Ubomi abukho lula. Sonke sizalelwe kweli hlabathi sinobuchule kunye nezakhono, kodwa loo nto ayithethi ukuba asinakuze sifunde kwaye sifunde nezinye izakhono zobomi apha endleleni…
… Izakhono eziya kuthi zigudise umendo wethu.
… Izakhono ezinokuvula zonke iintlobo zeminyango.
Ngelishwa, impumelelo ayizukuzibeka phantsi phambi kwethu ngelixa sihleli esofeni.
Impumelelo iza kwabo bayizamayo. Iza kwabo bazijongayo, nakwihlabathi elibangqongileyo, kwaye baqwalasele indlela abanokukhula ngayo kwaye bakhule ngokufanelekileyo ukuze baphumelele.
Impumelelo ithetha izinto ezahlukeneyo kubantu abohlukeneyo. Ayilulo uhlobo lwesivumelwano.
Kwabanye abantu, umbono weklasikhi wendlu obiyelweyo ngocingo olumhlophe, iqabane elifanelekileyo, kunye nokugigitheka kwabantwana kunokuba yeyona nkcazo yokugqibela yempumelelo.
Abanye abantu banokuziva ngathi bayenzile nyani xa bemi eofisini yabo yeglasi phezulu kwisakhiwo esiphakamileyo, bebiza izithonga.
Kwelinye icala, umbono wabantu abathile wempumelelo unokuba nokugxila ngakumbi ngokomoya.
Abanye banokuziva ngathi bayenzile xa sele bengabaphathi babo, kwaye abanye abantu banokuba nemipu yokuthintela ilizwe ngalinye kwihlabathi kuluhlu lwabo ngaphambi kokuba bafe.
Kodwa nokuba yeyiphi na injongo okanye iinjongo onazo engqondweni, okanye nokuba awuqinisekanga ncam ukuba yintoni le uyifunayo ebomini, kukho izakhono ezithile umntu anokuziphuhlisa eziya kubanceda bafike apho.
Nokuba ubomi bunokubonakala bunzima kangakanani, kuhlala kukho into onokuyenza kwaye uphumelele kuyo. -UStephen Hawking
1. Ukugxila
Ukunqongophala kokujolisa emsebenzini othile kunokuba ngumqobo ophambili kwimpumelelo.
Ukuba awukwazi ukuzifaka kwinto engaphezulu kwemizuzu embalwa ngexesha kwaye usokola ukubamba ukuphazamiseka, akunakufane ufezekise iinjongo ozibekela zona , nokuba yeyiphi na.
2. Ulawulo lwexesha
Ukukwazi ukusebenzisa ixesha ngokufanelekileyo kwaye ufumane uninzi lwayo yonke imihla kuya kwenza impumelelo ifikeleleke ngakumbi.
Kuya kuthetha ukuba iza ngokukhawuleza kunokuba ubucinga.
Ngelixa ukubanjwa kokuzibekela amangomso ngoku kusetyenziswa kwakhona-njengoko kunokuvumela ubuchopho bethu ukuba buqhubele phambili ulwazi-ukuba ukuzilazila kuba yinto yethu emiselweyo kwaye asiyenzi eyona miniti ixabisekileyo siyinikiweyo, iintsuku neminyaka zinokutyibilika ngaphandle kokuba sifezekise iinjongo zethu…
… Kwaye kungekudala okanye ixesha liza kuphela.
3. Ukwenza izigqibo
Obu bubuchule ekulweni zonke iintlobo zabantu. Abanye bethu bafumana izigqibo ezinkulu, ezenziwa yimisebenzi okanye ubudlelwane, eyona inzima, kwaye iyaqondakala ngokupheleleyo.
Abanye abantu bafumana izinto ezinkulu ngokulula, kodwa balwa nezinto ezincinci njengokukhetha kwimenyu okanye ukukhetha umbala wepeyinti, baqinisekile ukuba bayazisola ngesigqibo sabo.
