Wonke umntu kufuneka aphile. Ukufumana umsebenzi owuzalisekisayo endaweni yokurhafisa kuya kuba yinto ephambili kuye wonke umntu.
Oku kuyinyani ngokukodwa kwiimfesane kunye nabantu abanolwazelelelo oluhlala luqhuba ngcono emsebenzini xa bebeka phambili ukuzaliseka.
Abantu abanovelwano kakhulu bathambekele ekuziva izinto ngokuthe kratya kwaye bathwale ubunzima beemvakalelo ezivela kuxinzelelo lobomi kunye nokusebenza. Umsebenzi owanelisayo owenza umahluko unokwenza uxinzelelo kube lula ukuwuthwala, ngakumbi ii-HSPs kunye neempaths.
Ezi ndlela zisixhenxe zomsebenzi zinokuba lukhetho olukhulu kuzo zombini ukuzalisekiswa kunye nokwenza umahluko kwihlabathi.
1. Umzobi
Uvelwano ngumphefumlo oqhele ukuqonda ngakumbi, ngakumbi ngokuhambelana neemvakalelo zehlabathi kunye noluntu.
indlela yokwenza usuku lwakho lomsebenzi luhambe ngokukhawuleza
Baziva izinto nzulu, ngokuqatha, ukuya kuthi ga apho kunokuba buhlungu okanye kube yingozi kwimpilo yabo.
Ukuziva iimvakalelo ngendlela ekrwada ngoluhlobo kunika amandla emphefumlweni ekudaleni ubugcisa obunentsingiselo, obude ukufikelela kuzo zonke iintlobo. Uhlobo lwegcisa olushiya umbono kwihlabathi lithululela inxenye yomphefumlo wabo, iimvakalelo zabo kwinto nganye nganye.
Umntu okhetha ukulandela ubugcisa njengomsebenzi anokuhambisa umbono wabo, ukonwaba kwabo kunye nosizi, kunye neemvakalelo ezinzulu zehlabathi emsebenzini wabo.
Umhlaba ufuna ubugcisa obugqwesileyo ukuze ushukumise iimvakalelo zethu, usishukumise, usikhuthaze ukuba sifikelele kwizinto ezinkulu nezinkulu.
Ukuba ngumzobi kunqabile ukuba uhlawule konke oko, kodwa kunokuba nefuthe elikhulu kubomi babanye.
I-intanethi ngokuqinisekileyo yongeze i-engile entsha ebalulekileyo yokwakha abaphulaphuli abaya kuthi baxabise kwaye bahlawulele nomsebenzi wegcisa.
2. Igqwetha
Akubonakali ngathi i-empath iyakwenza kakuhle emthethweni, akunjalo?
Inyani yile yokuba kukho amasebe amaninzi omthetho apho ukujonga kunye nokuthanda kunokunceda abantu ababasebenzelayo.
Inkqubo yezomthetho yindawo enzima efuna isikhokelo, kwaye masijongane nayo, amagqwetha ayabiza. Ngenxa yoko, amagqwetha azo zonke iintlobo anokusebenza pro bono kubantu abasengozini.
Impaths ingenza umahluko omkhulu ukumela nokukhusela amalungelo abatyholwa, abantu abahamba kwiimeko zobundlobongela basekhaya, okanye ukubonelela ngesisa simahla kwezomthetho kwimibutho yesisa kunye nemibutho engenzi nzuzo.
kubudlelwane, ukuzibophelela kuthetha ukuba
Ngenxa yokuba ii-empaths ezininzi zinobuthathaka, azinakulunga nakwezomthetho, uxinzelelo oluphezulu lwezomthetho. Uqeqesho olufana nolingo kunye nomthetho wokudibana unokuba zizikhundla eziphezulu, uxinzelelo oluphezulu kunye noxinzelelo oluphezulu.
Phezulu, kungangabonakala ngathi umthetho ungangumbuso wenceba, kodwa inyani kukuba uvelwano lunokuchukumisa kunye nokuphucula ubomi obuninzi njengegqwetha.
