Izinto ezili-11 onokuzenza ukuze uyeke ukuziva udikwe bubomi

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Kodwa ngaba ubomi bufutshane ngokwenene?

Kuyinyani ukuba ubomi bunokunqunyulwa ngenxa yentlekele, ukugula, okanye iimeko ezingalindelekanga ezikubetha ungabikho ndawo, kodwa ubomi abuzukuba bufutshane kubantu abaninzi.

Kuza kuba lide.

Iminyaka emide.

Ukuba ulandela indlela yemveli yobomi, uya esikolweni iminyaka engama-20 yokuqala yobomi bakho, mhlawumbi nangaphezulu.

Emva koko, uyakutsibela kwimakethi yomsebenzi apho uza kusebenza khona ukuze uthenge indlu, ukhulise usapho, kwaye ugcine umhlala phantsi iminyaka engama-30 okanye engama-40.

Kwaye ke ngethemba lokuba uthathe umhlalaphantsi, kwaye uphile iminyaka yakho yesilivere kunye negolide ngoxolo kunye nentuthuzelo enkosi ngomsebenzi owufakileyo ebomini bakho.

Ubuncinci, loo nto kufanele ukuba ibe sisicwangciso - ubomi abuhlali busebenza ngendlela esiceba ngayo.

Kodwa okwangoku, lixesha elide nokuba zonke izinto azihambi ngokwesicwangciso.

Ukwenza into enye uphindaphinde, usuku emva komhla, iveki emva kweveki, inyanga nenyanga, unyaka nonyaka uyadika.

Abantu bafuna okwahlukileyo ebomini babo, nditsho nabo banelisekile kukuqikelela, ubume obucwangcisiweyo.

Ukunqongophala kweentlobo ezahlukeneyo kushiya abantu beziva bekruqukile kwaye kunokubangela ukonakala kuninzi okanye kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi babo.

Eli nqaku liza kungena nzulu kwesi sithukuthezi sikhohlakeleyo. Iya kuphonononga indlela evakalelwa ngayo, unobangela wayo nendlela yokuyoyisa.

Ke masitsibe ngqo, akunjalo?

Injani into yokudikwa bubomi?

Ukukruquka ngobomi akufani nokubaleka kwakho.

Xa ubomi biziva butyhafisa, uvuka kusasa uye kwilizwe elingenambala, ubuhle, okanye ukuvuselela.

Uziva ungakhathali. Uyakhubeka emini, usenza izinto ezifunwa luluntu, emva koko uye kulala kwaye ulale ubuthongo obungenakuphumla.

Nokuba impela-veki- ihlala indawo yokuphumla ilumkele ukuba wedwa kwiveki yokusebenza - ayikuniki luvuyo.

Zonke iinxalenye zakho zifuna ukuba ubomi bakho butshintshe, kodwa awukwazi ukubona ukuba ufuna ukuba zitshintshe njani, kwaye ngekhe uzizise ngokwakho ukuba uzitshintshe.

Uyazi nje ukuba kufuneka… ngandlela thile.

Kude kube lelo xesha, uyinkuni ekhukhulayo, edadayo kulwandle lobomi, ushukuma nje ngoku kwimisinga.

Usenokude ube nobomi obumonelwa ngabanye-ubudlelwane obuqinileyo, umsebenzi olungileyo, abantwana abonwabileyo, indlu entle, izinto ezintle- kodwa usashiywa ufuna.

Unokuthandwa ngabaninzi kwaye unabanye abaxhomekeke kuwe, Ukanti uziva ukuba kufanele kubekho okungakumbi ebomini kunale.

Kwaye le mvakalelo ayinyanzelekanga kuphela engqondweni ...

Ukudikwa kobomi kuyangena emzimbeni wakho. Oku kunokubangela iintloko, ukuqina kwemisipha, iingxaki zokugaya, kunye nokusilela kwamandla phakathi kwezinye izinto.

Oku kuyinyani, ukukhathazeka komphefumlo ukuziva ngathi.

Ngaba oku kukruquka kuyafana nokudakumba?

Impendulo emfutshane yile: akusoloko kunjalo.

Unokuba namava oku kudinwa okunzulu ngaphandle kokudakumba ngengqondo.

