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AWUKHO wedwa.

Kungokwemvelo ukufuna ukuthanda nokuthandwa, kodwa oku kungakhokelela ekubeni kwenziwe izigqibo ezingezizo.

Ubudlelwane obufakiwe obungafanele kungenwa, amathemba aphakanyisiweyo amiselwe ukuba achithwe, iimvakalelo zonyuswe kuphela ukuba ziphinde ziphinde ziphinde ziphinde.

Ukuba uziva ngathi ufikelela kwinqanaba lothando ngokukhawuleza okukhulu kwaye ufuna ukuthoba isantya, nazi iingcebiso.

Ukuba awufuni kuthandana kwaphela, ezi ngcebiso ziya kukunceda ukuba uziphephe.

1. Lawula umnqweno wakho wokufumana uthando.

Mhlawumbi esona sizathu sikhulu sokuba umntu atshayelwe luthando ngokulula kungokuba banomdla wokukufumana.

Bafuna nje ukuthandana. Bafuna ukuziva benemvakalelo efudumeleyo.

Ewe, ayinguye wonke umntu odibana naye okanye umhla oza kukulungela. Kungenxa yokuba ufuna ukufumana uthando ngokungathandekiyo, oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uzinze nakubani na.

Kuya kufuneka uqaphele ukuba umnqweno wakho wokuthandwa kwaye kubudlelwane yeyona nto iphambili ekuqhubeni iimvakalelo zakho komnye umntu.

2. Sukuba nexhala lokuphulukana nabo.

Ukuba uyamthanda umntu kwaye ucinga ukuba angangumntu athandana naye okanye umhlobo wentombazana, usenokuba uqhuba icala leemvakalelo lobudlelwane phambili ngokukhawuleza ukuze 'ukhusele' indawo yabo ebomini bakho.

Ngamanye amagama, uyazivumela ukuba uwawele ngethemba lokuba baya kuwela kuwe.

Ukungazithembi kwakho kugcwalisa ingqondo yakho ngeengcinga zokuba banokufumana omnye umntu, ukuba sele bethandana nabanye abantu, okanye baya kudikwa nguwe ukuba awubabopheleli.

Mamela: uninzi lwabantu othandana nalo-nokuba luneentsuku ezininzi-aluyi kujika lube ngamaqabane exesha elide.

Yinto entle leyo kuba kuthetha ukuba awubambekanga uchitha ixesha lakho kubudlelwane obungazukuhlala.

Kulungele ukuphulukana nomntu ngolwazi lokuba xa kufika umntu olungileyo, baya kufuna ukuhlala.

3. Phazamisa ingqondo yakho ekucingeni ngazo.

Unokucinga ukuba uthandana ngokulula, kodwa unokuba kunjalo Uthando oludidayo lokuba nentabatheko .

Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi ukuba awukwazi ukuyeka ukucinga ngalo mntu.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, intabatheko inokutshintsha ibe luthando, kodwa isenokungabi njalo.

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Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela, ekuphela kwendlela yokuxela kukususa ingqondo yakho kude neengcinga malunga nabo.

Fumana iziphazamiso (jonga ngezantsi) ezinokukubuyisela kumzuzu wangoku ukuze iingcinga zakho zingabambeki kwinto oyithandayo.

Oku kuya kukunika ixesha elingakumbi lokuba ubone indlela izinto ezikhula ngayo kwaye ucinge ngale meko ngentloko ecacileyo.

4. Gcina abahlobo bakho kunye nosapho basondele.

Xa iqabane elitsha lingena ebomini bakho, kunokuba lula ukubabeka phambili kuyo yonke enye into.

Kodwa ukwenza njalo kukhawulezisa ukungena ebomini bakho kwaye kuqinisa iimvakalelo onazo ngabo.

Ukuyeka ukuthandana ngesantya esiphucukileyo, kubalulekile ukuba ugcine ubomi bakho obuninzi ngaphambi kokuba beze kangangoko unako.

Oku kuthetha ukubeka ixesha elininzi kunye nomzamo kubudlelwane onabo nosapho kunye nabahlobo.

Baza kukukhumbuza ngobomi obumnandi osele unabo, obunokukunceda ngamanqaku 1-3.

5. Gcina izinto ozithandayo zodwa.

Xa uthandana nomntu othile, kunokuziva kulungile ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka kunye nabo.

Kodwa mhlawumbi nobabini ninendlela enizonwabisa ngayo. Ukuba uza kugcina ezi zinto zithandwayo ziqhubeke- kwaye oku kufanele ukuba kube yinto ozama ukuyenza-kungcono ukuba uzigcine ngokwahlukeneyo.

