Uyalixabisa iqabane lakho.
Awuyi kufunda le nto ngenye indlela.
Kodwa uyazibuza ukuba yeyiphi eyona ndlela ibalaseleyo yokubabonisa uxabiso lwakho.
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Zininzi iindlela zokuba ubazise indlela onombulelo ngayo ngokuba nazo ebomini bakho.
Ezi ngcebiso zilandelayo ziqinisekisa ukuba uyababona, uyabeva, uyabazi, kwaye ubathanda kwaye ubakhathalele.
1. Baxelele.
Ngamanye amaxesha kungcono ukungazicombululi izinto.
Nokuba ungumfana wakho, intombi, umyeni, okanye inkosikazi yakho, indlela elula yokubonisa uxabiso kukufumana amagama afanelekileyo kwaye uwathethe.
Into elula 'Enkosi' yindawo elungileyo ukuqala, kodwa unokufuna ukongeza kancinci, njenge:
“Enkosi, ndiyayibulela kakhulu loo nto. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uyenze, kodwa iyandikhumbuza ukuba ungumntu onobubele nothando. '
Thetha nje ngokusuka entliziyweni.
2. Babhalele inqaku lombulelo.
Indlela emnandi ngokwenene yokubulela kumntu omthandayo kukubabhalela inqaku elincinci kwaye ulishiye kwenye indawo baya kuyibona.
Mhlawumbi ungayilahla kwisidlo sasemini esipakishiweyo okanye ecaleni kwebhukumaki kuyo nayiphi na into abayifundayo ngoku.
Inqaku likuvumela ukuba uthethe ngaphezulu kunokuba unokwenza xa uthetha nabo kwaye kukunika ixesha lokucinga malunga nento ofuna ukuyithetha kunokuba uphambanise amagama alungileyo ngalo mzuzu.
3. Chitha ixesha kunye nabo.
Akukho kwanto ekhalayo, 'ndikuthatha kancinci!' ngaphezulu kokuchitha lonke ixesha lakho lasimahla kude neqabane lakho.
Kodwa zimbalwa izinto ezithi, 'Ndiyakuxabisa.' ngaphezulu kokuchitha ixesha elinomgangatho kunye nabo.
Kuhle ukuba unabahlobo kunye nezinto ozithandayo, kodwa kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba nobabini banexesha elaneleyo lokugcina unxibelelwano lwakho kunye nolothando.
4. Gxila kwizinto abazithandayo nakwizinto abanomdla kuzo.
Ukuba ufuna ukubonisa umntu omxabisileyo, zibuze ukuba yeyiphi eyona nto bayonwabileyo kwaye uyenze inxenye yoko ubenzela kona.
Ngaba bangumntu okhutheleyo othanda iilali? Qesha ezinye iibhayisikile kwaye ucwangcise indlela ethatha indawo yobuhle bendawo.
Ngaba banalo iqela lezemidlalo abalithandayo? Thenga amatikiti omdlalo ozayo uhambe nawo.
Ukuba bayazithanda iinoveli zemizobo, bathathe baye kwindibano.
Oku kubonisa ukuba ubazi kakuhle kwaye uyayithanda indlela abazithanda ngayo ngezi zinto.
5. Yiba nomsa.
Uninzi lwabantu luthanda ukuwola, kodwa wagqibela nini ukunika iqabane lakho elinye?
Ukubabonisa uthando nako kubonisa ukuba bayalixabisa.
Ithi, 'Ndifuna ukusondela kuwe kuba ubalulekile kum.'
Yenza ixesha lokuwolana, ukwanga, ukubambana ngezandla, okanye ukuphathwa kamnandi kwentamo / umva / ibhu.
6. Banyamekele ngemisebenzi yabo yasekhaya.
Ubudlelwane bahlala kubandakanya ukwabelana ngemisebenzi, kodwa ungabonisa indlela onombulelo ngayo ngokuba nomntu ebomini bakho ngokuthatha imisebenzi yabo rhoqo.
Ukuba bahlala becoca igumbi lokuhlambela okanye bashenxisa i-dishwasher, yenza nje ezi zinto ngokwakho.
Oku kubanika ixesha elithe kratya ngakumbi lokuphumla nokuzonwabisa.
Ukwazisa kananjalo ukuba awuyithathi kancinci into abayenzayo.
7. Zithengele iintyatyambo.
Ewe, yeyona ndlela yakudala yokubulela umntu, kodwa iyasebenza kakhulu.
Ukunika iqabane lakho iintyatyambo- kwaye ngaphandle kokufuna ukuba neentlobano zesini, kusenokwenzeka ukuba kunesona siphumo sikhulu kwabasetyhini- yinto emangalisayo.
