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Uyakholelwa kuwe? Ngaba uyakholelwa kumandla akho okuphila ubomi obonwabisayo nobunempumelelo?
Imiceli mngeni esijongene nayo inokwenza kube nzima ukugcina umbono oqinisekileyo kunye nokuziphatha, ngakumbi kubantu ababekhe banayo ubomi obunzima okanye ujongene nezithintelo ezininzi.
Ukungazithembi kuphelisa iinzame ezininzi ngaphambi kokuba kuqhubeke. Ngoba? Kungenxa yokuba abantu abaninzi bakholelwa abo basebezelayo bokungazithembi okuthe kwakhula ezingqondweni zabo.
Bavela phi?
Kutheni belapho?
Le yimibuzo enzima ehlala ikhokelela kwiindawo ezinamathelayo, ezibuhlungu zexesha elidlulileyo lomntu.
Asinto ingaqhelekanga ngabantu abangenabubele ukuba baxelele abo bathi bayabathanda awunantsingiselo okanye ukungakwazi, ukuhlekisa kunye bejongele phantsi umdla wabo okanye ukuthanda kwabo .
Abantu abanetyhefu banokujongela phantsi ukuzithemba ngokungaze bonwabe okanye baneliseke, benze umxholo wokungakhathali bazive ngathi abanakwenza nto ilungileyo.
Ngelishwa, baninzi kakhulu abantu abaphantsi kolu xhatshazo kunye nokungakhathali kangangeminyaka elixesha, kwaye kuthatha umthwalo ngokuthatha iingcambu ezingqondweni zomntu kunye nokuchaphazela indlela abacinga ngayo ngokwabo kunye nokukwazi kwabo ukuba nefuthe kwihlabathi.
Nabani na unokufumana amathandabuzo malunga nabo okanye amandla abo, kodwa banokumba nzulu kwaye batyhale kuwo.
Kukho iindlela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokuphucula inkolelo kabani kubo nakwizakhono zabo.
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Umgangatho weengcinga zethu uhlala ucoca ebomini bethu. Cinga ngeengcinga onazo xa ujongene nomzuzu wokuzithemba.
Zivakala njani? Ngaba banobubele, bayaxhasa, okanye banethemba?
Mhlawumbi akunjalo.
Banokuba ziingxelo ezibucayi ezinje:
'Andinangqondo ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndingakufezekisa oku.'
“Akukho sizathu sokwenza oku. Ndizakusilela nje. ”
Iphupha lam lisisiyatha, kodwa sisidenge. ”
Inyani yile, uninzi lweembono kunye neenzame ziyafa zingekavavanywa ngenxa yokuzithemba. Okukhona umntu ephinda ezi ntetho kubo, kokukhona iya itshona engqondweni yabo kwaye kokukhona bekholelwa.
Endaweni yoko, kufuneka sisebenze ukuze sitshintshe ezi ngxelo sisiqinisekiso sothando, ububele kunye nenkxaso.
Kodwa ngaba ukufanele oko?
Ewe uyakwenza. Wonke umntu kufanelekile ukuba azive eseluthandweni olusempilweni kunye nokuzithemba.
Nantsi eminye imizekelo onokuyisebenzisa.
Ngaphandle kwe: 'Andinangqondo ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndingakufezekisa oku.'
Zixelele: 'Ndilumkile kwaye ndiyakwazi, kwaye ndingaphumelela.'
Ngaphandle kwe: “Akukho sizathu sokwenza oku. Ndizakusilela nje. ”
Zixelele: “Ndifuna ukuyenza le nto kuba ndiyakholelwa kuyo. Nokuba andiphumeleli, ndingathatha oko ndikufundileyo ndizame kwakhona. '
Ngaphandle kwe: Iphupha lam lisisiyatha, kodwa sisidenge. ”
Zixelele: “Amaphupha am alungile kwaye axabisekile njengawo nawuphina umntu.”
Kwaye qhubeka uyenza loo nto ngamanqaku amaninzi okuthetha ngokunokwenzeka.
Ilula, kodwa akukho lula, kwaye kuthatha ixesha ukuqala ukutshintsha ezo ngcinga zakudala, nezimbi ngeengcinga ezintsha, ezintle.
Gcina kuyo.
Zikhumbuze ngeempumelelo zexesha elidlulileyo
Uphumelele kwizinto ezininzi ebomini bakho. Mhlawumbi awuboni njengempumelelo, kodwa kunjalo.
Zingaba zizinto ezinkulu njengokuphumelela uviwo okanye ukuphumelela injongo yam , okanye basenokuba “ziimpumelelo” ezincinci njengokuzimela okanye ukupheka ukutya okumnandi.
Ngamaxesha okuzithemba, ezi nkumbulo azikho lula. Nangona kunjalo bangamandla amakhulu ekupheliseni ukungazithethi.
Ngokuveza iinyani ezinzima malunga noko sele ukufezekisile ebomini bakho, uphikisana namathandabuzo ingqondo yakho izama ukukuqinisekisa.
Kunzima kakhulu ukukholelwa ukuba akunakukwazi xa ukhumbula ixesha apho ubonakalise ngokucacileyo amandla akho.
Ngamanye amagama, 'andinakuyenza le nto' ucinga ngengqondo yakho uthi, 'Owu, kodwa ndiyiphumezile le, naleya ngaphambili.'
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Baninzi abantu emhlabeni abalinde nje ukuwisa iingcamango namabhongo abanye.
