Idrama ayikhange ibonakale ikude kakhulu. Kubonakala ngathi abantu abaninzi bayazifihla iinjongo ezithile ezimbi emva kobuqili babo.
Nangona kunjalo, ubumdaka bemeko yomntu abuyonto intsha. Kuzo zonke inkqubela phambili esiyenzileyo kwezentlalo nakwezobuchwephesha, kusekho intaphane yemijelo yokuzingca ehamba ngaphantsi komhlaba echaphazela okwenzekayo okusingqongileyo.
Konke oko kungenxa yezenzo kunye nokukhetha kwabantu.
Ukufunda indlela yokuphepha umdlalo sisakhono esifanelekileyo sokunciphisa uxinzelelo kunye ukuphila ngoxolo .
Uyenza njani lonto?
1. Phicotha isangqa sabahlobo bakho kunye nezihlobo rhoqo.
Akusiyo imfihlo efihliweyo yokuba abantu ochitha ixesha elininzi baya kuba nefuthe kubomi bakho nakwiimbono zakho.
Kuphephe ukuzijikeleza nge abantu abasoloko bexakaniseka kumdlalo weqonga , nokuba kungaphandle okanye kuyindalo yabo.
Oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka usike abantu ngokupheleleyo okanye ucime. Ngamanye amaxesha akunakwenzeka ukuba ususe umntu ebomini bakho ongenguye umntu osempilweni ukuba abekunye nabo, ngakumbi ukuba banxulumene nawe okanye iqabane lakho.
Thatha ixesha lokucinga ngenene ngabantu ochitha ixesha elininzi kunye nabo.
Ngaba bangabantu abalungileyo okanye abanoxolo? Ngaba bazama ukuziphucula?
Ngaba zikwenza uzive ulungile, okanye ziyakwenza ndiziva ndidiniwe and negative xa uchitha ixesha nabo?
Ngaba obu buhlobo kunye nobudlelwane buzisa izinto ezintle okanye ezimbi ebomini bakho?
Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uyakuba nabantu ababekade bemangalisa okanye begcwaliswe ngedrama, kodwa batshintshile ngokuhamba kwexesha.
Kufanelekile ukuvavanya olu lwalamano kwaye unganiki ixesha elingafanelekanga okanye uqwalaselo kubantu abangazisi xabiso ebomini bakho.
Endaweni yoko, tyala ixesha kunye nengqwalaselo yakho kubudlelwane obulungileyo ukuze ubagcine besempilweni kwaye bephindaphinda.
2. Sebenzisa indlela yeGrey Rock.
Indlela yeGrey Rock yindlela eqhelekileyo esetyenziselwa ukunxibelelana kunye nokunciphisa umonakalo onokuthi wenziwe zii-narcissists kubomi bomntu.
Ikwasebenza nabantu abanedrama eninzi ebomini babo abathi bayisasaze ngokungaqhelekanga ngokufuna inkxaso yeemvakalelo ngaphandle kokwenza nantoni na ukulungisa imeko yabo.
Aba bantu 'baziimvampires ngokweemvakalelo,' kuba bekhona ukuze bamunce naluphi na uvelwano okanye uvelwano abanokuluthatha ukuze bazisizele.
Ngokwesiqhelo abanikeli nto encinci kulwalamano. Bahlala belindele ukuba ubekhona, kodwa abayi kubakho nangayiphi na indlela enentsingiselo, okanye bazinciphise iingxaki zakho kwaye babuyisele ingqalelo kubo.
Umbono kukuzenza ungadinisi kwaye ungabangeli umdla kangangoko emntwini ngoko akukho nto imiyo inokusetyenziswa ngokuchasene nawe okanye njengesixhobo sokukuxhuma.
Oko kuthetha ukuba unika iimpendulo ezingazibopheleli, ungabinazimvo kwizifundo ezihlaselwe ngokweemvakalelo, kwaye ungazivumeli ukuba ube neempembelelo ezibonakalayo ezibonakalayo kuyo nayiphi na into ayenzayo okanye ayithethayo.
Awabelani nantoni na yobuqu kunye nomnye umntu ukuze bangabi nayo i-engile yokuzama ukukusebenzela.
Ukucutha uqhakamshelwano okanye ukunxibelelana ngokweemeko zakho okanye ishedyuli kunceda ukujikeleza yonke le ndlela.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
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- Ukuba ulawula abazali, UNGAZE unyamezele ezi zinto zintathu kubo
- Ukuba Umntu Ukhe Waxoka Kuwe, Le yeyona ndlela yokuPhendula
3. Ungaze unike ingcebiso ngaphandle kokuba ubuziwe. Nika ingcebiso kube kanye xa ubuziwe.
Ingcebiso yinto ekhohlisayo. Kuyinkohliso kuba kuhlala kungamkelekanga ngaphandle kokuba kuceliwe. Akukho mntu uthanda ukuxelelwa ukuba makenze ntoni okanye aphile njani.
Ukuba ngumhambisi weengcebiso likrele elintlangothi-mbini, ngakumbi ukuba uluhlobo lomntu olonwabelayo ukunceda abanye abantu fumana indlela yabo.
Kwelinye icala, ukufunda kumava abantu esele behamba ngeendlela esizama ukuhamba kuzo kubalulekile. Kwelinye, unokufumana ukuba ungene kumdlalo weqonga wabanye abantu.
