Ngaba wakha uyibaxa imeko ukuze ufumane uvelwano lomntu, uncedo, okanye nexesha labo?
Kukufuna ingqalelo.
ungathini endaweni yokuzisola ngelahleko yakho
Ngaba wakha wathetha into ongayithethi ngokwenyani ukuba ucaphukise impendulo, nokuba ngaba impendulo inomsindo?
Kukufuna ingqalelo.
Ukuba uthambekele ekuziphatheni okufuna ingqalelo, mhlawumbi uyazi nzulu, kodwa awunamdla wokuyivuma.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, siyijonga kakubi le ndlela yokuziphatha kwabanye.
Abathandekayo bethu baya kuyinyamezela le ndlela yokuziphatha ixesha elide kuninzi, kodwa bambalwa abantu abaya kuyinyamezela ngonaphakade.
Ukuba awulumkanga, olu phawu lunokubatyhalela kude abo ubathandayo.
Isandi esiqhelekileyo?
Ngaphambi kokuba uzibethe malunga nayo, kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba ukufuna ingqalelo ngumntu kuphela.
Ubomi bumalunga nokunxibelelana esikwenzayo nabanye abantu, kwaye siyaphumelela xa sinxibelelana nabanye.
Sonke si Ndifuna kwaye imfuno kwinqanaba elithile lokuqwalaselwa.
xa ungakhathali kwakhona
Nangona kunjalo, kukho umgca entlabathini owahlula umnqweno osempilweni wokunxibelelana nokufuna impilo okungenampilo.
Kukho zonke iintlobo zezizathu zokuba umntu omdala afune ukuhoywa.
Inokugxila ngandlela thile ebuntwaneni babo, okanye isenokuba sisiphumo somsitho wamva nje.
Abanye abantu badlula ixesha elincinci lokufuna ukuhoywa xa befumana isiziba esibi kwaye bafuna ukuqinisekiswa.
Abanye bethu baya kuhlala benomdla wokufuna ingqalelo.
Ukuphuhlisa isidingo sokuqwalaselwa rhoqo yinto ekufuneka siyilumkele ukuba sifuna ukugcina ubudlelwane obunempilo nabantu esibathandayo, izihlobo, okanye abantu esisebenza nabo.
Ngethamsanqa, nje ukuba wazi iintlobo zokuziphatha eziboniswe ngumntu onesidingo sokuqwalaselwa, ungaqala ukubona xa uziphethe ngaloo ndlela, kwaye uthathe amanyathelo okuyilungisa.
Nantsi imizekelo ecacileyo ekufuneka uyiqaphele…
1. Ukwenza ngathi ngekhe wenze into
Uzenza ngathi awukwazi ukwenza into oyiyo, enyanisweni, onako ukuyenza, ukuze umntu akwenzele yona, kwaye ajonge ingqalelo yabo kuwe ngelixa besenza njalo.
2. Ukuloba ngenjongo yokuncoma
Ukhomba impumelelo yakho, nangona ingabalulekanga, ngendlela ethetha ukuba abo bakumameleyo kufuneka bakuncome.
Ukwenza oku ukuze uziqinisekise kwaye uqinisekise.
Ngelixa sonke siloba iintlanzi ukuze sinconywe ngamanye amaxesha - ukuba sifumene iinwele ezintsha, iimpahla, okanye umsebenzi, umzekelo-ukwenza oko ngokuzingisileyo luphawu lwesilumkiso.
3.Angabuzi Ngabanye Ubomi Babantu Neengxaki
Nguwe olawula incoko kwaye ufumana uvelwano okanye iingcebiso zomntu othetha naye, kodwa kunqabile ukuba umbuyekeze.
Ilizwe lakho lijikeleza ngokungqongqo kuwe.
indlela lowkey uxelele mfo uyamthanda
Incoko kufuneka ibe macala amabini. Xa udibana nomntu, kuya kufuneka ubabuze ngobomi babo kanye njengoko bebuza ngobomi bakho.
Kwelinye icala, unokuba nencoko egxile kuwe, kwiingxaki zakho, nakwimpumelelo yakho, kwaye ungaziqondi.
4.Ukuba yingxabano Kwimiyalezo yezoLuntu
Uxhokonxa inkathazo kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo kwaye unempikiswano ngokunokwenzeka ukuba nje ucaphukise impendulo.
Mhlawumbi wabelana ngamanqaku aphikisayo kuFacebook kwaye ulinde iimpendulo ongena kuzo.
Okanye mhlawumbi uthumela imiyalezo efihlakeleyo ebonisa ukuba kukho into engalunganga kuwe kwaye ulinde amagqabaza okubuza kunye nemiyalezo echaphazelekayo ukuba ifike.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Imizekelo eli-12 yokuZiphatha okuKhangela ukuVunywa (+ Indlela yokuShiya iMfuno yakho yoQinisekiso)
- Iimpawu ze-6 oJongene ne-Narcissist eModareyitha (kodwa ke uyiNarcissist)
- Iimpawu zokuziphatha ezinetyhefu ezingafanele zibenandawo ebomini bakho
- Ungayinqanda njani iDrama kwaye uyiyeke ekuchitheni uBomi bakho
- Ukuqhubana nabantu abangaze baXolise okanye bavume ukuba baphosakele
- Iimpawu zokuziphatha ezi-9 ezinokuthi ziqhubele abahlobo bakho kude
5. Ukurheletya
Ufuna umdla kwezesondo kwabo ubatsaleleleyo kwaye utshintshe amaqabane rhoqo xa utshintsha iikawusi zakho.
