Iindlela ezili-12 zokudibana kwakhona neqabane lakho xa uziva unqanyuliwe

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Mhlawumbi awukwazi ukudlula impikiswano okanye uziva ngathi ukuthandana kuye kwancipha ngokuhamba kwexesha.

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Ubudlelwane buthatha umzamo wokuchuma. Nje ukuba utshatile, kulula ukuphazanyiswa yiyo yonke enye into osele uqhubekile nayo ebomini kwaye uyeke ukunika ulwalamano lwakho ingqalelo eliyifaneleyo.

Ukuba uziva unqanyuliwe kumlingane wakho, jonga oku njengefowuni yokuvuka ukuqala kwakhona ukubeka phambili phambili komnye nomnye.

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Ngaba uziva ngathi wena neqabane lakho nidinga uncedo ekunxibelelaneni kwakhona? Funda ukuze ubone ezinye iingcebiso zendlela onokuqala ngayo:

1. Thetha nabo.

Kuthatha ababini kuni ukuvuselela uqhagamshelo, ke ukuba uziva ukude kwiqabane lakho, vula kunye nabo kwaye uthethe ngokufuna ukubuyisela ulwalamano lwakho kwindawo elungileyo.

Cinga malunga nokuba uziva unqanyuliwe kubo ngenxa yento abayenzileyo ukukucaphukisa. Ukuba kukho umba ongasonjululwanga phakathi kwakho, unokuzivalela ngaphandle kwabo ngokungazi.

Ukuba ishiywe, ingxaki iya kubola entliziyweni yolwalamano lwakho kwaye ikuhlukanise. Ukuthetha nabo malunga nomba kuya kukunceda ufumane ukuvalwa okufunayo kuwo kwaye kukuvumele ukuba uqhubeke kunye.

Ukuba ufuna ngaphezulu kwiqabane lakho ngokwemiqathango kwaye uthando , yazisa kubo ngendlela eyakhayo, unika imizekelo yendlela abanokukunika ngayo into oyifunayo. Abayi kwazi ukuba abenzi ngokwaneleyo ngaphandle kokuba ubaxelele.

Vula iimvakalelo zakho kwaye ukhumbule ukuba, nangona utshatile, oko akuthethi ukuba iqabane lakho liyakwazi ukufunda ingqondo yakho. Uya kuyidinga inkxaso yabo ukwenza utshintsho olufanelekileyo emtshatweni wakho, ke qala ngokuthetha nabo kwaye ujonge indlela izinto ezihamba ngayo.

2. Yiba nomzimba.

Siyalibala ukuba zininzi kangakanani iimpembelelo zomzimba kuthi. Ukumanga okungapheliyo, ukwangana okuqinileyo, nokuba ibrashi yesandla konke kungalawula ngokukhawuleza i-chemistry phakathi kwakho.

Ukuba uziva ngathi ulahlekelwe yintlantsi, yenza inzame zokudala unxibelelwano ngokwasemzimbeni neqabane lakho.

Into encinci njenge ukubathinta ngengalo njengoko uthetha nabo okanye ubabambe ngesandla kwakhona xa uhamba , inokwanela ukukukhumbuza bobabini ngebhondi ekhethekileyo eninayo omnye komnye.

Ukusondelelana yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobudlelwane kwaye kunokutyhalelwa ecaleni ngenxa yokudinwa kunye neeshedyuli ezixakekileyo. Ukusondelelana ngokwasemzimbeni yinto ekhethekileyo enisabelana ngayo omnye komnye, ke yisebenzise njengesixhobo sokubuyisa olo nxibelelwano ululangazelelayo.

Ukukhumbuza iqabane lakho ngendlela evakalelwa ngayo kukuchukunyiswa kwaye ubakhuthaze ukuba benze okufanayo kunokuba yiyo yonke into eyenzayo ukuze uzive unxibelelene kwakhona kwaye uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uhlangane

3. Thatha uhambo oluya ezantsi kwimemori yendlela.

Chitha ixesha udlula kwiifoto ezindala okanye uzame ukuphinda wenze enye yeentsuku zakho ozithandayo.

