Kulula ukuziqinisekisa ukuba nguwe wedwa umntu oziva ngathi ngekhe wenze nto ilungileyo.
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Uzithelekisa ngokungathandekiyo malunga nawo wonke umntu onokucinga ngaye.
Isiphelo: Banobomi obuhleliweyo, ukuhamba ngenqanawa phezulu komdlalo wabo, ukufumana amanqaku ashiyekileyo, ekunene nakwiziko, nolawulo lwento entle kakhulu.
Kodwa, linda phezulu, ukuqonda kwakho akulunganga!
Inyaniso kukuba wonke umntu, ewe wonke umntu , uziva esindwa kukudakumba kukusilela kwabo, okwenyani okanye okuqondwayo, ngamanye amaxesha.
Umahluko ulele kumandla abo okuseta kwakhona ikhampasi yabo emva kokunkqonkqoza kwaye baqhubeke nokuqhubela phambili bengafakwanga nesifungo kwizixhobo zabo.
Ukungabikho kokugwetywa, i-i-andinakwenza nantoni na-elungileyo idemon inendlela efihlakeleyo yokuzomeleza.
Akukho xesha unokuzibona unamathele kuxinzelelo, ukholelwa ngokwenyani ukuba yonke into oyichukumisayo iya kusilela ekugqibeleni.
Kwaye yindawo eyoyikisayo.
Injongo yeli nqaku kukunika ibhokisi yezixhobo ukukunceda wakhe ukomelela kwangaphakathi, usebenzisa izakhono kunye namandla osele unawo ngobuninzi, nokuba uziva ngathi bakulahlile ngoku.
Khumbula nje: akukho mntu ugqibeleleyo.
Isinyathelo sokuqala ekuguquleni i-mindset yakho engeyiyo entloko kukuthatha indawo okhoyo ngoku, zinqumle kancinci, kwaye uzikhumbuze ukuba akukho mntu ugqibeleleyo.
Yikhumbule into yokuba okukhona usiba namandla xa uzibetha, kokukhona uya kuncipha xa usenza umsebenzi wokuphelisa ukunganyamezeli okungathandekiyo okusebezayo, ' Akukho nto ndinokuyenza kakuhle. ”
Kodwa ngenene kunokwenzeka ukuba uhlengahlengise useto lwakho olungagqibekanga ukusuka kokungalunganga ukuya kokulungileyo ngokusebenzisa utshintsho oluthile kumbono wakho nakwindlela oziphethe ngayo.
Amanyathelo alandelayo anokuba mancinci, kodwa abetha ngenqindi ubunzima bawo ngokweziphumo. Konke malunga nokwakha umfutho oya kwenza ukuba ube yinto engenakunqandwa!
1. Phinda uwutshintshe umbuzo.
Ke, kulapho uthatha khona kwaye ufumanise ukuba uphi ngenene, ngokukhanyisa ukukhanya kwindawo emnyama obuyifowunele ekhaya kutshanje.
Endaweni yokuphindaphinda uzibuze intetho ethandabuzekayo nengancediyo 'kutheni ndingafumani nto ilungileyo?' umbuzo, zama ukuguqula kwaye ubeke i-spin efanelekileyo kuyo.
Endaweni yokuphinda lo mbuzo uqhelekileyo, ongalunganga, kwaye ongancedi nganto, zibuze endaweni yoko: 'Zeziphi ezinye izinto endizenze kakuhle?'
Bakho ukuba uyabajonga. Bazise kwinqanaba leziko kwaye uvumele ukuba uthathe ikhredithi kubo.
Kungangumbono olungileyo ukuzibhala phantsi kwijenali ukuze ubhekise ngokulula xa ufuna ukonyuswa. Yenza uluhlu onokuthi ulongeze njengoko uvumela umoya wokubuyela emva ngaphakathi kwentloko yakho.
Ngokufanayo, buza umbuzo wokuzikhusela ngolu hlobo: 'Yintoni enye into endinokuyenza ngalo mzuzu enokundenza ndizive ngcono?'
