Umzimba womntu yinto entle kakhulu. Iyazilawula, igcina kakuhle, kwaye inenkqubo ephucukileyo yokusilumkisa ngokungasebenzi kakuhle. Xa ukonakala kunye nokukrazuka kwenzeka, siyakuthatha ukuze kulondolozwe.
Impilo yethu yeemvakalelo, nangona kunjalo, ifumana ingqalelo encinci.
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Ukusikwa, okungalungiswanga, kuya kusuleleka. Siyazi ukuba yinyani. Ke asiyivumeli loo nto ukuba yenzeke. Sicoce inxeba, silibophe, kwaye ukuba kubi ngokwaneleyo, yiya kugqirha.
Kodwa ukukhathazeka kwentliziyo okanye ukudana? Owu, siyazivumela ezo ukuba zikhule! Siza kuphuma senze ngathi akukho monakalo, kwaye xa ukwenzakala ngokweemvakalelo kusiba kubi okanye kusasazeka kwezinye iindawo zobomi bethu, nathi siyakuyihoya loo nto.
Nazi iindlela ezili-13 apho intlungu yeemvakalelo inzima kakhulu kunentlungu yomzimba (ukungayigxothi intlungu engabalulekanga kuyo nayiphi na indlela):
1. Ukuphindaphinda Intlungu
Intlungu yeemvakalelo inokuphinda ihlale ngaphezulu nangaphezulu ngaphandle kokuthomalalisa iintlungu okanye iimpawu. Rhoqo, kokukhona sijonga kakhulu iintlungu ezithile zeemvakalelo, kokukhona kuya kusiba kubi ngakumbi.
2. Unobangela Ongaziwayo
Intlungu yomzimba ihlala inesizathu esicacileyo. Intlungu yeemvakalelo inokuba yinto enamafu egcwele ukujija kunye neetangule ezithintela ukubonwa kwesizathu esingunobangela.
3. Ukuphila ixesha elide
Usizi luyanyamezela. Ingalo eyaphukileyo iya kuseta emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa. Intliziyo eyaphukileyo ingabonakala ingapheli.
4. Ukuzilawula
Kukho inqanaba lokuzibamba xa kufikwa kwintlungu yeemvakalelo. Ngomzimba, samkela kwangoko ukuba ukugula okanye uxinzelelo kuyakwenzeka ziyinxalenye yobomi bomntu. Nangona kunjalo sicinga ukuba kufanelekile ukuba sikhululwe kwiintlungu zomphefumlo, kwaye ke xa siyifumana, siyazicaphukisa ngenxa yokunqongophala kokuqaqanjelwa.
Ukuzilungisa akuzange kugcine ingalo ekuphiliseni, kodwa yenziwe ngaphezu kwesabelo sayo esilungileyo ngokuchasene nemiphefumlo kunye neengqondo.
5. Isithunzi esinzima
Intlungu yeemvakalelo izisa kuyo yonke indawo, ilifu elingabonakaliyo. Intlungu yomzimba ithambekele ekuphembeleleni uvelwano kwangoko, kodwa siyakholelwa ukuba iintlungu zethu zithwala ibala lomhla wokuphelelwa: usizi akufuneki luhlale ixesha elide lungaqondakali ngaphandle kokuba ubeka ukuphoxeka ebusweni kuhambelana nendlela obufuna ngayo into ethile ayiphumelelanga ukuyiphumeza ngenxa yokusilela kwakho.
Ubunzima, ubunzima obungabonakaliyo esicinga ukuba abanye bafumba phezu kweentlungu zethu zengqondo / zeemvakalelo zokulibaziseka okanye ukuphazamisa ngokupheleleyo ukuphilisa kwethu.
6. Utshintsho
Ngaphandle kwezifo ezosulelayo, iintlungu zomzimba zikhawulelwe kuwe. Intlungu yeemvakalelo idluliselwa ngokulula kwabanye. Oku kwenzeka ngeendlela ezininzi zengqondo, kodwa eyona ixhaphakileyo yile Ukufuduswa , apho sidlulisela khona iimvakalelo ezimbi komnye umntu okanye kwenye into kunokuba sijongane nesizathu sokuqala (kwaye, xa sijongana, sinokuphilisa ngokukhawuleza okanye siphephe ukwenzakala ngokupheleleyo).
7. Ukulindela kwangaphambili
Siyoyika inaliti njengoko isondela, kodwa yakuba iphelile, yenziwe. Ukulindelwa kwentlungu engokweemvakalelo (yithi, ukwahlukana nomthandi okanye ukuwa kunye nomhlobo) kudala amazwe amade okungaxoli akhokelele kwintlungu ekulindelweyo, emva koko yomeleza ukuba iintsuku zentlungu, iinyanga, okanye neminyaka emva komsitho.
8. Ukungalindeleki
Intlungu yeemvakalelo inokubetha, iphume, okanye iphinde yenzeke nangaliphi na ixesha, nkqu nangeentsuku oziva ukhuseleke ngazo ngokwasemoyeni. Into encinci encinci inamandla kubangela uqhambuko lweemvakalelo , into engadibaniyo nembangi yoqobo kangangokuba nomhla ocacileyo wehlobo unokukufihla.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- 3 Imigaqo yokunyanga inxeba engokweemvakalelo
- Ukudakumba okukhoyo: Ungazoyisa njani iimvakalelo zakho zokungabinantsingiselo
- Kutheni ungalunganga ukukholelwa ukuba ufanele ukuziva ubuhlungu
- Iimpawu ezi-8 eziqaqambileyo Utyhilekile ngokwasemoyeni nangokweemvakalelo
9. Ubuhlungu Phantom
Ngamaxesha athile, iintlungu oziva ngathi ayizizo ezakho. Uvelwano, uvelwano, isimilo esisisiseko sabantu-zonke ezi zinto zinokusifaka kwintlungu yeemvakalelo zabanye, zisishiye senzakele, sididekile, kwaye sisoyika de iimvakalelo zidlule.
