Ngelishwa, ebomini, asihlali simiselwe ukudibana aqolileyo , ukwazi ngokwasemoyeni abantu.
Okubi nangakumbi kukuqonda ukuba ngamanye amaxesha, siyanyanzeleka ukuba sijongane nala makhwenkwe sihamba nawo engcwabeni kuba ayazalana nathi, asebenza nathi, kwenzeka ukuba singabamelwane abangabamelwane bethu, okanye abantu esihlala nabo.
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Yintoni kanye kanye ngu Ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo?
Ngcono uMtyholi owaziyo, akunjalo? Kungcono ukuqonda ukuba sijongana nantoni xa sisithi 'ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo' okanye 'EQ'.
Eli gama lihlala liphoswa ngempazamo ukubonisa iseti yeempawu zobuntu, kodwa ayisiyiyo le nto iyiyo. Ayilulo uthotho nje iimpawu ezingathandekiyo , kuba wonke umntu unazo ezimbalwa.
Ngubani ongazange enze into eyoyikisayo okanye angakhathaliyo ngaxa lithile ebomini bakhe?
Okanye, ukuya kwinqanaba elincinci, ngelixa uninazala othetha ngokungayeki kubuhlungu, oko akuthethi ukuba akanangqondo ngokweemvakalelo oko kuthetha ukuba uncokola ngokugqithileyo. Usenokukhathalela kakhulu, abe novakalelo, nangona kunjalo Iyacaphukisa , umntu ngamnye.
Umahluko phakathi kokuba kunye nokusilela kobukrelekrele beemvakalelo kukuba ezi nyathelo ziphosakeleyo zingaphandle, ngamanye amaxesha ukutyibilika. Xa umntu eswele ngokupheleleyo ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo, baphoswa ziibhloko zokwakha ezisisiseko zolwazi lwasentlalweni, ke loo mathuba angathandekiyo aba zizinto zemihla ngemihla.
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Yintoni ephantsi kwengqondo yobukrelekrele ngokwenene ibonakala njenge? Ewe, abantu abane-EQ ephantsi abanako ukujongana noxinzelelo, kwaye bayaphazamiseka ngokulula. Basola abanye ngenxa yendlela abavakalelwa ngayo, bamba iinzondo kuba abanamandla okwenza oko ukuthatha uxanduva ngeemvakalelo zabo, okanye ngendima abayenzileyo ekwenzeni kwabo ezo meko.
Bakholelwa ukuba umhlaba uyaphikisana nabo, kwaye ayizizo iimpazamo zabo. Abakwazi ukujongana nokukhathazeka okanye ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo, ngenxa yoko bathanda ukulwa, ukuba ndlongondlongo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, Ukuziphatha okukhohlisayo ukuze ndi ukungcungcuthekisa abanye bafumane oko bakufunayo.
Bahlala bezicingela bona bodwa, besenza izinto ngenjongo yokuqhubela phambili i-ajenda yabo, nokuba ngabaphi na abaya kuye. Buyela umva kwimpikiswano? NGAPHANDLE. Aba bantu banokuba kwiTitanic kwaye baqhubeka besithi inqanawa ayihambi. Bemba izithende zabo kwaye bakhusele inqaku labo kwisiphelo esikrakra kuba bengenako ukunyamezela ukulahleka kobuso.
Ukunqongophala kobukrelekrele bemvakalelo kuthinta zonke iinkalo zobomi baloo mntu, kwaye ekugqibeleni yeyakho kuba unyanzelekile ukuba udibane nabo. Kuba bengenazo izakhono zentlalo ezisisiseko ezifunekayo ukujongana neemvakalelo zabanye abantu, kunye nezabo, oko kungakhokelela kwiingxaki ezinje: ingxaki yokubamba imisebenzi, ukuzithemba okuphantsi, ubunzima bokugcina ubuhlobo, ukudala ukusondelelana, kunye nokugcina ixesha elide- ubudlelwane bexesha.
Ekukhanyeni kwayo yonke le nto, sibenza njani ubomi bungabi buhlungu kuthi xa sijongana nabantu abangakhathaliyo nabangenangqiqo? Ngelixa ukuphepha kuya kuba yeyona ndlela ilungileyo, xa singenabo obo bunewunewu, singathatha amanyathelo alandelayo.
Ujongana Njani Nogxa Wakho Ongekho Krelekrele Emsebenzini
Sonke siyalwazi uhlobo: umlomo omkhulu oxhwila yonke incoko, uyalwa xa abantu bengavumelani nembono yabo, emva koko angasiqondi isizathu sokuba igumbi liphume xa livela.
Ungathini ngomntu osebenza naye othi izimvo zakhe wonke umntu zezakhe, kwaye ucinga ukuba wonke umntu e-ofisini uphumile ukuba azifumane, kodwa ke uyazibuza ukuba kutheni kungekho mntu ufuna 'ukuya kusela' emva kwesihlanu.
