Ubomi bunoxinzelelo. Nabani na othi ngenye indlela uyakhohlisa, okanye uzama ukuthengisa into. Ngapha koko, ukuba ubuza umntu ophakathi ukuba zithini iinjongo zabo eziphambili, amathuba okuba 'ukufumana uxolo lwangaphakathi' kuya kuba phakathi kwabo, kuba uninzi lwethu luzifumana lutshatile kwaye lusoyiswa rhoqo.
Apha ngezantsi kukho iikowuti ezimbalwa ezinokukunceda ufumane uxolo lwangaphakathi olifunayo. Abayi kuyiguqula iswitshi kwaye ngequbuliso bakuguqulele kwiBodhisattva engenaxhala, kodwa banokukuqhubela ekubeni ube Ukungeniswa kunye nokukhula komntu, okunokuthi kuphelise uqhwithela lwangaphakathi kwaye kukhuthaze ukuzola okungakumbi.
uyeke njani ukuba ngumntu olawulayo
Qaphela: singena kwiinkcukacha ngasemva kweekowuti zokuqala ukuze sikhangele indlela eya eluxolweni lwangaphakathi kancinci, ngelixa uninzi lweekowuti zilandela ngezantsi ukuba ufuna ukutsiba kwezi.
Uxolo luvela ngaphakathi. Sukuyifuna ngaphandle .- uBuddha
Oku kunokuba yeyona ngcaphuno ibalulekileyo kwaye inamandla oza kuyifunda apha namhlanje.
Abantu abaninzi benza impazamo yokufuna uxolo kunye noxolo kwimisebenzi okanye kumava, ukusuka kubudlelwane bezothando ukuya kwiindlela ezinzulu zeyoga, ukuzama ukuphepha ingxwabangxwaba yabo yangaphakathi.
Bacinga ukuba ngokuntywilisela entweni, bazodambisa uqhwithela ngaphakathi bafumane uxolo abaludingayo… kodwa lonto ayinakuze yenzeke. Kuphela ngokujika ngaphakathi kwaye usebenze nezithunzi zomntu apho uxolo lunokufumaneka.
Ufumana uxolo hayi ngokulungisa ngokutsha iimeko zobomi bakho, kodwa ngokuqonda ukuba ungowuphi owona mgangatho unzulu.- U-Eckhart Tolle
Mhlawumbi uve into efanayo kubantu abaninzi abaye bakhalaza ngeemeko abazifumeneyo zikuzo: zakube iX yenzekile ebomini babo, baya kuba nakho ukonwaba. Baza kukhululeka. Baza kuba seluxolweni.
Ingxaki ngalo mgca wokucinga kukuba siza kuhlala sizifumana sikwiimeko ezithile ezisibangela uxinzelelo.
Ngokufana nesicatshulwa sikaBuddha apha ngasentla, okubalulekileyo ayizami ukutshintsha iimeko zobomi bakho ukuze ufumane uxolo, kodwa endaweni yoko uhlele ukuba ungubani na: umntu wokomoya onamava omntu.
Nje ukuba ufikelele koku, unakho nyani jolisa ekubeni ubekhona ngalo mzuzu kwaye uphendule kwinto eyenzekayo ekujikeleze ngentshisakalo, kunokuba usabele kuyo ngokungathi wenzakaliswe ziimeko ezingasoze zibe phantsi kolawulo lwakho.
Kwangolo hlobo lunye ...
Nikezela kwinto ekuyiyo, yeka oko bekukho, yiba nokholo kwinto eyakuba yiyo.- Sonia Ricotti
Omnye wemithombo emikhulu yokubandezeleka kunye nokudana kuxa abantu benqwenela ukuba izinto zingabi njalo. Uyayazi intetho ethi 'iintlungu azinakuphepheka, kodwa ukubandezeleka akunakukhetha'? Ngokuchanekileyo oko. Kubo bonke ubomi bakho, uyakuzifumana ukwiindidi zonke zeemeko, kodwa kungokubabhala njengabalungileyo nababi, okanye uthathe isigqibo sokuba ufuna olunye uhlobo, kodwa awufuni olunye, oya kuthi uphele ngalo. ukubandezeleka.