Ukukhumbula amaxesha amnandi kunye kunokuba yinto eyonwabisayo, ukubuyisa iinkumbulo ezimyoli kwaye kunikhumbuze ngawo omabini amava amnandi okwabelwana ngawo njengesibini.

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Ukuba uziva ngathi uye waqhekeka ngenxa yokuba ubambeke kuyo yonke into engaphandle komtshato wakho, ukubuyela emva kwezinye iinkumbulo ezimyoli kunokukukhumbuza ngabantu owawungoyena mntu ubumhle.

Ukuqonda ukuba utshintshe njani ngokuhamba kwexesha kunokuba kukuqonda ukuba kufuneka ubeke phambili izinto ezibalulekileyo kuwe ebomini kwaye uqale ukubeka umzamo ongakumbi emtshatweni wakho.

Ngethemba, ukukhumbula amaxesha amnandi kuya kukukhuthaza ukuba nobabini niqale ukucwangcisa ezinye iihambo kunye nemihla apho ninokudala iinkumbulo ezintsha kwaye niphumelele kulwalamano lwenu kwakhona.

4. Qalisa ukuthandana kwakhona.

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Ukuqala kobudlelwane obutsha kuhlala kunomdla. Nenza iinzame zomnye nomnye, nithatha ixesha lokunxiba nokukhetha kwindawo entle eniza kuya kuyo.

Nje ukuba sikhululeke xa sithandana kwaye sitshate, sinokuyeka ukubeka phambili ubusuku busuku kwaye endaweni yoko siwele kumkhwa wee-PJs kunye nee-takeaways.

Kulungile ukuba ufikelele kwinqanaba apho wonwabe ngokupheleleyo ukuba uzingqonge kwaye ungaziva unesidingo sokuchukumisa. Kodwa ngokucwangcisa ubusuku obuqhelekileyo bomhla, wenza ixesha lokuchukumisa omnye nomnye kwaye ubonise ukuba ukhathalele ukujonga kunye nokuziva ulungile kwiqabane lakho.

Wonke umntu unomdla ngakumbi xa bekhangeleka kwaye beziva besemandleni abo, ke tshintsha isuti yakho yokunxiba uye kwimpahla entle kwaye uchithe ixesha elinikezelweyo usenza into entle kunye.

Akusoloko kufuneka uye kwindawo yokutyela entle, into ebalulekileyo kukuchitha ixesha ujonge omnye komnye ngaphandle kweziphazamiso kwaye unethuba elifunekayo lokuphinda uqhagamshele njengesibini.

5. Yenza uluhlu lwamabhakethi.

Xa uqala ukuthandana nomntu, unawo onke la mathemba namaphupha wento eniza kuyenza kunye nazo zonke izinto eniza kuziphumeza. Banokuba ngamaphupha amakhulu njengokuthenga indlu kunye, okanye iiplani ezincinci kakhulu njengokuya eholideyini.

Njengoko ixesha liqhubeka emtshatweni kwaye wabelane ngamava amaninzi kwaye uphumelele uninzi lweenjongo zakho, uyeke ukucwangcisa izinto oza kusebenza kuzo njengesibini. Uqala ukuziva utyhafile kubudlelwane bakho, kungekho nto ujonge kuyo. Inokukwenza ucinge ukuba uphulukene nomdla omnye komnye.

Ukuhlala phantsi ukucwangcisa uluhlu lwamabhakethi kunye neqabane lakho yindlela elula yokubuyisa ulonwabo kwiintsuku zakho zokuqala kunye.

Zama ukudwelisa izinto, ezinkulu nezincinci, enifuna ukuzenza nobabini, kodwa qiniseka ukuba zizinto onokuzenza kunye. Inokukunika ukuqonda okutsha kwiqabane lakho kunye nawe ngokwakho njengoko udwelisa izinto ezintsha ofuna ukuziphumeza kunye.