Iintyatyambo zihle kwaye zibonisa ubuhle obubonayo kwiqabane lakho (yinto entle ukuyithetha, nawe, ukuba uyazibuza).
wazi njani xa unikezela ngephupha
8. Bancome.
Abantu bayathanda ukuva izinto ezintle zithethwa ngabo - yindalo iphela.
Isenza sincume kwaye inyusa ukuzithemba kwethu.
Lincome iqabane lakho- hayi kuphela ngendlela abajongeka ngayo, kodwa ngokuba bangoobani kunye neempawu ozithandayo kubo.
Bancome ngezinto abaye baphumelela kuzo, nokuba kungumsebenzi onxulumene nomsebenzi okanye utshintsho kwindlela yokuphila abebezama ukuyenza.
Kwaye, ukuba ucinga ukuba abanokuziva bengakhululekanga, yitsho ezi zinto zimnandi malunga nabo phambi kwabanye abantu ukubonisa ukuba uzingce ngabo.
9. Mababe nobuxoki ngaphakathi.
Oku kubaluleke kakhulu kubazali babantwana abancinci.
Ukuba ngesiqhelo uyatshintshana ukuze uxoke ngeempelaveki, thatha elinye iqela kwaye uvuke kwangoko kunye nabantwana bakho (ngoMgqibelo) nangeCawa.
Into yokuba uzimisele ukuncama ixesha elibalulekileyo le-duvet bubungqina obaneleyo bokuba uyabaxabisa nayo yonke into abayenzela wena nosapho lwakho.
10. Benzele isidlo sakusasa ebhedini.
Le inxibelelana nenqaku langaphambili.
Ukuba ubavumela ukuba balale ebhedini ithutyana ngelixa uvuka, kutheni ungasebenzisi elo xesha ngokudibanisa isidlo sakusasa esimnandi?
Cinga ngento abanokuyithanda- mhlawumbi amaqanda afakwe kwi-toast kunye nesaladi yeziqhamo esitsha.
Okanye Qhotsa ibhekoni, uyibeke kumqolo omnandi kwaye ucofe kwi-ketchup ethile!
Emva koko yise kubo ebhedini.
11. Thatha umdla kubomi babo.
Kuyavakala ukuba umntu abuze ukuba sinjani kwaye kuqhubeka ntoni ebomini bethu.
Kuyinto emnandi ngakumbi xa loo mntu ekhumbula izinto esakhe sabaxelela zona ngaphambili kwaye usibuza ngazo.
Yenza ezi zinto kwiqabane lakho kwaye baya kuyazi ukuba uyikhathalele intlalontle yabo ngengqondo ebanzi.
12. Mamela iingxaki zabo ngenyameko.
Inxalenye yenqaku langaphambili liya kubandakanya ukuba yindawo yokubakhupha okanye yokurhabaxa okanye yokuthulula imicimbi yabo.
Xa banezinto abajongana nazo okanye abasebenza ngazo, baya kufuna umntu wokubamamela.
Bafuna ukuziva beviwa kwaye bazi ukuba iingxaki zabo zibalulekile nakuwe.
Zama ukungazithatheli phantsi iimvakalelo zabo ngokuwuthatha kancinci umcimbi, kodwa baqinisekise ukuba ukhona ukubaxhasa ngale nto.
13. Bothuse ngobusuku obungaphandle.
Izibini zihlala ziwela kwiindlela, kwaye le ayisiyonto imbi nokuba yeyiphi na indlela.
Kodwa kulungile ukuphuma kwezi ngamanye amaxesha ngokwenza into ethe kratya ngakumbi.
Rhoqo, kutheni ungaphathi iqabane lakho kubusuku nje. Oku kunokubandakanya isidlo sangokuhlwa, iziselo, umboniso, imovie, ikonsathi- nantoni na ocinga ukuba bangayonwabela kakhulu.
Akudingeki ukuba ibe yinto eyenzeka rhoqo okanye inokulahleka, kodwa qho, bonisa ukuba uyabaxabisa ngokulungiselela ubusuku (okanye usuku) ngaphandle.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Indlela yokwenza iqabane lakho lizive libalulekile, likhethekileyo, kwaye lithandwa
- Iindlela ezingama-39 ezithandekayo nezithandwayo zokumangalisa intombi yakho
- Uyibhala njani ileta yothando eya kuthi ibenze balile iinyembezi
- I-30 Hlala Ekhaya Umhla Izimvo zasebusuku zeZibini ezonwabileyo
14. Pheka ukutya abakuthandayo (okanye ukuthatha iodolo).
Ukuba ubusuku ngaphandle yinto yokugcina umkhono wakho amaxesha ambalwa ngonyaka, ukubeka ukutya kwabo abakuthandayo kwipleyiti yinto yokwenza rhoqo.