Babuhlungu kwaye bahlala bathanda ukubona abanye abantu bebandezeleka njengabo. Ezinye zikhona Ikrakra Nditshisiwe ebomini. Abanye ngabantu nje abakhohlakeleyo okanye abangalunganga abakhetha ukonakalisa nokutshabalalisa.
Ukuba phakathi kwaba bantu rhoqo yindlela eqinisekileyo yokuqhubela phambili ukuzithemba nokuzithemba.
Jonga kakuhle abantu abakufutshane kuwe, abantu ochitha ixesha lakho nabo. Bangaphi aba bantu abaxhasayo, nefuthe elihle ebomini bakho?
Ezi ziindidi zabantu ekufuneka uchithe ixesha elininzi kunye nazo, utyale amandla akho kuzo ukwakha ubuhlobo obungcono nobudlelwane nabo.
Zingaphi kubo ubukho obubi ebomini bakho? Soloko ukhawuleza ukugxeka, ukunkqonkqoza isikhonkwane, okanye ukuqaqambisa oko babona ukuba ziimpawu zakho ezimbi?
Ezi ntlobo zabantu ziya kukujongela phantsi ukuzithemba kwakho kwaye zitshabalalise amandla akho enkqubela phambili. Ngokufanelekileyo, uya kufuna ukubasusa aba bantu ebomini bakho kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kodwa oko akusoloko kukhethwa.
Ukuba ayisiyiyo inketho okanye awufuni kuthatha inyathelo elinje, ukunciphisa ixesha olichitha nabo kunye nolwazi obanika lona ngobomi bakho okanye iinjongo zakho lunokunceda. Abakwazi ukugxeka abangakwaziyo.
Kukho uhlobo lwesithathu lomntu, iflethi okanye umntu ongwevu. Azizichaphazeli okanye zingalunganga, ziluhlobo nje apho.
Abazami kangako ukufezekisa nantoni na, abafuni nto ingcono kubo okanye intlalontle yabo, okanye ngokwenene benza okuninzi.
Ukuchitha ixesha naba bantu kunokukwenza ube kwimeko yokungakhathali. Endaweni yokuphuma uyokwenza izinto, udibana nezinto ezinje, 'Kutheni uzikhathaza?'
Ngokufanelekileyo, uya kufuna ukuzikhupha kwaba bantu ngokunjalo.
Umgangatho wabantu ochitha ixesha lakho kunye nemicimbi.
Phinda ujonge ukuba yeyiphi intsilelo kuwe
Ungu Ndiyoyika ukusilela ? Ukusilela kuhlala kubonwa njengeyona meko imbi kuyo nayiphi na into, kodwa ayisiyiyo.
Ukusilela linyathelo elinye kwindlela eya empumelelweni. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kunokubakho imeko engaqhelekanga apha naphaya apho umntu avelise isicwangciso, zibekele usukelo , kwaye wamatsha ngqo waya kuloo njongo ngemicimbi encinci, kodwa ayisiyiyo indlela esebenza ngayo kubantu abaninzi.
Kubantu abaninzi, ukusilela linyathelo nje elinye kwindlela eya empumelelweni. Abantu abaphumeleleyo bajonge ukusilela, bazixelele, 'Kulungile, ayisebenzi!' Kwaye ke bazame indlela entsha okanye eyahlukileyo.
Ukusilela kudla ngokusetyenziswa njengesixhobo ngabantu ababi nabangwevu. Yintoni inqaku lokuzama ukuba uza kusilela nje? Kwaye uyazi, kukho ingqolowa encinci yenyani kuloo ngxelo kuba uninzi lweenzame zokuphumelela aziphumeleli.
Nangona kunjalo, ukusilela akuthethi ukuba uyeke umendo wakho. Akuthethi ukuphela kwayo nantoni na oyilandelayo.
Kuthetha nje ukuba kufuneka ujikeleze kwaye ufumane enye indlela, usebenzisa amava osele uwafumene kwindlela yakho ukuqhubeka nokutyhala impumelelo.
Xolela ukungaphumeleli kwakho. Ungazijongi njengokuphela kohambo lwakho, kodwa njengelitye lokunyathela kwindlela yakho eya empumelelweni.
Yakha iThemba kunye nothando nawe
Ungumhlobo wakho osenyongweni? Lowo ngumnqweno ophakamileyo, kodwa oyimfuneko.
Ngokufanelekileyo, singathanda kwaye sikhathalele oyena mhlobo usenyongweni kakhulu njengaso nasiphi na isihlobo, ngakumbi nangakumbi. Siya kuba yinkxaso, siphakamise, kwaye sizame ukubakhona kuloo mntu xa eziva ephantsi. Sifuna ukuba bazijonge ngokwabo ngokuqinisekileyo njengoko sibajonga.
Kwaye kuba uza kuchitha bonke ubomi bakho kunye nawe, ukukhuthaza isimo esinjalo ngokwakho kunokwenza wonke umendo wobomi ube lula ngakumbi.
Wonke umntu uneempazamo ekufuneka azihambile. Ukungazithembi yenye yezinto ezininzi, kwaye akupheli kwaphela.
Kuyakuhlala kukho ilizwi elincinci emva kwentloko yakho elithandabuzayo okanye elizama ukukuqinisekisa ukuba awukwazi ukufeza iinjongo zakho.
Kodwa unako.
Unokwazi, ufanelekile, kwaye kufanelekile ukuba ufumane impumelelo njengaye wonke umntu ehlabathini.
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