Kwaye unokubandezeleka kuxinzelelo kwaye ungadikwa ngokupheleleyo kwaye uphele ngokupheleleyo kukuphila kwakho kwemihla ngemihla.

Kukho ukungqubana phakathi kwala maqela mabini kunye kunokubakho ukuhlangana phakathi kwesithukuthezi kunye noxinzelelo.

Kodwa ukudakumba kunokuba neziphumo ezibi kakhulu, ke ukuba awuqinisekanga nokuba unokudakumba, kufanelekile ukuba uthethe nogqirha okanye ugqirha wezempilo yengqondo.

Yiyiphi indima edlalwa yitekhnoloji ekusidiniseni?

Kuyathakazelisa ukuba, nangona uninzi lwezinto onokukhetha ukuzonwabisa, sisafumana ukuba sinesithukuthezi kwaye singazibandakanyi.

Siphethe isixhobo epokothweni esinika ukufikelela kulonwabo kwangoko kunye nolwazi oluhlangeneyo loluntu.

Kwenzeka njani ukuba sibe nesithukuthezi kangako kuloo nto ezandleni zethu?

Ubume obugqithisileyo ligalelo. Inani elingapheliyo lokhetho lokuzonwabisa lunokubenza bonke babonakale ngathi bayasilela kwaye bayadika.

Emva kwethutyana, sizifumana sihleli esofeni yethu, sikrola ngokungakhathali kwimithombo yeendaba zentlalo okanye sizama ukufumana into elandelayo sizinkcinkce ngokubukela endaweni yokuphuma sizibandakanye nobomi.

Uninzi lwamava e-intanethi lusekwe kulwaneliseko olukhawulezileyo. Ngenxa yoko, umndilili wokujonga ingqalelo uyanciphisa.

Oku kwenza ukuba kube nzima ukuzibandakanya kwimisebenzi enzima ngakumbi enokuthi ibonelele ngentsingiselo, ukonwaba, okanye ulonwabo lwenene. Kuthatha ixesha ukwenza nantoni na.

Kufanele si Linda ngokwaneleyo ukwakha nokulandela izinto esizifunayo, nokuba ngaba ngumsebenzi, usapho, okanye ubomi obunenjongo.

Kutheni kubaluleke kangaka nje ukuphila ubomi obunenjongo?

Uluvo lokungoneliseki okungapheliyo kukuba umntu unjalo uhlala engonwabanga ngendlela ubomi babo obuhamba ngayo okanye umkhondo wabo wangoku.

Asinakuyiphepha yonke imizekelo yohlobo olunye lwemihla ngemihla. Akukho mntu uthanda ukuma emigceni, ukuchitha ixesha lakhe ehleli e-traffic, okanye ukuzama ukwenza into enomdla kwiintlanganiso ezingenantsingiselo.

Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha yinxalenye eyimfuneko yokuhamba ebomini.

Inyaniso embi kukuba, akukho mntu uya kuhlala onwabile ngalo lonke ixesha. Olo lulindelo olungenangqondo oluya kukhokelela kusizi olungakumbi kunye nokungoneliseki.

Ukungoneliseki okungapheliyo kwenzeka xa umntu engonelisekanga ngamava abo obomi bonke.

Mhlawumbi umntu uye waphila ubomi obuzolileyo, egxuma emsebenzini ongenantsingiselo ukuya emsebenzini ongenantsingiselo, ubuhlobo obunzulu kubuhlobo obunzulu, ubudlelwane obungenantsingiselo kulwalamano olungenanto.

Banobunzima bokufumana uvuyo kuyo nayiphi na into kuba yonke into iyaziva nzulu kwaye azinantsingiselo.

Oko kungaziphathi kakuhle kunokubangela ukungaziphathi kakuhle kunye nezifo- kubandakanya iziyobisi kunye notywala, uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo.

Ngamanye amaxesha kuyenye indlela ejikeleze, apho ukudakumba kungunobangela wokungaziva naluphi na uvuyo okanye ulonwabo ebomini bakhe.

Ezo mvakalelo zingenanto zinokubangela umntu ukuba abandakanyeke indlela yokuziphatha eyonakalisayo ukuzama nje ukwahlula isidima sobomi babo.

Mhlawumbi badiliza ubudlelwane emhlabeni kuba bengonwabanga okanye bonakalisa ezinye iindawo zobomi babo ukwenza umdlalo othile.

