Uyalazi elo lizwi lincinci entlokweni yakho ngamanye amaxesha elikuxelela ukuba awuyonto intle, okanye ukuba imeko izakuvela kakubi, ke awunakukhathazeka nokuzama?
Ewe, elo lizwi linokuba ngumthombo wentuthuzelo enkulu kwaye impembelelo , ukuba uyalivumela ithuba lokuba likhanye. Ngumba nje wokuphinda uqeqeshe elo lizwi ukuze libe yinto elungileyo.
Enye indlela esebenzayo yokwenza oko kukusebenzisa iziqinisekiso ezifanelekileyo ukwakha incoko yangaphakathi egcwele iminqweno emihle kunye nenkuthazo.
Apha ngezantsi kukho iziqinisekiso ezimbalwa onokuzama kuzo ukubona ukuba zeziphi ezizezona zihambelana nawe. Yitsho enye okanye ezimbini kubo yonke imihla ukukonyusa ukuzithemba nokuzithemba kwakho kwangoko.
Ndikufanele ukuthandwa, kwaye ndiyazithanda ngokungathandabuzekiyo
Wena.
Ewe wena.
Ungumntu omangalisayo owoyise zonke iintlobo zobunzima, kwaye uyingqayizivele, i-unicorn ekhanyayo efana nelizwe elingazange libone ngaphambili.
Ungumntu ofanelekileyo-ngakumbi kufanelekile ukuthandwa-kwaye ngubani olunge ngakumbi ukukuthanda, kunawe?
Ukuba ufuna njalo, yenza uluhlu lwazo zonke izinto ezinomtsalane ozixabisayo ngawe kwaye uziguqulele kwinto elungileyo ibhodi yombono ukuxhoma eludongeni lwakho. Sebenzisa i-glitter kunye nezincamathelisi kunye nayo nayiphi na into eyakwenza uncume ngokuqaqambileyo njengelanga xa ulijongile.
Xa sizithanda ngokungathandabuzekiyo , ukuxolela naziphi na iintlungu esizibangele zona ngaphambili, kwaye siphatha usuku ngalunye njengethuba elitsha lokukhula ngobunono kunye nokuziphendukela kwemvelo, izinto ezintle ziya kuvela.
Sima bude, sincuma ngakumbi, sinokuzithemba ngakumbi, kwaye siyakhumbula ukuba singabantu abanjani abangcwele.
Andinakuphazanyiswa, Kuba Mnye kuphela 'Mna'
Rhoqo, abantu bayakhathazeka kwaye bayazimela malunga noko bakuthatha njengeziphene zabo.
Kodwa zeziphi iziphene, ngaphandle kokungafezeki xa kuthelekiswa nomgangatho ophakathi, ofanayo? Njengokuphosa okuninzi okwenziwe ngumbumba omnye, apho ezinye zinokuqhekeka, okanye zinqunqwe, njl.
Qikelela ukuba?
Mnye kuphela nina, kwaye ngenxa yoko, awunakuthelekiswa nomnye umntu.
Esi siqinisekiso sikhulu ukuba uzifumana ubandakanyeka ekuthetheni kakubi, ngakumbi ngokubhekisele kwimbonakalo yomzimba. Siqeqeshwe kakhulu ukuba sifune kwaye sigxeke iinxalenye zethu ezingafezekanga, kodwa ngowuphi umgangatho esizama ukuzibamba ngawo?
ungahlala njani utshatile xa ungonwabanga
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, namawele afanayo ayeneyantlukwano.
Akuzange kubekho omnye umntu kwihlabathi lonke, kwaye akusayi kubakho unjalo. Nifezekile njengoko ninjalo.
NdinguKhuthazo kwabanye
Ngokuqinisekileyo zininzi izinto ozenzayo ebomini ezikhuthaza abanye. Mhlawumbi ngaphezulu kunokuba unokucinga.
Kusenokwenzeka kunzima kakhulu kuwe ngazo zonke izinto oziva ngathi awuzenzi ngokwaneleyo, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo awuziniki ikhredithi ngabo bonke ubumnandi owabelana nabo nehlabathi.
Ukuba ufuna uncedo lokukholelwa kuyo nayiphi na loo nto, zama ukubuza abantu abambalwa abakungqongileyo ukuba ingaba uyabakhuthaza nangayiphi na indlela.
Kuqinisekiswe kakhulu ukuba uya kufumana ezinye zeendlela apho ukhuthaza abanye abantu-iindlela ongakhange wazi ngazo.
