Zinokubakho izizathu ezininzi ezibangela ukuba umyeni wakho aqumbe qho, kwaye siza kungena koko banokuba kuko nendlela yokusebenzisana ukuze sizisombulule, ukuba yile nto ufuna ukusebenzela kuyo.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uqaphele ukuba, ngenxa yokuba kunokubakho izizathu eziyinyani ngezenzo zakhe, azithetheleleki kwaye kusafuneka athathe uxanduva ngokuziphatha kwakhe.
Kungenxa yokuba kukho isizathu sayo, oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uyinyamezele.
Ukuba indlela aziphatha ngayo ikuchaphazela kakubi okanye ikwenze uzive ungakhuselekanga, kukho iindawo onokufikelela kuzo ukuze ufumane uncedo oluthe ngqo.
Akufuneki uhlale nomntu okwenza uzive ungakhuselekanga, nokuba zithini na izizathu zezenzo zakhe.
Kodwa ukuba umsindo womyeni wakho yinto ongathanda ukusebenza ngayo, kukho iindlela zokuzama.
Khumbula ukuba uyaphendula kwaye umdala, kwaye wena unako cela intsebenziswano yakhe ekuziphuculeni.
Uninzi lwezizathu zomsindo wakhe ziya kuba zivela kuye kwaye akunakulindeleka ukuba zibe sisiphumo sakho konke konke!
Uninzi lweemvakalelo zethu zivela kuthi kunye noqikelelo lwethu lwezo mvakalelo kunye nendlela esilibona ngayo ilizwe elisingqongileyo, ke musa ukuzibeka ityala.
Nazi ezinye zezizathu zokuba abe esokola, kwaye ezinye iingcebiso zendlela yokuqhubela phambili kunye.
1. Unemicimbi engasonjululwanga.
Kukho isizathu sothelekelelo lweengcali ezibuza malunga nobuntwana bakho…
Okuninzi kokuziphatha kwethu njengabantu abadala kubangelwa ngamava esinayo kubomi bethu obutsha.
Umsindo nakubani na unokuvela kuluhlu olukhulu lwemicimbi ngexesha lobuntwana.
Mhlawumbi umyeni wakho akazange aphathwe kakuhle njengomntwana.
Mhlawumbi kwakufuneka alwe ukuze azwakale kwikhaya elixakekileyo losapho, yiyo loo nto ngoku ekhwaza. Uzama ukufumana uluvo lwakhe kwaye uqhele ukuba kungxola kakhulu ukwenza njalo!
Kungenzeka ukuba ekuphela kwendlela yokufumana ingqalelo njengomntwana yayikukuba alingise.
Abantwana abaziphethe kakuhle ngamanye amaxesha banokungahoywa, kwaye abo banobuqhetseba banikwa ingqwalaselo ethe kratya (nokuba kukuqwalaselwa kakubi).
Umyeni wakho usenokuba wakufumanisa oku xa wayesemncinci kwaye ngoku uziva ngathi ukukhupha ngaphandle yindlela yokufumana ingqalelo-kwaye mhlawumbi nothando lwakho.
Indlela yokujongana noku: inokuziva ingenakwenzeka xa umyeni wakho ekwiimeko ezimbi, kodwa ukunxibelelana kunye nokuvuleka kubalulekile.
Xa izinto zizolile, ungazama ukubuza malunga nobuntwana bakhe okanye ucetyise ngobunono ukuba aqumbe njengomkhwa, phantse.
Lumka ukuba uluthetha njani olu hlobo lwento njengoko ungafuni ukumcaphukisa okanye ubeke ityala kuye kuphela xa eziva esesichengeni kwaye ekuvulela.
Oko akutsho ukuba kufuneka uthathe ityala, kodwa ukuba kufuneka uzame ukuvuleka xa uthetha ngemicimbi edlulileyo.
Khumbula ukuba ungumntu nje! Unokuba nobunzima bokwenyani ebuntwaneni, kwaye ebengenako ukufikelela kunyango okanye engqondweni okanye abenomntu oza kuthetha naye ukuze enze ezi mvakalelo, yiyo loo nto zichaphazela indlela aziphethe ngayo namhlanje.
