Ubuncinci kunye nomdlalo weqonga kubonakala ngathi yinto ehlala ihleli kumava oluntu.
Umntu unokucinga ukuba njengokuba ixesha lihamba kwaye sinoxanduva lobomi lokuhamba, abantu bayakushiya idrama kunye nokuhleba ngasemva ebaleni lokudlala lesikolo.
Ngelishwa, abanye abantu abakaze bakhule kwaye uqhubeke nokusasaza amarhe kwaye uthethe ngabanye abantu ngasemva kwabo kude babe ngabantu abadala.
Ukuhleba komhlebi kunokuba yingozi, kuchaphazele kakubi ukuzithemba komntu, kwaye kubangele iingxaki ezingafunekiyo ebomini babo.
Eli nqaku liza kuchaza indlela yokujongana nomntu othetha ngawe ngasemva kwakho.
Indlela oyithathayo iya kuxhomekeka ikakhulu apho isenzeka khona-kubomi bakho bobuqu okanye bobuchwephesha.
Kodwa, ngaphambi kokuba wenze nantoni na malunga nerumormonger, kukho inyathelo elinye elibalulekileyo ekufuneka ulithathile.
Cinga ukuba ngaba ulwazi lwakho lomthombo luthembekile.
Abantu banokuba bahle kakhulu ngamanye amaxesha. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ayinguye umntu ongakuthandi ngokungathandabuzekiyo ogqiba kukungcatsha, ngabantu abakufutshane kuwe nabacinga ukuba bakwicala lakho.
Umntu wokuqala omele ukumhlola ngulo ukuxelele ukuba kuthethwa ngaye ngasemva kwakho.
Lo mntu unokuba neenjongo ezingalunganga zokuzama ukuphazamisa ubudlelwane bakho nabanye abantu okanye angene entlokweni yakho.
Kulula ngokulula kumntu onobuqhophololo ukwenza umfanekiso wabo njengothembekileyo.
Emva kwakho konke, bakuxelele nje ngomnye umntu othetha emva kwakho! Ewe bathembekile! Basanda kukunika olo lwazi luxabisekileyo, andibi kunjalo?
Ke cinga ngomthombo wolwazi. Zibuze le mibuzo ilandelayo.
1. Ngaba ukunikwa kolwazi kuqhula nohlobo lomntu onikezela ngolwazi?
Zininzi iintlobo zabantu ehlabathini abanezimvo ezahlukeneyo kunye neembono zendlela abanxibelelana ngayo nabanye.
Abanye abantu abanakubanjwa besweleka besasaza amarhe, abanye banokungafuni nokuthetha nabantu nangaluphi na uhlobo lwefashoni yobuqu, kwaye abanye banokuhlala bekhangela umntu olandelayo oza kufumana ukungcola kwaye aqale umdlalo othile.
2. Zithini izizathu zentshukumo zalowo unikezela ngolwazi?
Kutheni bakunika olu lwazi? Ngaba bayazuza ngokuthe ngqo ngokukunika olu lwazi kunye nokuhlwayela ukungathembi?
Iinjongo zangaphandle zingasukela ekufuneni ukuqala umdlalo wokuzonwabisa, ukuzama ukuphazamisa ubuhlobo okanye ubudlelwane ukuba buqhekeze, ukuphembelela imeko yomsebenzi kunye nokunyanzela umntu ukuba aye kwicala elahlukileyo.
3. Zithini ezinye izenzo zabo?
Umntu onesizathu esingagungqiyo uya kuba nesicwangciso sexesha elide abazama ukwenza umsebenzi.
Iinjongo zabo zisenokungacaci kwaye zibonakale ekuqaleni, kodwa ukuba uhoya isenzo sabo kwiintsuku ezilandela ukulahlwa kolo lwazi banokuthi banike izizathu zabo.
Umntu ofuna ukuxhoma ngokungaphaya ngesiquphe okanye othetha ngendawo evulekileyo emsebenzini usenokuba uzama ukukuchaphazela kude kwicala angalifuniyo.
Cinga ngomthombo wolwazi ngononophelo. Ngaba bathembekile? Ngaba luhlobo lomntu onokuzibandakanya kwezi ndlela zokuziphatha kwasekuqaleni?