Olunye ukhetho kukungaze ube ngumsasazi weengcebiso, ngaloo ndlela abantu abaze kuwe neengxaki zabo. Enye into kukumisela nokunyanzelisa imida.
Ungaze unike ingcebiso ngaphandle kokuba iceliwe. Ukuba akucaci, buza loo mntu ukuba ufuna ingcebiso okanye ingaba uphefumla nje. Kwaye ukuba bathi bafuna ingcebiso, ke ngandlela zonke hamba kude.
Umda oqinileyo oya kugcina i-vampires yeemvakalelo ekubeni ingatshixeki kukunganiki iingcebiso ngaphezulu kwesinye.
Kukho abantu abanyanzelisa ukuleqa imisila yabo rhoqo. Baza kubuyela kuwe amaxesha ngamaxesha kunye neengxaki ezifanayo ngaphandle kokuzama ingcebiso esele uyihambisile.
Okukhona usonwabisa ezo ntlobo zezenzo, kokukhona umntu eza kubuyela kuwe. Mane urhoxise ubuyele kwingcebiso yakho yoqobo ukuba baphinde bacele ingcebiso.
4. Ukusebenzisa ukuthembeka ngobuchule kugxotha ii-vampire zeemvakalelo.
Ngaba uyazi ukuba zeziphi i-vampires zovakalelo kunye nabantu abagcwele umdlalo abazonda ukuva? Inyaniso ethembekileyo. Ukunyaniseka ngobuchule kuyindlela yenyani-yenyani yokuchaza ngokucacileyo uluvo oluncomekayo ngelixa unciphisa ukubuyela umva.
Igama lokucwangcisa kubalulekile. Baninzi abantu phaya abasebenzisa 'ukunyaniseka ngokumasikizi' njengesizathu esifanelekileyo sokuthetha nantoni na esezingqondweni zabo ngaphandle kwengcinga yokuvuselela utshintsho.
Abantu bayeke ukumamela kwaye bembe ngakumbi ekuzikhuseleni xa uvutha umsindo kubo okanye izimvo zabo. Ukongeza, banokusebenzisa umsindo wakho nxamnye nawe ukuze ubonakale ngathi uyingxaki.
Ekuhambiseni ukunyaniseka ngobuchule, umntu ufuna ukunamathela kwiinyani kwaye azizise ngendlela ezolileyo, engahambelaniyo ngaphambili. Ewe, umntu unokubuyisa umlilo ngomsindo kwaye azame ukukuloba kwingxabano, kodwa oko kunokuthintelwa ngokukhetha ukungazibandakanyi kwincoko kuloo miqathango.
Into emnandi malunga nokunyaniseka ngobuchule kukuba abantu bokwenyani bathanda ukukuxabisa, kuba ukunyaniseka okukhohlakeleyo kunokuba nzima kakhulu kwabanye, ngakumbi ukuba abekho sempilweni ngokwengqondo.
I-vampires yeemvakalelo, iihanger, kunye nabantu abagcwele umdlalo bazonda ukunyaniseka ngobuchule kuba kuyanceda ukuveza inyani kodwa kungabaniki iimbumbulu abanokuzisebenzisa ngokuchasene nawe.
Konke okufuneka ukwenze ukuba bazama ukukuhenda kwingxoxo emva kokuthetha ingqondo yakho kukukhwaza uthi, 'Yimbono yam leyo.'
5. “Ndiyayicaphukela idrama!”
Into emnandi ngabantu abahlala bejikelezwe yidrama kukuba bahlala bekuxelela ukuba bangabo.
“Ndiyayicaphukela idrama!” okanye 'Andihambisani neqela le-X labantu' omabini la mabinzana anokukunika ikhefu kwaye abangele ukuba umjongisise kakuhle umntu ngaphambi kokuba usondele kakhulu kubo.
Omabini la mabinzana enza ukuba lo mntu abe neengxaki rhoqo nabanye abantu, kangangokuba baziva benesidingo sokusazisa ngaphambi kwexesha.
Amaxesha amaninzi, kungenxa yokuba umntu akaziqapheli iingxaki zakhe okanye indima yakhe kulwalamano.
Ngaba kukho abanye abantu abathi baqhubeke ngokutshayelwa kwiingxaki zabanye abantu? Ngokuqinisekileyo, kodwa bambalwa kwaye bakude kakhulu. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba umntu uqhubeka esenza ukhetho olubi okanye azingqonge ngabantu abanetyhefu.
Uninzi lwabantu alunalo naluphi na uhlobo lokuzazi kwaye bajonga nje idrama njengenxalenye yobomi, endaweni yokuthatha isigqibo sokungakhathali ngokukhetha ukungathathi nxaxheba.
Ewe kunjalo, ayonyani kuye wonke umntu. Zininzi iimeko phaya apho kungekho zigqibo zintle. Awunakho ukwenza naziphi na izigwebo ze-snap kunxibelelwano olunye okanye ezimbini.
Ngamanye amaxesha, abantu bafumana ixesha elinzima okwexeshana, kwaye kulungile. Sonke siyakwenza. Umonde kunye nenkxaso kunokuba kuhle ngala maxesha.
Ngokubhekisele kubantu abaqhubeka bekhetha ukubandakanyeka kwidrama, bahlala kufuneka bafunde ngendlela enzima, ukuba bayafunda.
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