Amabhongo awuzi lula kumntu wonke. Ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ngokwaneleyo ukufumana amandla ngokwaneleyo ukuba uphume ebhedini, kungasathethwa ke ngokuvutha umkhondo omtsha oya kwimpumelelo oyifunayo.
Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba amabhongo yinto enokufundwa kwaye ihlakulwe. Yinto onokuyondla kwaye uyikhulise ngaphakathi kwakho njengoko ujonge phambili kuzo naziphi na iinjongo ofuna ukuzifikelela.
Inye imfihlo encinci encinci ongayiqondiyo ngamabhongo kunye nabantu abanamabhongo. Kwaye loo mfihlo yile abantu abanamabhongo abanamabhongo ayi-100% yexesha.
Banengxaki yokuqaqanjelwa yintliziyo, ukusilela kunye nokusilela. Izicwangciso zabo azisoloko zivela ngendlela ababenethemba ngayo, okanye impumelelo ibonakala yahlukile kunokuba bebecinga.
Abantu abanamabhongo abafezekanga, oomatshini abangenasiphoso abazi kakuhle into abayifunayo kunye nendlela efanelekileyo yokukufezekisa. Ngapha koko, abantu abaninzi banoluvo nje lokuba bafuna ukuba phi, kodwa bafumane indlela eya apho.
Kufuphi, abantu abanamabhongo ngabantu abafana nawe.
Akukho sizathu sokuba unganakho ukusebenzisa iindlela ezifanayo zokwenza kunye nokufezekisa iinjongo ozifunayo ngobomi bakho. Kuya kufuneka ufunde ukuba uhlakulela njani umnqweno wokwakha uhlobo lobomi olufunayo.
1. Fumana inkuthazo yakho.
Kutheni usenza lento uyenzayo? Kutheni ufuna ukuba namabhongo?
Ngaba ufuna ubomi obungcono? Imali engaphezulu? Ulwalamano olungcono? Ukufundisa ubuchule?
Yeyiphi eyona nto ikhuthazayo ikwenza ufune ukuba namabhongo ngakumbi? Yichaze ngokucacileyo.
Unokukufumanisa kuluncedo ukuyibhala kwaye uyibeke kwenye indawo apho unokuyibona ngokulula njengesikhumbuzo sokuba kutheni uchitha ixesha lakho lamahala kunye namandla kule njongo.
Ngale ndlela, xa uqala ukudakumba okanye ungaziva ngathi ufuna ukusebenza, unokuba nesikhumbuzo esicacileyo sokuba kutheni kufuneka.
2. Zibekele usukelo.
Indlela ejolise ebomini ebomini yindlela entle yokwakha amabhongo kunye nokufumana impumelelo oyifunayo.
Ngokubanzi iqala ngenjongo enkulu enokubonakala njengenkuthazo yakho:
'Ndifuna ukutya okusempilweni kunye nokuzilolonga ngakumbi.'
Ndifuna umsebenzi ohlawula ngcono. ”
Ndifuna ukonwaba. ”
Leyo njongo inkulu, eyongameleyo iya kunceda ekwaziseni nasekugcwaliseni iinjongo ezincinci eziza kukusa apho. Ungaqala kwingxaki kwaye ubuyisele umva izisombululo zokwenza ezi njongo zincinci.
Uyazi ukuba ufuna ukutya okunempilo kwaye usebenzise ngakumbi ukuba zeziphi iinjongo ezincinci ezikunceda ukuba wenze oko? Unokufunda malunga nesondlo, indlela yokutya usempilweni, kwaye uhlakulele indlela yokusebenza.
Kwaye ukuba awukwazi ukwenza ezo zinto ngokwakho, kunokuba kulunge ukujonga kwisondlo okanye umqeqeshi wobuqu onokunika olo lwazi ungenalo.
Injongo nganye encinci oyibekileyo kwaye uyiphumeze iya kukusondeza ekufezekiseni injongo yakho enkulu.
Impumelelo encinci ikwanceda ukubonelela ngoncedo oluncinci lweekhemikhali zokuziva ulungile xa ufumana into ethile. Yisangqa esilungileyo esinceda ukuba ubenamabhongo ngakumbi kancinci ngexesha.
3. Thatha amanyathelo.
Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokwenza uphando kunye nokwenza izicwangciso ngaphambi kokuba ubeke ukulandela iinjongo zakho.
Iba yingxaki xa uqala ukusebenzisa amandla amaninzi ekucwangciseni kunokuba usebenze kwinjongo yakho.