Ukuba umthombo wolwazi uyadlula, ungaqala ngokuthathela ingqalelo indlela yokujongana nomthombo wentlebendwane.
Ukujongana nokuhleba kwindawo yokusebenzela
Umntu akafumaneki ukukhetha kwaye bakhethe ukuba bachitha ixesha labo emsebenzini.
Amaxesha amaninzi, uyakuphela usebenza nabantu abohlukeneyo abaneembono ezahlukeneyo zobomi, ezinye zazo ziya kuba ziijerkisi.
Indlela yokusingatha amarhe kwindawo yokusebenza ixhomekeke kubunzulu bamarhe okusasazeka, ngawaphi amaxwebhu onokuwakha, ubuchule bolawulo kunye ne-HR, kunye nento onokuyincama ngayo ekuhambeni kwexesha.
1. Cinga ubuzaza bamarhe.
Ngaba zinzima? Okanye ngaba ziyinto enokungahoywa kwaye ikhutshelwe ecaleni?
Ngaba kuvakala ngathi ulwazi olubuyile kuwe lukhohlakele okanye ngaba luvela kwindawo yonxibelelwano olungelulo?
Ukuba kubonakala ngathi bekukho unxibelelwano olungelulo, inokuba yinto enokusonjululwa ngokuthetha nabantu ababandakanyekayo.
ndiyeza ngamandla kakhulu
Ukuba amarhe ayingozi okanye ayingozi, kuya kufuneka uthabathe ulawulo kunye ne-HR.
2. Qokelela nabuphi na ubungqina obunokubakho phambi kokuba uye kubaphathi.
Ngaba lukhona naluphi na uhlobo lomkhondo wephepha okanye ubungqina obunokusetyenziselwa ukuxhasa ibango lakho?
Uya kudinga ukunika amagama abo bonke okholelwa ukuba bayabandakanyeka kulawulo ukuze bakwazi ukwenza udliwanondlebe lwabo kwaye bafumane ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni.
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3. Bhala phantsi nabuphi na ubungqina onabo.
Yenza ikopi ngokwakho ukuba izinto zingaphela zingahambi kakuhle okanye uziphindezele.
Kwilizwe elinobulungisa nelinobulungisa, uya kuba nakho ukuthatha ibango lakho kunye nobungqina bakho kubaphathi kwaye imeko yakho isonjululwe, kodwa asihlali kwihlabathi elinobulungisa nelinobulungisa .
Ngamanye amaxesha abaphathi baya kuthatha amanyathelo ngokuchasene nawe ngenxa yesikhalazo. Ngamanye amaxesha baya kuzama ukukuhlisa, banciphise iiyure zakho, okanye bakucinezele ukuba uyeke. Ngamanye amaxesha baya kusichitha isikhalazo njengezinto ezincinci kwaye bangafanele ixesha okanye umzamo.
Inyani yile uzimele emsebenzini unokuphela sele ugxothwa okanye uziphindezela. Ukuba oko kuyenzeka, uyakufuna ukuba nabuphi na ubungqina obufumanekayo onokuthi ubuse kwigqwetha.
Akukho mthethweni ukuba umqeshi enze ezi zinto, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo oko akubathinteli ekuzameni.
Uninzi lweenkampani liza kuba nezikhokelo zazo kunye neenkqubo zophando zokujongana namabango okuphathwa gadalala, okusasaza amarhe.
Iya kwahluka ngokobungakanani benkampani kunye nolawulo lwayo. Into eyinyani kuzo zonke iinkampani kukuba akufuneki uziphindezele. Ngelo xesha, uya kufuna ukuyeka ukuthetha nenkampani malunga nayo kwaye uqhagamshelane negqwetha.
Ukujongana nokuhleba kubomi bakho
Ukujongana nomdlalo weqonga kunye nabantu abasasaza amarhe kubomi bakho bobuntu yinto eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo.
Kuza kuhlobo luni lolwalamano onalo nomntu osasaza amarhe kwaye bangabantu abanjani.
Ndiziva ngathi umyeni wam akandithandi
Abanye abantu bayaphumelela ekwenzeni umdlalo weqonga. Ukujongana nolo hlobo lomntu kunqabile kunceda kuba baya kulala nje ngendlela yabo malunga nomcimbi.
