Ungayifikelela njani iNirvana ngokuhamba iNdlela eNesibhozo

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Nceda uqaphele ukuba xa iNirvana ikhankanywe kweli nqaku, asikhulumi malunga ne-90s grunge band. Ewe, zazintle, kodwa singena kwindawo yentloko yamaBuddha apha.



Khawufane ucinge ivili elineziporo ezisibhozo kulo, zonke zibanjwe ziihabhu esembindini. Ngasinye kwezo zithethi sisixhobo esiluncedo esinceda umntu aqhubele phambili ekukhanyeni, intetho nganye inenjongo yayo ekhethekileyo.

Yile ndlela iNtloko yeNdlela eNesibhozo ihlala iboniswa ngayo: njengesixhobo esiluncedo esigcwele izikhokelo ezilungileyo malunga nokuziphatha okufanelekileyo, okuluncedo.



Ngokungafaniyo nezinye iinkolo ezibetha abantu abazinikeleyo ngoluhlu olukhulu 'AKUKHO', ubuBuddha bunika esi sikhokelo sithambileyo esinokunceda abantu ukuba bafumane indlela yabo njengoko betyhubela inkungu engwevu yobukho basemhlabeni.

INirvana Vs uSamsara

Ngaphambi kokuba singene kumendo ngokwawo, masiziqhelanise nesigama esithile.

KwiBuddhism, eyona njongo iphambili yokomoya ukuyilwela kukuphelisa umjikelo onzima, obuhlungu wokuzalwa ngokutsha, owaziwa njenge USamsara .

USamsara ichazwa njengomlilo ophindwe kathathu wenkohliso, ukunyoluka nenzondo. Kuze kube yilapho umphefumlo uphumile ngaphandle kwezi tyhefu, zibophelelwe kule nqwelo-moya kwaye kufuneka ziphinde zizalwe kwakhona zide zifikelele ekukhanyeni.

Babotshwe ngamatyathanga yintiyo, ukungazi, ukufuna, kunye nenkohlakalo, kwaye ke ngoko bamfanyekisiwe kubunyani bunye.

Ukuba umphefumlo uyakwazi ukuzikhulula koku kungazi, nokubawa, banethuba lokufikelela INirvana Imeko yobume apho umphefumlo ungenasiphelo nganto.

Enye indlela ekuboniswe ngayo oku kungathi lilangatye elivuthayo elixhonywe kokungento / konke. Akusekho ukuphela komdlalo okanye ikhandlela okanye nantoni na: kukukhanya nje, kukodwa.

Iinyaniso Ezine Ezihle

Ngoku, ngaphambi kokuba sisungule kumgaqo ophindwe kasibhozo-esisikhokelo esinokunceda abantu bazikhulule USamsara - kufuneka sijonge ezi nyaniso zine zibalulekileyo.

Uninzi lwabantu ngempazamo lukholelwa ukuba ubuBuddha buyadandathekisa okanye abubi, kuba ibeka kakhulu ukubandezeleka.

Le ngcamango ikhawuleza ikhutshwe xa abantu beza kungena nzulu kwifilosofi, kodwa uninzi lwethu eNtshona luxineke kakhulu 'lulonwabo lonke ixesha!' uluvo lokuba kunokuba kungonwabi kwaye kube ngumngeni ukuhlala nezinto ezinje ngentlungu, usizi, uloyiko, kunye ukungcatsha , ujongane nabo ngokunyanisekileyo nangemfesane.

UBuddha uzimisele ukuba kukho iinyaniso ezine eziBalulekileyo ezenza isiseko sobunyani bethu. Ngamafutshane, zezi zilandelayo:

Inyaniso yokuqala eNqabileyo: Ukubandezeleka kukhona

Xa uninzi lwethu lucinga ngegama elithi 'ukubandezeleka,' silifanisa nokuba nengxaki eyoyikisayo, njengowesifazana owaphukileyo okanye ukubambeka kwindawo yemfazwe.

