Yethu 21stUbomi bekhulu leminyaka buye bafumana ukukhawuleza okukhawulezayo kangangokuba kubonakala ngathi yonke into esiyenzayo malunga nokufikelela kwindawo yokugqibela ngaphambi kokuba uKufa kusifikele.
Ihlaya lendalo liphela kuthi, nangona: ukusukela ngexesha lokukhulelwa ukuya ekukhohliseni kokugqibela, akukho namnye kuthi okhe 'aphile' apha.
Iiseli zethu ziqala ngoko nangoko ukonakala xa zenziwe.
Imizuzwana emi-5 yobomi behlobo
Sihlala sisifa kunokuba siphile, nto leyo eyenza ukuba ichaneke ngakumbi xa sithathela ingqalelo ubomi bethu obufayo njengeyona ndawo indala yokufa kwefilimu.
Kwaye njengawo nawuphi na umboniso wokufa olungileyo, kuya kufuneka sonwabele ubuhle bendalo ngelixa silapha.
Kutheni le nto ungabuthathi ubomi ngokubaluleka?
Ngenxa yokuba uyi-zombie enuka kamnandi ngubani, ngethemba, ngumpheki onesidima.
1. Izicwangciso
Sonke sivile ukwahluka 'koothixo xa beva izicwangciso zethu.'
Sisoloko sizaliswa zizicwangciso: abazali bacwangcisela abantwana babo izicwangciso zomntwana zeglee engaphazanyiswa abakwishumi elivisayo Isicwangciso sokuziphatha kakubi, iikholeji, imisebenzi, kunye nokufumanisa 'uqobo' lwabo lokwenene.
Kuyo yonke loo nto, kukho rhoqo: iiplani zakho azithethi nto kwindalo engaqhelekanga, enesiphithiphithi ethi ibonakale ngathi iyeyona nto ihlekisayo.
Sifuna kuphela ukujonga ukuba ngubani onikwa izitshixo zezona zixhobo ziyingozi emhlabeni.
Ungabhali nto elityeni, kuba iya kuthumela ilitye ebusweni bakho xa liqhuma.
2. Uvuyo
Ukuguqula ubomi bube yinjongo yokubetha kunokuba imeko yokuba namava ithatha uvuyo kude nezinto ezilula. Kwaye ezona zinto zilula zezona zinto zibalaseleyo.
Kwezi zinto zintandathu, ungakhetha ukwenza ntoni?
ungasusa njani umsindo nengqumbo
- jonga amagqabi aphuma emthini
- vumela ityhubhu yomkhenkce inyibilike ngaphandle kwento obuyenza ngomlomo wakho
- uncamise umntu ngokuthe chu ukuzonwabisa ngokwanga
- Thetha neenkampani zeinshurensi malunga nezicatshulwa zamaxabiso
- ube nephupha lakusasa litshabalala ukuze uvuke ngexesha lokuhamba imizuzu engama-90
- zonke iinyanga ngokunyanisekileyo xelela isithandwa sakho 'Kufuneka sithethe.'
ABC yonke indlela.
Sifumana uvuyo ngokubakho, hayi ngokuluchitha iintsuku, iinyanga, okanye iminyaka kude.
3. Ukutshata kwakhona
Ubomi buyothusa kuba buyelelene ngokungqamene nabo kwi-slapstick.
Kangangeentsuku amaphupha akho abonisa iirobhothi, ngenye imini uza ekhaya kushiyeke irobhothi ewile kwindlwane yayo, ujikeleza ngengca yakho engcolileyo.
Ewe uzama ukuyihlangula, kodwa iyaphambuka ngesikhewu ocingweni lwakho kwaye iphelile. Kwaye iintaka zikamama notata ziyakhwaza kuwe ngeendlela eziphazamisayo. Umbonile u-Alfred Hitchcock Iintaka, ke ngena ngaphakathi.
Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa kamva usemgceni wekofu kwindawo entsha ovile ngayo. Ufika entloko yomgca, ubeka iodolo yakho. Ngubani igama kwithegi yebarista? URobin.
Zininzi kakhulu iimeko zobomi ezirhorhayo kuthi nolu nxibelelwano lwasendle kunokuba bubudenge kuthi ukuhlala stoic, dour, kunye / okanye siqhutywa ziinjongo yonke imihla.
4. Uthando
Uthando lukho kuyo yonke indawo. Kukho iintlobo ezingaphezu kweebhiliyoni ezisixhenxe ezijikelezayo kule planethi.
Uthando luthi hleka nam, ugidime nam, uphuphe nam, ucule nam, ulale nam, ubaleke, ubaleke uhambe nam, kuba andazi ukuba ndiyaphi, kodwa ndingathanda ukuya apho nawe .
