Uninzi lwabantu luyadimazeka yimeko yangoku yehlabathi. Kubonakala ngathi kuyo yonke indawo esijikela kuyo, siyothuswa sisixa esikhulu seengxwabangxwaba kunye nokubandezeleka okuqhubekayo okusingqongileyo.
Izinto ezimnandi ozenza ekhaya wedwa
Oku kungakhokelela ekuphelelweni lithemba xa sijonga ukuba mkhulu kangakanani lo monakalo, kwaye kuncinci kangakanani esinokukwenza ngokobuqu ukutshintsha konke.
Ewe, uyayikhumbula intetho, 'Cinga kwihlabathi liphela: yenza into ekuhlaleni' ? Sinokudala ukugxila okungaphaya kunoko, kwaye sijolise ngaphezulu 'Yiba lutshintsho ofuna ukulubona ehlabathini.'
Mna nawe asinakuba zizidalwa ezinamandla onke ezinokuthi zilitshintshe ilizwe liphela libe ngcono ngokuhlutha nje iminwe, kodwa singenza utshintsho olukhulu ngaphakathi kwethu.
Abo emva koko banako-kwaye baya kuthi-baphume ngaphandle kwaye bachaphazele abanye.
Kwaye baya kuchaphazela abanye ngokulandelelana.
Kwaye nangokunjalo.
Nantsi indlela yokutshintsha umhlaba, isiqwenga esinye ngexesha:
Utshintsho kwindlela oNxibelelana ngayo nabanye abantu
1. Yiba Nobubele
Le ibonakala ngathi ayisebenzi, kodwa kuyothusa ukubona ukuba sihlala siphulukana kangaphi xa kufikwa ekwamkeleni nasekubhiyozeleni abanye njengoko benjalo.
Nanini na xa unethuba lokwenza njalo, yibanenceba . Kwaye ukuba unethuba lokuba ngokwenene unobubele, yenza njalo nawe.
Ngaba unamava amahle ngenkonzo yabathengi kwivenkile? Enkosi ngokunyanisekileyo, emva koko unxibelelane nomphathi wabo uze ubaxelele ngomsebenzi omkhulu owenziwa ngumqeshwa wabo.
2. Uthando ngaphandle kwemiqathango
Le yenye into abantu badla ngokuba nobunzima ngayo.
Ukuya thanda umntu ngaphandle kwemeko oko akuthethi ukuba uyayinyamezela imikhwa emibi okanye impatho-mbi evela kubo, kodwa kunoko uzabalazela ukubathanda ngenxa yento abayiyo, endaweni yokuba ubangabo.
Ungayithandi indlela aziphethe ngayo umntu, kodwa usamthanda njengomntu.
Ngokusisiseko, sonke siyasokola ebomini, sizama ukuqonda izinto ngelixa sisenza uxanduva lwesigidi, uxinzelelo, amathemba namaphupha… kwaye oko kunzima kakhulu.
Siyatyibilika, asinakuhlala singoyena mntu sifuna ukuba nguye, okanye umntu esisebenzisana naye / umntwana / njl. ndingonwaba kakhulu nge.
Kuyomeleza kakhulu ukwazi ukuba bayasithanda naxa sikhubeka, akunjalo? Masithande abanye ngaloo ndlela ngokulandelelana.
indlela yokwenza uthando hayi nje ngesondo
3. Ukunyaniseka
Sonke siyakwazi ukuxelela xa umntu esenza ubuqhetseba nathi, kwaye ayisiyonto imnandi kwaphela leyo.
Ngoku, oku kwahlukile ekuthantamiseni xa umntu engenawo nomdla wento, kodwa bazama ukusixhasa nakanjani.
Ubungqongqo bufana kakhulu… nokububeka bungqindilili xa uncoma umntwana ngomzobo wakhe, okanye ulunge kakhulu kumntu ongenakuma ngamanye amagama, ukuba imnandi kakhulu .
Kuninzi ekufuneka kuthethwe ngobunyani kunye nokunyaniseka. Oko akuthethi ukuba abantu bane-carte blanche ukuba babe zijeliksi kwabo bangabathandiyo, kodwa kunokuba babe nethuba lokuziphatha kakuhle, kunokuba babe bobuxoki kunye ne-saccharine.
Nanku umzekelo: Ukuba uyayixabisa ngokwenene into umntu ayenzele yona, bonisa uxabiso ngokuzolileyo nangentliziyo yokwenyani, kunokuba ubonise ngomzimba omkhulu. Oko kunokubonwa kunganyanisekanga.