Ukuba uyapheka, zenzele ngokwakho (ukuba awupheki, ungasoloko uzama).
Ukuba kulula, vele ulandele ukuthatha. Unokufumana intombazana entle kakhulu onokucinga ukuba uyayihambisa emnyango kwezi ntsuku.
Oku kubonisa ukuba ubazi kakuhle kwaye ufuna ukuba bonwabe kuba befanelekile.
15. Beka i-movie ocinga ukuba bayayithanda.
Ukuncamathela kumxholo wokubazi kwaye ufuna ukuba bonwabe, kutheni ungakhethi imovie oza kuyibukela ngobusuku obunye owaziyo ukuba bangayonwabela.
Okanye banike ukhetho lwezinto ezimbalwa ukuba awuqinisekanga ngento abasele beyibonile.
Kwakhona, ubeka phambili ukonwaba kwabo luphawu olucacileyo lokuba uyabaxabisa.
Okanye ukuba awunalo ixesha lomdlalo bhanyabhanya, mabakhethe ukuba babukele ntoni kumabonwakude nokuba oko kuthetha ukuba kufuneka unyamezele into ongayithandi ngokobuqu.
16. Beka umculo wabo abawuthandayo.
Kwinqaku elifanayo, ukuba nobabini nibumba nje indlu, kutheni ungafaki umculo abawuthandayo?
Kuyafana nakohambo lwendlela-ukuba kuya kufuneka uqhube kwenye indawo, unokwenza uluhlu lokudlala lweengoma abanokuziqinisa emotweni.
Zizinto ezincinci ezinje ngezi ezenza ukuba umntu azive ekhathalelwe.
17. Banike umyalezo.
Ukuba babenemini yoxinzelelo okanye baziva kancinci phantsi kwemozulu, bavuselele ngokubanika umyalezo.
Umqala kunye nokuthanjiswa kwamagxa kulungile ekupheliseni uxinzelelo kwaye kunokunceda kwintloko nayo.
Ukuthanjiswa kweenyawo kuya kusebenza ngendlela emangalisayo ukuba bebekhe bame ngenyawo imini yonke.
Okanye hamba yonke ihagu kwaye ubanike umzimba opheleleyo njengoko belele apho kwaye baphumle.
Ndifuna nje ukuziva ndifuna
Baxelele ukuba uyabakhumbula.
Nanini na xa nahlukene ngaphezu kosuku okanye ezimbini, musani ukoyika ukuxelela umntu omthandayo ukuba uyabakhumbula.
Oku kunxibelelana nabo ukuba uxabise kangakanani ukuba nazo ebomini bakho.
Ibabonisa ukuba awubathathi lula kwaye ubomi bakho buphuculwe bubukho babo.
19. Kholwa kubo.
Umlingane wakho uya kuba neenjongo ezininzi kunye namaphupha. Oku kubalulekile kubo, ke kufanelekile ukuba bakukhathalele.
Baxhase njengoko befuna ukufezekisa izinto, nokuba kukwikhondo labo, impilo yabo, okanye enye into.
Baxelele kwaye ubabonise ukuba uyakholelwa kubo, ubuchule babo, kunye nolweyiseko lwabo.
Buza iingcebiso zabo.
Ukuba awuqinisekanga ngento omawuyenze kwimeko ethile, babuze ngayo.
Ngokuya kubo ukuze ufumane iingcebiso, ubonisa ukuba ubathembile. Uthi uluvo lwabo lubaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
Oku kubonisa ukuba uyabaxabisa ngokubeka ixabiso kwiingcinga zabo, izimvo zabo kunye nezimvo zabo.
21. Buyisela.
Xa iqabane lakho likwenzela into entle, nokuba incinci kangakanani, thatha ixesha lokucinga ngendlela onokuthi uhlawule ngayo.
Oko akufuneki kube kwangoko, kodwa ngokuphindaphinda isenzo esithile somnye nomnye, wakha isangqa sokwazisa omnye nomnye.
Unokufuna ukuphinda ujonge amanye amanqaku angentla apha ukuba ubambekile kwizimvo.
22. Bathumele abahlobo bakho ngamanye amaxesha.
Ngamanye amaxesha eyona ndlela yokubonisa umntu ukuba uxabiseke kangakanani kubo kukuyihlonipha imfuno yabo yokuba nobomi babo.
Oku kuthetha ukucebisa kubo ukuba lixesha lokuba baphume bayeke iinwele zabo kunye nabahlobo babo.
Oku kusebenza ngakumbi ukuba uyazi ukuba iqabane lakho likubeka phambili wena nosapho lwakho kuyo yonke enye into.
Ithi, 'Enkosi ngako konke okwenzela mna / thina, kodwa lixesha lokuba uzibeke wena nabahlobo bakho kuqala kube kanye.'