Mhlawumbi loo nto iya kuba kukutya yonke ibhokisi yakwaBen & Jerry okanye ukuhambahamba epakini. Ayinamsebenzi. Inqaku kukuba uthatha ulawulo kwaye wenza into enemveliso ngakumbi kunokuqhubeka ungene nzulu kwindawo yakho yokudakumba yoxinzelelo.
2. Sebenzisa imanag yakho yobuqu.
Enye yezona zinto zikhohlakeleyo malunga neengcinga ezingalunganga kukuthambekela kwabo ekuziphatheni. Benza amakhamandela okuthandabuza engqondweni yomntu ekunzima kakhulu ukuwasusa.
Ukuthetha okungathandekiyo ngaphakathi kungeniswa ngaphakathi kwaye kuyinyani entsha. Okukhona uphikelela kwinkolelo yakho yokuba awunakwenza nto ilungileyo, kokukhona kuya kubakho imeko njengoko ukuzithemba kwakho kujongelwa phantsi.
Kulapho ulwazi lwakho lukuvumela ukuba uqhubeke, uvumele ezi gremlins zingalunganga ziqhubeke nokuzomeleza kunye nokwenza inyani egqwethekileyo.
Enye yezona ndlela zisebenzayo zokusetha kwakhona indlela ocinga ngayo kukucamngca. Ukuphindaphinda amazwi aphindaphindwayo inokukumisa kwinyani yangoku, ivumele ingqondo yakho ukuba iphendule ngokuqinisekileyo kwiimvakalelo ezingalunganga.
Zama enye yezi ngobukhulu:
Ndiyakwazi ukwenza nantoni na endibeka kuyo ingqondo yam.
Ndingayenza le nto. Ndingayenza kakuhle. Ndinobuchule.
Ndizakwenza konke okusemandleni am, kwaye okona kulungileyo kulungile.
3. Hlamba okanye uhlambe.
Ngelixa kunokubonakala ngathi kukuzikhusela okuncinci kwaye kungasebenzi ebusweni be-tsunami yeengcinga ezingalunganga kunye neemvakalelo ojamelene nazo, ukuthatha ixesha leshawa eshushu okanye ibhafu egcwele amagwebu kulunge ngakumbi kunokuba unokucinga.
Umzimba wakho osebenza nzima ukusebenzela ubusuku nemini, uqhubeka nomsebenzi wawo nokuba uphezu kwehlabathi okanye ulwa needemon ezingenakufumana nantoni na elungileyo.
Ukuthatha ixesha lokuphumelela ukuvuza iinzame zayo zokungagqibi, ngakumbi esiphelweni sosuku olude kunye nokutsala, kunokukunika ukuseta kwakhona okudingayo waphule umjikelo wokunganaki entlokweni yakho.
Xa ugqibile ngohambo lwakho olufanelekileyo, thatha ixesha lokuphefumla kwaye ucinge ngendlela onokwazi ngayo.
4. Gquma kwaye uphinde uhlengahlengise.
Ukuba uziva ubethwa phantsi okwexeshana, uqinisekile ngokungakwazi kwakho ukuphumelela nakweyiphi na into, kusenokwenzeka ukuba uvumele izinto zityibilika ngaphakathi kwekhaya lakho okanye kwigumbi lakho.
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Ukuba ungumntu othanda ubuhle, isithuba esikungqongileyo sinokuhlala sibonisa imeko yengqondo yakho.
Uqhushululu uzalisa kwaye ugcwalise indawo ngokunyibilika kangangokuba ubunokuthi ungakuboni ukuhla.
Nangona kunjalo, usenokufumanisa ukuba iintaba ‘zezinto’ eziqokelelweyo, kunye nesiphithiphithi esisiphumo, zi ukonakalisa amandla akho okucinga ngokucacileyo kunye nokugxila.
Xa yonke into ekujikelezile ingu-topsy-turvy, ukufumana nantoni na eyenziweyo kungangqina nangakumbi komceli mngeni.
Ngelixa ulungelelanisa kwakhona, ukwala, okanye nokucoca nje indawo ejikeleze wena yimisebenzi emincinci ngokuthelekisa kwaye ayinanto yakwenza nooye bakho bangoku, banokwenza umahluko omkhulu kwimeko yakho yengqondo.
