Iindlela ezi-5 zoBomi bakho ziya kuphucuka xa usamkela ukuba Zonke izinto ziya kuphela

Ngenye imini ndizobe ndingekho. Oku ngokukodwa kum. Ndicinga ukuba kuyakwenzeka nje okomzuzwana xa usiya ngasekutshoneni kwelanga, kodwa kuyakubakho ukubhuza, i-elektroniki ebizayo, kunye neetyhubhu ezingenantambo, ndicinga ukuba ndiyawushiya lo Mhlaba ngenxa yokwaluphala hayi…

1. isandla sam,
2. isandla somnye umntu,
3. ubume bezopolitiko (obukwabizwa ngokuba yimfazwe),
4. imeteor,
5. ukrebe,
6. ukonwaba ngesondo, okanye
7. okokugqibela ukuqonda ukuba iCosmic Joke ayikho kuthi sonke, yiyo ngu sonke, sinobuchule bokungcangcazela imigca yeepunch.

Isingeniso esijijekileyo konke ukuthetha ukuba akukho zinqongophala zeendlela zokuphelisa indibano yamagumbi amava esithanda ukucinga njengawethu. Ngaphakathi kwezo ndibano, zonke izinto ezikhoyo ziyaqala kwaye ziphele.

Ke masithethe ngeziphelo ezingenakuphepheka, kodwa ngendlela ebalaselisa ubuhle. Iziphumo zokwamkela ezi ziphelo kukuba ubomi bakho buya kuphucuka ngokubonakalayo.

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Ukufa

Siza kuyikhupha enkulu endleleni. Le yilele wonke umntu abaleka kuyo, efaka iingalo zakhe ngalo lonke ixesha.

Kodwa khawufane ucinge ukuba sisidenge kangakanani xa sinokubaleka sibaleka igumbi elingenazingcango. Kuyakubakho ukungabi nasiphelo kweendonga kude kube ekugqibeleni sidiniwe kwaye kufuneka siphumle.

Kukufa oko. Phumla. Ubumdaka. Ubuthongo obukhulu. Yonke into ethi 'thina' ekhokelela kuloo ndawo yokuphuma iya kulingana 'nathi ekufeni' okanye 'ayisayi kuphinda ibe nathi' kuxhomekeke kwindlela esiyijonga ngayo. (Kodwa lowo ngumbuzo weembongi, ababhali bemidlalo, abakhohlisi nababingeleli.)

Impendulo ekuphela kwayo ekufuneka sizikhathaze ngayo yile: silapha ngoku.

Asinalo nofifi lokuba ukufa kuphi okanye kuza kwenzeka njani, endaweni yokuba sichithe ixesha elininzi sikhathazeka ukuba asiyifumani indawo yokufihla, kufuneka sisebenzisane noko sinako.

Phila ubomi. Ubomi bokuphila bubuphucula ubomi kalikhulu xa busenziwa ngaphandle kwengqondo nomzimba kwisilumkiso esibomvu kuMnumzana Snatch.

Kukho abantu abafa ngokoqobo kuyo yonke imimandla yalo mhlaba ngoku, kodwa kukwakho nabantu abazalwayo, abantu abenza uthando, abantu abangcamla isuphu, abantu abazama iilokhwe ezintle, nkqu nabantu abanethemba lokufumana impendulo okanye ezimbini kwiWebhu yeHlabathi. .

Jongana naloo nto. Jongana nayo kwaye uzive ukhululekile kwiingxaki zokukhathazeka ngento esingenakuyibona, ukuyichukumisa, ukungcamla, ukujoja okanye ukuva. Ndiqinisekisa ukuba iyakutshintsha izinto.

Ukuguquka

Ongasekhoyo u-Octavia Butler, ongomnye wababhali beencwadi zamabali ahlekisayo kwezenzululwazi, wayenayo le nto ayithethayo ngotshintsho kuthotho lwakhe ngokubhekisele kumbono we-United States, Umzekeliso woMhlwayeli :

Yonke into oyichukumisayo uyayitshintsha. Yonke into oyitshintshayo iyakutshintsha. Inyaniso engapheliyo yinguqu. UThixo nguTshintsho.

kutheni kunzima kangaka ukufumana indoda

Ukutshintsha kuthetha Yonke into inokuthi itshintshe, kwaye xa itshintsha, iphele.

Ayisiyonto imbi leyo. Ukuqhelana kuguquka kubuhlobo ajike abe luthando. Imbewu iba yimithana ibe yimithi iba ziigadi zeziqhamo ibe lilitye lembombo lentlalo.

Nokuba into ilula kwaye iqhelekile njengokutya kwasekuseni kuyaphela, nokuba iyinxalenye yethu oyithandayo yosuku okanye hayi.

Yonke into iyatshintsha. Ubuhlobo, ukutshintsha kosapho, ukuthanda ubomi - ngakumbi ukuthanda ubomi, kodwa siza kufika kuloo nto - bonke banamava ngenkqubo yotshintsho, kwaye indaleko ayilandeli mfuneko yokuziphatha. Utshintsho lunokuba lolulungileyo kwelinye icala kwaye / okanye lonakalise kwelinye.