23. Beka kude ifowuni yakho.
Xa ukunye neqabane lakho, yiba kunye nabo - ngokupheleleyo .
Oko kuthetha ukubeka nayiphi na into enokuphazamisa kwelinye icala kwaye ujonge kubo, oko bakuthethayo, kwaye bahlala bengathethi.
Cima ifowuni yakho / ithebhulethi / iTV kwaye ubeke enye into onokuba ujonge kuyo.
Xa uthetha nabo, yiba khona egumbini, hayi kwenye indawo entlokweni yakho.
Abantu banokuxela xa umntu engaphulaphuli kakuhle, ke zama konke okusemandleni akho ukubabandakanya njengoko bethetha.
24. Benze bazive bekhuselekile.
Iqabane lakho ngamanye amaxesha lingazithandabuza, ukufaneleka kwabo, kwanothando lwakho kubo.
Baqinisekise kaninzi ukuba ngabona bantu ubona ikamva kunye nabo, ukuba ubamkele ngendlela abayiyo, kwaye uyabazi ukuba bakhulu kangakanani, nokuba abasoloko bekubona oko.
25. Bathembe.
Ukuthembana sesinye seziseko eziphambili zolwalamano oluyimpumelelo.
Ukuthembela kukwayindlela entle yokubonisa uxabiso kwiqabane lakho.
Xa ubathemba kwaye uyenza icace le nto kubo, kubonisa ukuba uyakholelwa kubo nakwisigwebo sabo.
Uyazi ukuba baya kwenza okulungileyo kwaye oko kukulungeleyo nobabini.
26. Bhala amabinzana kwizicelo zakho ngentlonipho nentlonipho.
Ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka ubuze iqabane lakho ukuba lenze izinto. Mhlawumbi ufuna uncedo lwabo kwimisebenzi yasekhaya okanye ucwangcise uhambo oluya kwenye indawo.
Ukuba ufuna bazive bexatyisiwe- kwaye bengaxakaniseki- yenza izicelo zakho ngendlela echubekileyo.
Ibonisa ukuhlonipha ixesha kunye namandla abo kwaye ibenza ukuba babe nokuvumelana ngovuyo kunokuba bekrokre.
27. Bancede ukuba bazikhathalele.
Abantu abasoloko bebeka impilo yabo nentlalontle yabo kwindawo yokuqala. Ubomi buhlala buxakekile kwaye nezinto ekufuneka sizenzile ukuze sihlale sonwabile kwaye sisempilweni ziwela ecaleni kwendlela.
Ukufumana iindlela zokubakhuthaza ukuba bazikhathalele kubonisa ukuba uyabaxabisa.
Ngokusisiseko usithi kubo, 'Jongani, ndiyanidinga ngenxa yokuba niliwa lam.'
Nokuba kungamandla okuqhuba emva kwezicwangciso zokutya okunempilo okanye ukubeka impilo yabo yengqondo phezulu kuluhlu lwezinto eziphambili, yenza oko kuthatha ukubanceda ukuba bazincede.
Sebenza ngokwakho kunye nemikhwa yakho emibi.
Indlela entle yokubonisa indlela onombulelo ngayo ngokuba neqabane lakho ebomini bakho kukusebenza kwiintsilelo zakho.
Sonke sinemiba yobuntu bethu esingathanda ukuyitshintsha. Sikwanemikhwa emibi.
Ezinye zezi zinto zinokuba sisizathu sokucaphukisa kwiqabane lakho.
Ke ukubabonisa ukuba ubakhathalele kangakanani, kutheni ungazami ukulungisa ezi zinto?
29. Kulungele ukucela uxolo xa ubacaphukisile.
Alukho ulwalamano olufezekileyo. Uya kwenza izinto eziphazamisa iqabane lakho.
Kodwa kulapho ke inhlonipho ibuyela umlinganiso. Ukuba uxabisa ngokwenene umntu othile, uyakulungela ukuginya ikratshi lakho kwaye uvume kuso nasiphi na isenzo esingalunganga.
Ngu Ndicela uxolo , uyayivuma intlungu oyenzileyo. Ikwahambisa umnqweno wokungaphindi uyenze.
ndingazonwabisa njani kwakhona
30. Zinqumle kancinci.
Kwicala elisezantsi lenqaku elidlulileyo, kuya kufuneka wamkele ukuba iqabane lakho alifezekanga kwaye baya kukucaphukisa amaxesha ngamaxesha.
Baza kukucaphukisa, bakucaphukise, bakwenze buhlungu, kunye nezinto ezininzi phakathi.
Ukwamkela umntu njengomntu onesiphako, kodwa ukubathanda nokuba kunjalo ngumboniso omkhulu wokuxabisa onke amanqaku abo.