Oko akutsho ukuba ukuba ukwimeko embi kufuneka uhlale kuyo ngaphandle kokuthatha inyathelo: endaweni yoko, ungamkela ukuba ukwimeko embi kwaye uvume ukuba amanyathelo kufuneka athathwe ukuyitshintsha, endaweni yokunqwenela nje ukuba izinto zingatshintsha.
Ukwamkela into, ngaphandle kokufuna okanye ukuthintela, kuluncedo olukhulu ekuhlakuleleni imo yoxolo lwangaphakathi. Xa ulufumene olo xolo, uzolile kwaye unamandla okwenza into efunekayo ukuphucula iimeko zakho ngaphandle kwexhala okanye uloyiko olusibekele isigwebo sakho okanye ukukhubaza.
Ukuphefumla ngaphakathi, ndizola umzimba nengqondo. Ndiphefumlela ngaphandle, ndincume. Ukuhlala kumzuzu wangoku ndiyazi ukuba lo mzuzu kuphela.- Thich Nhat Hanh
Ngawuphi na umzuzu, iingqondo zethu zibaleka ngamakhulu eengcinga ezahlukeneyo kunye noxinzelelo. “Isabelo somsebenzi kufuneka. Ngaba ndikhumbule ukucima i-oveni ngaphambi kokuba ndimke endlwini? Ngaba ubudlelwane bam buhamba kakuhle? Ngaba ikhona into endiyithethileyo ngoku bendithetha nomntwana wam izolo? ” njl.
Lo mjelo ongapheliyo wokukhathazeka usishenxisa kumzuzu wangoku kwaye usinyanzele ukuba sikhulule malunga nezinto esingenakho kwaphela ukuzilawula: oko kudlulileyo kudlulile, kwaye ikamva alikabhalwa okwangoku.
Konke esinako, konke esinako NGALO mzuzu, LOKUbetha kwentliziyo, LOKUPHhefumla.
Buyela kuyo.
Xa ufumana iingcinga zakho ezixhalabileyo zijikeleza ngaphandle kolawulo, thatha umzuzwana ukugxila ekuphefumlweni kwakho: dlulisa umoya kubalo lwesine, bamba umphefumlo wakho ukubala isine, kwaye uphefumle ubalo lwesibhozo. Phinda amaxesha amaninzi. Ngokugxila ekuphefumlweni kwakho, awunakubakho kodwa ubekhona, kwaye oko kuyakuhlala kukukhathaza ukukhathazeka okukukhathazayo.
Ezinye iikowuti onokuzonwabela ngokufunda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Izicatshulwa ezili-15 zokuKhumbula xa uziva ulahlekile ebomini
- 26 KwamaQonga aQinisekileyo aQatha ngalo lonke ixesha
- Iingcaphuno ezingama-20 zokuba nesithukuthezi eziya kukwenza uzive ungaphantsi
- Iingcaphuno ezingama-30 zokubhiyozela amaNtshayelelo, iintyatyambo zodonga kunye neengcuka zodwa
- 20 Iingcaphuno ezigqibeleleyo zikaWinnie-the-Pooh ezenzelwe ukuba uncume
- 25 Ngokumangalisayo ngeWesile ka-Alice kwiWonderland iikowuti zokuPhila ngoBomi ngu
Ulindelo yingcambu yazo zonke iintlungu. UWilliam Shakespeare
Amagama alumkileyo apho, Billy.
Uninzi lwesiphithiphithi sethu sangaphakathi luvela kwinto yokuba sisoloko sisenza izinto esizilindeleyo- kuthi nakwabanye - kwaye nini / ukuba ezo azenzeki, siphulukana ne-sh * t yethu.
