, kunzima ukuzibona, ngaphaya kwezona mfuno zisisiseko zobomi obutofotofo, indlela abanokuthi ngayo baphucule imeko yakho okanye wena njengomntu.
8. Ukuthanda izinto eziphathekayo kuxabisa ubudlelwane kunokubangela isizungu
Sinobungakanani bengqondo kuphela, kwaye xa oko kuthathwa ngokulungiswa kwizinto eziphathekayo, kusibangela ukuba sinciphise ixabiso esilibeka kubudlelwane bethu.
Isifundo esinye Ude wacebisa ukuba kukho unxibelelwano olujikelezayo phakathi kokuthanda izinto eziphathekayo kunye nesizungu, apho nganye ibasela enye. Ngamanye amagama, njengoko ujolise ngakumbi ekufumaneni ubutyebi bezinto eziphathekayo, kunokwenzeka ukuba amava olilolo .
9. Ukuthanda izinto eziphathekayo kuqhuba umona
Xa onke amathemba namaphupha akho ejikeleze ekubeni nezinto ezithile-indlu enkulu, imoto ebizayo, izixhobo zangoku-ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba lixhoba lesinye sezono ezisixhenxe ezibulalayo: umona.
Njengoko uqala ukuhamba kwizangqa zabantu abathanda izinto ngokulinganayo, amaphupha akho kuya kufuneka akhuphisane nezinto eziyinyani zabanye. Kwaye nokuba usisityebi kangakanani, uyakuhlala ekhona umntu osisityebi kunawe.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, uya kubajonga aba bantu ngamehlo aluhlaza omona kwaye oku kuya kukhuthaza kuphela ukuthanda kwakho izinto eziphathekayo. Ngokufana neenjongo zokuhambisa ezihamba phambili ezikhankanywe apha ngasentla, uya kuhlala ukwazi ukuzithelekisa nomntu onobutyebi obukhulu kunye nendlela yokuphila enobunewunewu, oko kuthetha ukuba ngekhe waneliseke.
10. Awuyi kujonga emva kwizinto ozibenazo
Njengoko usiya ukhula-kwaye nakwiminyaka ephakathi-akunakulindeleka ukuba ujonge emva ebomini bakho ukuza kuthi ga ngoku kwaye ukhumbule ngezinto eziphathekayo eziye zadlula.
Awusoze uhlale ngoncumo ebusweni bakho njengoko ukhumbula iimpahla ezintle owake wazinxiba okanye i-smartphone esecaleni eyakha yasonga isandla sakho. Ayizizo izinto iinkumbulo ezenziwe ngazo.
11. Abantu Abayi Kukukhumbula Ngenxa Yezinto Onazo
Xa konke sele kudlulile kwaye udlulile kweli hlabathi usiya nakweyiphi na into eza kulandela, ayizukuba bubutyebi bakho obuthethwa ngabantu xa bethetha ngobomi bakho.
Iya kuba luhlobo lomntu owawunguye, ubumnandi ababenabo nawe, amaxesha angalibalekiyo owabelana ngawo. Iya kuba ngumzekelo owumiselayo kwabo bakungqongileyo kunye nokulungileyo okwenzileyo ngexesha lakho kule planethi.
12. Amava Azisa Ulonwabo Olungakumbi Kunobutyebi
Amanqaku amabini angaphambili akhokelela kwesi sizathu sokugqibela sokungabi sithanda izinto eziphathekayo. Izazinzulu ngoku ziphantse zaqiniseka ukuba, kuninzi lwabantu, ukuchitha imali kumava kuya kubonelela ngolonwabo lwexesha elide kunokuyichitha kwizinto.
Amava yile nto ujonga emva kuyo xa umdala kwaye yile nto abantu abaya kuyikhumbula ngawe xa ungasekho. Amava aba yinxalenye yebali lobomi bakho abatshintsha ukuba ungubani, bomeleza ubudlelwane, bakhuthaza intsebenziswano, bakunika uvuyo ekungekho nto inokubakho.
Amava akezi nethegi lexabiso eliqhotyoshelwe kuwo alinakuhlawula nto, okanye linokukuxabisa kakhulu, kodwa iimvakalelo ozifumanayo ngelo xesha azifani. Oku kuthetha ukuba akukho kumona kwaye akukho mava ashukumisayo eepali ngokulula yile nto eyiyo.
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