Ungamncoma njani uMfana (+ 40 oMncomo oBalaseleyo waMadoda)

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Ungamncoma njani uMfana: Izinto ezi-8 zokuzigcina engqondweni

Xa uncoma indoda-nokuba yinkwenkwe yakho, umphathi wakho, okanye umhlobo wakho-iya kuba nefuthe elihle kakhulu ukuba ulandela ezi ngcebiso.

1. Yenze inyani kwaye inyaniseke.

Xa kuziwa kuncoma, abantu bahlala bexela xa umntu enganyanisekanga ngokupheleleyo.

Kwaye ukufumana ukuncoma okungeyonyani kunokwenzeka ukuba kube nefuthe elichaseneyo nomfana kunoko unethemba lokuphumelela.

Ke sukuzibaxa iinkcukacha, ungaqhuli, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo musa ukuxoka.

Abafana bayathanda ukuva izinto abanokuzikholelwa. Kufuneka kubekho inyani emva koncomo kwaye kufuneka inikezelwe ngendlela yokwenyani kunye nenyanisekileyo.

2. Yenze icace.

Ukuncoma okuqhelekileyo kulungile, kodwa ukumenza ayeke kwaye ayixabise into oyithethileyo, khankanya into ethile.

'Ukhangeleka umhle,' ayonto imbi ukuyithetha, kodwa, 'Ukhangeleka umhle kakhulu kuleya shirt yombala,' isebenza ngakumbi.

indlela yokwenza umntu azive ebalulekile

Inika indoda into ekufuneka ijonge kuyo. Ukuba konke okwenzayo kuthetha ukuba ujongeka kanjani emhle, akazokuyazi kakuhle into oyithandayo.

3. Gxila kwizinto azithandayo.

Ukuba uyazi ukuba umfana wenza umzamo othile kwinto ethile, yinto elungileyo ukubheja ukuba angathanda ukuva amagama amnandi ngayo.

Rhoqo le iya kuba yinxalenye yendlela akhangeleka ngayo, njengomzimba wakhe wemisipha okanye isimbo sakhe.

Kodwa isenokuba yinto enxulumene netalente okanye uphawu analo azingcayo ngalo, njengezakhono zakhe zokupheka okanye uburharha obukhawulezayo.

4. Kodwa uncoma amanye amanqaku akhe amahle.

Inokuba yinto entle kakhulu ukuva amagama aqinisekileyo malunga nenxalenye ethile yethu engaqinisekanga ngayo - okanye into esingazange siyithathele ingqalelo kwasekuqaleni.

Ezi ntlobo zokuncoma zinokubonelela nangakumbi ukonyusa ukuzithemba kwendoda.

Baza kumqinisekisa ukuba uyathandwa, kungekuphela ngenxa yeempawu zakhe ezibalaseleyo, kodwa ngenxa yomntu wonke.

Qiniseka nje ukuba ugcine engqondweni incam yokuqala kwaye wenze ukuncoma kwakho kuyinyani kwaye kunyanisekile.

5. Jonga indlela akwenza uzive ngayo.

Ukuba uncoma umntu othandana naye okanye umyeni wakho, kunokuba luncedo ukukhankanya indlela akwenza uzive ngayo.

Amadoda amaninzi athanda ukuziva efuneka, kwaye ukunconywa okufanelekileyo kunokunceda koku.

Ungathi, “Ndiyayithanda indlela o…” okanye, “Ndiziva njalo… nawe,” okanye, “Undenza ndizive njalo…”

Ezi ntlobo zokuncoma zibonisa umfo ifuthe abanalo kuwe, elinokuthi libanike zonke iintlobo zeemvakalelo ezilungileyo malunga nabo.

6. Ukuncoma okungalindelekanga kulungile.

Ngokuqinisekileyo kukho ibhalansi eza kubethwa phakathi kokuncoma kunye nokuncoma okuninzi.

Bambalwa kakhulu kwaye unokuziva ngathi awukhathali ngokwaneleyo. Zininzi kakhulu kwaye usenokungabakholelwa.

Enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokuqinisekisa ukuba uyakholelwa kukwenza izimvo zakho zingalindelekanga.

Xa esiva into entle ngaye ephuma eblowu, iya kufikelela nzulu kunokuba uthetha izinto ezintle kwezo meko zicace gca.

Mbambe ngononophelo 'Unoncumo olunobubele,' kwaye intliziyo yakhe iya kunyibilika.

7. Gqiba ngendlela oza kuyenza ngayo into yokuncoma.

Ngokubanzi, ukuncoma okwenziwe ngobuqu kuyeyona nto isebenzayo.