Utshintsho luphelisa izinto ukuze izinto zikhule. Ukwamkela utshintsho endaweni yokuzama ukuyithintela kuthetha ukuba nathi, siyakhula, ngokufana nomthi okhula umde, usondele ngakumbi kubukhulu bawo.

Yimpumelelo leyo, zihlobo zam.

Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):

• Indlela yokujongana noloyiko lokufa kwaye wenze uxolo ngokufa
• Iimpawu ezi-12 zokuTshintshela kwinqanaba eliPhakamileyo loNgcono
• Izizathu ezili-10 zokungabuthathi kakubi ubomi
• Ungalunqoba njani uloyiko loTshintsho kwaye ujonge ngokuzithemba kwimiceli mngeni emitsha
• Ungabutshintsha njani uBomi bakho bube ngcono

Ukunyaniseka okunyanisekileyo

Ewe, sonke siyathetha ngokuphila ubomi bokwenyani, kodwa amaxesha amaninzi oko kuthetha ukuba asinathemba lokuba akukho nto iya kusinika umngeni wokuzandisa ngaphandle kwemimandla yethu yokuthuthuzela.

Indawo zentuthuzelo zikhona kuphela ukusixelela ukuba akukho nto iya kuphela siya kuba sikhuselekile amaqamza ethu omelele kwaye akhelwe ukuhlala.

Ubuxoki. Akukho nto ngaphandle kokuxoka.

Ngokunyaniseka, obona bomi bokwenyani bobomntu uchitha esenza izinto esingazange sazenza ngaphambili, u-AKA ukufunda .

Ubomi obuyinyani buhleli buhleli bucamngca, kodwa ungaze ube nethemba lokoyika lokuba, njengesihloko sendlu endle, awusoze uqaphele.

Ukuba samkela ukuba zonke izinto ziyaphela, samkela ukuphela kwamaqam ethu entuthuzelo.

Oku kuvula ubomi bethu kwizinto ezininzi ezimangalisayo eziya kuthi kube nzima ukungazisoli ngokungakhange ndizenze kwakamsinya, nangona ukuzisola, njengokujonga ngasemva, kuninzi kodwa kungenamsebenzi ngokubanzi.

Nikezela amandla, endaweni yoko, ukunyaniseka ukuba singobani: izidalwa ezikulo Mhlaba zinomdla wokufunda ukuba kuninzi kuthi kunokudibana neliso.

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Uthando

Uthando oluncinci, ukuba sinethamsanqa, siba luthando oludala. Ngaba sikulungele ukwaluphala? Ngaba sikulungele ukwamkela ukuba ulusu olugudileyo, olungenasiphako esiziphulula ngalo ngomsindo luyakuba mibimbi, lube namabala, kwaye logqume amathambo amabi, anyibilikayo?

Uthando lobutsha luyaphela. Njalo. Ukuqola kuyayalela. Ngaba sikulungele?

Uthando oluqolileyo luthando olubuza imibuzo, ngaphakathi nangaphandle. Iimpendulo zakhe zihlala zibambisa abantu bengalindelanga, kuba iimpendulo zayo zixelwe kwangaphambili kutshintsho:

• Ngaba sithandwa sam endandithandana naso?
• Ngaba ndim lo bathandana naye?
• Ngaba sisalingana, okanye ngaba kukho ukungalingani?
• Yintoni etshintshileyo phakathi kwethu?

Ukwazi ukuba uthando alunto yanto ngaphandle kokuphela kunye nokuncinanana okuphelileyo kuzo zonke iindlela zobomi kuvumela ukwanda kwentliziyo ethi yona ivumele ukutyeba, ukuqonda okungafaniyo kothando ukusithwala kuhambo lwethu lobomi.

Uthando luyimbewu yazo zonke iinzame zethu. Luxolo.

Ukuba singalwamkela uxolo njengento exhomekeke kwimisinga kunye notshintsho lwenguqu (yokuphela kunye nokuqala), sisondela kuyo yonke into ebomini singoyiki 'izinto' esizihlanganisileyo kuthi ukuba zithathiwe.

Ukwamkelwa Ekugqibeleni

Ukwamkela ukuba zonke izinto ziya kuphela ziya:

ukuba wenzeni xa engazukutshintsha

1. Ukuphucula ubomi bakho bothando
2. Yenza ngakumbi umntu othembekileyo
3. Khuthaza ukuba uyeke ukucinga ngokufa njenge-boogeyman phantsi kwebhedi yakho
4. Lungiselela utshintsho kunye UTSHINTSHO, kuba ezinkulu nezincinci azilandeli iipateni ezingaguqukiyo okanye iishedyuli, ziyeza nje. Baphelisa izinto. Baphelisa yonke into.

Ngaba igama 'ukuphela' lisisiseko esibi? Hayi. Ukuphela kufana ne-Big Bangs encinci yamathuba angenasiphelo, iinjini ezilinganayo zendalo kunye nentshabalalo.

Kukho indlela eyimfihlo yesihlanu yokuvumela iziphelo ukuba ziphucule ubomi bomntu:

Musa ukucinga ukuba isiphelo siyinto embi.

Ukungcangcazela kwethu kwenza ukuphela kube ngathi yimithi emnyama kunye namagumbi angaphantsi, xa inyani iyinto echaseneyo: Yonke into iyaphela, emva koko-itshintshiwe- ziqala kwakhona.