Iimpawu ze-9 zaBantu Abangenambulelo (+ Indlela yokuSebenza nabo)

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Singabambeka kakhulu kumabhamu ethu kwaye sizixakekise ngeengxaki zethu silibale ukucinga nokuxabisa izinto abantu abasenzela zona kunye nokuzincama abasenzela kona mihla le.

Ndiqinisekile, ukuba ucinga emva kule veki iphelileyo, uya kuba nakho ukuza neziganeko ezimbalwa apho ubuncinci ungenambulelo.



Kwaye ukuba awukwazi, ngoko ungumntu othandekayo nje, okanye ukhona uyaxoka kuwe .

Kodwa, ngenxa yokuba unamaxesha akho okungaxabisi, lonto ayenzi kuthetha ukuba ungumntu ongenambulelo.

Nangona sonke sihlehla, uninzi lwethu aluhambi ebomini kuphela silindele abanye ukuba basenzele izinto, bangaze bavume okanye bababonge ngako.

Kwaye siyayazi indlela esinethamsanqa ngayo ngeendlela ezininzi, nokuba asisoloko sikuchaza oko.

Kwelinye icala, kukho abantu phaya ngaphandle kwabo bangabuleliyo ixesha elininzi.

kutheni abanye abantu bekhwaza kangaka

Zonke iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zezinto zinokubangela ukungabongi. Isenokuba yindlela abakhuliswe ngayo okanye izinto ezakhe zenzeka kubo ngaphambili.

Kodwa, abanye abantu baneentlobo zobuntu kuphela ezithetha ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba balindele ngakumbi kwabanye nakwilizwe.

Aba bantu abanakuqonda ukuba kutheni kufuneka babulele izinto ezilungileyo eziza ngendlela yabo, okanye izinto abazenzelwa ngabanye abantu.

Kunokuba nzima ukufumanisa ukuba umntu othile unexesha elibi nje okwexeshana, okanye ukuba ngokwenene akanambulelo.

Inokuba yinto ephazamisayo ngokumangalisayo ukuba phakathi komntu onjalo, kwaye kunzima ukufumana indlela yokujongana nabo.

Qhubeka ufunda ngesikhokelo esisisiseko sokuchonga kunye nokuphatha nabaphi na abantu abangenambulelo ebomini bakho ukuze unciphise ifuthe labo kuwe nakwabanye ababangqongileyo.

Iimpawu ze-9 zomntu ongenambulelo

1. Abaze baneliseke.

Nokuba izinto zibonakala zihamba kakuhle kangakanani kubo, kwaye zingaphi iinjongo abadibana nazo, iinjongo abazifezekisayo, okanye izinto abazifumanayo, abaze bonwabe.

Kuhlala kukho enye into abayileqayo, enye into engalunganga, kunye nesinye isizathu sokuba kutheni ubomi babo bungonelanga.

Ngelixa ukuba neenjongo kuyinto eqhelekileyo, abayazi indlela yokuthatha umzuzu ukonwaba kwaye banombulelo ngayo yonke into abayenzileyo.

Endaweni yoko, bahlala bebeka iimbono zabo kwenye into.

2. Bazaliswe ngumona.

Bajonge izinto ezilungileyo abanye abaziphumelelayo okanye abanazo kwaye banqwenela oko kubo. Kodwa iya ngaphaya kokujonga phezulu komnye umntu ukuze aphefumlelwe.

Bathelekisa ubomi babo ngokungathandekiyo kwabanye kwaye lo mona ubadla ukuze bangonwabi zizinto abanazo.

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3. Baye Ikrakra .

Akuthathi nto ingako kubo ukuba nomsindo. Basenokuba nenzondo malunga nento eyenzekileyo kwixesha labo elidlulileyo, okanye bacaphuke ngayo nayiphi na into eyenzekayo apha nangoku.

4. Banento enkulu imvo yelungelo .

Abantu abangenambulelo bahlala behlupheka kwixesha elidlulileyo, kodwa loo ntlungu inokudala umbono wokuba banelungelo lokufumana into embi evela kwihlabathi, nakwabanye.

5. Bahlala becela uncedo kwabanye.

Uninzi lwethu luthanda ukuba nzima ukucela uncedo kwabanye abantu. Asifuni ukubeka abantu ngaphandle.

Kodwa, abantu abangenambulelo, okanye abantu abangenambulelo, baya kukucela ngovuyo ukuba ubancede.

Kuhlala kukho into abafuna uncedo lwakho ngayo. Kubonakala ngathi baziva ukuba balufumene uncedo lwakho, ke akufuneki ndiyabulela ngayo .

Banokuthi bakwenzele into entle kube kanye, kwaye balindele ishumi ngokubuya.

6. Ukuba awukwazi ukubanceda, abayi kukuvumela ulibale.

Kwaye ukuba ngenene awunakubanika uncedo abalucelileyo, awuyi kuvunyelwa ukuba ulibale ngalo ngokungxama, nokuba sithini na isizathu sakho.

7. Abakhathali ngokunyanisekileyo ngabanye.

Ukungabi nambulelo okungaguquguqukiyo kuhlala kunxulunyaniswa nokuzingca. Ihlabathi libajikelezile, kwaye bacinga ukuba kungokwemvelo ukuba abanye babenzele izinto.

Ke, abanamdla wokuvelana nokubandezeleka okanye iimfuno zabanye abantu. Ayisiyongxaki yabo nje.

