Ngaba kufuneka usebenzele ekuzihloneleni kwakho?
Ukuba ufunda le nto, mhlawumbi uye waqonda ukuba uyakwenza oko.
Ukuba namanqanaba asempilweni okuzihlonipha akunakuba kubaluleke kakhulu ebomini.
Sonke siyazi ukuba ukuba asizithandi, ke kunzima ukulindela ukuba omnye umntu asithande, okanye silwamkele olo thando.
Kukwanjalo nangentlonipho.
Ukuba awuzihloniphi kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bakho, inokuba nefuthe elikhulu kubomi bakho bobuchwephesha, kubomi bakho bobuqu, nakubudlelwane bakho nabahlobo, usapho, kunye nothando.
Ukuba amanqanaba akho okuzihlonela uthathe idiphu kutshanje, okanye awuzange uphakame ngokukodwa ukuqala, zininzi iindlela onokuzilungisa ngayo.
Ukufunda indlela yokuzihlonela kunokubuguqula ubomi bakho ngeendlela ezininzi.
Nazi iingcebiso ezili-10 zokwenza isibhakabhaka esiphakamileyo sizihlonele ngokwenyani.
1. Yiba nembeko ngakumbi kwabanye.
Abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuba xa ufuna into ebomini, kufuneka uyinike abanye abantu loo nto, kwaye ekugqibeleni iya kubuyela kuwe.
Kwaye kwimeko yentlonipho, akuzange kuthethwe nelinye ilizwi eliyinyani.
Bonisa intlonipho engakumbi kwabanye, kwaye uya kukholwa ukuba ufanelekile, kwaye uya kuqala ukuziphatha ngentlonipho ngakumbi.
2. Jonga indlela olisebenzisa ngayo ixesha lakho.
Sinexesha elilinganiselweyo kuphela kule planethi. Kwaye indlela oyichitha ngayo ibaluleke kakhulu.
Ewe akunakulichitha lonke ixesha lakho usukelo olunentsingiselo okanye izinto othanda ukuzenza.
Sonke sinezibophelelo, kwaye, ngelishwa, asinakuba nayo yonke imisebenzi esisizalisa ngekratshi nentlonipho.
Kodwa ukuba ulisusa ixesha lakho lasimahla usenza izinto ezingabalulekanga kuwe okanye zikufezekise, amanqanaba akho okuzihlonela aya kubandezeleka.
Cinga ngendlela ochitha ngayo iiyure ngeveki. Kuya kubakho umsebenzi, kuya kubakho ezinye izibophelelo, kwaye kuya kubakho ixesha elininzi lokuphumla kunye nokuzikhathalela.
Kodwa kuya kufuneka ukwazi ukuchitha ixesha elithile nabantu ababaluleke kakhulu kuwe, usenza imisebenzi ekwenza wonwabe, ufunde ngezinto onomdla kuzo, okanye uqhubekeke nobangela obakhathalelayo.
3. Jonga indlela oyisebenzisa ngayo imali yakho.
Indlela okhetha ukuyisebenzisa ngayo imali inokuba nefuthe elikhulu kumanqanaba wakho wokuzihlonipha.
Ukuba uwela kwixabiso elilingayo kwiivenkile ezikhawulezayo zefashoni okanye uthenga izinto ezingafunekiyo ezilahlwayo awudingi, ngaphandle kokuba uyazi ngempembelelo enayo kubathengi kwiplanethi yethu, awuzukuziva ulungile ngawe.
Jonga indlela oyichitha ngayo imali yakho nakweyiphi na inyanga kwaye ucinge ukuba ingaba yinto ebonakalayo ebalulekileyo kuwe.
Ukufa komhlobo imibongo ezikhuthazayo
Ukuba akunjalo, cinga ngendlela onokuyitshintsha ngayo indlela ochitha ngayo imali ukuze ubambe intloko xa ujonga ngasemva kwizitetimenti zakho zebhanki.
4. Cinga ngendlela oziphilisa ngayo.
Njengoko kukhankanyiwe ngasentla, asinabo bonke ubunewunewu bokukwazi ukwenza umsebenzi esiwuthandayo ngokupheleleyo.
Asisoloko sonke sinobizo, njengoko kukho zonke iintlobo zeemeko ezixolisayo.
Ukuba unosapho ukuxhasa okanye uxanduva lwezezimali, ke ukubhatala ngokukhuselekileyo yeyona nto iphambili- kwaye kulungile.
Kodwa, ukuba umsebenzi owenzayo wokufumana imali uyaphikisana nemigaqo yakho, kunokuba nzima ukuba uzihloniphe.