Abanye abantu baphinde bafumane 'uhlalutyo lokukhubazeka,' kulapho umntu ajongana naye okanye efumana ukhetho oluninzi olungenakho ukwenza isigqibo. Abazi ukuba yeyiphi efanelekileyo, kwaye ke bayakuphepha ukwenza nasiphi na isigqibo.
Indlela yokuqhekeza lo mqobo kukuya emsebenzini. Into kukuba, ngekhe ube nakho ukwazi zonke iziphumo ezinokubakho kunye neengxaki oza kuthi ungene kuzo. Ekuphela kwendlela onokufumanisa ukuba ngaphandle kukwenza lo msebenzi, ukufumana iingxaki, kunye nokukhangela isisombululo.
Yenza uphando lwakho, wenze isicwangciso, kwaye uqale ukusebenza. Ukuba unengxaki, jonga isisombululo kwezo ngxaki. Ukuba kubonakala kungekho sisombululo, kuya kufuneka ujikeleze kwaye utshintshe ikhosi yakho ukuze uvumelane namava amatsha owafumeneyo.
Izithintelo, izisombululo kunye nokusebenza akunto yokoyikwa. Yindlela ezininzi izinto ezixabisekileyo ezenziwa ngayo.
Khawukhumbule nje ukuba ukuzimisela akukho nto ngaphandle kokwenza.
4. Zalisa kuwe ngokwakho.
Utyalo-mali kuwe kuhlala kutyalo-mali oluvakalayo. Oko kukuthi, ukuphucula ulwazi lwakho okanye izakhono kusetyenziswa imithombo yeendaba, ukuthatha iiklasi, okanye ukuqeqeshwa.
Abantu abanamabhongo baya kuchitha imali rhoqo kwezi zinto zikhuselekile besazi ukuba baya kubuya isixa esikhulu kude ngakumbi emgceni.
Imicimbi yokuthemba emva kokuxokiswa
Nokuba ufumanisa ukuba ulwazi aluzange luncede kwangoko kwimeko yakho yangoku, isenokungqineka ibalulekile emva kwexesha okanye isenokuqaqambisa into obungafanele ukuba uyayenza.
Ukwazi ukuba yeyiphi indlela oza kuyenza kungenza kube lula ukwenza umsebenzi oya kuthi uncede ufeze kwaye uzalisekise umnqweno wakho.
Ukwazi iindlela hayi ukuthatha kubaluleke kakhulu kuba kungakusindisa iminyaka yomsebenzi ongazange uphele ngendlela obucinga ngayo.
5. Hlakulela umonde kunye nokugxila.
Umonde ubalulekile ekudaleni nasekufezekiseni umnqweno. Kuthatha ixesha ukusebenzela ukufikelela kwiinjongo ozibekele zona.
Mhlawumbi ufuna isidanga ukuze ungene kumgca womsebenzi ofuna ukuwenza. Mhlawumbi ufuna ukunciphisa ubunzima obuninzi kwaye ungene kwimilo. Mhlawumbi ufuna ukuba phezulu kwicandelo lomsebenzi wakho.
Akukho nanye kula mabhongo makhulu ayenzeka ngobusuku obunye. Kwaye kunzima kakhulu ukufeza ukuba awujolisanga kuloo njongo.
Ungafezekisa izinto ezininzi ngokuhamba usuka kwinjongo uye kwiinjongo, ukuzimisela ukuya kumabhongo. Kodwa ukufikelela kwezi njongo zinkulu, kuya kufuneka ugcine kwinqanaba lokugxila ukuze uqhubeke nokwenza umsebenzi kunye nokwenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo ngelixa ulandela.
Umonde kunye nokugxila kufuneka kuphuhliswe njengoko zizinto eziphambili kumabhongo.
6. Thatha umngcipheko obaliweyo.
Abantu abanamabhongo abafuna ukufezekisa izinto ezinkulu bahlala befuna ukucinga ngaphandle kwebhokisi abazifumana bekuyo.
Kwaye ungenzi mpazamo, sonke sinebhokisi zohlobo oluthile. Isenokuba ibhokisi abazali bakho abafuna ukukunyanzela kuyo njengoko ukhula. Isenokuba yibhokisi ozibeka kuyo ngokuzixelela ukuba awonelanga koku okanye awuyifanelanga loo nto.
Abantu abanamabhongo abanakukwazi ukubakho kwezi bhokisi. Banokuba namaxesha okuzithemba, kodwa basalandela iinjongo zabo ezinamabhongo nakanjani kuba yile nto bagqibe ngayo ukuba bayazifunela.