Kwaye abanye bethu abanakho ukuphatha naluphi na uhlobo lokuthatha izigqibo konke konke, bekhetha ukungcwaba iintloko zethu entlabathini kwaye abanye abantu bathathe izintso.
Naphi na apho uwela khona kwisigqibo sokwenza izigqibo, ukuziqeqesha ukwenza ukhetho lwakho, ukumamela intliziyo yakho kunye nentloko yakho, kunokuvula zonke iintlobo zeminyango.
Ukwenza izigqibo ngentliziyo epheleleyo kwaye ungakhathazeki malunga 'nokuba yintoni' kuthetha ukuba ungazijula ezintweni, entliziyweni nasemphefumlweni, kwaye wenze nasiphi na isigqibo sakho sisebenze.
4. Ukuthi Hayi
Abanye abantu banobu buchule ngokwendalo, kodwa uninzi lwethu, ngakumbi abantu basetyhini kuluntu lwethu loosolusapho, banengxaki yokuthi hayi xa izinto ziceliwe kuthi, kwanaxa sele silulelwe amandla.
Ukuba sifuna ukuba nexesha lokuba sikwazi ukudala ubomi bamaphupha ethu, asinakho ukuchitha iiyure zethu ezixabisekileyo sisenza izinto esingafuniyo ukuzenza okanye iintliziyo zethu ezingekhoyo.
Ukufunda ukuthi hayi xa kuyimfuneko linyathelo elikhulu lokuzikhulula kwaye uzibeke kwindlela eya empumelelweni.
5. Umonde
Kukho into efana nokuba nomonde kakhulu, kwaye sonke kufuneka sazi ukuba ulele phi, kodwa idosi esempilweni yomonde ibaluleke kakhulu kobu bomi.
Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela esikuyo, sonke siza kudibana neengxaki, nokuba zikwimo yabantu okanye iimeko.
Nangona ukoyisa ngokuchasene nale miqobo kunye nokugoba kuloo minyango ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba yimpendulo, amaxesha ngamaxesha kunokuba kunjalo, ismidgen somonde sinokusombulula zonke iintlobo zeengxaki.
Izinto ezintle ngokwenene ziyafika kwabo balindileyo.
6. Ukuyondelelana
Ukubaluleka kokukwazi ukuzithetha ngokucacileyo kuhlala kungaphantsi.
Kuthetha ntoni ukuba ngumntu onomdla
Ukukwazi ukunxibelelana nabanye ngento esiyifunayo okanye esiyifunayo ngendlela ecacileyo, ngaphandle kokubetha malunga nehlathi okanye ukubangela ukungaqondani, sisakhono esinokuthi sonke sisebenzele kuso.
Yinto enokusinceda ukuba sikhulise ubudlelwane obunempilo, nokuba bobabo okanye abaqeqeshiweyo, kwaye baphumelele.
7. Ukuqonda
Akukho mntu ugqibelele. Awunguye, kwaye ingengabo nabantu abakungqongileyo. Oko kuthetha ukuba, kungekudala okanye kamva, abantu baya kungcolisa.
Bona ngokwabo banokwenza into engalunganga, okanye kusenokwenzeka ngenxa yeemeko ezingaphaya kolawulo lwabo, kodwa nokuba ungangumbandela ongakanani na kuwe, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba sonke singabantu, kwaye sonke siyazenza iimpazamo.
Ukwazi ukukuqonda oko, kwaye uxolele kwaye ulibale kunokuba ube nomsindo kwaye etyhola abanye Unokusebenza ngokumangalisayo kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bakho.
8. Ukuzithemba
Ukuba awuzithembi kwisiqu sakho, kunzima ukulindela ukuba abanye bakuthembe.
Ukuzithemba kubalulekile kwimpumelelo, njengoko impumelelo nakweyiphi na imilo okanye ifom ihlala ibeka ukuzibeka phaya ngandlela thile.