Okanye ukuhleba eofisini, i-vampire yeemvakalelo engathandekiyo, kwaye othanda ukukuphinda ubenamabali azolileyo malunga nabantu osebenza nabo ngelixa uzama ukuhlangabezana nomhla obekiweyo. Lo mntu ukwamnye wenza into engakhubekiyo xa uthe wagqibela emva kokuphazamiseka kweshumi.
Ukongeza kuyo yonke le nto, kukho ithuba elihle kakhulu lokuba aba bantu abakaze bakubuze malunga nomhla wakho, ukuba usebenza phi, okanye banganceda njani. Ndikulungele ukubheja abazi kwanto ngawe (kuba bachitha ixesha elininzi bethetha ngabo), kodwa wena, ngelishwa, uyazi kakhulu indlela ngabo.
Kwiimeko zomsebenzi zoxinzelelo oluphezulu, kunye nabathengi abacaphukisayo, okanye ixesha elibekiweyo, aba ngabantu bokugqibela obafunayo kwiqela lakho, okanye ofuna ukubalawula. Bangabonakalisi bokusebenza njengeqela elinemveliso, nabonakalisi bendawo yomsebenzi eyonwabileyo, esebenzayo kuba abanakonwaba nakubani na ophumeza oko angakufezekisanga.
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Endaweni yoko, bahlala bechitha kwaye bephazamisa abanye ukuze bazenze bajongeke kwaye bahambe phambili. Abakhathali ngeqela abazikhathalele bona kuphela, kwaye de bayeke okanye bagxothwe, kuya kufuneka ujongane nokuziphatha kwabo okungapheliyo.
Kuba unyanzelekile ukuba uchithe iiyure ezisibhozo zemini yakho kunye nabo, kungcono ukunciphisa umda ngolu hlobo:
Beka imida ukuba kufuneka uhlale ecaleni kwabo ubeke ii-headphone kwaye ungazihoyi xa kunokwenzeka. Qhubeka uchaze: Uxolo, kodwa andikwazi ukuthetha ngoku. Ii-headphone zibuyele ngaphakathi, unyuse ivolumu. Indlela phezulu. Intloko phantsi. Phinda.
Ungamenzakalisa njani umntu obonisa ukungakhathali
Uxwebhu, uxwebhu, uxwebhu indlela abaziphethe ngayo. Andikwazi ukugxininisa le ngongoma ngokwaneleyo. Musa ukuvumela ukuba baphazamise umsebenzi wakho onzima, bonakalise igama lakho, okanye bakuse phantsi nabo. Ingabonakala ngathi ziintlungu ngasemva, kunye nomsebenzi ongezelelweyo ekupheleni kwakho, kodwa khumbula: ukuba bakwiqela lakho kwaye bayilahla ibhola, ungabheja umvuzo wakho olandelayo baya kukukhomba ngomnwe, okanye intsebenziswano- umsebenzi. Ke yiba nesipele esichaza oko kwavunyelwana ngako, kwaye kwenzeka ntoni ngenene, ukuzikhusela kunye neqela lakho.
Thatha phezulu. Musa ukoyika ukuthetha nomphathi wakho, okanye ukusilela oko, HR. Ayingomsebenzi wakho ukulawula isimilo esingamkelekanga se-EQ. Banetyhefu, kwaye banokuzisa ngokulula iofisi iphela ngedrama yabo kunye nokungakhathali. Khumbula: ayingomakhulu wakho lo. Esihogweni, ayingomhlobo wakho ongamthandiyo lo mntu (kulungile, iofisi iyonke nayo). Ukuhlala kunye nokuziphatha okufanelekileyo kuko konke okufunekayo kuwe. Gcina lonke unxibelelwano lufutshane, lumnandi, kwaye lucacile. Hlamba, hlanza, kwaye uphinde.
Ungasondela njani kubuNtsapho obuNzima, kubahlobo, nakubamelwane
Uyakumazi ukuba umakazi ojika zonke izidlo zosapho zibe yingxabano. Uncuma kamnandi kuye wonke umntu, emva koko athethe izinto ezoyikisayo bakube bengaphandle kwendlebe. Obu “buncwane bosapho” bunxiba isigwebo njengebheji yembeko.
Okanye umzalwana onobomi obuhlala budidekile kwaye uhlala ekucela imali, nabazali bakho. Xa ekugqibeleni umi emhlabeni, uyaqhuma, etyhola wonke umntu ngeengxaki zakhe. Yena ndiziva ndinelungelo ukunceda 'Kuba usapho,' kodwa andikhathali nokuba ndine-iota enye yokuba unezibophelelo kumyeni wakho / kumfazi / kwiqabane / kubantwana okanye kumatyala akho, okanye ukuba abazali bakho bayayisebenzisa imali abayongele umhlalaphantsi ukuze bamkhuphe kwakhona . Kungenxa yokuba, uhlala efika kuqala, akunjalo?