Oko akuthethi ukuba lonke ixesha lokuphumla okanye ukukruquka yinto embi. Ayiyo.

Umntu kufuneka athathe ixesha lokuphumla kunye nokuchacha ngaphambi kokuba angene kwenye into ayithandayo, i-venture, okanye i-adventure. Ukuba awukwenzi oko, usengozini yokuzitshisa kwaye uzifumanele kwakhona ekuqaleni. Ukuzibeka kubalulekile.

Kuthetha ntoni ukuphila ubomi obunenjongo?

Umbono wobomi obunentsingiselo ngulowo unika ulwaneliseko lobuqu, imvakalelo yokufezekisa kunye nenqanaba elithile lolonwabo.

Ngokuchasene neendaba zosasazo kunye nezimvo, Umntu kufuneka alumkele ukungqubana kolonwabo kunye nentsingiselo. Ezi zimbini azihlali zihambelana.

Njengomzekelo, mhlawumbi kukho unontlalontle ozinze kakhulu ekuzameni ukunceda abathengi babo baphucule ubomi babo.

Oko kunokuba nokuzisa okukhulu kunye nolwaneliseko, kodwa kunzima ukujonga abantu bebandezeleka imihla ngemihla.

Kuya kuba yinto engaqhelekanga ukucinga ukuba umntu angalufumana ulonwabo lwabo emzabalazweni kunye necala elimnyama lobomi, kodwa abanye abantu bayayifumana. Abanye abantu bayaphumelela kuyo.

Abanye bakhetha ukungqubana nokulwela into ethetha into kubo, ukuba yinxalenye yento enkulu kunabo. Kwaye emva koko, oko kubanika inqanaba lokoneliseka kunye nokonwaba, kodwa ibingayi kuba bubulumko ukulindela.

Ukuntywiliselwa nokubukela ukubandezeleka rhoqo kunokumenza umntu adandatheke ngokulula ukuba akanakukwazi ukwahlulahlulahlula kwaye azinyamekele kakuhle.

Abantu bafumana intsingiselo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.

Kweminye, iya kusebenza ngumsebenzi abonwabileyo kwaye bonwabile ukuba nawo. Abanye banokufumana intsingiselo yabo ekukhuliseni nasekukhuleni kwintsapho enothando.

Abanye banokuyifumana kwinkonzo yabanye okanye kwabasesichengeni. Amagcisa anokuyifumana kwindalo. Izazinzulu zingayifumana ekufumaneni. Kukho inani elingenasiphelo leendlela, zonke ezinokuthi zisebenze kwinqanaba elithile.

Akukho ndlela ibekiweyo, yodwa eya kulonwabo, intsingiselo, kunye Ndiziva ndonwabile ngobomi . Indlela yakho izakuba yiyo yahlukile kuwe .

Inokwabelana ngokufana nabanye abantu, kodwa iya kuba yinjongo yakho ukubona ukuba yeyiphi indlela eyenza eyona nto ibalulekileyo kuwe kwaye uyilandele.

ukwahlukana njani nomntu ongafuni ukwahlukana naye

Oko akuthethi ukuba kuya kufuneka uhambe wedwa okanye akukho mntu unokukunceda endleleni yakho, nje ukuba ungalindeli ukuba nabani na ongomnye akwazi ukukunika nje iphakheji ecocekileyo enesaphetha ngaphezulu. Akunakulindeleka ukuba yenzeke loo nto.

Ndiyifumana njani into eza kubonelela ngentsingiselo nolonwabo ebomini bam?

Yenza izinto.

Yinto elula njengaleyo.

Kuvakala ngathi yenzelwe into, kodwa ekuphela kwendlela yokuba ufumanise ukuba yintoni enika ulonwabo, ulwaneliseko kunye nenjongo ebomini bakho kukuzibandakanya ebomini nokwenza izinto.

'Kodwa kuthekani ukuba andiyithandi?'

Emva koko awunayo. Kwaye uye kwenye into.

Nokuba wenza izinto ongazithandiyo okanye ongazithandiyo, wandisa ulwazi lwakho kunye nembono zehlabathi, ezikunika amandla okunxibelelana nabantu abaninzi kunye nokuququzelela ukuqonda okungcono kwento oyenzayo nongayithandiyo.

