Wonke umntu olapha phandle uye wafumana ukungazithembi ngaxa lithile ebomini babo. Nditsho nabantu abazithembileyo!
Abanye bakulungele ukuyifihla, abanye bayancwina kwaye bayayinyamezela, ngelixa abanye bebeka umsebenzi ukuze boyise.
Kungokwemvelo kwaye kulungile ukuziva unganqabisekanga ngamanye amaxesha. Iingxaki ziqala xa ukungazithembi kukugcina usukela uhlobo lobomi ofuna ukuhlala kulo kwaye ube ngumntu ofuna ukuba lulo.
Ndamshiya umfazi wam ndaya komnye umfazi kwaye ngoku ndiyazisola
Kufuneka ube nguwe oya kuthatha isigqibo sokuchonga ingxaki, yakha isicwangciso sokujongana nayo, kwaye uqale ukusebenza ukuyoyisa.
Uyenza njani lonto?
Chonga ukungazithembi kwaye ujonge iingcambu zayo
Umntu makachonge ukuba yintoni ingxaki ngaphambi kokuba siqale ukuyilungisa.
Kuqala, kufuneka sibeke iimvakalelo ezingaphathekiyo kumagama aphathekayo. Umntu othi, 'Ndiziva ndingakhuselekanga.' ayithethi nyani into enokwenziwa.
Zithini iimvakalelo ezingqonge ukungazithembi ngokuchanekileyo? Ngaba unovalo? Ndiyoyika? Ziva ungafaneleki okanye ayifaneleki? Ndikucacela Awunakuthembela ? Njengawe ayonelanga ngokwaneleyo ? Awuphumelelanga ngokwaneleyo? Ngaba ukuqhubela phambili ngokukhawuleza ngokwaneleyo?
Zithini iimvakalelo kunye neengcinga onazo ozibanga kukungazithembi?
Ukuchonga iimvakalelo ezijikeleze ukunganqabiseki yinxalenye enye kuphela yokulingana. Elinye icandelo lichonga ukuba zivela phi ezo mvakalelo. Nje ukuba uyiqonde loo nto, ungaqala uhlasele oyena nobangela wokungazithembi de woyise.
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Ungu uthelekisa uhambo lwakho nolwabanye ? Ngaba abahlobo bakho okanye usapho lwakho bayakuxhasa okanye baxhalabise ukuba ungubani kunye neentsilelo zakho?
Ngeliphandle, ukungazithembi okuninzi kubangelwa kukuqonda ukuba thina ngokwethu sidaliwe kwaye siqiniswe ngabanye abantu.
Ukuba ukhulele kwikhaya apho ugculelwa kwaye udelelekile kwizinto ozithandayo, izinto oziqhenyayo ngazo, izinto ozifezayo-ke awuzukuziva wonwabile okanye uxolile kunye nabo njengoko usiba mdala.
Kwangokunjalo, ukuba unabahlobo, abantu osebenza nabo, okanye iqabane elihlala likwenza uzive ungaphantsi kokufanelekayo, uyinkathazo, okanye ungafunwa- awuzukufumana lonwabo noxolo kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla.
Abanye abantu bayathanda ukunyanzelisa imo yengqondo yabo bacinga ukuba ubumele ube kuwe, kodwa ayisiyiyo ukhetho lwabo ukwenza loo nto. Yeyakho.
Kwaye ukuba ubephantsi kwala mabali ixesha elide ngokwaneleyo, emva koko uqala ukuwafaka ngaphakathi nangakumbi ude ukholelwe ukuba ungubani. Kodwa ayiyo. Awunguye abanye abantu abathi okanye abacinga ukuba unguye.
Iindlela zokuphucula ukuzijonga kunye nokungaqiniseki
Nje ukuba ufumanise oonobangela bokungazithembi kwakho, unokwenza ntoni ngako?
wazi njani ukuba uyamthanda umntu
1. Iziqinisekiso -Ukuvuma rhoqo kunye nokwenza ububele kuwe kuyindlela esebenzayo yokutshintsha ingxelo yakho yangaphakathi.
Zibhalele intetho emfutshane, uyikhumbuze, kwaye uyiphindaphinde rhoqo, ngakumbi xa uziva uphantsi okanye ungaqinisekanga ngesiqu sakho.
2. Uxolelo - Ungumntu! Uza kuthatha izigqibo ezingalunganga, uza kwenza iimpazamo, uza kwenza ubudenge ngamanye amaxesha. Injalo nje. Wonke umntu ongatshatanga wenza kuba sonke sidalwe ngendlela ephosakeleyo.
Kuneke u uzixolele xa wenze impazamo kwaye uzimisele ukwenza ngcono kwixesha elizayo. Kwaye wakube uthathe isigqibo sokuzixolela, kuya kufuneka mayiyeke ingahlali kuyo .
3. Ukuqiqa Ingqondo imalunga nokuvuka kwaye uyazi ngalo mzuzu, hayi okwenzekileyo izolo, hayi le ucinga ukuba iza ngomso.
Kuya kufuneka siyiqonde into yokuba sonke sikuluhambo olude apho sinokuthi sichaphazele ngokwenyani indawo esimi kuyo ngoku. Iimpazamo ozenzileyo izolo akufuneki zichaze ukuba uphi namhlanje, apho uya khona ngomso.