Emva koko unokufunda imbonakalo yobuso bakho, ulwimi lomzimba wakho, kunye nezinye iindlela zokuthetha.

Ncuma uze umjonge emehlweni xa usitsho. Oku kuya kumqinisekisa ukuba amazwi akho ayinyani.

Ukuba awukwazi ukuyenza ngobuqu, isicatshulwa sinokusebenza ngokukuko, njengoko kunjalo nangeleta esuka entliziyweni.

Ngeetekisi, unokunqwenela ukunqanda ukuncoma komzimba. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kunqabile ukuba nefuthe elifanayo ukuba awukho ngokwenene kuye.

Endaweni yoko, hone kwezinye zeenkcukacha ezivela kwincoko yakho.

Mhlawumbi ukuxelela ngomthengi onzima ebemsebenzela emsebenzini-ungamncoma ngomonde wakhe.

Okanye mhlawumbi ukhankanya ukuba umnceda njani umhlobo wakhe ngeprojekthi ye-DIY- ungatsho ukuba ulunge kangakanani okanye unesisa kangakanani, okanye ungumhlobo onjani.

Kwileta, ungabaleka uncoma ngokwasemzimbeni ngakumbi.

Masijongane nayo, ukuba umbhalela into ebaluleke ngakumbi, kunokwenzeka ukuba kukho isizathu esilungileyo sayo (umzekelo, ngumhla wokuzalwa kwakhe, isikhumbuzo sakho, uSuku lukaTata, okanye mhlawumbi kuba umgama omde ngoku).

Kwezi ntlobo zezihlandlo, ileta okanye umyalezo ekhadini unokubandakanya izincomo ezininzi ezinxulumene nazo zonke izinto ozithandayo ngaye.

8. Musa ukuloba ngenjongo yokuncoma.

Ukuncoma kukubonisa ukunconywa. Ayizizo iihaksi zokuloba ngazo amagama amnandi malunga nawe.

Ukuba kuphela kwesizathu sokuba ufuna ukuncoma umfana kukuba akuncome kwakhona, ayizukunyaniseka kangako, akunjalo?

Yitsho kuye yedwa. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokufumana imvakalelo efudumeleyo kuyo, kodwa loo nto yinto nje emnandi ephuma kwimveliso. Injongo yakho yokwenyani kufuneka ibe kukumenza azive emhle ngaye.

Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):

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Ngoku ukuba uyazi ukuba ungamncoma njani umfana, makhe sihlolisise ezinye zezona zincomo ungamnika zona.

Ukuncoma ngenkangeleko yakhe.

1. Iinwele zakho zinjalo namhlanje -Ngakumbi ukuba iinwele zakhe ziyinxalenye enkulu yesitayile sakhe.

2. Ihempe leyo ikhupha iblue emehlweni akho - isebenza ngamehlo aluhlaza, nayo, kodwa hayi kakhulu emdaka.

3. Ndiyazithanda iindevu / iindiza / iindevu zakho, zikwenza ubukeke uyindoda kakhulu - amadoda athanda ukubonakala eyindoda.

4. Ulusu lwakho lubonakala lukhulu -Ngokuba amadoda anokungazithembi kolusu, uyazi.

5. Unganxiba nantoni na uyenze ibonakale intle - abanye abantu bahambelana nazo zonke iindlela.

xa umfana efuna ukukugcina uyimfihlo

6. Wow, ungatsho ngenene ukuba ubeke umzamo kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, ezo zingalo zakho ziyamangalisa - okanye ii-pecs okanye iipakethi ezintandathu…

7. Uncumo lwakho yeyona nto yamkelekileyo endakha ndayibona -Abanye abantu banoncumo oluhle ngokwendalo.

8. Unuka kamnandi - kulungile, ke ayisiyiyo ngqo malunga nokubonakala kwakhe, kodwa ikwimithambo efanayo.

9. Ndiyayithanda indlela oziphatha ngayo - kubafana abame bade kwaye bagcina iintloko zabo ziphakamile.

10. Yiloo tattoo epholileyo -Uze ubuze ukuba yintoni ebenze bafumana olo uyilo.

Ukuncoma ngobuntu bakhe.

1. Unesimo sengqondo esihle kwaye sinomtsalane - uhlala ejonge kwicala eliqaqambileyo lobomi?

2. Uzimisele kwaye ukhuthazekile ukwenza into ebomini bakho kwaye ndiyazi ukuba akukho nto iyokuma endleleni yakho -Akuhlaziyi na ukubona umfana onovuko kunye nohambo oluncinci?

