Ukwamkela uxanduva ngamazwi kunye nezenzo zikayinxalenye ebalulekileyo yokuphila ubomi obusempilweni, obulungeleleneyo.
Abantu zizidalwa ezinzima, ezididayo ngamanye amaxesha. Abahlobo bakho, usapho, kunye nabantu obathandayo baya kwenza iimpazamo kwaye benze izinto ezingakhathaliyo ezifuna uxolelo kunye negumbi lokukhula.
Nawe ke uya kwenjenjalo.
Kodwa kukho umahluko phakathi kokuthatha uxanduva ngezenzo zakho nokwamkela ityala ekungelolakho ukwamkela.
Isenokuziva iyinto elungileyo ukuyenza kuba yindlela yokugudisa iingxoxo, kodwa ayisiyampilo okanye ayifanelekanga kwabanye abantu ababandakanyekayo.
Akunempilo ekubeni uya kugqiba ukwenza uninzi lwabasebenzi beemvakalelo kubudlelwane. Akulunganga kuba ayiloxanduva lwakho, kwaye kuthintela omnye umntu amandla okuphuhlisa nokukhula.
Lonke ulwalamano lufuna imida esempilweni. Kwaye inxenye yokuba nemida esempilweni kukulungela ukunyusa kwaye ube neempazamo zakho, ngokunjalo hayi Ukwamkela uxanduva lokuziphatha kakubi komnye umntu.
Ukuzibek 'ityala ngayo yonke into kukuziphatha okuqhele ukwenzeka ebuntwaneni kunye nabazali abangakwaziyo ukwamkela uxanduva ngezenzo zabo. Basenokuba babeke uxanduva olungeyomfuneko emagxeni abantwana babo, bebenza bakholelwe ukuba babekek 'ityala.
Imibongo yentuthuzelo emva kokufa
Uthando kungenzeka ukuba lwalungekho okanye lwabanjwa njengesohlwayo xa umzali efuna ukwenza umntwana wakhe azive ngathi baphosisile. Ukuphathwa gadalala, ukuhlazisa, kunye nokugxekwa ngokungekho sikweni kusenokwenzeka ukuba bekukho.
Ukophula loo mjikelo wokuzibek 'ityala nokugxeka linyathelo elifanelekileyo lokuzithanda kunye nokuba nolwalamano olusempilweni.
Uyenza njani lonto? Uyeka njani ukuzigxeka ngayo yonke into?
1.YENZAThatha uxanduva lwezinto ozibekekileyo.
Sukwenza impazamo yokwala izinto onoxanduva lwazo.
Izenzo zakho kunye namazwi akho zezakho ukumisela. Ayinamsebenzi into eyenziwa ngabanye abantu okanye indlela abanye abantu abenza ngayo.
Akukho mpilweni ukusebenzisa iintshukumo zabanye abantu njengesingxengxezo sokwenza izinto ezingalunganga okanye ukunqanda ukuthatha uxanduva kukhetho lwakho.
Ukuba uza kwenza okanye uthethe into, ke ungumnini wezo zenzo kunye namagama. Yiba neqhayiya ngale nto uyenzayo. Ukuba ayisiyiyo into onokuzingca ngayo okanye ulunge ngayo, ke ungayenzi.
Olu hlobo lwendlela lwenza kube lula ngakumbi ukwamkela xa unoxanduva naxa ungekho.
Ungajonga imeko kwaye uzibuze, “Ingaba olu luxanduva lwam? Zeziphi izenzo zam nendima yam kumnyhadala? Ngaba ndenze isenzo esingalunganga? Ngaba ndithethe into engeyiyo? ”
2. Sula ukugxeka kwakho ngamazwi othando kunye nenkxaso.
Umntu ozibeka ityala uhlala ethanda ukugxeka kabukhali.
Yila lizwi lincinci, ngamanye amaxesha lingxolayo, elikuxelela ukuba unetyala! Awulunganga ngokwaneleyo! Uhlala uziphazamisa izinto! Awufanelanga! Yintoni engalunganga ngawe? Kutheni ungayenza loo nto!?
Elo lizwi kufuneka lithuliswe kwaye kutshintshwe ngeengcinga ezinobubele.
ndidikwe lonke ixesha
Ungumntu onesiphene owenza konke okusemandleni akho, njengaye wonke umntu. Akukho mntu ugqibeleleyo. Akukho mntu ufumana yonke into ichaneke ngokupheleleyo.
Izicwangciso ezibekwe kakuhle zinokungahambi kakuhle ngenxa yeemeko ezingalindelekanga ngokupheleleyo. Ubudlelwane bunokungasebenzi. Ubuhlobo bunokuphela buqhawuke. Izinto zisenokungahambi kakuhle emsebenzini.