Ukuba awuzithembanga kwisiqu sakho, akunakulindeleka ukuba ube nesibindi sokuncamathisela intloko yakho phezu kophango.
Umonde, ukuzingisa nokubila kwenza indibaniselwano engoyisekiyo yokuphumelela. - INapoleon Hill
9. Ukufuna ukwazi / ukufuna ukufunda
Intetho ethi 'ukwazi wambulala ikati' ngokucacileyo yaqanjwa ngumntu owayefuna ukugcina abanye abantu beqinile kwiibhokisi zabo.
Ngelixa ukuthanda ukwazi okuninzi kungakufaka kwiimeko ezinamathelayo amaxesha ngamaxesha, idosi esempilweni yoko kuthetha ukuba uhlala unomdla wokuqhubeka nokufunda.
Ikuqhubela ukuba ufumane okungakumbi malunga nehlabathi elikungqongileyo, malunga nabanye abantu, kwaye malunga nawe.
Nokuba uthini umbono wakho wempumelelo, ubomi obuzalisekisayo buthetha ukuba awusoze ume ngxi kwaye ungaze uyeke ukwandisa ingqondo yakho, uzibuze ukuba yintoni na elinde kwikona elandelayo.
10. Ukuzimisela
Impumelelo ayenzeki ngobusuku obunye. Kuthatha ixesha, kwaye kuthatha ukuzimisela kunye nokuzinikela.
Ukuba uyeka kumqobo wokuqala okanye xa izinto zingenzeki ngokukhawuleza njengoko kulindelwe, awusoze ufike apho ufuna ukuya khona.
11. Ukulungela ukuthatha iingozi
Ubomi buqala kumda wendawo yakho yokuthuthuzela . Ukuba umbono wakho wempumelelo wahlukile kwindlela obujongeka ngayo ubomi bakho ngoku, ekuphela kwendlela yokufika apho kukuzibeka apho kwaye uzame ithamsanqa lakho.
Akukho ziqinisekiso kobu bomi, kwaye ukuba unamathela kumhlaba okhuselekileyo, akunakulindeleka ukuba uye naphi na ngokukhawuleza.
12. Ukhuphiswano
Le yenye enokuthi ithathe kude kakhulu ukuba awulumkanga. Ukuba ukubetha abanye kuyeyona nto ujolise kuyo, kunokwenzeka ukuba ulahle umkhondo wezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
Nangona kunjalo, ukhuphiswano olunobuhlobo lulungile kuthi sonke. Inokuba ngumqhubi omkhulu kunye nenkuthazo. Kulunge ngakumbi ukuba ungabetha ukhuphiswano kunye nesiqu sakho esidlulileyo.
Ukwazi ukubaleka iimitha ezimbalwa ngakumbi kunangaphambili, yiba nelakho ishishini lenze ngcono kancinci kunonyaka ophelileyo, okanye uzibeke kwimeko yezentlalo ngendlela ongakhange ulinge uyenze kwitheko lokugqibela ubukulo lonke ukhuphiswano olufunekayo ukuze uhlale ukhula njengomntu.
13. Imvakalelo yokuhlekisa
Ukuhlekisa kubalulekile ukuze usinde kweli lizwe, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ufuna ukuphumelela.
Izinto zihamba gwenxa kwaye abantu bayaphazamiseka, kwaye kuya kufuneka ukwazi ukujonga icala lezinto ezihlekisayo xa besenza.
14. Inzondelelo
Ukuba awunako ukukhanya emehlweni akho kunye nentwana yomlilo esiswini sakho kwaye wonwabe malunga neeprojekthi osebenza kuzo okanye izinto ochitha ixesha lakho kuzo, uya kusokola ukufumana inkuthazo yokufumana naphi na.
Umthamo wentshisakalo kuyo yonke into, ukusuka kwiprojekthi entsha ngentsasa yangoMvulo ukuya kwi-adventure yeempelaveki, kunokukuqhubela phambili kwaye wenze umhlaba ubonakale ukhazimla kakhulu.