Zinike ixesha elisengqiqweni kwaye uphinde uphinde uphinde uluhlu ukuze ukhawuleze imisebenzi oyenzileyo.

Ayizukubanezinto kuphela eninokujonga kuzo njengesibini, nenze iinkumbulo ezintsha kunye, kodwa niyakuba nemvo ekwabelwana ngayo yokuphumelela ekugcwaliseni uluhlu lwakho.

Ndiyathemba ukuba uyakhuthazeka ukuba uqhubeke nokutyhala imida yamava akho njengesibini, ukuthintela ubomi ukuba buze bukruqule.

6. Nika ingqalelo omnye komnye.

Sonke sinetyala layo… uchitha ixesha kunye neqabane lakho kodwa nobabini nihleli nihamba nisiya kwiifowuni zenu, nijonga kwimidiya yoluntu okanye niphendula kubahlobo.

Ngumkhwa oyingozi ukubanjwa kuba naxa ucinga ukuba nichitha ixesha kunye, aninikelani ingqalelo yenu epheleleyo.

Ukungahoyi ezinye iziphazamiso kuya kusiba nzima ukuba ukongeza umsebenzi okanye abantwana kumxube. Xa kuhlala kukho enye into ekufuneka yenziwe, ukugxila kwiqabane lakho kuyeka ukuba yeyona nto iphambili.

Kungenxa yokuba uqhele ukuba iqabane lakho libekho ngalo lonke ixesha, oko akuthethi ukuba abakufanelanga ukuba ube nengqwalaselo yakho epheleleyo xa ufumana ithuba. Yimbonakaliso yentlonipho komnye nomnye ukubeka ingqalelo yakho epheleleyo kwinto oyithethayo nayenzayo kunye.

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Qiniseka, ngobusuku bobusuku ubuncinci, ukuba nenza umzamo wokubeka ecaleni iifowuni kwaye nizenzele ixesha lenu nobabini. Nobabini niyakuxabisa ukumamela kwaye oko kuya kuninika ithuba lokudibanisa ngokufanelekileyo kwaye nabelane ngexesha elithile elibalulekileyo.

7. Chithani ixesha kunye ngenjongo.

Nangona sinokuthi sichithe ubusuku kunye, isiqingatha sibukele isepha kumabonwakude ngelixa sijonga iifowuni zethu kwaye simbombozela 'linda, ngubani owenze ntoni?' Rhoqo rhoqo komnye nomnye, ayibali ncam.

Ngenxa yokuba nisondelene kwigumbi elinye, oko akuthethi ukuba nichitha ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye.

Kwakhona akuthethi ukuba ukubukela iTV kunye akunakuba nentsingiselo. Imalunga nendlela owenza ngayo umsebenzi kunye nokuba uyawenza ngokuzimisela okanye ngokungakhathali.

Ukuba ufuna ukubukela into, khetha imuvi kunye, phuma ukutya okuthandayo okuthandayo, ubeke iifowuni zakho kwaye unike ingqwalaselo yakho ngokungathi ukwi-cinema ngomhla. Ukuba upheka isidlo sangokuhlwa, yenza umsebenzi owenzayo kunye, ukuncokola kunye nokunxibelelana.

Ukujongana nomsebenzi ngenjongo ethile kunokuwela kumkhwa yenye yeendlela ezilula zokufumana ixesha lokunxibelelana kwakhona yonke imihla.

Imalunga nokwenza ukhetho lokuba ulazi iqabane lakho kwaye ubanike ingqwalaselo yakho kunokuba ube kwindawo enye.

Ayinakuhlala iyimihla edumileyo kunye nezinto ezimangalisayo ezothusayo, kodwa ukutshintsha indlela ojonga ngayo indlela enichitha ngayo ixesha kunye kuya kukhawuleza kuqalise ukuyenza ibe nentsingiselo kuni nobabini.