Vumelanani ixesha kunye nendawo efunekayo ukulandela izinto enizonwabisayo.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba yinto oyithandayo niyabelana nobabini, ninokuyenza kunye. Kodwa awunayo njalo kufuneka niyenze kunye. Mhlawumbi banabahlobo abenza nabo, kwaye ngokunjalo nawe.

6. Zikhumbuze indlela ozimele ngayo.

Ukuba uthandana ngokulula kuba uyakonwabela ukuba yinxalenye yesibini, lixesha lokwamkela inkululeko yakho.

Okanye, endaweni yoko, lixesha lokuba uqaphele ukuba ungumntu onakho ukwenza izinto onokuzonwabela ebomini ngokwakho.

Awudingi ukungxama kubudlelwane nenkolelo yokuba uya kuhlala ungonwabanga wedwa.

Phantse ngokuqinisekileyo ufumana uvuyo kunye nolonwabo xa ungatshatanga kwaye xa usenza izinto ozithandayo nabantu obakhathaleleyo.

Ungazikhathalela xa uthetha kwaye uzimele ngokwasemphefumlweni- awuyiqondi loo nto.

Inqaku elidibeneyo: Ungazimela njani ngokweemvakalelo kwaye uyeke ukuthembela kwabanye ngolonwabo

7. Mabazihlale bezimele nabo.

Ukuba uhlala uhamba ngokukhawuleza kubudlelwane obutsha, uyaphika omnye umntu ukuzimela kwakhe.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, kumnandi ukubabona ngorhatya nangeempela-veki, kodwa babenabo obabo ubomi ngaphambi kokuba uze, ngoko ke mabaqhubeke nobomi ngoku.

Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ubabone rhoqo ukugcina ukusondela kunye nabo. Unokwenza nje elona xesha ulichitha kunye ukuze ixesha lokuhlukana lingaziva ngathi lihlukile.

Ukuchitha ixesha elincinci kunye kuya kunceda ekunciphiseni iimvakalelo ezinomtsalane kunye nenkanuko onokuba unayo enokuthi ngokulula iphanjaniswe luthando.

8. Khetha ukubona iziphene zabo kwangethuba.

Kwiimeko zokuqala zokuthandana okanye ubudlelwane, kunokuba lula ukungahoyi ezantsi zomntu.

Kodwa ukuba uqaphela iimpawu zomntu okanye iindlela zokuziphatha ozibona zingathandeki kangako, inokulinganisela okuhle kwaye ikunike umbono oqinisekileyo ngazo.

Asikukhuthazi ukuba ujolise kuphela kwiimpazamo zomntu- oko kuyakukhokelela ekugwebeni yonke into enokubakho - kodwa sikhuthaza ukuba kuvavanywe ngakumbi.

Kuya kukunyanzela ukuba ucinge ngononophelo malunga nokuba akukho bantu banokubakho na.

ungajongana njani nomntu odlala ixhoba

9. Cinga ngononophelo ukuba uyakufumana umdlalo ofanelekileyo.

Kushushu kwizithende zeziphene zomntu ngumbuzo wokuba uhambelana kangakanani nomntu.

Ungayonwabela inkampani yabo kwaye ubufane nobuntu babo, kodwa oku akonelanga kukuhambelana okwenyani.

Kuyo yonke imilinganiselo yeendlela, ingaba 'ulungile' njani omnye komnye?

Ngaba ungumntu onamandla aphezulu ngelixa amandla aphantsi ethe chatha?

Ngaba uyi-vegan ngeli xesha zizilwanyana ezitya inyama?

Ngaba ungumntu wokholo, kanti bona abakhonzi?

Ukuziyeka ungathandani ngokukhawuleza okukhulu kunye nomntu ongalunganga, chitha ixesha elithile ucinga kwaye uzibuze ukuba ungazenza na izinto zisebenze ekuhambeni kwexesha.

10. Gcina unxibelelwano lwedijithali lukhangele.

Njengakwezinto ezininzi ebomini, xa kufikwa ekuthumeleni imiyalezo okanye ukuthumela umyalezo kumntu othandana naye, kuncinci okungaphezulu.

Ngelixa kumnandi ukuhlala unxibelelana naloo mntu, akukho mfuneko yokuba uthumele imiyalezo ubuye umva yonke imihla yonke xa nisahlukene.

