Uninzi lwabantu lubonakala ngathi luyakholelwa ukuba banokwanela zizinto abanazo ngoku, okanye bangazabalazela okungcono.
Kodwa ayisiyiyo nokuba / okanye ukhetho ekufuneka ulwenzile.
Ungazenza zombini.
Unokoneliseka bubomi bakho, into onayo, kwaye ungubani, ngeli xesha usebenza ukuphucula ubomi bakho, ukuba nokuninzi, kwaye ube ngumntu ongcono.
Le yingqondo emnandi ukuyiphumeza kuba ivumela uxolo olukhulu lwengqondo, kodwa ikwabonelela ngendawo kunye nenkuthazo yokukhula.
Kodwa, ugxile kwinto enye kuphela ngexesha, ufunda njani ukonwaba kunye nokwoneliseka yindawo yakho yangoku ebomini?
1.Qonda ukuba zonke izinto zinokuza zidlule.
Ukuthengisa kuthanda ukusikhumbuza rhoqo ukuba ubomi bufutshane!
Ngaphandle koko, akunjalo. Kungaba njalo, kodwa kubantu abaninzi akuyi kuba njalo.
Iifespans ziya ziba nde, abantu bahlala besempilweni kwaye basebenza ixesha elide, kwaye sihlangabezana ngakumbi.
Sinexesha elininzi kakhulu lokungazuzi nje izinto ebomini bethu, kodwa siphulukane nazo nazo.
Kwaye siphulukane nabo, kuba ayisiyiyo yonke into eyenzelwe ukuba sibambelele ixesha elide.
Ubomi obuninzi bukwimeko yokudlula nabantu, iindawo, kunye neemeko eziza neziya, zisikhuthaza ukuze sikwazi zikhule kwaye zikhule .
Uxolo luyafumaneka ekwamkeleni le mijikelo.
Ayinguye wonke umntu owenzelwe ukuba nawe ubomi bakho bonke.
Ayizizo zonke iidola ozifumanayo eziyakuba kwiakhawunti yakho yebhanki iminyaka elishumi usendleleni.
Izinto zihlala ziguquka. Izinto zihlala ziphela .
Isitshixo soxolo nolonwabo kule mizila yenguqu kukuyamkela, ukwazi ukuba nangona ufumana isiphelo okanye utshintsho ngoku, oko akuthethi ukuba akukho nto iyenye ikufutshane nekona.
Kufuneka uqhubeke uhambe phambili kwindlela yakho kwaye usebenzele kolo ukukhula kukhulayo.
Yinto enzima ukuyenza kwaye ngekhe yenzeke ngobusuku. Ifuna umgudu odibeneyo kunye nezikhumbuzo ngaphezulu kwexesha elide ukuza nazo.
2. Yenza umsebenzi othile wokuzithandela.
Kudla ngokuthiwa akufuneki uthelekise uhambo lwethu nolomnye umntu .
Okwangoku, oko akuphelelanga njengoko umntu anokucinga ukuba kunjalo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo ngumbono ombi ukujonga uhambo lomnye umntu, ubone ukuba banantoni, kwaye unqwenela oko.
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Ikwangumbono ombi ukujongela phantsi abantu abangaphantsi kakhulu kunaye.
Nangona kunjalo, ingumbono olungileyo ukuphinda uzenzele kwaye uziveze ngokwakho ngesikhumbuzo sento onayo ebomini, into oyifumeneyo, into oyifunayo iinjongo uyityumzile, into onokuyithatha ngetyala.
Umsebenzi wokuzithandela yindlela eqinileyo yokwenza hlala uthobekile kwihlabathi lethu elikhawulezayo nelikhuphisanayo. Akukho nto injengokuchukumisa komntu ukunceda umntu azive esisiseko kwaye enoxabiso ngento esinayo.
Ukubeka ithemba ngakumbi emhlabeni kukwasempilweni emphefumlweni nakwimpilo-ntle yethu.
3. Qaphela ukuba ulonwabo luhlala luhlukile kunokuba sikholelwa ukuba kunjalo.
Uthando kunye nolonwabo zizinto ezimbini ezishushu eziqhuba ukuthengisa iincwadi zokuzinceda , iisemina, kunye neegurus abafuna ukukuthengisela umbono wabo wolonwabo.
Jonga kwiintengiso kunye nentengiso. Bonke abo bonwabileyo, abaqaqambileyo, abancumayo ubuso babo bayokuchitha itheko okanye bayokuchitha iholide kwiparadesi yetropiki okanye basebenzise esona sixhobo sitsha! Ngaba awufuni ukonwaba? Emva koko thenga imveliso yethu! Iya kukunceda wonwabe!
