Kubomi bomntu wonke, intwana yedrama iya kuwela. Ayinakuphepheka.
Into engenakuthinteleka kuxa ubomi bomntu bonke bubonakala ngathi yintshutshiso yedrama ethandwayo enokuthi yenze ukuba iKardashians ibonakale izinzile.
Ukuba awukwazi ukugqitha usuku ngaphandle kwentliziyo yakho njengoko usenza iimpendulo ezikhawulezayo kwiReddit okanye Medium…
… Okanye ukuba isangqa sakho kwezentlalo sijikeleza ngakuwe ngenxa yokoyika ukukubangela, kunokwenzeka ukuba umdlalo weqonga uthathe indawo yobomi bakho.
Skena oku kulandelayo kwaye ubone ukuba ngaba kukho into ekubetha.
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1. Uyavuka Uzibuza Ukuba Uzokungxolisa Ngubani Namhlanje
Siphila kwixesha apho 'inkcubeko yomsindo' iyinto eqhelekileyo.
Ukujonga ngokukhawuleza kwicandelo lamagqabaza * yayo nayiphi na into ethunyelwe kwi-Intanethi iya kubonisa ukuba abantu be-incandescent banokufumana njani ukucaphukiswa kancinci.
Izithuko, izithuko, izoyikiso zokubulawa… zonke ngoku zisekhompyutheni njengamagorha ekhibhodi egwebu malunga nokudana kwabo kumgama okhuselekileyo.
Ngaba ungomnye wabo? Ngaba uskrolela kwimithombo yeendaba zosasazo lwasentlalweni ujonge nje into ekurhabaxa ngokwaneleyo ukuze ubenoburhalarhume?
2. Uyakwazi ukuJonga ukungalunganga kuyo nayiphi na imeko
Unikwe ibhokisi yeetshokholethi ezibizayo njengesipho, kodwa kukho iitrolethi ezimhlophe zeetshokholethi ezixutywe nobumnyama. UGH. Ngokukrakra? Ewe, yayiyinto edanisayo.
Mhlawumbi abazali bakho bagqibe kwelokuba bakothuse ngemoto njengesipho, kodwa bakhetha loo MBala? Ngaba bazama ukukuphoxa?
Okukwintsusa: umbulelo omncinci kakhulu kunye nokuthobeka, kunye neninzi ilungelo kunye nokuzifunxa.
3. Uzihluza ngaphezulu kwaye ubone imibhalo engezantsi kuyo yonke into
Ngaba iqabane lakho lithathe ixesha elide ukuthumela umyalezo? Ewe, uyazi ukuba baphi ukuze kungabikho sizathu sithile sokuba bekufanele ukuba ubathathe ixesha elide.
Kwaye xa ubuza (* ukhohlela ... ubuza ... ukhohlela *) malunga naloo nto, baye bazithethelela bathi cwaka.
Ke ubukunto ethile. Ayikwazanga kunokwenzeka bekunento eyenzekayo ebomini babo kunokuba ibe yinto ethile malunga nayo wena .
4. U-Epitaph wakho uza kuthi ngokulula: 'Uyakhubeka'
Eyona nto incinci inokukuseta kwaye ubize / ubhalele umyalezo wonke umntu owaziyo, phezulu ezingalweni kuba ukhubekile kwaye uphuma amagwebu ngento ethile okanye enye.
… Mhlawumbi into engenanto yakwenza ngqo nawe ukuqala.
Kwaye inyani yokuba ayibhekisi kuwe iyakukhathaza. Kwaye emva koko ungxolisa umntu okukhubekisileyo, kuphela ukuba ukhubeke ngakumbi xa bekubonisa ukuba ugqithise kangakanani.
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5. Uyadikwa ngokulula, kwaye wenze iinguqu ukugcina izinto zimnandi
Ubudlelwane buba namandla kakhulu? Ewe, zininzi izinto eziphosakeleyo, ungaziyeka nje. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kukho bajillions zabanye abantu phaya, akunjalo?
Kuyafana nomsebenzi wakho: umphathi wakho akakuxabisi, abantu osebenza nabo zizidenge, ungene engxakini yokuphambanisa nefowuni yakho ngexesha lentlanganiso yabasebenzi (yayikruqula)… uyijijise, uya kufumana enye.
Umbala weenwele zakho unokutshintsha rhoqo ngeveki. Unokuphinda uyibuyise inkangeleko yakho rhoqo, mhlawumbi utshintshe iqela labahlobo bakho nje ukuba iqela langoku liqale ukufumanisa ukuba ulondolozo oluphezulu kangakanani.
6. Ukuba Ushiywe ngaphandle kweluphu, ucinga ukuba kungenjongo
Ukuba abahlobo bakho abasenyongweni abanxibelelana nawe izihlandlo ezininzi ngemini, ngokwendalo ucinga ukuba kukho into eyenzekayo abangafuni ukuba uyazi ngayo.
Okanye bayakuqumbela into ethile.
Okanye baceba into.