Gcina ezona ncoko zakho zibhetele xa nikunye kwaye nizame ukugcina unxibelelwano lwedijithali lube kwinqanaba elifanelekileyo.

Ngokuqinisekileyo oku kuyanceda ngenqaku # 3 malunga nokuphazamisa ingqondo yakho, kuba kulula ukuyeka ukucinga ngabo xa ungacinezelwa ngabo yonke imizuzu emi-5.

Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uphendule kwangoko, nokuba uyawufunda umyalezo wabo (damn loo makhalane amancinci aluhlaza). Kulungile ukuba uphendule ngexesha elilungele wena. Baya kulinda.

11. Zinqande ukuba ngumzimba.

Kungakuhle ukutsiba phakathi kwamashiti kunye nomntu omfumana enomtsalane ngokwasemzimbeni, kodwa amandla onke obudlelwane anokutshintsha emva koko.

Ngapha koko, indlela ocinga ngayo ngomntu inokuthi itshintshe emva kokudibana kokuqala komzimba.

Ukwabelana ngesondo kubangela ukukhutshwa kwehomoni yokuhlangana kwaye ezi zinokuphazamisa kakhulu iingcinga zakho emntwini.

Unokuba nomdla ngakumbi kubo kwaye uzixelele ukuba uyathandana nabo xa inene kuphela inkanuko .

Uqala nini umlo weronda rousey

Zama ukuxhathisa isilingo ixesha elide kangangoko kunokwenzeka.

12. Funda ukuziqonda iimvakalelo zakho.

Ungacinga ukuba uthandana ngokulula kakhulu, kodwa uqinisekile ukuba luthando oziva ngalo?

Njengoko sele kukhankanyiwe, unokuziva unenkanuko okanye ukuthabatheka okungafaniyo nokuthanda.

Okanye mhlawumbi ukungazithembi kwakho kukwenza ukuba ucinge ukuba uthandana nomntu kanti lixhala endaweni yoko.

Okanye ngaba uziva uphantsi koxinzelelo lokufumana uthando kuba usondela kubudala obuthile, abahlobo bakho badityanisiwe, kwaye usapho lwakho luqhubeka lubuza xa uza kudibana nomfana / intombazana entle?

Zibuze ukuba kunjani kanye kanye ukuthandana. Yazi loo mvakalelo kwaye uyiqonde imiqondiso yokuba umthanda ngokwenene umntu .

13. Umgama, umgama, umgama.

Ukuba ufuna ukuyeka ukuthandana nomntu ngokupheleleyo, eyona ndlela yokwenza oko kukubeka umgama omninzi phakathi kwenu nobabini.

Kuyamangalisa ukuba isuntswana lokwahlula ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwedijithali linokuyenza njani intliziyo nengqondo.

Xa ungaboni okanye uve komnye umntu, ekugqibeleni uyeke ukucinga ngabo.

Kwaye xa uyeka ukucinga ngomntu, indlela omkhathalela ngayo iyatshintsha.

Awusayi kuphinda uhlume amahlumelo aluhlaza othando. Endaweni yoko, baya kubuna bafe, okanye bakhule babe yenye into- ubuhlobo, mhlawumbi.

Ukuthandana ngokulula sisiphako esifanelekileyo. Awudingi ukuba neentloni ngayo.

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Kodwa, njengoko uyazi ukuba ufunda eli nqaku, lineengxaki zalo.

Ndiyathemba, ngokuphumeza ezinye zeengcebiso ezingentla, uya kuba nakho ukunciphisa iimvakalelo zakho kwaye ufunde ukuzibophelela emntwini kuphela xa sele unexesha elaneleyo lokubagweba ngokwenyani kunye nokuba nakho ukuba nobudlelwane bempilo yexesha elide.

Ukuba uyakwenza oko, uya kuzisindisa kakhulu kwiintlungu ezinokubakho.

Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba wenzeni malunga neemvakalelo zakho eziza ngokulula kakhulu?Ukufikelela kwesona sizathu sokuba kutheni uthandana ngokukhawuleza kunokufuna uncedo lweengcali kwezobudlelwane. Banokubuza imibuzo efanelekileyo kwaye bamamele ngononophelo kwiimpendulo zakho ukuze bakhuphe ezona zizathu kwaye bakuncede uziphendule. Oku kunokunceda kakhulu ubudlelwane bakho buqhubele phambili.Ke kutheni ungaxoxi kwi-Intanethi kwenye yeengcali ezivela kwiQabane lobuhlobo ezinokukunceda ufumane izinto. Ngokulula.

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