3. Ukhululekile nje ukuba ungubani, endikuthandayo - kubafana abanokuzithemba okuphezulu.

4. Unengqondo ephangaleleyo malunga nezinto - luphawu oluhle ukuba nalo.

5. Awoyiki ukuthatha umngcipheko kwaye uphume ngaphandle kwendawo yakho yokuthuthuzela -Ilungile ngokwenene koosomashishini.

6. Awunaloyiko nje, akukho nto ikhangeleka ngathi iyakothusa - ngulo wayeya kungena emngxunyeni weenyoka ngaphandle kokuqhwanyaza iliso?

7. Uyahlekisa, andazi ukuba uyenza njani -Ngoyena mntu uhlekisayo ebomini bakho.

8. Unxibelelana kakhulu neemvakalelo zakho -Ndoda engoyikiyo ukubonisa icala layo elibuthathaka.

Ngaba ndifanele ndiyiphelise imibuzo yam yolwalamano

9.Ungoyena mntu wonwabileyo ukuba ubekunye naye -Ngaba wenza umsitho pop kunye nosizi ngokubonisa nje?

10. Ungoyena mntu unesisa endaziyo - ngaba ungumnikeli kuyo yonke into ayenzayo?

Ukuncoma ngezenzo zakhe.

1. Indlela owawusingathe ngayo loo meko yayintle ngokwenene - ukuba ugcine epholile phantsi kweemeko ezinzima.

2. Ungumphulaphuli obalaseleyo, kwaye ndiyayixabisa ngokwenene loo nto kuwe - ngaba uyakwazi ukuvala umlomo wakhe aze avule iindlebe zakhe? Ayingabo bonke abantu abanako.

3. Ndiyazi ukuba ndinokuthembela kuni xa nifumana iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo kuyo nayiphi na imeko - uya kuye kubulumko bakhe xa ungazi ukuba wenzeni?

4. Ndiyazingca ngendlela o [faka ngayo into ayenzileyo ukuphucula yena kunye nobomi bakhe - umz. uyekile ukutshaya, wenza ukuba ishishini lakho libe yimpumelelo] - kuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba unebhongo ngaye.

5. Wowu, wenze umsebenzi omkhulu nyani ka [faka into ayenze kakuhle, umz. ukuhombisa igumbi, ukupheka isidlo] - kulungile ukwazi ukuba iinzame zakhe ziyaxatyiswa.

6. Undiphatha ngenkathalo enkulu nentlonipho, ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na indoda endakha ndadibana nayo Ngaba unomdla kuzo zonke iimfuno zakho?

7. Uyamangalisa kakhulu nabantwana, ungutata omkhulu - ukuba ungutata (ngokwendalo okanye ngenye indlela), oku kuya kuthetha lukhulu kuye.

8. Ndiyayithanda indlela ozama ngayo ukuba nefuthe elihle kuyo yonke into nakubo bonke abantu abakungqongileyo - uhlala efuna iindlela zokwenza umhlaba ube yindawo engcono?

9. Enkosi ngokwenza umzamo onjalo, uyayazi indlela yokwenza umntu azive ethandwa -Xa esiya eziphelweni zehlabathi, esenzela into entle.

10. ndiyoyika indlela [ufaka i-feat yomtsalane yomzimba- umz. baleka loo marathon, banobuchule ngebhasikithi] Ngaba unamandla, unyamezelo, okanye italente ngokwasemzimbeni?

“Undenza ndizive……” ukuncoma ukumnika.

1. Ndiziva ndikhuselekile xa ndikunye nawe - ukuba uyakukhusela kwaye akukhathalele.

2. Undenza ndizive ngathi ndikwi-adventure enkulu - xa ubomi kunye naye bungadinisi.

3. Ndiyayithanda indlela endinokuhlala ngayo ndikungqongile - xa esamkela ngokupheleleyo yonke into oyiyo.

4. Uyayazi indlela yokwenza ukuba intombazana izive intle -Ukuncoma umfana olungileyo ekunikezeleni ukuncoma.

5. Kukho into ngawe eyenza ndibambe kwaye ndikwange - ukuba nje unamandla kwaye uyathandeka.

6. Undenza ndizive ngathi ndingafezekisa nantoni na - xa umntu ekuxhasa ngalo lonke ixesha lokujika.

7. Ndiziva ndikhululekile xa ndikunye nawe - xa eyazi indlela yokukunceda ulibale iinkxalabo zakho kwaye uphole nje.

8. Ndinethamsanqa lokuba nawe ebomini bam -Umfana onefuthe elikhulu kuwe.

9. Ndiziva ndiphefumlelwe nguwe -Ukuba ungumzekelo kuwe ngezinto azenzayo.

10. Ndihlala ndinomdla kangaka kuwe - ukuba uthetha izinto ezinomdla kwaye ubalisa amabali anomdla.

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