Ke, ukuba unethamsanqa lokuba ukwazi ukukhangela amathuba emisebenzi amatsha okanye ucinge ngokufudukela kwindawo eyahlukileyo yomsebenzi, iya kuba linyathelo elihle kakhulu eliya kuthathwa ukukhulisa amanqanaba wakho wokuzihlonipha.
5. Zijikeleze nabantu abazihloniphayo kunye nawe.
Sikholisa ukufunda ngcono ngomzekelo.
Ukuba ungqongwe ngabantu ababonisa amanqanaba asempilweni okuzihlonipha, kunokwenzeka ukuba uqale ubalingise.
Chitha ixesha nabo banebhongo ngomsebenzi wabo, balisebenzise kakuhle ixesha labo lokuphumla, ngelixa uthatha ixesha lokuphumla, ukuze bahlale begqibelele.
Aba bantu abafanayo kufuneka bakuhlonele njengoko besihlonipha bona.
Ukuba kukho abantu ebomini bakho abasoloko befika emva kwexesha, bakuhlise, okanye bangabeki mizamo kubudlelwane babo nawe, ke ngekhe bakunike imbeko ekufaneleyo.
6. Qiniseka ukuba ubudlelwane bakho bothando busekwe kwintlonipho.
Ukuba ukhetha ukuba kubudlelwane bezothando, kufuneka busekwe ngokuhloniphana.
Kanye njengokuthembana, imbeko sisiseko solwalamano. Ukuba awubonisi ntlonipho kwiqabane lakho, kwaye ungayifumani kwangoko, inokujongela phantsi iimvakalelo zakho komnye nomnye.
Intlonipho kubudlelwane ibonakaliswa ngendlela othetha ngayo omnye komnye, nokuba imeko iya isiba nzima.
7. Qala ngokujonga ukuzinakekela njengento ebalulekileyo, hayi eyodidi.
Ukuba ufuna ukwakha ukuzihlonipha, kufuneka uqale ngokujonga umzimba nengqondo yakho.
uyeke njani ukuziva unetyala malunga nexesha elidlulileyo
Ukuzikhathalela akuyonto engenamsebenzi, kubalulekile.
Ukutya kakuhle, ukuhambisa umzimba, ukuphumla kunye nokuzonwabisa iziyolo ezincinci ebomini kufuneka ibe yimvelo yesibini.
8. Sebenzisa ingqondo yakho.
Sonke sinamandla amakhulu engqondo kunokuba siqonda.
Ukuzityhala ngengqondo, ukuzama ukuqonda iikhonsepthi ezintsha kunye nokufunda izinto ezintsha, kubaluleke kakhulu.
Okukhona usenza, kokukhona uya kuqonda ukuba uyakwazi, kwaye kokukhona uya kuhlonipha ukuba ube nengqondo kunye nobukrelekrele.
9. Zibekele usukelo, uze unamathele kulo.
Abanye abantu bayasokola ukuzihlonipha kuba bayazi ukuba banamaqhinga.
Bahlala besithi bazokwenza into, emva koko bafumane izizathu ezizigidi zokungayenzi.
Ixesha lihamba kwaye abafezekisi zonke izinto ekudala bephupha ngazo.
Ngaba oku kuyavakala njengawe?
Ukuba kunjalo, yenza umgudu wokuzibekela usukelo onokulufikelela uze ulufikelele. Oku kukodwa kunokuyiguqula imbono yakho ngokwakho.
Umceli mngeni kuwe, zibeke apho phandle ukuze uzame izinto ezintsha, kwaye xa usithi uza kwenza into, yitsho.
Yenze yenzeke.
10. Yithi hayi.
Ingxaki enkulu kubantu abaninzi abangazihloniphiyo kukuba bazama ukukholisa wonke umntu.
Oko kuhlala kuguqulela ekubeni bathi ewe kuyo yonke into abacelwa ukuba bayenze, nokuba kubomi babo bobuchwephesha okanye bobuqu.
Abantu bahlala bethatha ithuba lokuziphatha, kwaye ukuba uthi ewe kuyo yonke into kwaye unokuninzi kwipleyiti yakho, ngekhe ukwazi ukwenza nantoni na kumgangatho ongathanda ukwenza ngawo.
Ke, esona sitshixo sokufumana ukuzihlonipha kukwazi ukuba uthi hayi nini.
Yiba nesibindi sokujika kwaye ngesidima wazise umntu ukuba uxakeke kakhulu okanye ayilulo uhlobo lwakho lwento.
Uyakumangaliswa yindlela eliguquka ngayo eli gama libonakala lingabalulekanga.
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