Amathuba mahle kakhulu uya kwenza izinto ezimbalwa ongazithandiyo ngaphambi kokuba ufumane izinto ezinentsingiselo ozenzayo.

Okanye mhlawumbi ngekhe! Mhlawumbi uya kuzama into entsha kwaye uyifumane inikezela ukwaneliseka kunye nokuzaliseka.

'Kodwa andinayo imali yokuyithenga!'

Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ibize. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ujikele kuhambo lwama- $ 5,000 ukuya kwiparadesi yetropiki ukuze uzifumanele.

Fumana ikhadi laselayibrari, funda okanye umamele ezinye zeencwadi. Yenza umsebenzi othile wokuzithandela nabantu abahlelelekileyo okanye izilwanyana. Yiba ngumcebisi kumntu ojonge ukufumana indlela yabo. Thatha ikhosi yobugcisa kwiziko lasekuhlaleni.

Ezi zinto zonke iindlela ezingabizi kakhulu zokukhula njengomntu kunye namava ezinto ezintsha ngaphandle kokuthatha i-selfie eMachu Picchu okanye ukubanjwa ngamagcisa kunye nabathengisi basesitratweni eCairo.

Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukwenza izinto. Nantoni na ingcono kunanto. Ukuba ayikusebenzeli, tshintsha izinto ozenzayo kwaye uzame into entsha.

Kuthekani ngolindelo loluntu kum?

Iingcinga, amagcisa, iingcinga ezikhululekileyo banokuzibona bekruqukile kwaye bevaleleke kulwakhiwo olungqongqo ngamanye amaxesha lwentlalo.

Ingxaki yandiswa ngoxinzelelo lwentlalo ngoontanga bakhe kunye namaqela ukuze angene kwibhokisi ekulula ukuyiqonda, ekhululekile.

Ibhokisi yindawo efanelekileyo kwabanye abantu. Kukho abantu phaya abonwabe ngakumbi ukwamkela umbono wesiko woluntu olulindelwe kubo kuba lubonelela ngomendo ocacileyo, abakholelwa ukuba uya kubanika ukonwaba nolwaneliseko.

Ingxaki kukuba ayinguye wonke umntu ongena kule bhokisi.

Okubi nangakumbi kukuba, uluntu luyathanda ukufumba ihlazo, ukugxeka, kunye nokugculelwa kuye nakubani na ogqiba kwelokuba aphume esihlweleni aze abuze imeko ekhoyo.

Inyaniso engathandekiyo kukuba oku akunakulindeleka ukuba kutshintshe. Inkqubo ye- umoya okhululekileyo wehlabathi Kufuneka babenakho ukurhoxisa ulindelo olunobutshaba kunye nokugxekwa okungafanelekanga ukuba banethemba lokufumana eyabo intsingiselo kunye nolwaneliseko ebomini, kuba indlela ebethiweyo ayenzelwanga bona.

Mhlawumbi zenzelwe ukwenza ngaphezulu. Mhlawumbi zenzelwe ukuzisa ukukhanya kwiindawo ezimnyama, zikhuthaze ukucinga ngokukhululekileyo, kwaye zincede ekuqhekezeni izithintelo zentlalo ezichaphazela kakubi abanye abantu.

Umoya okhululekileyo unokuma kwaye ubune kwindawo yengcinezelo, eyakhelweyo njengolawulo oluphezulu lweshishini okanye njengomzali ohlala ekhaya.

Ngaba bangazenza ezi zinto? Ngokuqinisekileyo. Abantu banokwenza izinto ezininzi abangazilungelanga. Ngaba kufanelekile? Ewe, lowo ngumbuzo onokuphendulwa kuphela ngumntu lowo.

Nokuba bayayenza, baya kudinga ukubanakho ukutshintsha ubuchule kunye nomoya ukuba bafuna ukuhlala benomdla kwaye bebandakanyekile ebomini.

Oko kunokuthetha iholide yonyaka kwindawo ethile enomdla, kwiiklasi zobugcisa okanye zomdaniso, okanye into ekhuthaza ngokwenene isiseko somoya wabo kunye nokubonelela ngenkuthazo yengqondo.

Yintoni esinokuyenza ukwaphula isithukuthezi sobomi?