Umbono wamaBuddha wokubandezeleka wahluke mpela, kwaye unxulumene nezinto ekuthiwa 'zezingalunganga' esihlala siziva mihla le.

Ixhala, uxinzelelo, isiphithiphithi sangaphakathi: zonke ezo mvakalelo zinokukhuthaza umbono wokungoneliseki.

Kwinqanaba elisisiseko, linokuchazwa njengokungazaliseki. Ukungabikho koxolo lwangaphakathi.

Inyaniso yesiBini eNqabileyo: Kukho oonobangela (bendlela) bokubandezeleka kwakho

# 2 nantsi into malunga nokumisela ukuba yintoni le ikwenza ukuba ubandezeleke.

Ngendlela efanayo ukuba umphilisi kufuneka akhangele oyena nobangela wesigulo ukuze asinyange ngokufanelekileyo, kufuneka uhlele ukuba yintoni le ikubangela ukuba ubandezeleke, ukuze ukwazi ukuyikhupha emthonjeni.

Kuba ukubandezeleka komntu wonke kwahlukile, ukukwazi ukuchonga ukuba yintoni le ikwenza ukuba ubandezeleke njengomntu omkhulu. Iya kukuvumela ukuba wenze utshintsho olufunekayo ukuze uye eluxolweni.

Inyaniso yesiThathu eNqabileyo: Ukuphila kakuhle kukhona

Oku kuchasene, okanye endaweni yoko kuyinyani, kwinyaniso yokuqala ebalaseleyo. Njengokuba kubalulekile ukwamkela nokwamkela ukuba ukubandezeleka yinto eyinyani, kubalulekile ukwamkela nokwamkela ukuba ulonwabo luyinyani ngokunjalo. Ukwazi ukuba kuyinyani kukunika injongo eqinisekileyo zilwela .

Inyaniso yesine eNqabileyo: Chonga indlela yakho kwimpilo-ntle

Kwakhona, oku kubonisa indlela yangaphambili. Njengokuqala kokuvuma ukuba ukubandezeleka kukhona, le iquka inyani yokuba kukho indlela yokuphuma kwincasa yakho yokubandezeleka.

Injongo yakho apha kukufuna iingcambu zazo zonke izinto ezibangela iintlungu kunye nobunzima, ukuze ukwazi ukuzikhupha kwimithombo yazo.

Ukuba imeko enye yokubandezeleka kwakho ibangelwa luhlobo oluthile lokuziphatha, ukutshintsha loo ndlela yokuziphatha kuya kuphelisa olo hlobo lokubandezeleka.

Cinga ngoluhlobo: uziva iintlungu ezandleni zakho. Ngoba? Kuba kukho amalahle avuthayo kuyo. Kutheni kukho ilahle elivuthayo esandleni sakho? Uqhele ukukuthwala.
Kwenzeka ntoni ukuba uyayiyeka? Ewe, ukutsha kuya kuyeka, kwaye iintlungu ziya kuphola.

Okokugqibela, ngokwamkela nokwamkela ezi nyaniso zine, umkhangeli unemephu yendlela eqinileyo uxolo lwangaphakathi novuyo.

Nokuba ezona meko zingathandekiyo zinokubonwa njengamathuba okufunda. Isitshixo kukuchonga indlela yakho yobuqu kwimpilo-ntle, kuba amava akho kobu bomi awanabo yahluke ngokupheleleyo kuwe .

Yintoni esebenzela omnye umntu ayinakusebenza komnye, kuba amava obomi ahluke kakhulu.

Oko zonke iindlela ezifanayo, nangona kunjalo, kukukwazi ukukhanyiselwa zizikhokelo eziphindwe kasi-8 ezabekwa nguBuddha kwiminyaka engama-2 500 eyadlulayo.

Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):

Umendo oBalaseleyo ophindwe kasibhozo

1. Ukuqonda ngokuchanekileyo (iSamma ditthi)

Oku kunokutolikwa “njengombono olungileyo,” kwaye ngokusisiseko kukubona izinto njengoko zinjalo, kwaye uziqonde kwinqanaba elisisiseko.