Okanye kukho ipati eyenzekayo kwaye akukho mntu ukuxelela ngayo ngenxa yelixesha lokugqibela xa ngempazamo wenze loo nto abavumelekanga ukuba bathethe ngayo.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Iimpawu zokuziphatha ezi-9 ezinokuthi ziqhubele abahlobo bakho kude
- Yintoni eyenziwa ziinkawu ezibhabhayo kwiiNarcissists (kunye nendlela yokuziKhusela)
- Kutheni le nto iPathological or Compulsive Liars Ubuxoki + 10 Iimpawu zokujonga
- Ungayiyeka Njani Intukuthelo: Amanqanaba asixhenxe ukusuka kwiRage ukuya kuKhululwa
- Kutheni le nto unyango oluthe cwaka lilingana nokuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo kunye nendlela yokuphendula
- Indlela yeGrey Rock yokujongana ne-Narcissist xa kungekho qhakamshelwano ayisiyiyo inketho
7. Amanye Amadabi Abantu Ngawakho Nawe
Umntakwenu ulwa nomnye wabazali bakho, ke nawe unayo ukuzibandakanya. Uyaziqinisekisa ukuba kungenxa yokuba uyakhathala kwaye ufuna ukuba wonke umntu avane, ke yingxaki yabo ukuba abafuni ukuba uncede.
Ukuba umhlobo wakho unengxaki nomlingane wakhe, ungathumela nge-imeyile iqabane kwaye ulale kubo: bangasenza njani isibhengezo esinje!
Kusayina umhlolo ukulungele ukuqhubela phambili
Umntu othile unika umntu asebenza naye usizi? Ewe, uya kuziphindezela kubo, akunjalo?
8. Uxolo ayisiyonto yakho
Uhlala unesizathu sokuziphatha kwakho, kutheni ke emhlabeni kufuneka ucele uxolo ngayo nayiphi na?
Unganikezela ngamanye amaxesha 'i-mea culpa' ukuba umntu uphakamisa iesile lakho malunga nento oyenzileyo ukubacaphukisa (ugh, abantu banokuba kakhulu, akunjalo?), Kodwa uxolo olunyanisekileyo, olusuka entliziyweni? UNuh.
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukhe wathetha izinto kwixa elidlulileyo ezinje ngo 'ndiyaxolisa ngokuba uyithathe ngale ndlela' okanye 'ndiyaxolisa ukuba ungakhathali ngoku.'
Ukuba ukhe watyhola umntu ngokuba engekho kwi-meds yakhe kunokuba axolise ngokubonzakalisa, yinto ekufanele ukuba uyijongile.
9. Usoloko uyindlebe evayo okanye igxalaba lokulila (uyalithanda)
Nokuba umntu uphulukana nomsebenzi wakhe, Ukwahlukana neqabane labo , okanye ufumana iindaba ezothusayo zeendaba ezoyikekayo, ukhawuleza ube lapho ukuba badle.
Uya kubamba isandla sabo (okanye iinwele zabo ukuba zi-yarfing kwi-hysteria), thetha inkunkuma nokuba yeyiphi na into eyothusayo, kwaye uxelele wonke umntu kwisangqa sakho sentlalo malunga ne-sh * t eyoyikisayo ojongana nayo.
Usenokude ube 'yincwadi yencutshe' kwimithombo yemidiya emide, ushiye amagama kodwa wongeze kulwazi olufanelekileyo ukuze nabani na owaziyo umngcungcuthekisi abatshabalalise entsha.
Okanye, ukuba le meko inobundlobongela ngokukodwa, usenokubabiza ngenkuthalo kwikhampasi ye-smear ekwi-Intanethi.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, wonke umntu kufuneka ayazi into abayenzileyo, akunjalo?
10. Uyayivusa
Amathuba awuthandi ukuchitha ixesha elininzi wedwa, ngakumbi ukuba izinto ziyathula.
Awukhululekanga yinkampani yakho, iingcinga zakho, kwaye ukuba uhlala wedwa okwethutyana, uya kube umamele umculo okanye ubukele umabonwakude lonke ixesha lokuziphazamisa.
Unokufumana ukungahambi kakuhle xa izinto zizolile, ke ukuba izinto zithambile kwilizwe lakho, ungaqala umdlalo othile ngokukhawulezisa i-adrenaline kunye nokuziva ukhululekile ukubandakanyeka kwi-maelstrom.
Unokukhetha umlo neqabane lakho, okanye wabelane ngehlebo enamanzi eyayenzelwe ukuba uhlale uyimfihlo, emva koko wenze iipopcorn kwaye uhlale phantsi ubukele yonke into isiya esihogweni.
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Ukuba nayiphi na kwezi mpawu ihambelana nawe, isenokuba lixesha lokwenza uphando olunzulu lokuba kutheni.
Akukho mntu uyithandayo ngokwenyani idrama. Kukufunxa umphefumlo kwaye kuyadinisa, kwaye ubomi bunokuba ngumceli mngeni ngokwaneleyo ngaphandle ababizwa ngokuba ngabahlobo ukugxeka, iidrama zobuqhetseba zobuqhetseba ukuze baphelise ukukruquka kwabo.
Yeka ukulandela ukuhleba kosaziwayo. Xa uchitha ixesha nabahlobo bakho, shiya ifowuni yakho ebhegini yakho kwaye unikele ingqalelo kwinto abayithethayo.
Thetha ngezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu, hayi ukuba ngubani onesibindi sokunxiba into yokunxiba kulomsebenzi wentlalontle, okanye ngubani olele nabani.
Ukuba uziva ukhaliphile ngokwaneleyo, yenza uphando olunzulu lomphefumlo kwaye uzame ukuqonda ukuba ubaleka ntoni, ekufuneka uzigcine uxakeke ngumdlalo weqonga ngalo lonke ixesha.
Xa ukhangela oko, unokufumana iinyaniso ezimangalisayo, kwaye uphinde wenze ubomi bakho ngendlela ebonisa ukuba ungubani ngokwenene.
Kwaye yinto entle leyo.
* Sukuzifunda izimvo, nzulu. Bahlala besoyikeka.