Kwaye emva koko siyajika sathumela ezethu iinguqulelo zolonwabo kuyo yonke imithombo yeendaba zentlalo. Ujonge abahlobo bakho besabelana ngohlobo lwabo olulungiswe ngokugqibeleleyo lokonwaba, ubudlelwane babo obuchanekileyo kunye nobuhlobo, iholide yabo entle, umsebenzi wabo omangalisayo… kodwa konke oku kukuthengisa nje.
Inyaniso kukuba, ulonwabo yimeko eza kwaye ihambe.
Akukho mntu wonwabileyo ngalo lonke ixesha.
Akukho mntu unehambo ezinkulu okanye ubomi obonwabisayo ngalo lonke ixesha.
Akukho mntu wenza imali ngokulula ngaphandle komgudu omninzi wokufakwa kuyo kwenye indawo.
Wonke umntu ophumeze into uyazincama, uyazama, kwaye ugaya indlela yabo kwiinjongo abanazo.
Ulonwabo? Ndiyaphinda: ukonwaba kuza kudlule. Akukho mntu wonwabileyo ngalo lonke ixesha.
Kwaye baninzi abantu phaya abanelisekile kwaye banoxolo kunokuba bonwabile.
Ukonwaba kungekuphela yile nto unayo, kodwa nesiqu sakho, umntu kufuneka aqale aqonde ukuba luluphi na ulonwabo kubo, kuba wonke umntu uneendlela ezahlukeneyo
Ngaba iakhawunti enkulu yebhanki?
Ngaba kukuzonwabisa nje kwaye ungazikhathazi ngamatyala?
Ngaba yindlu entle okanye ityotyombe nje?
Ngaba yeyona moto intsha imfutshane okanye indala?
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Ngaba lulwalamano onalo ngoku okanye ngaba luya kuba yinto eyahlukileyo, enomdla ngakumbi?
4. Zikhumbuze ukuba ingca eluhlaza ingakhohlisa.
Ingca ihlala iluhlaza kwelinye icala locingo. ”
Ngoba? Kuba asinalo uvavanyo oluchanekileyo okanye oluchanekileyo lwento esiyibonayo kwelinye icala locingo.
Asiwuboni umsebenzi, igazi, ukubila, kunye neenyembezi, ukubandezeleka okudlulisiweyo ukuze kufikelelwe.
Rhoqo, sinokubona kuphela ukubandezeleka kwethu kwangoko okanye isiphithiphithi kwaye sicinge ukuba izinto zingangcono kakhulu ukuba nje besikwelinye icala lolo cingo, kodwa oko akuyonyani.
Nje ukuba ufike phaya uyakufumanisa ngokukhawuleza ukuba kuninzi emsebenzini kunangaphambili.
Kwaye okubi kakhulu, into oyifumanayo isenokungabi yinyani konke konke. Isenokuba liphupha elibi elingakulungelanga kwaphela. Ingca ekhangeleka iluhlaza kakhulu inokuba yinto epheleleyo.
Kwi uyileqe , usenokufumanisa ukuba ushiye ngasemva into engeyonto imbi ngolo hlobo. Abantu banokukhohlisa ngokumasikizi malunga nokuba ngoobani okanye yintoni kanye kanye kunye nabo iinjongo .
Inyani yile yokuba ingca iluhlaza okomileyo naphina apho uyinkcenkceshela khona, yondle, uyikhathalele. Oko kunokuba yeyakho eyadini emva kokuba unikezela ixesha kunye nomzamo kuyo.
5. Yeka ukunciphisa iipositi kunye nokwandisa izinto ezingalunganga.
Kukho umgibe abantu abaninzi abawela kuwo…
Bazijonga izinto abanazo ezibangqongileyo kwaye bazibona ngathi azonelanga ngokwandisa iimpawu ezingathandekiyo zezo zinto.
Abathathi xesha lokuma kwaye baxabise zonke izinto ezintle abanokuthi bazinike.
Mhlawumbi liqabane elineempazamo, umsebenzi osivumela ukuba siphile ubomi obulungileyo kodwa unganiki kuzaliseka, okanye mhlawumbi kulapho uhlala khona.
Nokuba yeyiphi na, kubalulekile ukuba thatha ixesha lokuma kwaye uxabise iimpawu ezintle nokuba yeyiphi na into.
Kwaye ukuba awukwazi ukufumana naziphi na iimpawu ezintle?
Ewe, emva koko akukho sizathu sokuba ungaqhubeki usebenza ukuphucula imeko yakho, ukuze ube nokuninzi. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokufuna nokusebenza ngaphezulu.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungaziva njani wanelisekile ngobomi bakho? Thetha kumqeqeshi wobomi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo. Cofa nje apha ukunxibelelana nenye.
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