Kunzima kakhulu, kunzima phila ngaphandle kokulindelweyo , kodwa ngokumangalisayo ukukhulula ukuba uyakwazi ukwenza njalo. Ukuba awunakulindela ukuba abanye abantu baziphathe ngendlela ethile (umzekelo, njengoko ubuya kuba kwimeko ethile), awuyi kuphoxeka xa bengenjalo.
Kuyafana nakumava obomi: akukho kulindelwa kwinto enokwenzeka xa useholideyini, okanye kubudlelwane bakho bothando . Ukuncamathela kulindelo kunye namaphupha emini kuyindlela yoxinzelelo kunye nosizi, ke zama ukuyeka, kwaye ubuyele kumzuzu wangoku.
Xa ndikwazi ukumelana nesilingo sokugweba abanye, ndiyababona njengabafundisi bokuxolelwa ebomini bam, bendikhumbuza ukuba ndinokuba noxolo lwengqondo kuphela xa ndixolela kunokuba ndigwebe. -UGerald Jampolsky
Oku kulandela kwizithende zesicatshulwa esingentla, kwaye kuninzi esinokukwenza singavumeli ukonwaba kwethu noxolo lwengqondo luxhomekeke kwizenzo zabanye abantu . Ungazifumana ukhathazekile neqabane lakho, umntwana, okanye umntu osebenza naye ngenxa yokungazenzi izinto oziva ukuba 'kumele' ukuba bazenza, ngakumbi xa izenzo zabo (okanye ukusilela kwazo) zinempembelelo kubomi bakho… kodwa asizange siyazi ngokwenene ukuba yeyiphi enye into anokujongana nayo, andibi kunjalo?
Ukusuka kumbono wangaphandle, sinokubona umntu ongathethiyo ukuba ngubani owisa ibhola, asiyeke, angasivumeli ukuba siqhubeke nento esiyifunayo ebomini bethu. Sinokuziva sikhathazekile, sinomsindo, kwanokudelelwa kuba bengaziphathi ngendlela ebesiya kwenza ngayo.
Sisenokungaluboni uxinzelelo olukhubazekileyo abalwa nalo, okanye indlela amalungu osapho agulayo aye abagcina ngayo ubusuku emva kobusuku ukuze bangakwazi ukudibanisa isivakalisi kunye, kungasathethwa ke ngokunxibelelana ngokufanelekileyo. Zininzi izinto esingaziboniyo ukuba asinakugweba iziqwenga esizimeleyo.
Ngokuyeka ukulindela kwabanye, siyeka umsindo, indelelo kunye nokukhathazeka. Kukho uxolo olumangalisayo olufumaneka kuxolelo nokwamkelwa ngaphandle kwemeko.
Apho kukho uthando kunye nobulumko akukho loyiko nokungazi.
Apho kukho umonde kunye nokuthobeka akukho msindo okanye inkxalabo.- UFrancis waseAssisi
Xa ugxininiso lwethu oluphambili kukonwaba kwethu, siyakhathazeka xa ithemba lethu, amaphupha ethu, kunye nezicwangciso zethu zingaphumeleli njengoko besicinga, kodwa xa sijolise kulonwabo lwabanye abantu, asinako ukunceda kodwa sizive uvuyo emva koko.
Ukuba sizifumana sikhathazekile ngesihloko, ukuzifundisa ngayo yonke imiba yazo kunokusasaza zonke iintlobo zovuselelo lweemvakalelo… kwaye ukuba sinomsindo kwaye sikhathazekile kuba izicwangciso azenzeki ngendlela ebesilindele ngayo, sibuyele kumzuzu wangoku kwaye ukuba nomonde nathi, kunye nabanye, kuzisa uxolo.
AmaQhosha oxolo angaphakathi angama-43…
Yaneliseka yile nto unayo
vuyani ngendlela izinto eziyiyo.