Abantu abaninzi babona umhlaba ngenkungu eyenziwe yeengcinga esele zikho, uthatho lwabo, okanye inkcubeko, endaweni yokuqonda okwenyani kunye nokuqonda, okukhokelela kungxabano enkulu nabanye.

izinto zokwenza xa udikwe ekhaya

Injongo yale ndlela isisiseko kukususa ukucinga okukhohlisayo, ukudideka, kunye nokungaqondi.

Sifuna ukuqonda ukuba ukubandezeleka kudalwa njani: hayi eyethu kuphela, kodwa neyabanye abantu.

Xa sibona oonobangela bokubandezeleka kwethu, singasusa ezo zinto zisizisa kulonwabo… kwaye xa sibona indlela abanye abantu abasokola ngayo, singabaxolela, kwaye ngethemba bancede yiya kulonwabo ngokunjalo.

Ngoku, gcinani engqondweni ukuba olu hlobo lokuqonda aluzukwenzeka ngokufunda iqela leencwadi zokuzinceda.

Imalunga nokuzoba kumava akho obuqu, kunye nokwazisa okwenyani kwehlabathi elikungqongileyo.

Kunqabile kakhulu kuthi ukuba siyiqonde ngokwenyani imeko de siyiphile ngokwethu, kwaye sasikhona kwaye sikhumbula ngelixa sibona.

Xa kuziwa kwiimeko ezinzima-ezo zihlala zibangela uhlobo oluthile lokubandezeleka-ukuphendula kwangoko abantu abaninzi banako ukwenza konke abanako ukunciphisa ubunyani beemeko zabo.

Banokuya ekukhanyeleni, okanye baziphazamise, okanye babandindishe indlela abavakalelwa ngayo ngezinto ezahlukeneyo.

Kuphela ngokugcina amehlo evulekile kwinyani yoko kunamava apho ukuqonda okwenyani kunokufunyanwa khona.

Inzima kakhulu loo nto ukuyenza, kodwa yonke into ekufanele ukuyenza iza nobunzima, neh?

2. Ukucinga ngokuLungileyo (iSamma sankappa)

Le ikwabhekiswa kuyo njengoKucinga ngokuchanekileyo, okanye iNjongo elungileyo. Inxulumene nalapho sivumela iingcinga zethu ukuba zihambe, njengoko ukuvumela ukucinga kwethu kusebenze amok kunokuchaphazela iinkalo ezininzi kubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla.

Lingakanani ixesha ocinga ukuba ulichitha uvaleleke entlokweni yakho?

Nokuba ulindele izinto ezoyikekayo ezenzekayo (ezibangela zonke iintlobo zoxinzelelo), ukubuyisela ukungavisisani okwenzekileyo, okanye ukucwangcisa izinto ** onokuzithetha ** ukuba ukhe ukwimeko ethile, akukho nanye eyinyani kuloo mzuzu .

Uhanjiswa kukungahambelani kwengqondo okungenamveliso endaweni ukuba nolwazi kwaye ndikhona ngalo mzuzu wangoku .

Ngokucinga ngokuLungileyo, injongo kukuba gcina ujoliso Kwinto oyenzayo ngoku, endaweni yokuvumela ubuchwephesha bengqondo kunye nesiphithiphithi sonakalise impilo yakho yeemvakalelo.

Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi ukuba ufumanisa ukuba unokulungiswa ngesihloko, ngakumbi leyo ikukhathazayo.

Njengomzekelo, masithi umntu uthumela umfanekiso ocaphukisayo kwimidiya yoluntu. Ewe kuyakucaphukisa, kodwa ukuba uqhubeka uphendula le nto engqondweni yakho iiyure / iintsuku ngexesha, iya kuyiphosa yonke into ebomini bakho ibhalansi.

Unokucaphuka ngalo mzuzu, emva koko uyeke, kwaye ucinge ngaloo nto inemveliso, kwaye iyimfuneko, kwaye inobubele.

Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba unobunzima nje Ukuyeka iingcinga ezikhathazayo, ezingenayo , Eli lithuba elihle lokufunda ukucamngca ngengqondo.

3. Intetho yasekunene (Samma vaca)

Oku kungashwankathelwa ngokulula: 'sukuba yimpundu.'

Ukwandisa koku, thatha umzuzwana ukucinga ngendlela oziva ngayo xa abanye abantu bethethe kakubi kuwe.

Uninzi lwethu luyazilibala izinto ezithandekayo abantu abasixelela zona (okanye abathi ngathi) rhoqo, kodwa siyazikhumbula izinto ezoyikisayo ngokucacileyo okucacileyo.

Ngokubanzi, abantu bayakukhumbula ukuba ubenze bazive njani, kwaye ukuba ubenze bazive bengafaneleki, bengafunwa, okanye ngenye indlela bebi nje, ezo mvakalelo zinokuchaphazela ubomi babo bonke.

Kulapho iNtetho eyiLungelo (aka Unxibelelwano oluLungileyo) ingena khona. Uya kufuna ukuthetha izinto ezingakuncedisi ekukukhululeni ekuhluphekeni, kodwa zikwenzele izimangaliso zokuphila kwabanye abantu.

Iinzame eziphambili ezibonakalisiweyo nguBuddha kukuthetha inyani, ungathethi ngolwimi lwefolokhwe, ungathethi ngokukhohlakeleyo, kwaye ungazibaxi / uzimilisele.

Ke ngokusisiseko: sukuxoka, ungatshintshi into oyithethayo ngokuxhomekeke kubaphulaphuli onabo, ungakhohlakele okanye usebenze, kwaye ungazibaxi, ngakumbi malunga neempumelelo zakho.

Injongo kukunyaniseka, nokunyaniseka, kunye nobubele, ngalo lonke igama olithethayo. Ukuba awukwazi ukufaka ezi mpawu, kungcono uthule.

4.Inyathelo elichanekileyo (Samma kammanta)

Lo ulawula indlela esiziphatha ngayo iintshukumo esizenzayo mihla le. Ekugqibeleni, kufuneka siziphathe ngendlela enemfesane, kokubini nakwabanye.

KwiBuddhism, ukucinga kubandakanya yonke into ebomini bethu, kwaye isenzo esifanelekileyo siquka olu hlobo lokucinga.

Ngoba? Kungenxa yokuba ngaphandle kokuba silele, senza into ukususela kumzuzu wokuvuka kwethu de sibuyele kwakhona.

Ngokwenza oko, sinokukhetha ukwenza ngengqondo nangemfesane, okanye senze ngaphandle kokucinga. (Kukangaphi uvile umntu ekhalaza ngeemeko zabo okanye ngesiphumo esibi ngesizathu esithi 'Khange ndicinge!'?)

Kukukwazi ukuba isenzo sibachaphazela njani abanye esinokuthi sazi ukuba nini kwaye senza into enokuthi isenzakalise, okanye abanye abantu.

Oku kunokuba ukuphatha umntu ngokungabi nantlonelo kuba ubanjelwe kwi-crud yakho ngalo mzuzu, uphuma ngaphandle ekuhlawuleni umntu into oyithembisileyo ngoba ungathanda ukuzigcinela imali, uphinde wenze izithembiso… nantoni na enjalo.

Ngokwenza ezi ntlobo zezenzo, awenzakalisi omnye umntu-uyazenzakalisa ngokuqokelela i-karma engeyiyo.

Intshukumo elungileyo ikwalawula nokukhetha okwenzayo mihla le. Sicinga ngemisonto efikelela kububanzi esasazeka kuzo zonke izigqibo esizenzayo, kwaye nendlela yonke into esiyenzayo ibachaphazela ngayo abanye.

Umzekelo: uyazi ukuba iimpahla ozithengileyo zenziwe ngokokuziphatha? Okanye kwii-sweatshops? Ngaba itshokholethi oyityileyo urhwebo olufanelekileyo? Ukuba akunjalo, abantwana abakumazwe asaphuhlayo, ongasoze uhlangane nabo, bahlupheka ukuze ukwazi ukuyitya.