15. Ukuzithemba
Ngelixa kukho ixesha nendawo yolungelelwaniso, sonke kufuneka sazi ukuba kufuneka sizibambe nini singangqubani.
Ukufika naphi na kobu bomi, kufuneka sikulungele ukucela kwaye sixelele abanye abantu into esiyifunayo.
16. Ukuqwalaselwa
Nangona bebaninzi abantu phaya abaye bayenza enkulu ngokunyathela bonke abanye, bonwabela uhlobo oluthile lwempumelelo.
Nawuphi na umntu onombono wempumelelo ongabandakanyi ukusika abanye abantu phantsi ukuze anyuke ileli, ukuthathelwa ingqalelo kwabantu abasingqongileyo kubalulekile.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Izinto ezi-7 eziPhumeleleyo zaBantu azisoze zanikezela
- Imikhwa emincinci eyi-9 yabantu abaphumeleleyo abayimoshi ixesha labo
- Nika ezi zinto zingama-20 ukuba ufuna ukuphumelela ebomini
17. Imbonakalo yokuziphatha
Ukuhlonipha iplanethi yethu kunye nabo bonke abemi bayo bekusoloko kungumqondiso wempumelelo kwiincwadi ezininzi zabantu, kodwa kule mihla nakweli xesha, kungaphezulu kunakuqala.
ungaxolela njani kwaye uthembe kwakhona
Ukuhlala sijonga iimfuno zabo bonke abantu, izilwanyana, kunye neplanethi esihlala kuyo kuthetha ukuba impumelelo iya kuba yeyonelisayo kwaye izinzile.
Ukusebenzisana
Akukho ndoda okanye mfazi uyisiqithi, kwaye awuyi kufika ndawo ngokwakho. Yonke into yobomi bakho yenziwe ngothungelwano olukhulu lwabantu, olubonakalayo nolungabonakaliyo
Ukuxabisa oko kuya kukunceda wamkele ukuba ngekhe uhambe wedwa ngenene.
Ukuze uphumelele, kufuneka ube nakho ukuthembela kunye nokusebenza nabanye abantu. Kuya kufuneka ubenakho ukungqubeka kwezimvo zakho kubo, kwaye uthathe izimvo zabo ebhodini njengembuyekezo.
Phakathi kwakho, unokwenza izinto ongazange uphuphe ngazo.
19. Ubunkokeli
Ekugqibeleni, impumelelo yalo naluphi na uhlobo iya kuhlala ibandakanya ubunkokeli benkcazo ethile okanye enye.
Ukufunda ukuba yinkokeli ekhuthaza kunye nokukhulisa endaweni yokoyikisa kunye neemfuno sisakhono esibaluleke kakhulu.
Italente yokukhuthaza abanye abantu ukuba bafune ukulandela apho ukhokelela khona kubalulekile ukusebenzela kuyo.
20. UMoya weQela
Le yingcaciso yesizathu. Kubaluleke kakhulu njengokukwazi ukukhokela iqela ukukwazi ukungena ngaphakathi kwaye wenze izandla zakho zimdaka njengenxalenye yeqela, ukumamela iingcebiso zabanye abantu kunye nokusebenza kunye ukufikelela kwiinjongo ezifanayo.
21. Uthethathethwano
Abanye abantu abanethamsanqa bazalwa benesi sakhono, kwaye kwabanye bethu, uthethathethwano ngumceli mngeni omkhulu. Ngethamsanqa, nangona kunjalo, abo kuthi bawele kwiqela lokugqibela banokusebenza ngokulula kuyo.
Ukukwazi ukuxoxisana kubalulekile kuba, njengoko ndiqinisekile ukuba uyazi kakuhle, ayisiyiyo yonke into ebomini esiyinikwa ngesitya. Ngamanye amaxesha kuthatha ukubuya umva kunye nokufumana izinto ozifunayo okanye ozifunayo.