Ukuba nenkxaso ngeli xesha lokujonga akuyi kunceda umyeni wakho abone kwaye ajongane nemicimbi yakhe, kuyakunisondeza nobabini.
Oku kuya kumnceda ukuba akubone njengomntu ‘okhuselekileyo’ kunye nomntu ekungekho mfuneko yokuba abe nomsindo kuye.
Uya kubonakala ungaphantsi 'njengesongelo' okanye isikhumbuzo sexesha lakhe elidlulileyo.
2. Iimeko ezithile zibangele umsindo wakhe.
Le yinto ekufuneka siyikhumbule kunye nawo wonke umntu, ke ngokuqinisekileyo isebenza kubayeni abanomsindo!
Ngamanye amaxesha, abantu baneentsuku ezimbi nje.
Ezi ntsuku zimbi zinokujika zibe ziiveki okanye iinyanga ezimbi.
Rhoqo zizinto ezingaphandle kolawulo lwethu kodwa ziyasichaphazela kwaye ziyasicaphukisa.
Unokuba unzima kakhulu emsebenzini, okanye unokuziva uxhatshazwa ngumphathi wakhe.
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba waxabana nomhlobo okanye ilungu losapho elisenzima engqondweni yakhe.
Usenokuba ulwa nelinye inani elikhulu lezinto wonke umntu asokola nazo!
Indlela yokujongana noku: kubalulekile ukuthatha inyathelo umva kwaye uzame ukubona umfanekiso omkhulu.
Akanyanzelekanga ukuba abe nomsindo kuwe unomsindo kwizinto zangaphandle ebomini bakhe ezingaphaya kolawulo lwakhe.
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Kwakhona, asikucebisi ukuba uthathe uxanduva ngezenzo zakhe, kodwa kunokukunceda ukuba uqwalasele iimeko ebomini bakhe.
Ukuba uhlala uziva ngathi umsindo wakhe ujonge kuwe, okanye kungenxa yakho, kunokwenzeka ukuba uphendule ngendlela yokuzikhusela.
Ngelixa oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo, oko kunokubangela umlilo kwaye kukhokelele kwiingxoxo ezingakumbi / ezibi kakhulu.
Ukuba ungabuya umva kwaye uqaphele ukuba ayisiyiyo ngawe, awuzukuzikhusela kwaye ngekhe abe nanto 'azokulwa nayo', ethetha ukuba impikiswano iya kusasazeka ngokukhawuleza nangokuzola.
3. Uzithobile.
Kwakhona, umyeni wakho ngomnye umntu ozama ukuhamba ebomini!
Kulula ukuyeka ukubona iqabane lakho njengomnye umntu ngamanye amaxesha, kwaye, njengabafazi, sihlala silibale ukuba amadoda afumana iimvakalelo ezifanayo nezethu.
Sixelelwa ngamajelo eendaba ukuba abafazi banemvakalelo ngakumbi kwaye amadoda avele 'aqhubeke nayo.'
Oku kwenza ukuba kube nzima ukukhumbula ukuba nabo bayasokola nezinto ezinjengokuzithemba, banexhala ngenkangeleko yabo kunye nobuhlobo njengathi.
Zingaphi iinkqubo zikamabonwakude ezimele abasetyhini abalilela imizimba yabo okanye ukutya kwabo? Zininzi zonke.
Mangaphi amadoda abonisa loo nto? Ngokuchanekileyo.
Siyalibala ukuba nabo banengxaki efanayo nathi, kwaye le micimbi inokuhlala ikhokelela ekuvutheni komsindo.
Indlela yokujongana noku: ukuba iqabane lakho liyacaphuka kwaye linomsindo ngalo lonke ixesha, isenokuba ngenxa yokuzithemba okuphantsi.
Unokuba nobunzima kwaye uzive ngathi akazithembi kakhulu. Oko kunokwenza nabani na ukuba acaphuke kwaye abe nomsindo.