3. Umsebenzi wezeNtlalontle
Ubukumkani bonontlalontle buya kude kwaye bubanzi. Banokufunyanwa besebenzela amashishini, izibonelelo zoncedo, okanye urhulumente.
Abasebenzi bezeNtlalontle banikezela ngenkxaso yabantu abasemngciphekweni wokuhamba kumaziko anzima kunye nokuxhasa impilo yabathengi babo.
Imfesane ngokwendalo ingena kwindima kanontlalontle, njengoko besebenza ngenkuthalo ukuphucula ubomi babantu ababachukumisayo.
Nangona kunjalo, oku kuza negama lesilumkiso kwi-empath…
Ayingawo onke amabali anesiphelo esimnandi kwaye kukho konke ukubandezeleka okukhulu emhlabeni. Umntu ofuna ukulandela umsebenzi wentlalontle kufuneka aqinisekise ukuba basempilweni imikhwa yokuzikhathalela , isikhumba esityebileyo, kunye nokukwazi ukujongana necala elimnyama lobomi.
Ukuvezwa kwezinye zezinto ezimbi kakhulu eluntwini nasekuhlaleni kungathatha uxinzelelo olunzulu emntwini, ukuya kuthi ga apho utshe waphela sisongelo esiqhelekileyo nesinokubakho.
ukumisa njani ubudlelwane be-fwb
Akuqhelekanga ukuba abantu bashiye umsebenzi wentlalo emva kweminyaka emihlanu okanye emithandathu.
4. Ukhathalelo lwezeMpilo
Imisebenzi emininzi ekhathalelayo yezempilo inokuba yinto elungileyo, kwaye icace gca.
Baninzi oogqirha, abongikazi, kunye nabanye abasebenzi bezonyango abangena ebaleni ngenxa yomnqweno wabo wokunceda abanye abantu.
Impilo yengqondo yindawo eqhelekileyo yokuya empathini, kwaye inokuba ilungile, ukuba umntu uyakwazi ukugcina ukwahlukana okunempilo kwaye angathathi iintlungu zabaxumi babo.
Intsimi yamayeza yenye yeza kuhlala ifuna abantu abanezakhono, abanenkathalo ukubonelela ngeenkonzo kwabagulayo nabonzakeleyo.
Amasimi anjengokonga afikeleleka kwiminyaka nje embalwa. Kukho ezinye iindima zenkxaso ezifuna kuphela isidanga seminyaka emibini okanye isatifikethi sokuqala umsebenzi, njengengcali ye-x-ray.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Iingcebiso ezili-17 zokuSinda kwiiMpilo kunye naBantu abaPhezulu kakhulu
- Imizabalazo yeemfazwe ezili-11 zijongana nesiseko semihla ngemihla
- Iindlela ezi-3 ezizezinye zeempathazi ezidiniweyo kukuzikhusela
- Umzuzwana Uyaqonda ukuba uyi-Empath
- Izinketho ezi-6 zoBomi eziJongene nazo zonke ii-Empath
5. Umsebenzi weHospice
Ukhathalelo lwe-Hospice sisilwanyana esahlukileyo kwezinye ubuchwephesha kwezonyango kuba ijolise ekunikezeleni intuthuzelo kunye nenkonzo kwiintsapho ezijamelene nezifo ezithintela ubomi ngokukodwa.
Olu hlobo lomsebenzi lunokuba lubanzi ngakumbi kunomsebenzi oqhelekileyo wezonyango, njengoko uhlala uquka izinto zentlalo kunye nezomoya ukunceda usapho ukumelana nemiceli mngeni abajongana nayo ngoku.
Umzimba, ingqondo kunye nomoya wendlela yokhathalelo lwe-hospice inokubhenela kwimikhosi kuba incinci kwaye inzima.
Umsebenzi wehosisi unokuzibona enganiki kuphela ukhathalelo lomntu onesifo, kodwa bahlala bencedisa ukuthuthuzela iintsapho zaba bantu njengoko beza kulwamkela olu tshintsho ebomini.