Yiba nje yinyani, kwaye uyakufumanisa ukuba abanye banyanisekile ngakumbi kuwe. Yindlela onokutshintsha ngayo umhlaba, unxibelelwano olunye ngexesha.
Ukukhetha okwenzayo: Kakhulu kwaye kuncinci
4. Ukuphila ngokuSebenzela abanye
Oku kuwela phantsi kodidi 'lokukhetha okukhulu', kwaye kunento yokwenza neyakho injongo yobomi .
Kuyavunywa, sinokuhambisa amanqaku aliqela kule, kodwa ngendlela yayo elula, inento yokwenza nento ofuna ukuyenza ngexesha olinikiweyo, ngeli xesha ngoku.
Unethuba lokwenza nantoni na ongayithanda njengobizo lobomi, ke uya kwenza ntoni?
Ukukhetha ikhondo lomsebenzi elikuvumela ukuba usebenzele ukulunga ngakumbi yenye yezona zinto zinzulu kunye nokunika izinto onokuzenza kumashumi eminyaka onawo kule planethi.
Yintoni ekutsalayo? Ziziphi izifundo onomdla kuzo?
Ilogan paul yathathwa yajijwa
Nokuba yintoni leyo iyakukhuthaza , kukho ikhondo lomsebenzi onokulithatha eliya kukuvumela ukuba uthulule amandla akho ekwenzeni umhlaba ube yindawo engcono.
5. Ukuthenga ngokuziphatha
Igama elithi 'vota ngesipaji sakho' linamandla. Ngalo lonke ixesha uthenga into, wenza ingxelo malunga nokuba ukholelwa entwenini, uzokunyamezela ntoni, kwaye yintoni ebalulekileyo kuwe.
Ukuba uthenga iimveliso zokhathalelo lobuqu kwiinkampani ezingcolisa indalo kwaye zenza iimvavanyo ezoyikekayo kwizilwanyana, ubaxelela ukuba ulungile kuloo ndlela uziphethe ngayo, kwaye uza kuqhubeka uyixhasa.
Ukuba uthenga izinto ezenziwe ngabanini bamashishini amancinci, okanye ukutya okunezinto eziphilayo, ukutya okufanelekileyo, uxelela abantu abazenzayo ukuba uyayixabisa imizamo yabo.
Ufuna ukuthini?
Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo uye wagutyungelwa yile ngcamango iminyaka, kungumcimbi nje wokuphononongwa kwakhona kokukusebenzelayo.
Ngaba uyakwazi ukuxhoma impahla kwindawo yokuhlambela ukoma? Ngaba unokusebenzisa intsimbi engenasici, iibhotile zamanzi ezinokuphinda zisebenze endaweni yokuthenga iiplastiki? Njani ngokuthatha iibhegi ezinokuphinda zisetyenziswe evenkileni?
Kukuziphi iinkalo zobomi bakho bemihla ngemihla ongenakwenza uphuculo oluncinci kuzo?
Nokuba oyena mntu mncinci angalitshintsha ikhondo lekamva. - JRR. Tolkein
Impembelelo yakho kwihlabathi
6. Ukusasaza ubungakanani
Phantse sonke siye safumana imeko apho sasinosuku olubi kakhulu, kodwa umntu wenza okanye wathetha into eyajika ngokupheleleyo usuku.
Isenokuba yinto elula njengoncumo lomntu wasemzini, okanye umntu esisebenza naye usazisa ngendlela abasixabisa ngayo.
Izenzo ezincinci zobubele zihamba indlela ende ukuya ukunceda abanye , kwaye kwihlabathi apho abantu abaninzi bexineke kwaye becaphukisa, ezi nceba zincinci zibaluleke kakhulu.
7. Ubugosa
Ukwakha kukhetho oludweliswe ngaphambili, jonga izinto ozenzayo mihla le ezichaphazela imeko-bume yakho, kunye neplanethi enkulu engaphaya.
Ukuba ukhetha ukusebenzisa isicoci esinamachiza ekhayeni lakho, abantu, amaqabane ezilwanyana, kunye nezityalo baya kutyhileka kumsi okhupha isicoci.
Xa uthulula isicoci phantsi komsele, ezo khemikhali zingena kwitafile yamanzi. Imilambo engaphantsi komhlaba ehambisa ezo khemikhali zingena ngaphandle kwimizimba emikhulu yamanzi, isasaza iikhemikhali kude nakude, ichaphazela ubomi bezityalo nezilwanyana naphina apho ziya khona.