Kukho amaqhinga athile esinokuthi sonke sifunde ukuwasebenzisa xa sithetha-thethana ngezivumelwano ukuqinisekisa ukuba onke amaqela abandakanyekayo afumana iziphumo ezilungileyo.
22. Unxibelelwano
Ndithetha ngenethiwekhi yokwenyani apha. Ayilulo uhlobo xa uncanca kubantu ababalulekileyo ngenxa yokufunxa kubo kunye nokufumana ukonyuselwa ikhondo lomsebenzi.
Inethiwekhi kufuneka ibe yeyokwakha unxibelelwano lokwenyani nabantu abanomdla kunye nokwenza izinto ezifanayo nezakho, ukuze nincedane nonke.
Ukuba oko kuzisa umsebenzi okanye amathuba ngendlela yakho, kuyamangalisa, kodwa oko akufuneki kube yeyona njongo iphambili, njengoko abantu baya kuba nakho ukuxelela imayile ukuba uyayenza.
23. Iziphathamandla
Sonke singena kwiimeko ezikhohlisayo ngamanye amaxesha, kwaye kuya kuhlala kukho amaxesha apho ukubamba kozakuzo kubalulekile.
Nokuba ufuna ukulawula imeko phakathi kwakho kunye nomnye umntu okanye abanye abantu ababini, ukwazi ukubona omabini amacala empikiswano kwaye uza nesisombululo ngelixa ukugcina wonke umntu onwabile kunokunceda ukuhambisa indlela yakho eya empumelelweni.
Beka intliziyo yakho, ingqondo kunye nomphefumlo nakwizenzo zakho ezincinci. Le yimfihlo yempumelelo. -Swami Sivananda
24. Ukudala
Ukuyila kunokuthetha izinto ezininzi ezahlukeneyo. Ayisiyonto yokulunga nje ngebrashi yepeyinti okanye ivili lombumbi, nangona ukubonakalisa ubuchule bakho ngobugcisa kunokuba lunyango olugqithisileyo kunye necathartic.
Ubuchule buya kusebenza kuyo yonke imimandla yobomi, njengoko ukucinga ngaphandle kwebhokisi inokukunceda ngokusebenza kunye nobuqu.
25. Intuition
Uyayazi ukuba uziva ngamanye amaxesha ungena emhadini wesisu sakho, okanye loo ngcinga iphazamisayo izama ukuzenza ukuba iviwe kwenye indawo ezingontsini zengqondo yakho?
Abanye bethu banomdla ngakumbi kunabanye , kodwa sisakhono esinokuthi sonke sisebenze kuso. Ukuba sifunda ukuyimamela, intuition yethu ingasilumkisa kwangaphambi kwexesha xa kukho into eza kungahambi kakuhle okanye ilungile, oko kuthetha ukuba sinokwenza ngokufanelekileyo.
26. Uvelwano
Ukukwazi ukuvelana nabanye kwaye sizibeke ezihlangwini zabo yindlela yokuziphatha yabantu esisiseko…
… Kodwa kulula ukuzisongela kuthi nakwezethu iingxaki kwaye silibale indlela yokunxibelelana neenkxalabo zabanye abantu.
Ulwalamano lwabantu luyindlela ezimbini, ngoko ke uvelwano ngakumbi kwabanye, kokukhona baya kuba novelwano ngakumbi kuwe, bakuboleke ngesandla okanye banike inkxaso xa uhamba ngexesha elinzima.
27. Ukumiselwa kweNjongo
Ngaphandle kwenjongo ojolise kuyo, kunzima ukufumana inkuthazo yokuqhubeka uye phambili. Ukuze uphume ebhedini rhoqo kusasa kwaye unike usuku konke okusemandleni akho, kufuneka ube nosukelo engqondweni.
Kubalulekile ukuseta yonke into ukusuka kwiinjongo ezinkulu, ezoyikisayo, iinjongo zobomi ngokubanzi ukuya kwezincinci, ngokuthe ngqo, iinjongo ezinokufezekiswa ngokukhawuleza ukuze uhlale uzifikelela.