Njengoko kukhankanyiwe apha ngasentla, amajelo eendaba kunye nokuzonwabisa kunqabile ukuba aveze la mava emadodeni, ngenxa yoko angakufumana kunzima ukuqonda eyona nto aziva.
Usenokuziva engakhululekanga ukuthetha ngezi zinto zinje nabahlobo bakhe, ke kukujongana nabo bodwa.
Xa uziva ungalunganga ngomzimba wakho, umzekelo, kuya kufuneka uvule i-Instagram kuphela ukuze ufumane umfazi o-body-naked-naked-woman ukuba akhuthaze, okanye ubize umhlobo kwaye wabelane ngeemvakalelo zakho.
Amadoda amaninzi awaziva ekhululekile ukwenza olo hlobo lwento, ke zive ukanti kakhulu kumava abo okuzithemba okuphantsi, yiyo loo nto izibonisa njengomsindo.
Zama ukubonisa imfesane kwiqabane lakho. Mkhumbuze ukuba uyamthanda kwaye umfumana enomtsalane.
Ixesha elingaphezulu, oku kuya kunceda ukwakha ukuzithemba kunye nokunciphisa umsindo.
Eli nqaku lingena kubunzulu obungaphezulu: Izinto ezi-5 zokwenza ukuba indoda oyithandayo inokuzithemba (+ 6 imiqondiso yokujonga)
4. Unoxinzelelo kunye / okanye uxinzelelo loxinzelelo.
Njengakoku kungasentla, asihlali siwabona amadoda esiba nemicimbi yempilo yengqondo- kodwa ayayenza!
Izinto ezinje ngokucamngca kunye nengqondo zihlala zibonwa 'njengebhinqa' okanye 'hippy' (ekwanxulunyaniswa nabasetyhini ngaphezulu kwamadoda ngesizathu esithile!), Kwaye, ngenxa yoko, uninzi lwamadoda luyabagxotha njengezixhobo ezifanelekileyo.
Kungenzeka ukuba iqabane lakho elihlala linomsindo livela kwindawo yoxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo.
Banokubonakala behle kakhulu ngamanye amaxesha, okanye bengenachaphazeleka kuxinzelelo kwaye bekwazi ukwenza indawo yokuhlala kunye nokuphumla ngokulula, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba abazukulwa.
Indlela yokujongana noku: ukuba umyeni wakho uhlala enomsindo kuwe, kusenokwenzeka ukuba uziva enexhala kakhulu.
Iimvakalelo azisoloko zibonisa into eziyiyo…
Uloyiko aluthethi ukuba umntu woyika kwikona kunokuthetha ukuba bafuna ukulawula yonke into kwaye bacaphuke kakhulu.
Ukudakumba akuthethi ukuba umntu ukhala kakhulu kunokuthetha ukuba ukhwaza ngakumbi.
Kwakhona, zama ukuququzelela iincoko ezivulekileyo ukuze ubone ukuba lo ngumcimbi iqabane lakho elijongana nawo.
Inokukunceda into yokuba uvule kwaye uveze uxinzelelo lwakho.
Ukuyekisa unonophelo kunye nokuba sesichengeni kususa uloyiko oluhlala lubangela uxinzelelo, olunokuthi, emva koko, lunciphise umsindo ojikeleze lona.
Umyeni wakho unokuhlala ebonakala enomsindo kuba eyazi ukuba uyamthanda kwaye uziva ngathi yindawo 'ekhuselekileyo' yokuvumela abo bungozi, nokuba babonakalisa njengomsindo kunokuba ungacinga ukuba uloyiko lukhangeleka njani.
Bonisa inkxaso yakho, yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukunceda, kwaye uya kuqala ukubona utshintsho kwindlela aziphethe ngayo.
5. Unemicimbi yolawulo.
Kwakhona, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele, nokuba indlela yokuziphatha kwakhe ibonakala ibangelwa nguwe okanye zizenzo zakho, ukuba ayilotyala lakho.
Abantu abaninzi bayasokola ngemicimbi yolawulo, kwaye banokubangela umsindo omkhulu.