Oku akuthethi ukuba kukho nantoni na ephosakeleyo ngokuthatha inxaxheba kunye nokuzonwabisa ngesondo, kunye nabani na ofuna, nanini na xa ufuna.
Ngamanye amaxesha, nangona kunjalo, abantu bazibandakanya kwizinto ezininzi zesondo kunye namaqabane ahlukeneyo ngezizathu ezinganiki mandla kangako.
Unokuba nezantsi ubuwena okanye unokuba nethemba lokuba umntu osondeleyo kuwe uya kuqaphela indlela oziphethe ngayo kwaye aveze inkxalabo yakhe ngayo.
Okanye, ungakonwabela ukugxila ekuhlebeni, nokuba kukubi okanye kugweba.
6. Ukubaxa izinto rhoqo
Uyawafaka amabali kwaye uyathanda ukwenza ukuba zonke iimeko ezimbi zivakale zibi kakhulu kunokuba kunjalo / ukuze ufumane uvelwano.
7.… Nokukhalaza
Ukubambana ngesandla kukubaxa.
Uhlala ufumana into yokukhalaza ngayo, usilele ukujonga kwicala eliqaqambileyo okanye ubone okuhle nakweyiphi na imeko.
8. Ukubangela Iingxoxo
Xa ingqalelo iyinjongo, ihlala ingakhathali nokuba olo luqwalaselo luchanekile okanye alulunganga, ukuba nje ikhona.
Uhlala ubangela iimpikiswano ngaphandle kwesizathu esivakalayo, uhlala usenzela ukuba ufumane ingqalelo emntwini okanye kubantu ophikisana nabo, nangona ingalunganga loo nto.
9. Ukwenza Izinto Ukulungiselela Ukudumisa
Uzibona usenza izinto okanye usiya kwiindawo nje ngokuthanda okuya kufunyanwa bubungqina obufotyiweyo kwi-Instagram.
brock lesnar kunye nabangcwabi
Kodwa ayisiyiyo nje imithombo yeendaba zentlalo.
Nantoni na oyenzayo ekhuthazwa kukwamkelwa okanye kukudunyiswa oyakufumana- kunokuba ufuna nyani ukuyenza okanye kuba izakuba nempembelelo entle kubomi bakho okanye kubomi babanye - nayo iwela phantsi kolu luhlu.
uxelele njani xa umntu edlala ngothando
Ngokuchaseneyo, ukuba indumiso elindelweyo ayizi kwaye kukho ukugxekwa endaweni yayo, oku kunokuba kukukhubazeka.
Ngelixa abanye abantu abafuna ukuhoywa abayi kuyithatha nganto into engeyiyo kwaphela, ukuba unamathele kakhulu kwindumiso, ukugxeka kunokuba nzima ukumelana nako.
Yintoni unobangela?
Ukuba kukho nasiphi na kwezi zivakalisi zingasentla njengawe, iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba inyathelo lokuqala lokuphelisa isimilo sokufuna ingqalelo kukukwazi oko.
Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukutshintsha indlela oziphethe ngayo, kufuneka ucinge ukuba ivela phi.
Hlala phantsi ucinge ukuba zeziphi ezi ndlela zokuziphatha unetyala, kwaye unyaniseke kwisiqu sakho malunga nokuba kutheni ucinga ukuba wenza ngale ndlela uyenzayo.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, akukho nto ingako ukuzama ukutshintsha indlela oziphethe ngayo ukuba akukho nto uyenzayo ukulungisa ingcambu yengxaki.
Ukuba uziva ukhululekile ukwenza njalo, thetha nabahlobo bakho abasondeleyo okanye usapho malunga neenkxalabo zakho kwaye ubone ukuba abanalo na ulwazi lokuba kutheni usenza izinto ozenzayo.
Emva kokukhangela umphefumlo, kwaye kuxhomekeke kwinto oyityhilileyo, usenokuzuza kunyango oluncinci lokukunceda usebenze ngemicimbi yakho kwaye ube ngumntu ozithembileyo, onako ukuzimela onakho ukuba nako .
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba indlela yokuziphatha ehambelana nokufuna ingqalelo inokubonisa ukuba umntu unayo Ukuphazamiseka kubuntu beMbali . Cofa kwikhonkco ukuze ufunde ngakumbi.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba wenzeni malunga notyekelo lwakho lokufuna ingqalelo ngalo lonke ixesha? Thetha nomcebisi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo yokoyisa. Cofa nje apha ukunxibelelana nenye.