Omnye umntu unokoyika ubuchule bakho bokupheka, umonde wakho njengomzali, ubuchule bakho bokuyila, okanye kwinto yokuba ubonakale kwaye ubakhona kwaye unobubele kwabanye, nokuba ulwa needemon zakho.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Iziqinisekiso ezi-6 ezinamandla zokulwa noxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo
- Iziqinisekiso ezi-6 zokuphinda kwakhona xa ucinga kakhulu
- Ukuqinisekisa ngokunyanga amaxhoba okuxhatshazwa
- Ukukhulisa ukuzithemba kwakho ngokuhamba kwexesha, yenza ezi zinto zincinci zili-10 rhoqo
- Indlela yokujongana nokungaqiniseki kwaye woyise iziphumo zayo
- Indlela oZithemba ngayo kunye nokuzithemba ngokwahlukileyo
Ndinguye Umntu onengqibelelo
Cinga ngawo onke amaxesha omele into elungileyo, nokuba ujongene nobunzima. Xa uyilandele intliziyo yakho, nenyaniso yakho, kwaye xa abanye bekugweba kakubi ngokwenza njalo.
Ingqibelelo yenza into elungileyo nokuba kungabikho mntu ubukeleyo, kwaye ndikulungele ukubheja ukwenzile ngokuchanekileyo amaxesha aliwaka ngaphezulu.
Nokuba kulula njengokugcina inkumba ekutyunyuzweni kwendlela, wenze umahluko kwindalo iphela kwenye into ephilayo.
Yiba neqhayiya ngesiqu sakho , kwaye uzikhumbuze ukuba yintoni umntu olungileyo, onesidima wena yonke imihla.
Ndanele
Uninzi lwabantu lufumene umyalezo ovela kwabanye ukuba 'baninzi kakhulu' okanye 'abonelanga.'
Omnye umntu usenokuxelelwa ngamalungu osapho, abahlobo, okanye amaqabane ukuba bayangxola, bathule kakhulu, balumke kakhulu, abalumkanga ngokwaneleyo, banqabile, basisiseko, njl.
Eyona nto kukuba, asisoze saba ngumntu ofanelekileyo wonke umntu afuna ukuba sibe yiyo, kwaye ikubo, hayi thina.
Ukuba asiphili ngokuvisisana nolindelo lomnye umntu, kungenxa yokuba banolindelo malunga nokuba bafuna ukuba sibe ngubani, kunokuba basithande kwaye basamkele njengoko sinjalo.
Wena. Ngaba. Konele.
Kanye njengokuba unjalo - namhlanje, ngomso, nangonaphakade. Nangona kunjalo, nantoni na onokuthi uyinike umhlaba, ngobuhle bakho obugqibeleleyo.
ungajongana njani ne ex yakho iqhubeke
Yithi 'Ndanele' kwisibuko sakho sokuqala ukubonakalisa into yokuqala, kwaye kwakhona nanini na xa uziva ufuna.
Yibhale esipilini ngesiphawuli ukuba ucinga ukuba oko kuya kukunceda ukhumbule, okanye isihogo, uzobe umvambo esihlahleni sakho. Nokuba ithatha ntoni ukukunceda ukhumbule ukuba uyintoni, njengokuba unjalo.
Ndiphethe iimvakalelo zam, kwaye ndikhetha ulonwabo
Iimvakalelo zizinto ezihlekisayo, kuba zihlala zibaleka ngaphakathi kuthi kwaye zibangela lonke uhlobo lwesiphithiphithi, xa eneneni singabo abaphethe ITHEM.
Batyekele ekukulibeni oku (ngesiqhelo kuba babangela ukungcangcazela ekuvukeni kwabo asinayo indlela yokubadweba ukuze baodole kwakhona).
Ngokuhlala sikhona kwaye singavumeli iimvakalelo - ngakumbi ezonakalisayo - ukuba ziphume emgceni, sinokukhetha indlela esivakalelwa ngayo… njengokonwaba.
Nantoni na ohlangabezana nayo, unokuqiniseka ukuba kukho into onokonwaba ngayo.
Ngaba uhleli ngaphakathi kubanda obubandayo okanye imini enethayo? Lithuba elifanelekileyo lokuthatha loo ncwadi ubufuna ukuyifunda, wenze ikomityi yeti, kwaye uziqhelanise nokuzikhathalela okufunekayo.
Ngaba uxinezelekile ngomsebenzi? Yintoni into oyithandayo ngomsebenzi wakho? Gxila kuloo. Kwaye njalo njalo, njalo njalo.
Ubuya kuba ngubani ukuba ukhetha ukonwaba ngoku? Ukuba uyeka zonke izinto ezibangela umsindo, unxunguphalo, ukucaphuka… zonke ezo zinto.
Zikhumbuze ukuba ukhetha ulonwabo, kwaye kungekudala zonke iiseli emzimbeni wakho ziya kudibana nolo khetho.
Ukuba naluphi na lwezi ziqinisekiso luyakunceda, nceda usazise! Okanye yabelana nawe ngokwakho kwicandelo lamagqabaza apha ngezantsi.
Uthando nokukhanya kuwe.