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba uyakhathazeka xa izinto zingenjalo ‘nje,’ okanye athande izinto zenziwe ngendlela yakhe.
Oku kunokukwenza uzive inkunkuma, kodwa zama ukukhumbula ukuba ayibonisi wena okanye ubudlelwane bakho.
Nguye unemicimbi efuna ukulungiswa, kwaye kunokuba nzima ukukuqonda oku.
Umsindo uhlala ubonakala xa siziva sikhathazekile kwaye sicatshukisiwe xa singakwazi ukulawula izinto kwaye singakwazi ukucima iimvakalelo ezimbi.
Ukungakwazi ukulawula izinto ngokucacileyo kusenza sizive singalawuleki, okusenza sizive singenamandla kwaye sinomsindo.
Indlela yokujongana noku: zama ukuzifaka ezihlangwini zakhe.
Ukuba uhlala uziva ungalawuleki, uya kukhathazeka.
Akukho mntu uthanda izinto ezimbi ezenzekayo kubo, kwaye ukungakwazi ukumisa ezo zinto kunokondla umba wolawulo.
Kwakhona, oku kunokubangela iingxaki ezininzi phakathi kwabantu abathi emva koko bachithe ubudlelwane babo.
Ngokukuqonda oku, uya kuba nakho ukubonisa uvelwano ngakumbi kwiqabane lakho kwaye uya kuvuleleka ngakumbi ekuthatheni amanyathelo okubanceda.
Ngokucacileyo, unyango lunokuba luncedo ngokumangalisayo kwezi ntlobo zemicimbi, kodwa iqabane lakho linokucaphuka ukuba ucebisa oku kwangoko!
Ngenisa ngobumnene iindlela onokuthi uzame ngazo ukunceda.
Oko akuthethi ukuba uza kuba nolawulo olupheleleyo lwento yonke kwaye awungekhe ube nendlela yakho yokwenza ezinye izinto.
Kodwa oko kuthetha ukuba unokuzama ukulalanisa kwimiba emenza azive engalawuleki kakhulu.
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Ke, ezi zizizathu ezi-5 eziqhelekileyo zokuba kutheni umyeni wakho ehlala enomsindo okanye ekucaphukisile.
Zingabonakala zingafanelekanga kwangoko, kodwa, okukhona ucinga ngazo, kokukhona zinokusebenza ngakumbi.
Zama ukuba nobubele - wonke umntu uneengxaki zakhe kwaye abanye bethu baxhotyiswe ngcono ukujongana nazo.
Ukuba iqabane lakho alinalo usapho oluxhasayo okanye alunabahlobo abasondeleyo okanye ukufikelela kwinkqubo yenkxaso, ngokuqinisekileyo baziva bexakekile!
Oko ayikuthetheleli isimilo sabo esibi, kodwa iya kuchaza ukuba kutheni uloyiko, uxinzelelo, okanye ukungazixabisi ngoku kubonakala njengomsindo.
Usenokuziva elilolo kakhulu kwaye enexhala ngeemvakalelo zakhe, okanye angazi ukuba angaluchaza njani ngokukhuselekileyo ixhala lakhe, kwaye akufumanisa kulula ukuyikhupha ngomsindo nokumemeza endaweni yoko.
Xa usenza naluphi na utshintsho olukhulu ebomini okanye kwingqondo yakho, zama ukugcina umbono.
Isenokuziva ngathi ibisoloko imbi ngolu hlobo okanye ubusoloko uziva ngathi uhamba kwiigobolondo zamaqanda.
Zama ukucinga ngale nto - ngaba ibisoloko injalo okanye ivakala nje ngoku?
Oko akutsho ukuba kufuneka uzilahle iimvakalelo zakho kukuzama ukukunceda uzihlele.
Ukuba ibiyingxaki engaguqukiyo kwaye uziva ubambekile, cinga ngokufuna uncedo lobuchwephesha, nokuba yeyakho njengendlela yokujongana nayo okanye njengesibini esisebenza ngemicimbi yakhe engasonjululwanga.
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