28. Ukunikezela
Ngaba eli ligama olifumana loyikisa? Kuthathe ixesha elide ukuba ndiliqonde ixabiso lokuthunyelwa, kwaye nangaphezulu ukuba ndiqalise ukukwenza.
Kodwa zininzi kakhulu iiyure emini, ke nokuba zinjani na iimeko zakho, ukwabiwa kuhlala kubalulekile.
Ngamanye amaxesha, kuya kufuneka unikezele kuba uyaqonda ukuba awunaxesha lokwenza izinto ngokwakho. Ngamanye amaxesha, iya kuba yimeko yokuqonda ukuba omnye umntu oneseti eyahlukileyo yezakhono unokuyenza ngcono kakhulu okanye ngokukhawuleza.
Umzekelo, akukho sizathu sokuchitha iiyure zexesha lakho elixabisekileyo usenza idabi kunye neerhafu zakho zeshishini xa ingcali inokuluhlela lonke ngokuqhwanyaza kweliso.
Yimeko yokwazi ukuba yintoni amandla akho kwaye ungoyiki ukucela abanye abantu ukuba bakwenzele izinto.
29. Ulawulo loxinzelelo
Uxinzelelo, ngelishwa, luyinxalenye entle phantse phantse yobomi bemihla ngemihla yomntu wonke kule mihla nakweli xesha langoku.
Ke ngoko, ngokufanelekileyo, ukufunda ukujongana nayo ngendlela eluncedo nesebenzayo kubalulekile ukuba uhlale wonwabile kwaye usempilweni engqondweni nasemzimbeni.
30. Ingqwalaselo kwiinkcukacha
Ziinkcukacha ezincinci ezinokuthi zijike zibe ziingxaki ezinkulu ukuba uzingakhathaleli. Ukuthatha ixesha lokuchaphaza ii-I's nokuwela ii-T kunokujolisa nje kwizinto ezinkulu kunokuhlawula ekuhambeni kwexesha.
Ngokufanayo, ukuthathela ingqalelo izinto ezincinci kunokukuhlula kwaye kukuncede ugqame phakathi koontanga bakho okanye kukhuphiswano lweshishini.
31. Ukumamela
Kuzo zonke izakhono ezikolu luhlu, le yeyona nto inokuba yeyona nto iphantsi. Siyathanda ukuthetha, kwaye silibale ukumamela. Ukumamela kubalulekile ngenxa yezizathu ezibini eziphambili.
Okokuqala, kholwa okanye ungakholelwa, sinokufunda isixa esikhulu xa sinika inyani ngokunyanisekileyo kwinto ethethwa ngabantu abasingqongileyo. Oku kunokusinceda sikhule ngeendlela ebesingakhange sizicinge.
Okwesibini, ngokumamela ngokunyanisekileyo kwabanye abantu, sibonisa umdla wabo kubo njengomntu nakwiimvo zabo, nto leyo ethetha ukuba uluvo lwabo ngathi lunokunyuka. Emva koko, baya kuba nakho ukusimamela xa sibafuna, okanye basinike inkxaso yabo.
indlela yokwenza usuku lomsebenzi luhambe ngokukhawuleza
32. Ukweyisela
Okokugqibela kodwa kungaphelelanga apho sisakhono sokucenga. Ukuba ufuna ukuphumelela ebomini, kuyakubakho amaxesha amaninzi apho kuya kufuneka uqinisekise abanye abantu ukuba unoluvo olulungileyo, ukufumana inkxaso okanye uncedo lwabo.
Kananjalo kuya kufuneka uzicenge… zikhuthaze ukuba uphume ebhedini kusasa, uye kulomnyadala wonxibelelwano, uqalise incoko naloo mntu, kwaye uthathe nje ubomi ngeempondo, yonke imihla yonyaka .
Indawo ekuphela kwayo eza ngaphambi komsebenzi kwisichazi-magama. - UVince Lombardi