10. Umlutha
Mhlawumbi eyona ndlela imangalisayo yokuba intlungu yeemvakalelo imbi ngaphezu kweentlungu zomzimba ngumgangatho wokulutha ohamba nokuziva ungalunganga. Ewe, kukho abo bonwabela iintlungu zomzimba, kodwa baninzi kakhulu kunendlela ngabo bafumana uhlobo olungaqhelekanga lwentuthuzelo ngovelwano lwabanye.
Kwiimeko ezigabadeleyo olu hlobo lomntu lunotyekelo lokuhlala ngandlela thile lusuka kuxinzelelo lweemvakalelo luye kolunye.
11. Okulindelekileyo ekuhlaleni
Ngenxa yokuba iintlungu ezingokweemvakalelo azibonakali, sicinga ukuba kufana nomoya: okhoyo, kodwa into ekungafuneki ukuba siyicinge. Silindele ukuba i-nebulous kwaye ingachaphazeli nayiphi na into ebomini bethu, okt imisebenzi yethu, ubudlelwane bethu, okanye naziphi na iintshukumo zemihla ngemihla ekufuneka sizenzile.
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Oku “kuyishukumise kwaye kusebenze ngokwesiqhelo” ukuqhubela phambili kwezentlalo kukhokelela kwiimvakalelo zentloni kunye nokungonelisi xa iintlungu zemvakalelo zibambelele ngokuqinileyo ukuba zingashukunyiswa zisuswe, zandisa imeko esele ingazinzanga.
Ukanti akukho mntu 'uhlunguzela' iliso elicwecwe, ubambo oluphukileyo, okanye iingxaki zeswekile.
12. Ukwenzakala okunganyangwa
Ngelishwa, iintlungu zomphefumlo zihlala ziphathwa njengophawu lobuthathaka, kungoko sizama ukufumana iindlela zokungahoyi okanye ukungcwaba iintlungu zethu, ezingenzi nto ngaphandle kokunyusa amanqanaba oxinzelelo (athi emva koko achaphazele impilo yomzimba).
Kuyamangalisa ukuba kule minyaka yethu inkqubela phambili engalinganiyo yenzululwazi kunye nokuqonda okutsha kwe uqhagamshelo lomzimba / lwengqondo Unyango, iingcebiso, okanye nokucamngca nje ngokulula kuyaqhubeka ukuphatha amabala. Ngenxa yala mabala, abantu abaninzi abalufuni uncedo xa ubomi buzisa kwisimo esiphantsi ngokweemvakalelo.
Inyaniso kukuba, sonke sinokusebenzisa uncedo oluthile lweemvakalelo, lwengqondo nolokomoya. Nokuba wenzakele ngokungabonakaliyo, akukho hlazo ekufuneni ukuphilisa. Ukwazi ukuba unako-kwaye uya kuphilisa kunceda.
13. AbangaBeki ndawo
Intlungu yomzimba idla ngokulula. Ukuba ingalo yakho ibuhlungu, uyazi ukuba yeyiphi, kwaye ayibangeli ukuba enye ingalo yakho yenzeke. Ukuba unengqele uyazi ukuba ngawaphi amalungu omzimba anokuchaphazeleka.
Intlungu yeemvakalelo, nangona kunjalo, igqobhozela ngaphandle kwikona nganye yomzimba wakho uphela. Ukubandezeleka ngokweemvakalelo kuya kubangela intloko ebuhlungu, umqolo obuhlungu, iingxaki zokwetyisa, iingxaki zokulala, ukunqongophala kwengqwalaselo, ukukhathazeka ngokwesini…
Intlungu Yintlungu
Intlungu yeemvakalelo iyinyani njengentlungu yomzimba. Yimveliso yomonakalo wangaphandle kanye njengomnwe osikiweyo. Wonke umntu uva iintlungu zomphefumlo wonke umntu uphilisa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo kunye namaxabiso ahlukeneyo, ngokufanayo neenkqubo zomzimba zokuzivuselela kunye nokuzihlaziya zisebenza ukuphilisa ukonakala komzimba.
Xa sizikhulula kwinkohliso yokuba kufanele ukuba somelele xa kuziwa kuxinzelelo lweemvakalelo, okanye ukuba iintlungu ezingokweemvakalelo “konke kusengqondweni,” siyazivumela ukuba sibe ngabantu endaweni yokusikwa kwekhadibhodi ekungafunwanga ukuba sikhale, umsindo , okanye ndiziva ndidandathekile.
Mhlawumbi eyona nto ilusizi kukuba intlungu yeemvakalelo imbi ngaphezu kweentlungu zomzimba kukuba sishiya iintlungu zangaphandle ngaphandle xa, ngokunyanisekileyo, iphilisa ngokukhawuleza kwinkampani nakwiziko labo banenkathalo.