Ngaphambi kokuba ufumane ezona ndlela zokulwa nesithukuthezi, kuya kufuneka ujonge oyena nobangela woku.

Ngaba ukruqukile lilungelo lokuba wedwa ebomini bakho? Ngenxa yokuba ulilolo? Ngenxa yokuba ungaziva ucelomngeni?

Ngaba ubomi bakho buyadika kuba abantu ebomini bakho bakudika? Ngaba akukho nto kwikamva lakho onokonwaba ngayo?

Ngaba uziva unyanzelekile ziimeko ezingakwaziyo ukulawula ubomi bakho?

Ngaba unayo indawo yokugcina amandla engafakwanga engafunekiyo efuna ukuphuma?

Ngaba uphila ubomi obunganyanisekanga, uzama ukuba ngumntu ongekhoyo?

Okukhona unokubambelela kwisizathu (s) sokukruquka kwakho ngobomi, ekujoliseni ngakumbi ekujolise kuko unokuphuma uye kuzibandakanya nawo.

Nazi izinto ezimbalwa onokuzama ukunciphisa isithukuthezi sakho.

1. Yenza umsebenzi wokuzithandela okanye umsebenzi owenziwa emva kwexesha kunye nombutho.

Umsebenzi wokuzithandela yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokwenza isebe, ukudibana nabantu abatsha, kunye nokufaka into entle kwihlabathi.

Mininzi imibutho efuna yonke into ukusuka kubasebenzi abaqhelekileyo ukuya kwizakhono. Usenokude ube nakho ukubeka izakhono zakho zobungcali kunye nolwazi ukuze usebenze ngenjongo enentsingiselo.

Olunye ukhetho kuku Joyina umbutho oqeqeshiweyo onxulumene nomhlaba wakho. Akuncedi kuphela ukwahlula isithukuthezi kunye nokuzonwabisa wedwa, kodwa ukunxibelelana nabantu abatsha onokukwazi ukuphucula ubudlelwane kunye nabo.

2. Funda iseti entsha yezakhono.

Zininzi iindlela zokwenza malunga nokuphuhlisa iseti entsha yezakhono. I-intanethi igcwele iividiyo kunye nezikhokelo zokuba ungaqala njani kwimisebenzi eyahlukeneyo.

Unokuthatha isigqibo sokuba ukubuyela ekholejini uyokuthatha iikhosi ezongezelelweyo ngumbono olungileyo.

Umsebenzi wekholeji ubonelela ngolwakhiwo, isikhokelo, kunye nokufikelela kumntu onolwazi malunga nesakhono ofunda ngaso.

Ikholeji ekwi-Intanethi inokwenza kube lula ukuya kwiiklasi ukuba unobomi obuxakekileyo.

3. Phuhlisa ubuhlobo obutsha kuseto lwasentlalweni.

Ngabafumana phi abahlobo abatsha? Kusenokubakho imisebenzi yasekuhlaleni Ukuqhubeka apho ungadibana nabanye abantu abavela kwindawo yakho okanye amaqela okuzonwabisa abonisa ukudibana rhoqo.

Abantu benkolo banokufuna ukuya rhoqo kwiinkonzo okanye kwimisitho ebanjwa kwindawo yabo yonqulo.

Amaqela osasazo asekuhlaleni nawo angayindawo elungileyo yokufumana imisebenzi okanye yokuhlangana.

4. Ukuhamba uye kwindawo ongazange waya kuyo.

Ukuhamba akufuneki ukuba kude kwaye kude ukunceda ukuzisa ulonwabo ebomini bakho.

Kungalula njengokuphuma ngaphandle kwedolophu uye komnye umsebenzi apho unokuba nexesha elimnandi kwaye uphumle.

Mhlawumbi ikonsathi yangaphandle kwedolophu kunye nobusuku ehotele?

Uhambo oluya kwipaki yelizwe okanye enye indawo enomdla wendalo?

Okanye gcina imali kwaye ubambe indawo ethe kratya ukutshintsha indawo entle.

Nokuba uhambo lwendlela olude lude lube sisiqabu esihle kubomi bemihla ngemihla.

5. Khangela umsebenzi omtsha okanye utshintshe ikhondo lomsebenzi.

Yinto engaqhelekanga ngabantu ukuba ekugqibeleni badikwe kukhetho lwabo lomsebenzi okanye lomsebenzi.

