Ngokubhekisele kwiinkolo ezahlukeneyo kunye neenkqubo zokukholelwa kule planethi incinci ingaqhelekanga, ubuBuddha bunokuhamba kakhulu ngayo. Endaweni yokugxila kunqulo lomntu ophakamileyo, yifilosofi esekwe ngeenxa zonke ukuzazi , ukwamkela into ekhoyo, ukubakho, kunye ukuba nemfesane .
Kutheni ndithandana ngokulula kakhulu
UbuBuddha bunokuqhelaniswa kunye nezinye iinkolo, njengoko imigaqo yayo incoma kunokuba ingqubana nenkoliso, ukuba ayingabo bonke, izakhiwo zeenkolelo.
Apha ngezantsi kukho iikowuteshini ezimangalisayo zamaBuddhist ezivela kootitshala abakhulu abanjengoThich Nhat Hanh, uPema Chodron, noBuddha ngokwakhe, ezinokukunceda ukubeka imiba yobomi bakho kwindawo efanelekileyo kwaye zikuncede ufezekise imeko enkulu yokuzola kunye nolonwabo.
Ukuphefumla ngaphakathi, ndizola umzimba nengqondo.
Ndiphefumlela ngaphandle, ndincume.
Ukuhlala kumzuzu wangoku
Ndiyazi ukuba lo mzuzu kuphela. -Thich Nhat Hanh
Okudlulileyo kudlulile, kwaye ngomso liphupha nje. Ekuphela kwento esinayo ngumzuzu wangoku, kodwa uninzi lwabantu luyichitha ngokucinga ngento esele yenzekile, okanye ngokuxhalaba malunga nokuza kwenzeka kwixesha elizayo. Ngokwenza njalo, baphoswa luxolo nokuzola okunokufumaneka kuphela ngokugxila ngokupheleleyo kwinto eyenzekayo ngoku. Yi le inkolelo yobuBuddha, okanye umgaqo, wokuqonda .
Xa singazibandakanyi kwiinkumbulo okanye sothuke malunga 'nokuba kuthiwani', sihlala ngoku kulo mzuzu, lo moya, ukubetha kwentliziyo, namava. Ukubakho ayithethi nje ukuba kufuneka sihlale singenzi nto kodwa sigxile ekuphefumlweni. Endaweni yoko, kufuneka sikhumbule yonke into esiyenzayo.
Xa uthatha ukulunywa kokutya, akukho nto ehlabathini ekufuneka ibekhona ngaphandle kokulunywa kokutya kunye nesenzo sokukuhlafuna, ukunambitha, ukukuginya. Xa uhlamba izitya, yonke ingqwalaselo kufuneka ibekwe ekuhlambeni eso sitya ukusisula, ukusisula, ukusomisa… kunokuba sibethe nje ubomi kubasebenzisi abazihambelayo kwaye iingqondo zethu zisiya kwicala elahlukileyo kuwo onke amanye amalungu omzimba wethu.
Ngokusisiseko, xa iingcinga zakho zibandakanyeke ngokupheleleyo kumzuzu wangoku, abanalo ithuba lokujikeleza ngaphandle beza kwi-crazytown. Yizame, kwaye ubone ukuba unganoxolo kunye nomxholo njani xa onke amandla akho egxile kuyo ngoku .
Akukho loyiko kulowo ingqondo yakhe ingazaliswanga yiminqweno. - UBuddha
Umnqweno kunye nokuchasa kungamacala amabini engqekembe enye yoyikekayo. Kukho izinto (okanye amava) esizifunayo, kunye nezinto (okanye amava) esingazifuniyo, kwaye amandla ethu amaninzi asetyenziselwa ukulungisa kuwo omabini.
Abantu abaninzi bafuna ukuhlala ubomi obude, obunempilo, bafuna ukunqanda ukubandezeleka, kwaye kunjalo ukoyika ukufa . Olunye unxunguphalo kunye noloyiko olubangela ukuphulukana nomsebenzi kabani, ukufumana ingozi yemoto, ukuhlangabezana nobunzima oboyikekayo esidlangalaleni, okanye kwinto elula njengokulahlekelwa zizitshixo zendlu.
