Umhlaba awuyiyo le nto utopia uluntu anethemba layo.
Kodwa sisengasebenzela into ebhetele.
Eyona nto siyifunayo zizinto ezininzi…
1. Intshukumo
Kukho imiceli mngeni phaya engazukuzisombulula.
Bafuna isenzo - ngokwenene isenzo - ukuba beza koyiswa.
Ihlabathi lifuna isenzo kwintlupheko, ukutshintsha kwemozulu, iingxaki zempilo yengqondo, imfazwe, indlala, nezinye izinto ezininzi.
Abantu kufuneka bathathe amanyathelo.
Uluntu kufuneka luthathe amanyathelo.
Iinkampani kufuneka zithathe amanyathelo.
Abezopolitiko kufuneka bathathe amanyathelo.
Izizwe kufuneka zithathe amanyathelo.
Amanyathelo angakumbi ayimfuneko ukuze sithintele iingxaki ezininzi ezisezayo.
2. Ubunye
Ezo miceli mngeni azizukusombululwa ukuba asidibani njengeplanethi.
Akufuneki sifanane ukuze sibe nenjongo efanayo.
Singahlala sizimele, singazingca ngokuba singoobani kwaye sivelaphi.
Ngalo lonke elixesha, sinokujonga kubazalwana noodadewethu kwihlabathi liphela kwaye siqonde ukuba, ngeendlela ezininzi, sinye.
Siyafana, kodwa sahlukile. Sahlukile, kodwa inxalenye enkulu ngakumbi.
Ungayitshisi njani intombi yakho
Kufuneka sidibanise izandla kwaye sisebenzisane ukuze kulunge ngakumbi.
3. Ukunyamezelana
Ukuba siza kudibana, kuya kufuneka sifunde ukusebenza nabantu abanokwahluka kakhulu kuthi.
Oku kufuna ukuba sibanyamezele abo singasoloko sibona ngasonye.
Oku kusebenza kubomi bethu bobuqu nakubudlelwane phakathi kweenkokheli zethu namazwe.
Kubonakala ngathi ilizwe lahluleke ngakumbi kunangaphambili 'Thina' kunye 'nabo' izizwe apho icala ngalinye lijonga kwelinye ngendelelo kwanentiyo.
Ukunyamezelana kuthetha ukubeka ecaleni ezo zinto zithembekileyo.
4. Ukwamkelwa
Ukuya kwelinye inyathelo kunokunyamezelana kukufikelela ekwamkelweni kokwenene ukuba ngubani omnye umntu.
Nokuba awuvumelani neembono zabo ezininzi okanye ukhetho lobomi, kungcono ukwamkela ukuba ezi zisemthethweni njengezakho.
Kufuneka samkele ukuba phantsi kwayo yonke into, ikhona umntu Ngubani ofanelwe kukhathalelwa kunye nobubele kuthi.
Kwaye kufuneka sibamkele abantu ngale ndlela bayiyo, hayi abo sinokubafuna ukuba babe ngabo.
5. Ukuqonda
Abantu baziibhola ezinzima zokucinga, iimvakalelo kunye nokwenza.
Xa besenza into ekucaphukisayo okanye ekukhathazayo, inyathelo lokuqala kukuzama ukuqonda ukuba kutheni besenza le nto bayenzileyo.
Uninzi lwabantu lujamelana nemizabalazo mihla le - awazi nje uninzi lwazo.
Kodwa singakwazi ukwandisa ukuqonda kwethu kwabanye ngokuzijonga kunye nesiphithiphithi esinokujongana naso.
Ndiqinisekile ukuba ubuya kucela ukuqonda okuncinci xa indlela oziphethe ngayo ikhutshiwe ngaphandle komlinganiswa.
Ewe, sinokunika into efanayo kwabanye.
6. Imfesane
Xa sibona umntu esokola-nokuba asimazi unobangela wokubandezeleka, kufuneka sibonise ukumkhathalela ngokusuka entliziyweni loo mntu.
Imfesane encinci ihamba ngendlela ende ekuncedeni umntu ojamelene nobunzima, ilishwa, okanye ukwenzakala.
utyikitya umfazi unomona ngawe
Igxalaba lokulila, indlebe yokumamela, kunye namanye amazwi afudumeleyo wentuthuzelo-ilizwe ngokuqinisekileyo lifuna ngaphezulu koku.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Akukho Bullsh * t Iindlela onokuthi uguqule ilizwe libe ngcono
- Iindlela ezi-5 zokwenyani zokunceda abanye ngexesha labo lokudinga
- Imigaqo eyi-9 yokuPhila ngobomi obuza kuzisola ngayo okwesibini
- Ungabuphucula njani uBomi baKho: Imigaqo esi-6 engundoqo
7. Uxolelo
Sonke senza izinto esizisolayo ngazo kamva.
Rhoqo, ezo zinto zinokubenzakalisa abanye ngandlel 'ithile.
Kodwa uxolelo alunikwa ngokulula kule mihla.
Oku kubuyela kukuqonda kunye nemfesane apha ngasentla. Xa umntu ejongene nemicimbi okanye ukubandezeleka ngandlela thile, basenokungacingi kakuhle.
Banokwenza izinto ezisenzakalisayo, kodwa kunqabile ukuba bazenze ngenxa yokubi.
Ukuxolela akuthethi ukuba kufuneka silibale ngokwenzekileyo, kananjalo ayithethi ukuba kufuneka siyixolele into abayenzileyo.