8. Abanaxesha lakho ngaphandle kokuba bafuna into kuwe.

Kuphela kuxa bafuna into kuwe abathi bavele. Abayi kuphakamisa ukudibana ukuze babambe, kwaye abayi kuthumela imiyalezo ukuze babone ukuba unjani. Bona kukuthathe kancinci .

9. Badlala ixhoba.

Abazenzisi nje ukuba lixhoba. Ezingqondweni zabo, bazithatha njengabonakele ngakumbi kunaye nabani na.

Ukuba ukhe wakhalaza ngento ethile, baya kuba nakho ukunika imizekelo eliqela xa bebe bexakekile. Kwaye, ukuba uzama ukunika uvelwano okanye ingcebiso, abayi kuyithatha.

Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):

Indlela yokujongana nomntu ongenambulelo

Umntu ongenambulelo anganefuthe elibi kakhulu ebomini bakho.

Ukungabi nambulelo ayisiyonto ilungileyo, kwaye ukuba unyanzelekile ukuba uchithe ixesha elininzi nomntu ongenambulelo ngezinto abanazo nakwabanye abazenzela bona, oko kunokubahle kuqale kuwe, okanye, nje ngenene ungene kwimithambo-luvo yakho.

Sinokuza ngokuchasene nabantu abangenambulelo kuzo zonke iindawo zobomi bethu, bobabini abaziingcali nabangabantu, kodwa, kweli nqaku, siza kugxila kubuntu.

Funda malunga neengcebiso malunga nendlela yokuphatha abahlobo okanye amalungu osapho angenambulelo.

1. Beka amakhadi akho etafileni.

Ayizukuba yingxoxo elula, kodwa kufuneka uvumele umhlobo wakho okanye ilungu losapho ukuba lazi ukuba indlela abaziphethe ngayo ikwenza uzive njani.

Amathuba okuba, khange baqonde ukuba kudala bekwenza uzive ungaxabisekanga.

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuba nzima kuwe

Ukuba umkhathalele lo mntu, kusoloko kungcono ukuqala ngokucinga ukuba kunjalo, kwaye ayenzi ngabom okanye ngokwazi.

Lindela umzuzu olungileyo ukubacela ukuba bahlale phantsi kwincoko ethembekileyo. Ngokuqinileyo kodwa ngokuzolileyo baxelele indlela oziva ngayo, ngemizekelo ethile yezinto ocinga ukuba bazithatha kancinci okanye abakuxabisi ngazo.

Zama ukuyibeka njengokuchaza iimvakalelo zakho, endaweni yokuba ubatyhole ngezinto, njengoko izityholo zinokubangela impendulo engalunganga.

Banike ithuba lokuxolisa, kodwa qiniseka ukuba ukulungele ukuba bangakwenzi oko.

2. Jonga izinto ngamehlo abo.

Kwezi meko, kubalulekile ukuba wazi ukuba banokuyichaza njani indlela oziphethe ngayo, kwaye ukuba kukho nantoni na oyenzileyo enokuthi itolikwe njengongenambulelo okanye ofuna ngenkani.

Nokuba uqinisekile ukuba unyanisile, yenza konke okusemandleni ukuqwalasela uluvo lwabo.

ukuba nethemba ngekamva

Thatha ingqalelo nantoni na enokuthi ifumane umhlobo wakho okanye ilungu losapho ebangela indlela yokuziphatha.

Cinga ukuba yinto nje yexeshana, ngelixa besilwa neemvakalelo ezinzima okanye imeko enzima, kwaye bafuna ukuba ubambelele ecaleni kwabo ngelixa besebenza kuyo….

… Okanye ukuba le yindlela abayiyo.

3. Gqiba ukuba uphi umgca.

Kufuneka uzicacele ngokwakho kunye nomntu omkhathaleleyo malunga nokuba yeyiphi indlela yokuziphatha eyamkelekileyo kunye nengamkelekanga.

Kwaye uya kwenza ntoni kwaye awuyi kubenzela.

Nje ukuba ukrwele umgca entlabathini, bambelela kuyo. Kuya kuba nzima, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo baya kuzama ukutyhala imida ukuqala, de kube kuyacaca kubo ukuba awuyi kushukuma.

4. Thatha inyathelo ubuye umva.

Ukuba kukho umntu ebomini bakho ongasoloko engenambulelo okanye ofuna ngenkani kuwe, kwaye ukhe wazama ukuxoxa nabo kunye nokuseka imida, kungalithuba lokuba uphinde ucinge ngendima eniyidlalayo ebomini bomnye nomnye.

Unelungelo lokuthatha isigqibo ngendima abayakuyidlala ebomini bakho, okanye ukuba ufuna badlale nayiphi na indawo.

Umzekelo, unokuthatha isigqibo sokuba awusayi kuphinda uchithe naliphi na ixesha kunye nabo, okanye unokukhetha ukungaphindi ubeke umzamo wokugcina ubudlelwane.

Akuzange kube lula ukuphatha umntu ongenambulelo, kodwa ukuba bathabathe ubomi bakho kakubi, kufanelekile ukuba uthathe amanyathelo okuthintela ukuba kungenzeki kwakhona.

Nyaniseka kwisiqu sakho kwaye unyaniseke kubo, ubomi bakho buya kuba ngcono kakhulu ngaso.