Uloyiko oluninzi lunokuncitshiswa ngokwamkela inyani yokuba izinto ezintle ziya kwenzeka, kwaye uninzi (kakhulu?) Lwezinto ozifuna ngenene azisokuze zibekho.
Isicatshulwa esihamba kunye nalo mgca wokucinga sithi: 'Intlungu ayinakuphepheka, ukubandezeleka akunakukhethwa'. Esi sicatshulwa sichazwe kubantu abangenakubalwa kule minyaka idlulileyo, kodwa ayisiyonto ibalulekileyo ukuba ngubani othethileyo - into ebalulekileyo kukuba iyinyani kumanqanaba angenakubalwa. Bonke ubomi buya kugcwaliswa ngomlinganiselo othile weentlungu, kodwa kukuxhomekeka kule ntlungu endaweni yokuyamkela ngobabalo ukuba ukubandezeleka kwenzeka.
Oku kubalulekile inkolelo yamaBuddha (kunye neyokuqala Iinyaniso Ezine Ezixabisekileyo ) eyaziwa njengeDukkha , Intsingiselo yobomi ibuhlungu kwaye ukubandezeleka akunakuphepheka xa sibambelela kwimimandla engapheliyo nakwizinto.
Nanku umzekelo: Unokuhlala kuloyiko malunga nokuba kungenzeka uphulukane nomsebenzi wakho, kodwa nini kwaye ukuba KWENZEKA, uyakufumana. Uya kufumana omnye umsebenzi, mhlawumbi uye kwiinzuzo zokungabikho kwemisebenzi okwethutyana, okanye mhlawumbi uphele kwiphupha lakho lomsebenzi ngenxa yomntu odibene naye kwikhefi ngelixa uthumela i-resume. Lwalusebenza ntoni olo loyiko? Ngokuqinisekileyo akukho nto. Ngaba ubomi baphosa iicurveballs ngaphandle koxinzelelo lonke? Ngokuqinisekileyo. Kwaye sonke siya kudlula ebubini kunjalo, njengoko siza kubona.
indlela yokusondela kumhlobo
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Ndingubani? Impendulo ebalaseleyo yamaBuddha kule mibuzo yobuqu
- Ungayifikelela njani iNirvana ngokuhamba iNdlela eNesibhozo
- Iimpawu ezili-15 zoMntu oQolileyo ngokweemvakalelo
- Iimpawu ezi-12 zokuTshintshela kwinqanaba eliPhakamileyo loNgcono
- Iimpawu ezi-8 zoMntu oQolileyo ngokomoya
Akukho namnye kuthi okhe alunge, kodwa sonke sihamba yonke into ilungile. Sicinga ukuba inqaku kukudlula kuvavanyo okanye ukoyisa ingxaki, kodwa inyani kukuba izinto azisombululeki. Bayadibana bawe bodwa. -I-Pema Chodron
Oku kunokuvakala ngathi woyisiwe, kodwa eneneni kuyamkhulula ngokumangalisayo. Kukho intuthuzelo ekwamkeleni inyani yokuba ubomi buqhubeka buhamba kwaye buhamba phakathi kwezinto ezihamba kakuhle nezinto eziya esihogweni ngokupheleleyo. Ukuba uhleli kwaye ufunda le nto ngoku, irekhodi lakho lokufumana i-icky bits yi-100 yepesenti, kwaye loo nto intle kakhulu ilahlekile kanye apho.