Awuzukufumana kuphela uluvo lwempumelelo ekubeni uwugqibe ngempumelelo umsebenzi, uya kuhlala kwindawo esebenza nawe kunokuba ungangqinelani nawe kwaye uzise phantsi.
5. Zikhuphele ngaphandle.
Xa ukwingqondo engaginyisi mathe, nokuzikhupha ebhedini kunokubonakala ngathi ngumzabalazo wokunyuka, kwaye umbono walo naluphi na uhlobo lomzamo womzimba awukho mbuzo.
Nangona inokuba yinto yokugqibela oziva ngathi uyayenza, ukuzinyanzela ukuba uphakame ngaphezulu kwe-inertia yengqondo kunye neyomzimba kwaye uzihambise linyathelo elikhulu lokulwa umva ngokuchasene nee-gremlins ezimnyama.
Ngcono okwangoku, phuma uye unxibelelane nabangaphandle. Ukuba phakathi kokumangalisa kwendalo kunye nokuzivumela ukuba uphefumlelwe ngobuhle bayo kunye notshintsho lwamaxesha onokuba yinto nje oyifunayo. ukungalingani iimvakalelo ohlangabezana nazo ngoku.
Kodwa awudingi ukoyisa iAppalachian Trail ukuze uve inzuzo. Ukuphuma nje kwiindonga zakho ezine kunye nokuthatha uhambo lwemizuzu elishumi ujikeleze ipaki okanye nokuba ujikeleze ibhloko kunokusebenza ngokumangalisayo xa ushenxisa ingqondo yakho engalunganga kwindlela efanelekileyo yokwenza izinto.
6. Thatha olunye uludwe lwezinto oza kuzenza.
Ke, apho ubambekile emathunjini kunye nomthwalo wokungalingani kuwo nawuphi na umsebenzi, ukholelwa ukuba awunakufumana nto ilungileyo.
Ingxaki kukuba, ngelixa unqunyulwe ngale ndlela, imisebenzi kuluhlu lwezinto oza kuzenza azinyibiliki ngomlingo. Endaweni yokuba ezi zinto, zinkulu okanye zincinci, zinokwakha ngokungapheliyo, zongeze umthwalo wakho wengqondo de zibe nzima kakhulu.
Ngoku lixesha lokuseta kwakhona indlela oza ngayo kusilelo lwemihla ngemihla. Ukuzinyanzela ukuba unamathele kulawulo olungqongqo kunokuba ngumthwalo ngokwakho. Ukuqala, zama ukukhetha into enye kuluhlu ngalunye kwaye uqokelele amandla engqondo nawokwasemzimbeni ukuze uyenze.
Yaphula imisebenzi emikhulu ukuya kubukhulu bokuluma, iintshukumo ezilawulwayo ezingarhafisi kakhulu. Ngamnye omkhethileyo uya kukunika umbono oxabisekileyo wokuphumelela.
Vumela imood yakho ikhokele ukhetho lwakho lomsebenzi. Yeka ukuzibetha malunga nokuba uphumeza okungakanani, okanye ubude bexesha elithathayo, kwaye uhlala ukhumbula ukuba ukwenza into enye kubhetele kunenye.
Impumelelo nganye ingqina ukuba ilizwi lakho langaphakathi elihleli linengxaki.
7. Cwangcisa uhambo.
Xa uziva ukuba uyehla ezantsi apho kungekho nto ibonakala ihambe kakuhle, ukwaphula umjikelo wokungakhathali notshintsho lwento kunokunceda ukuseta ikhampasi yakho yengqondo kunye neemvakalelo.
Oku akufuneki ukuba ube luhambo olude okanye nokuba ube ngumsele omkhulu kwimali yakho. Ukuphela kwempelaveki, kunye neempazamo ezimbalwa kunye nexesha elithile lokufumana ixesha elinokufumana izibonelelo ezinkulu ekunyuseni imeko yakho.
Ukuzinika indawo kunye nexesha kude nesiqhelo kunokunceda ukuseta umbono wakho kuyo yonke into.