Kwaye uyazi ntoni? Yonke loo nto kuyinto eqhelekileyo . Obo bubomi kuphela. Akukho nanye ekwenza ube ngumntu ombi okanye efuna ukuba ubenayo nayiphi na into ngaphandle kwamagama kunye nezenzo zakho.
Ngamanye amaxesha amazwi nezenzo zakho azizukuba nobubele okanye zilunge. Mhlawumbi ubunosuku olubi, ubungekho kwindawo efanelekileyo yentloko, kwaye awunamonde njengoko ubungathanda ukuba nawo. Kulungile.
Uvumelekile ukuba ube ngumntu kwaye ungaphantsi kokugqibeleleyo.
3. Kuphephe ukugweba nokugxeka kakhulu abanye abantu.
Ukuzigxeka kunye nokuzibeka ityala kuyondliwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Xa umntu ecinga ngokungqongqo ngesiqu sakhe, kusenokwenzeka ukuba nabo bacinga rhabaxa okanye bagwebe abanye abantu ngokhetho abalwenzayo.
Ukwandisa ubabalo kunye noxolelo kwabanye ngenxa yeziphoso zabo ezinamaphutha kunokunceda ukuthambisa indlela ozijonga ngayo.
Ukuba ungaqala ukubona nokwamkela iimpazamo zabanye, ungafunda ukuzibona nokuzamkela iziphene zakho.
Isigwebo sabanye yindlela eqinisekileyo yokujongela phantsi ukonwaba kwakho kunye nokuba sempilweni. Ixesha olichitha ukugxeka okanye ukucaphuka ngabanye lixesha lokuba ulahlekelwe kukuphucula wena kunye nobomi bakho.
Zibuze imibuzo enje, 'Ngaba kufuneka ndibenoluvo malunga noku? Oku kubuchaphazela njani ubomi bam? Ngaba oku kuyabuchaphazela ubomi bam? ”
Abantu abagweba abanye ngokungqongqo bahlala beziva ngathi abanye abantu babagweba ngendlela efanayo. Into oya kuthi uyiqonde kukuba uninzi lwabantu luxhalabele kuphela ubomi babo.
4. Jonga amava amabi njengento onokufunda kuyo.
Ulwimi olungqongqo lokuzibeka ityala kunye nokuzigxeka zihlala zihla ukuze sandise amava amabi sonke esinawo.
La mava amabi ayayeka ukuba nefuthe elinzulu kwaye elihlala lihleli ukuba unokuthi uphinde uzibonakalise njengezinto ezingathathi cala okanye ezilungileyo.
Ukusilela kukusilela kuphela ukuba awufundi nto kuyo.
ngu lil nas x utshatile
Kodwa ukungaphumeleli kubuhlungu! Ukwahlukana kukuziva kakubi! Izinto ezingasebenziyo zilusizi kwaye ziyadandathekisa!
Konke oko kunokuba yinyani nako. Siyakuthanda ukubona ibali elikhazimlisiweyo lomntu obeka ingqondo yakhe kwisenzo aze aphume phambili. Kodwa inyani kukuba bambalwa abantu abaphumeleleyo kuyo nantoni na ngoko nangoko. Kwaye rhoqo, impumelelo yabo ixhaswa yimfumba yezinto abazizamile nezingakhange ziphumelele.
Amava amabi aphulukana nokuqaqamba kwabo xa usazi ukuba uyakuthatha ubulumko bobomi kumava ukuze wakhe impumelelo ebomini bakho.
5. Funa uncedo olongezelelekileyo.
Abantu abenza ukugxeka okugqithisileyo okanye ukuzibeka ityala bahlala benemicimbi ebomini babo ebatyhalela kwelo cala.
Ezi ziindidi zezinto eziza nokuxhatshazwa njengomntwana, umothuko kunye nokuxhatshazwa ekhaya.
Oko akuthethi ukuba ezi ziganeko kufuneka zazise kwaye zikhokele ubomi bakho. Oko kuthetha ukuba ungadinga ukujongana nale micimbi kwaye usebenze ukuze uphilise lo monakalo ukuze wenze ezinye iinguqulelo ozikhangeleyo ngokulula.
Ungaphilisa, utshintshe kwaye ukhule ukuba uzinika imvume yoku.
Musa ukuthandabuza ukufuna uncedo lwempilo yengqondo ukuba ufumanisa ukuba unzima ukusebenza kwezi zinto. Akukho hlazo ekufuneni uncedo kule ngxaki inzima kangaka. Ukuba ufuna ukudibanisa nonyango ukuze usebenze ngale nto, cofa apha ukuze ufumane enye.
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