Ungathini ngaloo nto ekuthiwa 'ngumhlobo' othi, xa ukhankanya ukunyuselwa kwakho kutshanje, agxothe okanye adlale iindaba zakho, kwaye utshintshe umxholo ubuyele kuye. 'I-BFF' engayi kuthatha uxanduva lweemvakalelo zakhe zokungazithembi kunye nokuzithoba, ngenxa yoko uphalaza ngokwenza amagqabantshintshi ngobunzima bakho, okanye ngokutyhila into omxelele yona ngokuzithemba ukuze ubonakale umbi. Ukujonga njengomntu okhuphisana naye ebomini, hayi njengomhlobo wobomi bonke.
Okanye ummelwane wommelwane olandelayo ohleli ezama ukukonyusela wena yonke into oyincomayo, kunye nokusilela kwakhe okusetiweyo ngokusisigxina ndlongondlongo . Uqinisekisa ukuba uyazi ukuba imoto yakhe iyabiza, indlu yakhe inkulu, umyeni wakhe mhle ngakumbi, kwaye abantwana bakhe bakwisikolo esingcono. Uzenza ngathi ulungile kuwe, kodwa ulungile kwaye uyayithiya inyani yakho.
Ngelishwa, asinakufaka ii-headphone etafileni, okanye sicele ukuthunyelwa ngomnxeba kwenye usapho. Kananjalo asinakusoloko sikwazi ukushenxa kude kubo bonke abamelwane abakhohlakeleyo, ke ezi meko zikhohlisayo kancinci kunegalelo lakho elingenavelwano lomntu usebenza naye.
Ukuba ukubaleka akuyiyo inketho kwangoko, ungathatha la manyathelo alandelayo ukuzikhusela kusapho olusezantsi lwe-EQ, abahlobo kunye nabamelwane ebomini bakho.
Musa ukuzibandakanya. Xa kuziwa kusapho, okanye kubamelwane, ngelixa ungenakubahoya ngokupheleleyo, ngokuqinisekileyo unokuziyeka. Banokuqhubeka nokuziphatha kwabo okulimazayo ukuba bafumana impendulo. Ukuba wenza ukungabinamdla, okanye uyeke ukuphendula, baya kuqonda ukuba banencoko kunye nabo kwaye baya apho baqinisekileyo ukuba baya kufumana impendulo. Abantu abane-EQ esezantsi bayazingca, ke ukuba incoko ayisengabajikelezi, kwaye abasafumani ngqwalasela bayinqwenelayo, baya kuthi shwaka bayokuyifumana kwenye indawo.
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Thetha ngayo, yenza ngayo. Ngenye indlela, xa ungeke ubaleke, okanye izibonda ziphezulu kakhulu, kungangcono ukuba ume emhlabeni kwaye uthethe phandle. Oku kuyenzeka ngakumbi kwimeko yosapho olusondeleyo apho ingumzali okanye umntakwabo owonzakeleyo. Chaza xa bewela ngaphezulu kwemida yakho, indlela abaziva ngayo, kunye nento oza kuyenza ukuba bayaqhubeka nokuziphatha. Emva koko landela ngalo lonke ixesha isimilo sizisa intloko yaso embi. Abantu abane-EQ esezantsi abanamdla wokuba nezakhono zokumamela kakhulu, ngamanye amaxesha eyona ndlela yokufikelela kubo, kwaye uzikhusele, kukuseka iziphumo eziqinisekileyo zokuziphatha gwenxa.
Sika amaqhina. Ngelixa oku kungekho lula xa kufikwa kusapho, ngamanye amaxesha, ngenxa yempilo-ntle yakho yengqondo kunye nokuzikhusela, kuya kufuneka uthathe eli nyathelo lokugqibela. Igazi linokuba lukhulu kunamanzi, kodwa abantu banemida. Ukuba uzame konke, kwaye akukho tshintsho, kuya kufuneka ulinqumle elo lungu losapho ebomini bakho.
Xa kuziwa kubamelwane kunye nabahlobo, akukho sizathu sokuxhonywa apho. Abantu abadibeneyo abachaphazela ubomi bakho kakubi, bahlala bebuhlungu, okanye banetyhefu. Ukuba nomhlobo lilungelo, hayi ilungelo, kwaye ukuba loo mntu akanakukuphatha kakuhle, kwaye akazimiselanga kuthatha uxanduva lokuziphatha kunye neemvakalelo zabo, ke qhubeka uzingqonge nabantu abakhathalele ngokwenene, kwaye ndiyakuhlonipha.
Abamelwane banokuhlala kufutshane, kodwa akufuneki ube nento eyodlula ulwalamano 'hi-bye' nabo. Logama nje bengayibeki umlilo ingca yakho, ungagcina umnxibelelwano ubuncinci obungenanto.
Ke unayo. Xa ujongene nomntu ongenangqondo, unokhetho oluninzi. Kuxhomekeka ekubeni ngubani kwaye ubudlelwane bakho nabo, ikhondo lesenzo olithathayo liya kwahluka. Khawukhumbule nje ukuba akukho mntu, nokuba usapho okanye umhlobo, unelungelo lokwenza uzive ungalunganga. Ukutyibilika maxa wambi kuphantse kube yinto engenakuphepheka, kodwa ukuba iba yinto yesiqhelo, kuya kufuneka uthathe inyathelo.