Xa uqaphela ukuba akukho nto iyasilela,
Umhlaba uphela ngowakho. -ULao Tzu
Uxolo sisiphumo sokuphinda ubambe ingqondo yakho ukuze uqhubekeke nobomi njengoko bunjalo, kunokuba ucinge ukuba kufanelekile. -Wayne W. Dyer
Ngaphakathi kuwe, kukho ukuzola kunye nendawo engcwele onokubalekela kuyo nangaliphi na ixesha kwaye ube nguwe. -UHermann Hesse
Ukuleqa ilizwe kuzisa isiphithiphithi. Ukuvumela konke ukuba kuza kum, kuzisa uxolo. -UZen Gatha
Yima. ayithathi mzamo ukuze ihlale ilula ngokulula. Xa ingqondo yakho ithe cwaka, awunagama, awunakudlula, awunabudlelwane, awunalo ilizwe, awunakufumana ngokomoya, awuswele kufikelela kokomoya. Kukho ubukho bobukho ngokwabo. -Gangaji
Uxolo lwangaphakathi luqala mzuzu ukhetha ukungavumeli omnye umntu okanye umsitho ukuba ulawule iimvakalelo zakho. -I-Pema Chodron
Ukuba ufuna uxolo, yeka ukulwa. Ukuba ufuna uxolo lwengqondo, yeka ukulwa neengcinga zakho. -UPeter McWilliams
Nciphisa isantya. Cothisa intetho yakho. Nciphisa ukuphefumla kwakho. Nciphisa ukuhamba kwakho. Nciphisa ukutya kwakho. Kwaye vumela oku kucotha, isantya sokuqina sitshise ingqondo yakho. Nciphisa isantya. - UDoko
Inkululeko kumnqweno ikhokelela kuxolo lwangaphakathi. - uLao Tse
Ingqondo inokuhamba kumawaka, kodwa kule ndlela intle, ndihamba ngoxolo. Ngenyathelo ngalinye, kuvuthuza umoya. Ngenyathelo ngalinye, intyatyambo idubula. -Thich Nhat Hanh
Kodwa umntu ozilawulayo, ohamba phakathi kwezinto, kunye neengqondo zakhe phantsi kolawulo, kwaye ekhululekile ekukhangekeni nasekuphazamiseni, ufumana uxolo. -Chinmayananda Saraswati
Ukuba luza kubakho uxolo luya kubakho ngokungabikho. -UHenry Miller
Sukuvumela indlela yokuziphatha yabanye ichithe uxolo lwakho lwangaphakathi. -UDalai Lama
Funda ukuthomalalisa umoya wengqondo yakho, kwaye uyonwabele uxolo olukhulu lwangaphakathi. -Remez Sasson
U-Ego uthi - Nje ukuba yonke into iwele endaweni, ndiya kuziva uxolo lwangaphakathi. UMoya uthi -Fumana uxolo lwakho lwangaphakathi emva koko yonke into iwele endaweni. - UMarianne Williamson
Iimvakalelo ziindwendwe nje mazize zidlule. - UMooji
Ungazami ukunyanzela nantoni na. Vumela ubomi bube yinto enzulu vumela uhambe. UThixo uvula izigidi zeentyatyambo yonke imihla ngaphandle kokuzinyanzela. -Osho
Xa singakwazi ukufumana ukuzola ngaphakathi kwethu, akuncedi nto ukulufuna kwenye indawo. -UFrancois de La Rochefoucauld
Musa ukukubaxa oko ukufumeneyo, okanye ubamonele abanye. Lowo umonela abanye akafumani uxolo lwengqondo. -UBuddha
Xa siqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba uxolo lwangaphakathi ngoyena ndoqo wolonwabo, kwaye, ngokwendlela yokomoya, sinokufumana njani amanqanaba asezantsi oxolo lwangaphakathi, siya kukhulisa umdla omkhulu wokuziqhelanisa. -UGeshe Kelsang Gyatso