Ukuphila ngokuziphatha nangokuqonda kunokuba nzima, kodwa kukhulule kwakhona xa ufumanisa ukuba iintshukumo ozithathayo zihlwayela imbewu yobumnene kunye nemfesane, kude lee kunokuqonda.

5. Ukuphila ngendlela eyiyo (Samma ajiva)

Eyona nkcazo isisiseko yoku ngulo: sukukhetha ikhondo elibangela ukwenzakala kwezinye izinto eziphilayo.

Ukuba unomsebenzi omkhulu ngokwenene, kodwa inkampani oyisebenzelayo iyabandakanyeka nenkohlakalo kwizilwanyana, okanye ekuthengiseni izixhobo / izixhobo, okanye naliphi na elinye inyathelo elingenabulungisa, ukwabangela ukwenzakala ngumbutho. Ungomnye wamagiya owenza ukuba umatshini usebenze.

Ukuziphilisa ngokuchanekileyo kuthetha ukuba ixesha kunye nomzamo owubekayo emhlabeni kufuneka ubekeke, uziphathe kakuhle, kwaye ungonzakalisi abanye.

Kweli xesha lesiphithiphithi kwezoqoqosho nakwezopolitiko, abanye abantu bakufumanisa kulula ukujonga iliso kwizenzo ezahluka-hlukeneyo, kuba kuninzi ukwenzakala kunye noloyiko oluqhubeka nokuzikhathaza ngendlela umntu kwelinye icala lehlabathi ochaphazeleka ngumsebenzi wabo ngumthwalo omnye.

Into eyenzekayo kukuba, ukwazi ukuba omnye umntu akonzakaliswa ngumsebenzi wemihla ngemihla kunciphisa ukubandezeleka okukhulu.

Ayikho ingxaki yokuziphatha kwimihla ngemihla, akukho mphefumlo onzulu owaziyo ukuba umsebenzi owenzayo ubangela ukulimala ngokuthe ngqo (okanye ngokungathanga ngqo) komnye umntu ophilayo.

Endaweni yoko, ukuba umsebenzi owenzayo uchaphazela abanye ngcono - ngokungathi usebenzela umbutho ongenzi nzuzo onceda abantu, izilwanyana, okanye okusingqongileyo- kukho uvuyo olunzulu lomphefumlo oluvela kukwazi ukuba uyanceda.

Ungakhetha eyiphi?

6. Umzamo wasekunene (Samma vayama)

Kukho i-meme ejikelezayo apho umakhulu notatomkhulu womntwana ebaxelela ukuba kukho iingcuka ezimbini emfazweni ezintliziyweni zabo: enye imele ukubawa, inzondo, inkohlakalo, nokungazi, kwaye enye ibonakalisa uvelwano, uthando, uvuyo noxolo. Umntwana ubuza ukuba yeyiphi ingcuka eya kuphumelela edabini, kwaye impendulo ithi: 'leyo uyondlayo.'

Ukuphila noMzamo oLungileyo kunokubonwa njengokukhetha ububele, kunye nengcuka enothando ngakumbi ukuba uyondle.

Olunye uluvo kukubona iimpawu ezintle njengembewu elinywa ngokukhanya okuninzi kunye nokuthantamisa.

Eli lithuba lakho lokuba Linda kwaye nemfesane kuwe.

Iimvakalelo ezingalunganga ngokuqinisekileyo ziya kuza, kodwa yindlela oqhubana ngayo nazo ibalulekile. Ukubanika amandla kunye namandla bahlala bevumela ukuba bakhule, kwaye ukuzibekekelela nokuba ubanazo konke konke akwenzeli mntu okulungileyo.

Zazi iingcinga zakho, kwaye ubeke umgudu ekuphiliseni izinto ezingalunganga, kwaye uthulule ukukhanya kunye namandla kwezo zinokukhuthaza ezona zilungileyo kuye wonke umntu.