Unokwenza ububele, ukukhetha okuhle xa kuziwa kwiimveliso zakho, emva koko uhambe inyathelo elingaphaya kobugosa obukhulu bendalo.
Sasaza imbewu yeentyatyambo eziyinzalelwane yalapho ukuze izityalo zibuye zizondle kuzo. Yenza iyadi yakho ibe nomtsalane kwiintaka nakwizilwanyana zasendle zasekhaya, okanye unikele ngamanyathelo okutyala imithi.
Ukuba sonke sidlale eyethu indima, iya kuba nefuthe elihle kwihlabathi. Yiba yinxalenye yolu tshintsho.
8.Nikela ixesha kunye naMandla kwisizathu sokukholelwa kwakho
Ngamnye wethu uyayithanda into enento yokwenza nokulunga okukhulu, ke jonga into oziva womelele ngayo, kwaye uthathe inyathelo lokuthatha inxaxheba yakho.
Ngaba uyazithanda izilwanyana? Cinga ukukhulisa iikati ezingenamakhaya okanye ukuvolontiya kwifama yokugcina izilwanyana.
iliwa vs uluntu ndiyayeka
Ngaba uyakuthanda ukunitha? Unokwenza iminqwazi yabantwana be-preemie okanye iingubo zeembacu kwiinkampu.
Uyakwazi ukwenza into ethile oko kunokwenza umahluko omkhulu kubomi bomnye umntu.
Yenze.
Ayisithi sonke esinokwenza izinto ezinkulu. Kodwa sinokwenza izinto ezincinci ngothando olukhulu. -Umama uTeresa
Eyakho Ingqondo (kwaye iyiphembelela njani yonke into)
9.Nciphisa iTV kunye nokuSebenzisa iiMidiya zoLuntu
Thatha umzuzwana ucinge ngexesha lokugqibela oye iveki okanye nangaphezulu ungakhange ubukele iTV. Ewe oku kubandakanya iNetflix.
Uyayikhumbula lonto?
Ukuba awukwazi ukukhumbula, zama. Unokufumana kunzima ukufumana ezinye iindlela zokuzihlaziya kwiiyure zokuqala ezingama-24-48, kodwa emva koko, unokufumanisa ukuba uchitha ixesha elininzi ngaphandle, okanye ufunda, okanye usebenza kwezinye zeeprojekthi zokuyila kubekelwe bucala 'ekugqibeleni' ukuza kuthi ga ngoku.
Liguqula njani eli hlabathi? Iphucula impilo yethu yengqondo. Oku kuphalala kuyo yonke into esiyenzayo kunye nomntu wonke esidibana naye. Yinto enkulu.
10. Bona Okuhle Kuyo Yonke Into
Nokuba yeyiphi na imeko, kuhlala kukho okuhle okufumaneka kuyo.
Oko kulinda ixesha elide emgceni kwivenkile yokutya lithuba lokuncokola nomntu ongamaziyo onokubonakala ngathi uphantsi.
Ayoyikekayo hlukala lithuba lokukhula komntu kwaye kubalulekile ixesha lodwa ukubuyela kunxibelelwano nento ebalulekileyo kuwe.
Akukho liva linye elingenalo ithuba lokuphilisa, ukulunga, kunye nokuvela.
Xa ujolisa kwizinto ezintle, uyeka ukugxila kwizinto ezincinci, ezibonakala zimbi ezikucaphukisayo okanye ezikucaphukisayo. Uyakukhalaza kancinci, uyeke ukugxeka abo bakungqongileyo.
Oko kuya kwenza ukuba ubomi babo bonwabe, kwaye ke baya kuba mnandi kwabanye abantu, njalo njalo njalo njalo kwi-infinitum. Ukulungelwa kokugcina kuya kuqhubeka ngaphandle, kuphakamisa wonke umntu.
Ezi zizinto nje ezimbalwa ezilula ezenziwa ngumntu ukuba enze ikona yabo encinci yehlabathi ibe ngcono ngakumbi kunendlela abayifumene ngayo.
Ukwenza nje into enye kolu luhlu kunokwenza umahluko omkhulu, nokuba awuqapheli ngokukhawuleza.
ixabisa malini irhamncwa
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungalitshintsha njani ilizwe libe ngcono? Thetha nomqeqeshi wobomi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo yokufumanisa ukuba leliphi igalelo onokuthi ube nalo. Cofa nje apha ukudibanisa nenye.
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