Ukucamngca ayisiyondlela yokwenza ingqondo yakho ithule. Yindlela yokungena kuthuleko esele lukhona-kungcwatywa phantsi kweengcinga ezingama-50,000 umntu oqhelekileyo ocinga ngazo yonke imihla. -U-Deepak Chopra
Khumbula ukungena kwengcwele kungaphakathi kuwe. - URumi
Ukungoyiki kubandakanya ukuzola kunye noxolo lwengqondo. -Umahatma Gandhi
Kukho ukuzola kubomi obuphila ngombulelo, uvuyo oluzolileyo. -Ralph H. Blum
Abantu kunzima ukuba bayeke ukubandezeleka kwabo. Ngaphandle kwe uloyiko olungaziwayo , bakhetha ukubandezeleka okuqhelekileyo. -Thich Nhat Hanh
Awunakukhathazeka kakhulu malunga nokuba abanye bacinga ntoni ngawe ukuba uyayiqonda indlela abanqabe ngayo. -Olin Miller
Jonga umthi, intyatyambo, isityalo. Vumela ukuqonda kwakho kuhlale phezu kwayo. Zisekho ngoku, zingene nzulu kangakanani kubukho. Vumela indalo ikufundise ukuzola. -Uckhart Tolle
Kuya kubakho ukuzola, ukuzola, xa umntu ekhululekile kwizinto zangaphandle kwaye engaphazanyiswa. -Ubruce Lee
Imfesane, ukunyamezelana, ukuxolela kunye nokuziqeqesha ziimpawu ezisinceda ukuba sikhokele ubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla ngengqondo ezolileyo. -UDalai Lama
Ungaze ungxame, yenza yonke into ngokuzolileyo kwaye ngomoya ozolileyo. Ungaphulukani noxolo lwakho lwangaphakathi ngayo nantoni na, nokuba umhlaba wakho ubonakala ungonwabanga. - UFrancis de Sales
Indalo iphela ayikho ngaphandle kwakho. Jonga ngaphakathi kuwe, yonke into oyifunayo, sele uyiyo. - URumi
I-Zen yokwenza nantoni na iyenza ngoxinzelelo oluthile lwengqondo, ukuzola kunye nokulula kwengqondo, okuzisa amava okukhanyiselwa kwaye, ngalo mava, ukonwaba. -UChris Prentiss
Ukuze sibe noxolo lwengqondo, kufuneka sirhoxe njengomphathi jikelele kwindalo iphela. -ULarry Eisenberg
Usisibhakabhaka. Yonke enye into - yimozulu nje. -I-Pema Chodron
Asazi ukuba, kwindawo ethile phakathi kwethu sonke, kukho umntu ophakamileyo ohleli ngoxolo ngonaphakade. -UElizabeth Gilbert
Uxolo lwangaphakathi lunokufikelelwa kuphela xa sizixolela. Uxolelo kukuyeka ixesha elidlulileyo, kwaye ke yindlela yokulungisa ukungaboni kakuhle kwethu. -Gerald G. Jampolsky
Xa ubonile ngaphaya kwakho, unokufumana, uxolo lwengqondo lulindile apho. -George Harrison
Uxolo lwangaphakathi aluveli ekufumaneni le nto siyifunayo, kodwa kukukhumbula ukuba singobani. - UMarianne Williamson
Yindoda elungileyo kuphela enoxolo lwengqondo. - Epicurus
Ubomi boxolo lwangaphakathi, ukuvisisana ngaphandle koxinzelelo, lolona hlobo lulula lobukho. - UNorman Vincent Peale
Umgangatho omkhulu wokuzola kwengqondo yethu, kokukhona siya kuba noxolo lwengqondo, kokukhona siya kukwazi ukonwaba kwaye sonwabe. -UDalai Lama
Uxolo inkululeko ekuzoliseni. -UMarcus Tullius Cicero
Uxolo lwengqondo yimeko yengqondo apho wamkele okona kubi. -Lin Yutang
Ngaba unazo naziphi na iikowuti ozithandayo malunga noxolo lwangaphakathi olukhuthazayo? Zive ukhululekile ukuba wabelane nathi ngokushiya uluvo olungezantsi.