Kuthetha ukuba siyaqhubeka kwaye ungavumeli isenzo sichaphazele okwangoku.
Uxolelo ikwayinto esiyifunayo phakathi kweenkcubeko, izizwe, izizukulwana kunye nokunye.
Apho kukho ukungavisisani, umsindo nengqumbo, umhlaba ufuna uxolelo.
8. Ububele
Baninzi abantu abasokolayo ngoku.
Baninzi ngakumbi abo bahlelwe lilishwa kutshanje- mhlawumbi kanye phambi kwamehlo akho.
Ngaba uya kudlula kwelinye icala lendlela, okanye uya kuba ngumSamariya Olungileyo kwaye ubonakalise ububele kwabo basweleyo?
Ububele budlula kuzo zonke iinkolo, yonke iminyaka, yonke imvelaphi, zonke iilwimi, kwaye bunokufikelela nakumgama omde.
Isenzo sobubele, nokuba sincinci kangakanani, senza umhlaba ube yindawo engcono ngeendlela ezingenakulinganiswa.
Umhlaba ufuna ububele obungakumbi.
9. Ithemba
Abantu abaninzi baligxekile ihlabathi.
Bakholelwa ukuba wonke umntu uzenzele kwaye akukho mntu unokuthenjwa.
Kodwa ukuthembana lilitye lembombo kubudlelwane boluntu-ngaphandle kwayo, izinto ziyawa ngokukhawuleza.
Ayisiyiyo kuphela ukuba kufuneka sithembele ngakumbi ebantwini ebomini bethu, kodwa sinokuthemba wonke umntu.
Abasemzini abaphumanga ukuze basenzakalise. Iinkampani aziphumelanga ukuzisebenzisa. Abezopolitiko abaphumanga kusikhohlisa (nangona ungacinga ukuba).
Abantu abaninzi banokuthenjwa.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, kukho abo bafuna ukusenzakalisa-kodwa ezi zincinci, uninzi oluninzi kwaye akufuneki sibayeke bayeke ukuthembela kwabantu.
10. Ithemba
Singenza ikamva elingcono.
Lowo ngumyalezo osisiseko wethemba.
Kodwa kubonakala ngathi ilahlekile kumaxesha akutshanje.
Abantu banqwenela ngcono, kodwa abasoloko benethemba lokwenene lokuba kuza kuza okungcono.
Umhlaba ufuna ithemba ngakumbi ukuba uza kuvuselela inyathelo elifunekayo ukusombulula iingxaki zethu ezininzi.
Sifuna abantu ukuba bahambise imiyalezo yethemba. Sifuna abantu basibonise amandla ethemba ngezenzo zabo.
imibuzo eya kukwenza ucinge
Kodwa ngaphezu kwako konke, sifuna abantu bakholelwe kwakhona kwaye ndinethemba lokuba ngomso kuzobangcono kunanamhlanje.
11. Ekuhlaleni
Asizizo iziqithi ezizimeleyo elwandle.
Sidityaniswe ngeendlela uninzi lwethu olungenakucinga ngazo.
Ukanti umgama phakathi kwethu ubonakala ngathi ukhula ngesantya esikhawulezayo.
Asibazi abamelwane bethu njengangaphambili.
Unxibelelwano lwethu lube ngaphezulu.
Kufuneka singene nzulu kunoko kwaye ngokwenene sazi abantu abahlala nathi, abelana ngeelali zethu, iidolophu kunye needolophu nathi.
Ukuqhagamshela okwenziwe kwinqanaba lendawo kuluncedo olukhulu kwimpilo-ntle kwaye banokusinceda ukuba sithathe inyathelo (kukho elo gama kwakhona).
12. Ubulumko
Sinolwazi ngokulula, kodwa oku akusoloko kuguqulela kubulumko.
Ubulumko bohlukile kulwazi. Kubaluleke ngakumbi kwiimfundiso zayo.
Baninzi abantu abazizilumko ukutyhubela iminyaka, kodwa imiyalezo yabo ihlala ilahleka, ilibalekile, okanye ingahoywa.
Umhlaba kufuneka uphinde ufundise abo bantu bazizilumko kwaye uzisebenzise kwindlela esenza ngayo namhlanje.
13. Ukwaneliseka
Wonke umntu uhlala ebonakala ngathi ufuna izinto ezingaphezulu.
Ayisiyonto imbi leyo, kodwa inamandla okujika ityhefu ukuba ayigcinwanga.
Ngexesha elithile, kufuneka sime, sijonge oko sinako, kwaye sinombulelo ngako.
Kufuneka siyiqonde into yokuba, kwiimeko ezininzi, uninzi aluthethi bhetele.
Kufuneka sifunde ukwaneliseka. Kufuneka sazi ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukuba noxolo nobomi esinabo.
Isidingo esiqhubekayo sokuba nokuninzi, yenza okungakumbi, kwaye ube nokuninzi kuhlwayela imbewu yokungonwabi noxinzelelo.
Masaneliswe nje yile nto sele sinayo.
ukuba wenze ntoni emva kwengxabano
14. Ukuwolana.
Kwanele.
15. Wena
Ewe, umhlaba ufuna ngaphezulu kuwe.
Ifuna ukuba uthathe inxaxheba ebonakalayo ebomini.
Ukusuka kubumbano ukuya kwimfesane, ukusuka kububele ukuya eluntwini… kwaye ngakumbi isenzo.
Akukho 'mna' ehlabathini.
Ihlabathi liyakudinga!