Ubuhle obunje butsalela nzulu ngalo lonke ixesha.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
ibhola entsha yedragini
- Iimpawu ezi-5 zoMoya oSimahla ngokwenyani
- Iintetho ezimfutshane ze-TED eziya kuguqula uBomi bakho ngonaphakade
- Iindlela ezili-15 indalo iphela ikuthumela imiyalezo - imiqondiso yokujonga
- Izinto Ezingaqhelekanga Zokuba Nombulelo Ngobomi
- Amnandi ama-32 kaGqirha uGqirha Seuss oQokelelwe ngeziFundo zoBomi eziNzulu
- Iingoma ezi-15 ze-Iconic zeDisney malunga noBomi, uthando, amaphupha nolonwabo
5. Ubuhlobo
Ukuba uthatha ubomi ngokungathandekiyo, abahlobo bakho sikhululekile ukwenza izinto ezingenangqondo kuwe, ukuya kuthi ga kwaye kubandakanya ukwenza ukuba wenze ukhuphelo lwee-karaoke vocals kwiBonnie Tyler's smash 80s hit 'Total Eclipse of the Heart.'
Abahlobo bayilungele loo nto.
6. Isini
Ukuba ubomi bakho bubunzulu, kunokwenzeka ukuba uphulukane namava apheleleyo yenye yezona giggly, boons ze-tingly: i-nibblies.
Indalo iphela yemithambo-luvo kunye ne-nibbly bits yindalo yamavili angenasiphelo.
7. Ukuphepha Ubunzima
Ukuba usizi luyayithanda inkampani, kufuneka isete itafile engcono.
Ubomi obuzinze kwishishini elinobunzima benkxwaleko eqhubekayo lukhawulezisa ukonakala komzimba.
Isigcini-xesha, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba konke esikwenzayo kukukhalela ekufeni, kodwa ngethamsanqa uninzi lwethu lonwabela ukuzixakekisa okungcono kunoko.
8. Ukuhleka
Kwindalo iphela apho sonke sinaye umhlobo omnye onokuwalinganisa ngokugqibeleleyo amazwi ee-Muppets ezantsi kunye nezimdaka- nto leyo eyonwabisayo, esenza ukuba sihleke-sihleke- intsini , hayi ubunzulu, lelona yeza lifanelekileyo.
9. Tshintsha
Yonke into iyatshintsha. Amaxesha onyaka. Iingqondo. Iimvakalelo. Iminqweno.
Umama womntwana ozayo uJessica smith
Ngokwenyani yonke into malunga nobukho isoloko ihamba rhoqo, ke, njengezicwangciso, kungcono kakhulu ukukhwela i-rollercoaster kwaye uye 'Woohoo!' nanini na kunokwenzeka.
10. Umjikelo woBomi
Zonke iinkolo kulo mhlaba zinezinto ezithile emva kokufa. Abanye bakubiza ngokuba lizulu, abanye bakubiza ngokuba kukuzalwa ngokutsha, abanye bayedlula, abanye babuyela kubo bonke.
Nokuba lithetha ntoni, iingcinga zalo ezingasemva ziyimithombo yoxolo nemfihlakalo.
Enye indlela okanye enye sonke apha ngaphambili. Amaxesha amaninzi. Siza kuba lapha kwakhona ngokungenakubalwa.
Mna nawe asinakukhumbula konke okanye enye yazo, kodwa kulapho utshintsho lungena khona: luyintoni olumnandi ngokunxiba iimpahla ezifanayo amaxesha ngamaxesha?
Hlanganisa kwaye utshatise. Yenza umnyango ngalo lonke ixesha uvela.
Injongo ayisiyiyo, kodwa ebomini
Ubomi bumele ukuphila.
Akukho njongo, akukho nto unokukhomba kuyo kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uthi, 'Ha! Ndigqibile! ”
Akukho ntsingiselo kuyo. Ongasekhoyo uNjingalwazi Joseph Campbell, kweyakhe Amandla eNtsomi uthotho, wathi,
Abantu bathi yonke into esiyifunayo yi intsingiselo yobomi . Andiqondi ukuba yile nto siyifunayo. Ndicinga ukuba le nto siyifunayo ngamava okuphila, ukuze amava ethu obomi kwinqwelo-moya esulungekileyo abenolwazelelelo nobuntu bethu bangaphakathi kunye nenyani, ukuze sizive ukuba uxwilo luphila.
Ugqirha seuss ucaphula ikati kumnqwazi
Ukuba unjingalwazi weentsomi kunye nonqulo unokuyishiya intsingiselo ebalulekileyo yobomi, nawe unako.
Kodwa ukuba unawo amanye amathandabuzo okuba awufanele uthathe ubomi ngokubaluleka, kukho lo ungasekhoyo kukaDouglas Adams ovela kwinoveli Isikhokelo sikaHitchhiker kwiGalaxy :
Ekuqaleni uMhlaba wadalwa. Oku kuye kwabacaphukisa kakhulu abantu kwaye kwabonwa ngathi yinto embi. ”