Banokude bafumanise ukuba benze ukhetho oluphosakeleyo ngekhondo lomsebenzi abafuna ukuwenza kwaye kufuneka bajonge ezinye iindlela.

Ukukhetha ukuyeka umsebenzi kunye / okanye ukutshintsha iindlela zomsebenzi akunakuba lula, kodwa kunokuba yimfuneko ukufumana ulonwabo kunye noxolo ebomini bakho.

Abanye bafuna ixesha elininzi okanye amandla emvakalelo. Abanye abanakho ukubonelela ngokwaneleyo okanye bakunike igumbi lokukhula olifunayo ngokwenene.

Ukuba awonwabanga okanye anelisekanga likhondo lakho, isenokuba lixesha lokuqala ukukhangela utshintsho.

6. Yiba nomdla wokuzilolonga.

Umsebenzi kunye nokuzilolonga kuluncedo kakhulu kwimpilo yomntu nasengqondweni. Oogqirha babiza ubomi bokuhlala phantsi ukutshaya okutsha ngokubhekisele kwimingcipheko yezempilo.

Kwaye ngemisebenzi emininzi eyenzeka emva kwedesika kwinxalenye enkulu yosuku, ayimangalisi into yokuba abantu befumana uxinzelelo ngakumbi ngobomi babo.

Abantu bafuna umthambo ukunceda ukonyusa ukuziva ulungile kwimichiza eveliswa ngumzimba wakho xa usenza ezi zinto.

Qala encinci kwaye usete ezinye iinjongo zokuphuma kwaye usebenze. Kwaye ukuba sele usebenza, setha iinjongo ezinamandla- njengokugqiba imarathon okanye ukuphucula amandla akho.

7. Yenza ubugcisa.

Amagcisa ehlabathi ahlala eqhutywa ukuba enze ngandlela thile okanye enye. Baninzi abantu abathi baphazamiseke ngenxa yeembono zabanye okanye ngenxa yokuba nje ubomi babala ixesha elifanelekileyo.

Umzobi oyeke ukudala kufuneka acinge ukubuyela kuyo. Ubugcisa bunceda ukutshintsha ingqondo yoyilo kwaye ubonelele nge- Ingqondo yekratshi kunye nokufezekiswa komsebenzi wakhe.

Joyina indawo esempilweni yamagcisa asebenza kwinto enye kwaye asebenze ekuphuculeni nasekugqibeni imisebenzi yakho.

Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ube mkhulu kuyo. Bambalwa kakhulu abantu abanjalo. Into ebalulekileyo kukwamkela ubugcisa bakho ukuba bukuzisela ulonwabo.

Chitha ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye nabantu obathandayo kwaye unqumle abantu abanetyhefu.

Kuyinyani eyaziwayo ukuba ukuchitha ixesha elininzi lomgangatho kunye nabantu obathandayo kubangela ukuba ingqondo ivelise uninzi lweemichiza ezifanelekileyo njengee-endorphins.

Kulula kakhulu ukuvumela ubuhlobo kunye nolwalamano lukabani kunye nendlela ubomi obuxakeke ngayo bonke abantu.

Umntu makazame ukugcina obo budlelwane buqinile ngokwenza iinzame zokuhlala enxibelelana nabahlobo kunye nosapho.

Oko kuhlala kuthetha ukuya kwindibano kunye nezinto ongaziva ukuba ufuna okanye ongafuni ukuya kuzo.

Kukho umsonto oqhelekileyo wokungafuni ukuba yintlalontle okanye ukudinwa kakhulu ukuba ungathatha inxaxheba, kodwa ukuba uwela kuloo pateni, ubomi buza kukushiya ngasemva.

Zimasa izinto xa umenyiwe, okanye uzame ukwenza itheko lakho ukuba awunanto ingako uyenzayo.

Kwaye cinga ukusika abantu abanetyhefu ebomini bakho ukuba bakho. Zidreyini enzulu kulonwabo lomntu kunye noxolo lwengqondo.

9. Fumana injongo okanye isizathu esikhulu kunawe.

Abantu bayathanda ukuba ngamalungu . Bathanda ukufaka isandla kwinto enkulu kunabo.