Uninzi lwabantu luhamba ngobomi benoluvo lokuba ekuphela kwexesha abaya konwaba ngokwenyani kuxa yonke into ihamba ngokwesicwangciso, ingena endaweni, kwaye isebenza kakuhle. Ewe, uqikelele ntoni? Ubomi buhlala bunezinye izinto ezisigcineleyo, kwaye ikukuhamba ngenqwelomoya phakathi kweentaba ezinkulu zobunzima. Akukho nto injalo njengommangaliso wobukho bexesha elide apho yonke into igqibelele kwaye iyamangalisa. Ukuzama ukufezekisa loo njongo kuya kukwenza ube lusizi, kuba uya kugalela onke amandla akho ekufumaneni okungenakwenzeka.
Eyona nto iphambili kukujolisa kulo moya kunye nokubetha kwentliziyo kunye nale blip idlulayo ngexesha kwaye uqaphele ukuba nantoni na emnandi eyenzekayo ngoku, izakudlula. Wonke umzuzu unento entle kuwo ukuba uyixabise, kwaye sonke isivunguvungu siyacoca ekugqibeleni.
Yi le inkolelo yobuBuddha yokungagungqi okanye i-anicca , Echaza ukuba zonke izinto zihlala zisiba nokubakho kwaye zichithakale.
Xa omnye umntu esenza ukuba ubandezeleke, kungenxa yokuba ehlupheka ngokunzulu ngaphakathi kuye, kwaye ukubandezeleka kwakhe kuphalala. Akadingi sohlwayo ufuna uncedo. Lowo ngumyalezo awuthumelayo. -Thich Nhat Hanh
Oku kuhle ukukhumbula xa ujongene nomntu okuvisa kabuhlungu ngenxa yokuba egxotha ngaphandle kwesizathu okanye esinye. Ngokwesiqhelo, xa omnye umntu esiva kabuhlungu, ithuku lethu lemvelo kukumcaphukisa ngokusenza sizive sibi. Ithuku lesibini elisemgangathweni kukuziphindezela ukuze sibenzakalise ngokusenza sizive singalunganga. Oko ke kubangela impendulo yabo yokuziphindezela, kwaye ke umjikelo wokubandezeleka kunye nenkohlakalo yomoya uhla de ubonakale.
Xa umntu ekuvisa kabuhlungu, kuhlala kunzima ukuzama ukuthatha inyathelo umva kwaye ujonge imeko ngovelwano novelwano. Njengogqirha ozama ukufumanisa isigulo esisemva kwempawu, zama ukuthatha umzuzwana kwaye ubone ukuba kutheni omnye umntu eziphatha ngale ndlela. Ngokwesiqhelo unokuqiniseka ukuba izenzo zabo zivela kwinto ebenzakalisa ngokunzulu kwaye ibabangele ukuba bahlupheke kakhulu ngaphakathi, kunokuba nje kuba beziva ngathi bakhohlakele okanye banempindezelo.
Yi le inkolelo yamaBuddha okanye umbono owaziwa ngokuba yiKaruna eguqulela njengemfesane kwaye ibonwa njengomnqweno wokunciphisa iDukkha, okanye ukubandezeleka, kwabanye.
UbuBuddha bunokubonwa njengotyekelo ngabantu abaqhelene neziqinisekiso eziqinisekileyo kunye neememic ezigcwele ii-unicorn ezinqabileyo kwaye, kodwa, iyifilosofi ekhuthaza ukunyaniseka, ukwamkelwa, kunye uthando olungenamiqathango - kokubini ngokwakho nakwabanye. Kukho isixa esothusayo solonwabo kunye nenkululeko enokuthi ize nokuyeka ukuhamba kokuncamathiselwa, iminqweno, kunye nokuchasa… kwaye sonke sinethuba lokuqala olo hlobo lokuziqhelanisa nemihla ngemihla.
Yizame ngoku: njengoko uphefumlela ngaphakathi, zoba ngoxolo. Njengoko uphefumla, phefumla okulindelweyo, ufuna, ukukhathazeka. Okukhona usenza oku, kokukhona uyonwaba kwaye uzolile ubomi unokuba… kwaye ukuba uziva ngathi uyatyhafa, jonga nje ekuphefumlweni kwakho.
Unokwenza oku.