Uninzi lwempahla esichaphazelayo ngoku sisiphumo samanxeba angavulekanga exesha elidlulileyo kunye noloyiko lwekamva.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Funda Oku Xa Uziva Unqabisekile Kwaye Ungazi Kutheni
- Izizathu ezili-12 oziva uzonwabile mva nje (ngokokuba awufanele ungazihoyi)
- Izizathu ezi-7 zokuba nengqondo eninzi kunokulunga kunengqondo yokunqaba
- Iindidi ezi-9 zabahlobo ukuDibana (ngaphandle kokuziva ungalunganga)
- Ukukhulisa ukuzithemba kwakho ngokuhamba kwexesha, yenza ezi zinto zincinci zili-10 rhoqo
4. Ukubhiyozela okufezekileyo - Kuqhelekile ukuba abantu bahlale kwizinto ezingakhange zisebenze kwaye badlule ngokudlulileyo kwizinto abazenzayo. Kufuneka kubekho ulungelelwaniso apha.
Kulungile ukuba nokuzisola okuthile okanye amava entlungu Kwiimpazamo ezidlulileyo okanye ukungahambi kakuhle, kodwa kufuneka sizivume izinto ezintle ezisebomini bethu.
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Ukufezekisa yinto ekufanele ukuba uyayivuyela kwaye uyibhiyozele, kuba kukuqinisekisa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba wena kunye negalelo lakho kubalulekile.
5. Ukungaphumeleli Ngakumbi - Oko kuvakala kukubi, akunjalo? Ukungaphumeleli akukho negative. Ukusilela kuyinxalenye nje yempumelelo iyonke .
Bambalwa abantu abanethamsanqa emhlabeni abakubethelela ngokupheleleyo oko bazimisele ukukwenza kwilinge lokuqala. Kwaye amaxesha amaninzi, oko nje akwenzeki.
Abantu abaphumelelayo ngabantu abaqhubeka bezama izinto, kwaye ngokwenza njalo, bayasilela. Kodwa kulungile! Kuba njengoko uzama izinto ezininzi kunye namava okusilela, uyaqonda ukuba ayisosiphelo sehlabathi konke konke. Yenye nje indawo yohambo ngokubanzi.
Ukwabelana ngeNdawo yakho yaBantu…
Kukho intetho yakudala ethi, 'Lelona nani lilonke laba bantu uchitha nabo ixesha elininzi.'
Phicotha izangqa zakho. Thatha okuhle, ujonge ixesha elide kubantu ozingqonge kunye nabo kwaye uqiniseke ukuba banegalelo elifanelekileyo ebomini bakho nakwimpilo-ntle yakho.
Ukuba ungqongwe ngabantu abangalunganga abakuthetha kakubi, bekuthuka, kwaye bejongela phantsi iminqweno yakho kunye nemincili, uza kuba nexesha elinzima kakhulu lokwakha isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo.
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Ukwenza olo phicotho-zincwadi yinto enzima ukuyenza, ngakumbi xa uqaphela ukuba abantu obabiza ngokuba ngabahlobo bakho abasenyongweni okanye iqabane lakho bonzakalisa ngqo impilo-ntle yakho, ukubanakho ukukhula nokukhula.
Ngelishwa, inkqubo yokuziphucula ngamanye amaxesha ithetha ukuba kufuneka ubaphume ngaphandle abantu abakungqongileyo. Baninzi kakhulu abantu ehlabathini abaxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo ekubeni lusizi kwaye andonwabanga kuba yile nto bayiqhelileyo, kwaye ingcinga yokutshintsha yoyikisa .
Unokuziva ngathi ufuna ukukhuthaza okanye ukuzisa abo bantu kunye nawe, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kunokwenzeka ukuba abanye babo bangafuna ukukhula nawe, kodwa ungothusi ukuba abafuni.
Musa ukumangaliswa ukuba bahlekise okanye babuze ukuba kutheni ukhathazeka. Musa ukumangaliswa ukuba bazama ukukujongela phantsi, bakubize ngokuba usisidenge okanye okubi ngakumbi, kwaye bazame ukukwenza uzive umbi ngesiqu sakho.
Abantu bahlala bekwenza oku njengendlela yokuzikhusela kuba ukubona omnye umntu ephucula sisikhumbuzo seempazamo zabo, ukusilela kunye nokungaqiniseki. Kwaye endaweni yokuzama ukulungisa oko ngendlela esempilweni kwaye ubengcono, bayadinwa kwaye bakhethe ukuntywila kulusizi lwabo.
Isimo Esintsonkothileyo Sokuziphucula…
Injongo yokuziphucula, ukoyisa ukungazithembi, kunye nokufumana ulonwabo olukhulu yinto ephezulu kwaye kunokuba nzima kakhulu.
Ukuzama ukukhulula iimvakalelo zethu, izizathu zobukho, kunye nezizathu zokwenza izinto esizenzayo kunzima.
Ukuba ungumntu onembali eyenzakalisayo okanye ebedibene nabantu abanetyhefu ixesha elide, unokufuna uncedo ngakumbi kunamanqaku okuziphucula kwi-intanethi.
Cinga ngokujonga kumcebisi oqinisekisiweyo ukuba uziva ulahlekile okanye ungaqinisekanga ukuba ungaqhubeka njani. Nangona bengenako ukukwenzela umsebenzi, umcebisi oqinisekisiweyo unokusebenza njengesikhokelo esisebenzayo sokuhamba ngendlela yakho nangona izinto ezinzima onokuthi uzibone kwaye usinde kuzo.