Ziphathe.
Ngokuhamba kwimigca efanayo nembono yohambo, kodwa ngaphandle kweendleko kunye nesiphithiphithi sokushiya ikhaya, ukuzivuza ngempumelelo yakho sisixhobo esibalulekileyo ekubuyiseleni ukuzixabisa kwakho.
Ingqondo yomntu iphendula kakuhle kwindumiso kunye nomvuzo. Sebenzisa olo lwazi kwinzuzo yakho ngokuzivumela uzive unebhongo kwaye wenze inqaku lokuzinika unyango olufunyenwe kakuhle.
Zonwabise ngekomityi yekofu entle kunye nepasta emnandi kwikhefi ye swanky ngesiqhelo ubuthatha njengobugqithisileyo, mhlawumbi.
Imivuzo enjalo ayisosidenge, iyakhuthaza, ke musa ukuzibamba.
9. Zibekele usukelo onokulufikelela.
Ayisiyenzululwazi yerokethi ukuqonda ukuba ukuzixakekisa ngemisebenzi emikhulu kwaye enokwenzeka ukuba ayinakufezekiswa kuthoba amandla kwangoko. Uya kuziva uxhalabile, mhlawumbi ukuya kwinqanaba lokukhubazeka.
Ukuba uzibona usengxakini, ulumke ekuzinqumeleni kulindelo lwakho, ukuze ubuncinci ube nethuba lokuphumelela.
Xa ujongene ne-monster yomsebenzi, thabatha inyathelo emva. Ukusuka kolu luvo, uya kuba nesishwankathelo esingcono, ukukunceda uchonge izinto ezinokulawuleka ezenziwayo ngaphakathi komsebenzi omkhulu.
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Njengoko uzikhuphela ezi nganye nganye, ubukhulu becala umceli mngeni uya kususwa. Kancinci kancinci, endaweni yokuziva ngathi ujongene neNtaba i-Everest, uya kujonga kwiinduli ezimbalwa ezinokutsha ngokulula.
Njengoko ugqibezela umsebenzi ngamnye omncinci, ungawubetha kuluhlu lwakho. Kwaye, masijongane nayo, uvuyo lokweqa izinto ngaphandle koluhlu yenye yezinto ezilungileyo ebomini.
Ngcono okwangoku, uya kuba nakho ukuzivuza, njengoko kuchaziwe apha ngasentla, ngokuphatha okuninzi endleleni, njengoko inyathelo ngalinye loyisiwe.
10. Ungaze wenze nto.
Oku kunokubonakala ngathi yingcebiso engenakuphikiswa kwihlabathi apho kuxakeke ziingqondo kwaye kubeka iinjongo eziphezulu kakhulu kulindelo oluqhelekileyo.
Kodwa kunokuba kukungakwazi kwakho ukufumana nantoni na elungileyo kumzimba wakho nasengqondweni yakho efuna ikhefu.
Iziphumo ezimbaxa zokudinwa kwengqondo inokuba yintoni ebangela ukuphela kwemveliso yakho, uxinzelelo, kunye nokukwazi ukugxila. Ukuhlala uxinzelelo rhoqo kunempembelelo efanayo.
Mhlawumbi elona yeza lilungileyo okwangoku kukumamela umzimba wakho, wehle ivili lehamster, kwaye ungenzi nto konke konke okwethutyana.
Chitha usuku kwii-PJs zakho ekubukeni iiseti zebhokisi, lala ixesha elide uthanda ngaphandle kokuziva unetyala, okanye uthathe nje ukulala emva kwemini. Sukwenza nto!
Khumbula, oku ayikokuzonwabisa kunyanzelekile ukunika ingqondo yakho esebenze kakhulu ithuba lokucinezeleka kunye nokubuyisela ukuzithemba kwakho kunye nokomelela kwangaphakathi.
Inyani yile yokuba womelele kwaye unamandla ngakumbi kunokuba usazi. Ungaphezu kwemingeni ebekwe phambi kwakho.
Kutheni ungazami ezinye zezi zimvo ukunceda ukuseta ikhampasi yakho yengqondo kwimowudi onokuyenza?
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