Banikezela ngononophelo oluyimfuneko kumguli, bafundisa usapho malunga nokugula kunye nendlela yokhathalelo, kwaye bavavanye kwaye babonelele ngeenkonzo ezifunekayo ukunceda ukungonwabi kunye nokugula kwesigulana.
Amavolontiya ahlala ekhonza iindima ezincinci kubungakanani bomsebenzi wokunyamekela abaguli, njengokuqhuba usapho okanye ukubonelela ngexesha elinzima.
6. Umsebenzi wokupha
Umsebenzi wesisa awunangqondo kwi-empath.
Kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zoncedo kunye nemibutho ngaphandle apho isebenza ukuphucula ihlabathi nangayiphi na indlela abayenzayo.
tyhala kwaye utsale kubudlelwane
Banokuhluka ukusuka ekukhonzeni abantu ngokuthe ngqo ukuya ekuboneleleni ngemveliso okanye inkonzo eya kuthi izuze abantu ekuncedeni izilwanyana ekugcineni indalo.
Imibutho engajonganga kwenza nzuzo kunye nesisa zihlala zinomtsalane kwiimfesane kuba zihlala zingenangqongqo kwaye zibukhali kwindalo esingqongileyo njengamashishini emveli amaninzi okanye imisebenzi yequmrhu.
Oko akuthethi ukuba bayekelele okanye abanawo uqeqesho, kunoko yindawo eyahlukileyo apho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zabantu zinokuphumelela.
Umsebenzi wokuzithandela lolona khetho lubalaseleyo ukuba umsebenzi wesisa ayingomsebenzi olungileyo. Nokuba nakho ukufumana iiyure ezimbalwa zomsebenzi wamavolontiya apha naphaya kunokwenza lukhulu ukunceda ukuphakamisa umoya we-empath kwaye ubenze bazive bexhumeke ngakumbi kwaye bezinzile.
Ewe umsebenzi wesisa awukho ngaphandle kwemiceli mngeni. Uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali luhlala lungqongqo kwaye kunokubakho ukubandezeleka ekuhambeni xa amandla evuma ukusebenza neqela elihlelelekileyo.
7. Ukuzisebenzela
Malunga naluphi na ukhetho lokuziqesha kunokuba lukhetho olukhulu kwi-empath.
ndifuna ukuziva ndithandwa ngumyeni wam
Maninzi kakhulu amathuba aphuma apho okwenza ifuthe ngeeseti ezahlukeneyo zezakhono kunye nemisebenzi. Ngokwenene, konke kwindlela oyisebenzisa ngayo.
Umatshini ozenzekelayo? Amavolontiya ukwenza ulungiso kunye nokubiza kuphela iindawo. Umthuthukisi? Amavolontiya ukwenza umsebenzi kumbutho ofuna iwebhusayithi efanelekileyo okanye ehlaziyiweyo (uninzi lwenza njalo!). Umcebisi? Nika ubungcali bakho kumbutho okwicandelo lakho lobuchule oya kuthi uxhamle.
Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ekukhetheni ikhondo lomsebenzi kukwazi nokuqonda ukuba yintoni umntu akwazi ukuyiphatha.
Umsebenzi okhathalayo unokwenza ikhondo lomsebenzi obalaseleyo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ukuthwala ubunzima bokubandezeleka kwabanye kunokuba nzima. Umntu kufuneka abe nolusu olungqindilili, imida eqinileyo, kunye neendlela zokulwa ezisempilweni zokuyeka olo xinzelelo kunye nokubandezeleka xa ilixesha lokuphumla.
Abanye abantu babhetele kuyo kunabanye. Ukuzazi kakuhle kuthetha ukuba uya kuba nakho ukwenza olona khetho lufanelekileyo ekukhetheni ikhondo lomsebenzi elinokuba nomvuzo kwaye lifeze.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba ngowuphi umsebenzi olungele wena njenge-empath? Thetha kumqeqeshi wobomi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo yokukhetha / ukuyifumana. Cofa nje apha ukunxibelelana nenye.