8. Baxelele into oyithandayo kubo.

Sonke siyakuthanda ukuva into emnandi ithethwe ngathi kube kanye ngelixesha. Xa nisazana, kuyindalo ukuncoma omnye nomnye, kodwa le yinto enokuthi iphume kubudlelwane ixesha elide liqhubeka.

Ukwenza umzamo wokuncoma ngomlomo iqabane lakho, kwaye ngakumbi, baxelele izinto ozixabisayo malunga nabo, kunokuba yindlela yokukhuthaza nina nobabini ukuba unxibelelane kwakhona.

Awuzukuncoma iqabane lakho kuphela, kodwa ukuthetha izinto ozithandayo ngabo kukukhumbuza kuzo zonke izinto onombulelo ngazo.

Ngokukhawuleza uyakuqonda ukuba uzixabisa kangakanani, ngelixa ubanika amandla okuzithemba. Okukhona besiva ukuncoma okusuka kuwe, kokukhona beya kubabuyisa, babuyise ezinye zontlasana yothando olahlekileyo.

9. Cinga ngobomi ngaphandle kwabo.

Ayisiyongcinga intle ukuba unayo, kodwa ukuba uyasokola ngokwenene ukufumana olo nxibelelwano neqabane lakho, kungangakuhle ukuba ucinge ngendlela eyahlukileyo ubomi ngaphandle kwabo.

Kuthiwa asiyazi into esinayo de ibe ihambile, kwaye akuqhelekanga ukuba netyala lokuthatha omnye nomnye njengoko umtshato wakho uqhubeka.

Sebenzisa ixesha elithile ukucinga ngenene ukuba ubomi buya kuba njani ngaphandle kweqabane lakho ayisiyonto intle yokwenza umthambo, kodwa ukuqonda indlela ekuchaphazela ngayo yonke imihla kwaye kuya kuthetha ntoni ukungabinabo apho kunokubakho ukothuka kwinkqubo yakho kufuneka uqale ukubandakanyeka ngakumbi kubudlelwane bakho.

Ukuba nendawo komnye nomnye kwaye ukungabikho komnye kwaphela zizinto ezahlukeneyo ngokupheleleyo. Kusempilweni ukuba ube nexesha lakho kubudlelwane, kodwa ukungabinalo iqabane lakho konke konke kwaye uqwalasele indlela enokuziva ngayo ngenene kunokwenza ukuba uyixabise into onayo ukuba incinci.

Qala ukwenza elona thuba unalo kunye kunye nokuxabisana ngenkuthalo. Ngokuzibandakanya ngakumbi kubudlelwane bakho, uya kufumana ukuba kuninzi kangakanani oqala ukuphuma kuko.

10. Shukumisa indlela yakho yesiqhelo.

Kunqande ukubambeka kwimeko yesiqhelo efanayo kwaye ugungqise izinto kunye nezinto ezimangazayo kwiqabane lakho.

Xa usengxakini, unokubanjiswa ngendlela efanayo yemihla ngemihla kwaye uqalise ukucima ixesha elichithwe liqabane lakho kwi-monotony yayo yonke.

Ukutshintsha inkqubo yakho okanye ucwangcise ukumangaliswa okuzenzekelayo kuya kunishukumisela ukuba niphume kubuthongo kwaye niphinde nigxininise kwakhona.

Ayithathi into enkulu ukutshintsha izinto phezulu, nawuphi na umahluko owenzayo emva kwexesha lokubambeka kwinkqubo efanayo yemihla ngemihla uya kunipha amandla kwakhona nobabini kwaye niqale ukuphinda nisebenzise unxibelelwano phakathi kwenu.

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Inokuba ibenzela enye yemisebenzi yabo, ibothuse ngokutya abakuthandayo, okanye ucwangcise usuku lokuphuma. Gcina omnye komnye ezinzwaneni zakho kunye nemibono emnandi kunye nezimbo zomzimba kwaye unqande ukuginywa kukuphindaphinda.