7.Ukuqonda ngokuchanekileyo (sati efanayo)

Sithetha ngengqondo kakhulu, kodwa eli candelo lendlela ngamanye amaxesha linokubhekiswa kulo njengolwazi.

Ngelixa ukuhlala kwengqondo kusoloko kubhekiswa kubo njengokubakho ngokupheleleyo ngalo mzuzu, into esithetha ngayo apha kukuvula intliziyo nengqondo yakho ukuba wazi okwenzekayo kunye nendlela ekuchaphazela ngayo kuwo onke amanqanaba.

Oku kunokukunika ukuqonda okungaqhelekanga kunye nezifundo, ezinokuthi emva koko zikuncede uhlale ngoxolo nolonwabo, ngelixa ugqithisa ukubandezeleka.

Awukhathaleli nje ukuphepha uxinzelelo loviwo oluzayo okanye uphicotho lwerhafu: kukude kakhulu kwaye kufikelela konke kunoko.

Xa uhlala ngokuKhumbula ngokuLungileyo, ucofa ubume bakho bobuBuddha. Uyakhumbula emzimbeni, engqondweni nasemphefumlweni.

Ingqondo emzimbeni ikuvumela ukuba uqaphele zombini iimvakalelo ezibuhlungu nezonwabisayo, kwaye ucofe abo baphuma kumava obomi xa bebonke.

Ingqondo yengqondo ikuvumela ukuba uqaphele ukuba uya kuba neqela leengcinga ngexesha losuku, kodwa unamandla wuyeke umsindo , umona, kunye nenzondo, ngelixa ubambe ukulingana, imfesane kunye novuyo.

8. Ukugxila ekunene (Samma samadhi)

Le kunzima ukuyidibanisa, kodwa inokushwankathelwa njengohlobo 'loxinaniso olupheleleyo.'

Yindibaniselwano yoxinaniso olwandisiweyo kunye nekhontrakthi, kodwa ngaxeshanye kunjalo, kwaye idala imeko yokuthula okumangalisayo.

Njengeliso loqhwithela. Ukho kwisaqhwithi, kwaye ungaphendula indlela esikuchaphazela ngayo eso saqhwithi, kodwa awunamnqweno okanye ungathandi ukusijonga, kodwa ngaphandle kokukhetha.

Kuyathulisa ngaphakathi nangaphandle, ubona konke okukhoyo, ngelixa kungagxili kwinto ethile.

Ngokwenyani, eli lokugqibela linokuthatha amanqaku aliqela ukucacisa ngokucacileyo, kodwa ekugqibeleni luhlobo lokonwaba apho uhlangabezana nayo yonke into kwaye akukho nto ngaxeshanye, uyazi indalo iphela ngelixa ungachaphazeleki yiyo nayiphi na inxalenye yayo.

Akukho kugweba , akukho ilebhile, akukho thintelo, akukho mnqweno.

Wena Unjalo.

Kubalulekile ukuba ungacingi ngendlela enamacala asibhozo njengenyathelo lesibhozo, 'indlela' yokukhokela. Ayifani neseti yemiyalelo yendibano ye-IKEA, kodwa endaweni yoko ifana nevili esilikhankanyileyo: eli liqhele ukusetyenziselwa ukubonisa.

Onke la manyathelo ayanxibelelana, anempembelelo komnye nomnye, kwaye elo vili lijika lonke ixesha.

Ukujika kubhekisa kwindlela ezi zifundo eziza ngayo amaxesha ngamaxesha ngaphezulu kobomi bomntu, kwaye indlela nganye ibonisa kwaye isebenza ecaleni kwezinye.

Njengeevili kwivili lenqwelo, ezi ndlela azinakulinganiswa. Udinga ukuba zonke zifike apho uya khona, kwaye ezo zithethi ziya kuhlala zisiza njengoko uhamba, ngethemba lokukhanyiselwa, kunye neNirvana uqobo.

Iintsikelelo kuwe, naseNamaste.