Khululeka. Thatha umngcipheko, kodwa uthathe umngcipheko obaliweyo.
Kufuneka uzuze ntoni? Yintoni omele uphulukane nayo? Ngaba uzimisele ukuhlawula ixabiso lempumelelo ofuna ukuyizama ngokwakho? Kusoloko kukho ixabiso elinxulunyaniswa nempumelelo.
7. Endaweni yeengcinga ezingakhiyo ngezinto ezintle.
Iingcinga ezimbi kunye neemvakalelo zihlala zomelele kunezinto ezintle. Kulula kakhulu ukudutyulwa zizo zonke iingxaki, iindleko ezinxulumene noko, kunye nomsebenzi ohamba namabhongo.
Abantu abanamabhongo baziva ezo zinto, nabo Banyula nje ukuba baphinde babakhe kwakhona ngokufanelekileyo.
Ayisiyo, 'Oku kuzakundibiza kakhulu.' Yile 'Into ekufuneka ndiyenzile kukudlula kule nto, kwaye ndisondele kwinjongo yam.'
Akunjalo, 'Andikulungelanga ukwenza le nto.' Ngu 'Ndifuna ukufumana uncedo lokusombulula le ngxaki.'
Akunjalo, 'Abanye abantu bangcono kunam.' Ngu 'Ndifuna ukufumana into esebenzayo kum.'
Iingxaki ziyinyani ebantwini. Awudingi ukuba ube nenkohliso, kodwa ngekhe ube mbi kwaye ulindele ukwakha kwiinjongo zakho. Ayizukugqitha ukungabi namsebenzi.
Kwaye ubaphephe abantu ababi abafuna nje iinzame zakho kunye neenjongo. Bayakujongela phantsi umnqweno wakho kunye nempumelelo phantsi kwesitayile 'sokunceda' kunye 'nokuba yinyani.'
8. ukwamkela ukusilela.
Ukungaphumeleli yinxalenye yempumelelo. Isitshixo sokusinda ekusileleni kukuwaqonda la magama mahlanu kwaye uwawolele kuko konke okufaneleyo.
Xa usilela, oko kuthetha ukuba uzame into, kwaye ayisebenzi. Ke, ufundile into engasebenziyo kunye nobulumko obutsha onokuthi ngoku ubusebenzise kwingxaki yakho.
Wonke umntu uyasilela kwizinto. Yinto oyenzayo ngokusilela okunokubangela okanye kuphelise amabhongo.
Yamkele, funda, uthande ukusilela kwakho. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uyithande, kodwa kufuneka uyithande kuba yeyakho.
Yintoni ongayenza ngayo? Unokubambelela njani ekusileleni kukusondeza kwinjongo yakho?
Isenokungabonakali kwangoko, kodwa kukho ithuba elihle lokuba iiseli zempumelelo yakho ziya kudityaniswa nokusilela.
Abantu abanamabhongo basebenzisa ukusilela kwabo ukunceda ukuba baxhase impumelelo yabo.
9. Qhubeka nokwenza umsebenzi, nokuba awufuni.
Abantu abanamabhongo bayawenza umsebenzi. Benza umsebenzi nangona bengafuni ngokwenene.
Ewe, loo bhedi iyonwaba, kwaye iiyure ezimbini ezinzulwini zobusuku zivakala zintle, kodwa uneenjongo zokufezekisa.
Akukho nto ifezekileyo xa uphumle kwizinto zakho, kwaye lonke ilizwe livutha phambili ngaphandle kwakho.
Oko akuthethi ukuba usebenze ngokwakho ukufa okanye ungaze uthathe ikhefu. Oko kuthetha ukuba kuya kufuneka uphephe ukuchitha ixesha elilinganiselweyo onalo ngosuku lwakho.
Kuya kufuneka unciphise ukubukela kakhulu i-Netflix, ukuhlala ixesha elide, ukulahleka kwimidlalo yevidiyo, okanye naphina apho uchitha khona ixesha lakho.
Qiniseka ukuba uchitha ixesha lakho usempilweni. Ukuzonwabisa ngokugqithiseleyo nokuphumla akunakukunceda ube namabhongo ngakumbi.
Oko kubandakanya nokucinga nokucinga ngento oyisebenzelayo. Incinci ilungile. Okuninzi kukuphazamiseka kunye nokuchitha ixesha endleleni yakho ukuya kumabhongo nakwimpumelelo.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungamabhongo ngakumbi? Thetha kumqeqeshi wobomi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo. Cofa nje apha ukunxibelelana nenye.
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