11. Amavolontiya kunye.

Ayisiyi kukubandakanya nje ukuba nobabini nithathe ixesha lenu ukwenza into enentsingiselo kunye, kodwa niyakube ninceda abanye ngokunjalo.

Akukho nto injengevolontiya ekubuyiseleni ubomi kwimeko xa uziva ulahlekile kancinci. Ukwenza lo msebenzi uyenzayo neqabane lakho kunokukunceda unxibelelane kwakhona malunga nento elungileyo kwaye ubone okona kulungileyo omnye komnye.

Inokuba lulo naluphi na uhlobo lokuvolontiya, nokuba udibana nabantu, uluntu lwakho, okanye isisa.

Ukumanyana kunye kwisizathu esivakalayo kuya kwenza ukuba nibe liqela kwakhona kwaye kunokukunceda ukuba ukuxabise onako ebomini bakho kunye nakomnye nomnye.

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12. Yakhani into kunye.

Enkulu okanye encinci, ayinamsebenzi, kodwa ngokufanelekileyo musa ukukhetha into eza kubeka uxinzelelo kakhulu kunye noxinzelelo kubudlelwane bakho.

Kungaba lula njengekhithi yokwakha yasekhaya okanye iprojekti ye-DIY obusoloko ufuna ukuya kuyo indlu yakho. Icandelo eliphambili loku kukuqinisekisa ukuba yinto nobabini eninokuzibandakanya kwaye niyenze kunye.

Ukwakha into kunye kuthetha ukuba kufuneka ukhuphe ixesha lokugxila kwiprojekthi ekwabelwana ngayo. Uya kuba nexesha lokuncokola kunye nokunxibelelana kwakhona ngaphandle kweziphazamiso, njengoko ubeka amandla akho kwinjongo efanayo.

Impumelelo yeprojekthi iya kuxhomekeka ekubeni nobabini nimamele kwaye ninxibelelana nabanye ngendlela elungileyo nekhuthazayo. Ungaqala ukuncoma ngokwendalo, ukunceda kunye nokuxhasana, bonke besebenza ukunxibelelana kwakhona nolwalamano lwakho kwaye bakukhumbuze ukuba umkhathalele kangakanani na omnye lo mntu.

Nje ukuba iprojekthi igqityiwe uyakuba nolwaneliseko lokwazi ukuba yinto eniyiphumezileyo kunye kwaye nibe sisikhumbuzo seqela elikhulu enilulo.

Umtshato awuyi kuphumelela ngaphandle kokuba kuxhomekeke kuwo. Kwintliziyo yobomi obakhe kunye, umsebenzi, indlu, usapho, ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu ababini obusadinga ukuqwalaselwa.

Umdla wethu omnye komnye uya kutshintsha kwaye ukhule ngokuhamba kwexesha. Sonke sinetyala ngokungalwenzi ulwalamano lwethu lube yinto ephambili kwaye endaweni yoko sinika kakhulu ingqalelo yethu kuyo yonke into esijikelezileyo.

Ukuba ufuna ukubuyela kwikhemistri kunye nonxibelelwano owawunalo ekuqaleni kobudlelwane bakho, ke ulinike ingqwalaselo enkulu njengoko wenzayo emva koko. Khangela izinto ezintsha zokuxabisa omnye komnye, ukuncoma kunye nokudlala ngothando omnye nomnye nokuba nihlala ixesha elide kangakanani.

Inzame encinci ihamba ixesha elide ekugcineni loo ntlantsi iphila phakathi kwakho. Thembela kunxibelelwano onalo nalo mntu olomeleleyo ngokwaneleyo ukuba lukwenze ukhethe ukuchitha ubomi bakho kunye nabo. Olo nxibelelwano phakathi kwakho lusekhona, kwaye ngononophelo oluncinci ngakumbi lunokuchuma.

Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba wenzeni ukubuyisela unxibelelwano nomyeni wakho okanye umfazi wakho? Thetha kwi-Intanethi kwingcali yobudlelwane kwi-Relationship Hero enokukunceda ufumane izinto. Ngokulula.

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