Ukufumana injongo okanye wenze ukuba uzilungelelanise kunye nezakhono zakho kunye nakho kunokunika imvakalelo yekratshi kunye nolonwabo ekwenzeni umahluko kwihlabathi.

Oko kunokuvakala kulula ukutsho kunokuba kwenziwe, kodwa ngenene zininzi iintshukumo kunye namaqela alapha azama njalo Yenza utshintsho olululo kwihlabathi onokuba yinxalenye.

10. Cwangcisa kwaye ulandele iinjongo eziza kukunika imvo yempumelelo.

Ukucwangciswa kweenjongo yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yokuziphucula kunye neemvakalelo ngokungathi umntu efeza izinto ebomini babo.

Kulula ukukhukuliseka ngaphandle kwenjongo okanye ulwalathiso, kodwa ngokwenza njalo kuthintela ukuba ube nakho ukuziva ngathi ukhethe into ofuna ukuyenza kwaye uyifezekise, imvakalelo enokuthi ibonelele nge-hit entle yedopamine xa uyiwela usiya kuluhlu lwezinto oza kuzenza kwaye ufumane amandla.

Zininzi iindlela zokumisela iinjongo, kodwa ngokubanzi umntu unokufuna ukuseta iinjongo ezimfutshane, eziphakathi kunye nexesha elide ebomini babo.

Banokunxulumana nempilo yakho, umsebenzi wakho, ubomi bakho, okanye izinto ozithandayo.

11. Yeka ukwenza izinto ezingakonwabisi okanye ezizise uvuyo.

Kwangoko besithetha ngokuzama izinto ezintsha ukufumana ezo zikunika ulonwabo kunye nentsingiselo.

Kodwa uza kuthini ngazo zonke izinto ozenzayo ngoku sukuyenza ukuhambisa enye yezo mvakalelo?

Cinga ukubamisa.

Oku akuthethi ukuba ungaluphepha lonke uxanduva lwakho lwangoku. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba unabanye abaxhomekeke kuwe ukuba ubabonelele kwaye / okanye ubakhathalele, kuya kufuneka uzalisekise ezo zibophelelo.

Kodwa jonga ubomi bakho kunye nezinto ozenzayo kwaye uzibuze ukuba ingaba zithetha nantoni na kuwe.

Mhlawumbi uthenga nje ngenxa yokuthenga.

Okanye ubukela iindaba ubusuku ngabunye ukuze ugcwalise ixesha.

Okanye mhlawumbi wenza itheko elinzima rhoqo ngolwesiHlanu ngokuhlwa kuba bonke abahlobo bakho bekwenza kwaye uhlala ukwenzile.

Ukuba kukho into engasaziva ilifanele ixesha lakho, ungayenzi.

Nceda uqaphele: kubalulekile ukuba uthethe nengcali ukuze uchonge ukuba ngaba unengxaki yoxinzelelo ngaphambi kokuba unikezele ngezinto ezinokuba zakukonwabisa. Njengoko kukhankanyiwe ngaphambili kwinqaku, uxinzelelo inokuba sesona sizathu sokuba udikwe kwaye ungonwabi.

Ubomi obungenasithukuthezi…

… Bubomi obulandelwa ngenjongo. Ayisiyongxaki ukuba iyintoni na injongo yakho, ukuba nje ungayifumana.

Eyona ndlela yokufumana enye kukufumana apho kwaye uqale ukwenza izinto.

Ungafumanisa ukuba izinto okhetha ukuzenza azikhokeleli kulonwabo okanye ulonwabo, kodwa zinokukunika ulwazi, amava, okanye abantu ekufuneka ubanyathele kwenye indlela.

Ungavumeli ukuba i-malaise okanye uxinzelelo lukuphazamise. Buyela phandle phaya kwaye uqhubeke uzama.

Kwaye ukuba ufumanisa ukuba kunzima kakhulu okanye awunakufumana umkhombandlela wedwa, kunokuba luncedo ukufuna uncedo kumcebisi wezempilo yengqondo okanye kumqeqeshi wobomi.

Musa ukuthandabuza ukufuna uncedo ukuba unengxaki kwaye awuqinisekanga ukuba loluphi ulwalathiso ekufuneka ulwenzile.

Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungayeka njani ukudikwa bubomi? Thetha kumqeqeshi wobomi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo. Cofa nje apha ukunxibelelana nenye.

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