Olu hlobo lomntu luhlala luzinika ngokukhawuleza ngento abayithethayo kuwe.
Uthetha ngantoni lomntu kuwe? Ngaba bayahleba malunga nabahlobo babo kunye nosapho kuwe?
Ukuba bayakwenza oko, unokuqinisekisa ukuba bazakuthetha izinto ngawe kwabanye abantu ngasemva kwakho.
Kuya kufuneka uthathe isigqibo ngokwakho ukuba oko kuya kuthetha ntoni kuwe kunye nolwalamano owabelana ngalo naloo mntu.
Zimbini iindlela ezahlukeneyo onokufikelela kuzo kule meko.
Nokuba ujongana nalo mntu ngobungqina obunzima, ngekhe batshintshe indlela abaziphethe ngayo, nto leyo ethetha ukuba awusoze ubathembe ngayo nantoni na ebalulekileyo.
Ngaba abantu banokutshintsha? Kanjalo. Banako ngokupheleleyo - kodwa uninzi alunalo ngenxa yokuba utshintsho lunzima okanye abakhathali ngokwaneleyo ukuba bazame.
Ngazo zonke iindlela, jongana naloo mntu kwaye uzame ukufumana isisombululo ukuba ufuna ukuzama ukugcina ubuhlobo okanye ubudlelwane, kodwa gcina ulindelo olusengqiqweni malunga nendlela eya kuba nempumelelo ngayo.
Ukubeka nje, akukho sizathu sincinci sokuchitha ixesha lakho elixabisekileyo okanye amandla emvakalelo kubantu owaziyo ukuba awunakubathemba.
Inketho yokuqala kukusika loo mntu ebomini bakho.
Kodwa mhlawumbi ayisiyiyo inketho eya kukusebenzela. Mhlawumbi umntu usisizalwane okanye umhlobo womntu odibene nawe kwaye ngekhe ubanqumle ebomini bakho.
Kwimeko enjalo, unokucofa ubuye ulwazi oluninzi owabelana ngalo nomntu kwaye wamkele ' Iliwa eliGrey ”Indlela.
Abantu abasasaza amarhe kwaye baphumelele kwidrama bahlala bekhangela uhlobo oluthile lokonwaba okanye ukukhululwa ngokweemvakalelo ngezenzo zabo.
Ungabathintela ukuba ube lilitye elingwevu.
Oko kukuthi, awabelani nantoni na enomdla, akukho nto inika umdla, akukho nto yobuqu, akukho nto inzulu ngaphezu komgangatho wobuso kunye naloo mntu ke abanasizathu sokuba nomdla kuwe.
Uliliwa nje elimpunga, uphila ubomi obukruqulayo nobungenamdla.
Umntu uya kutsala umdla kwenye into ekhazimlayo kwaye azihambise kwicala, kude nawe nendawo yakho.
Ngaba kufuneka ndijongane nomntu osasaza amarhe?
Zininzi iindlela zokuthetha phandle malunga nokuzimela ngokwakho kwaye uqiniseke ukuba ilizwi lakho liyaviwa, umyalezo obalulekileyo.
Nangona kunjalo, akusoloko umyalezo olungileyo.
Kukho iimeko ezithile apho ungaphumeleliyo kwaye konke okuthethileyo kuya kukwenza kukuxabise kakhulu.
Masithi ujongana nomntu obucinga ukuba ungumhlobo kwaye ucinga ukuba usasaza amarhe ngawe, kodwa kwenzeka ukuba abe lixoki elinobuchule kunye nomkhohlisi.
Unokufumana ukuba umi wedwa ukuba banakho ukuguqula abahlobo bakho kunye nosapho ngokuchasene nawe.
Ukuba awunabo ubungqina bokuxhasa ibango lakho, linokujika libe lilizwi labo ngokuchasene nelakho, kwaye igama lakho alinakuphumelela.
Ingxabano inokukuxabisa abahlobo abangakhange babenako ukubona ngobuxoki bomntu.
Ngamanye amaxesha ukuzimela ngokwakho kukwazi ukuba ubuye umva ngokuthe cwaka kwinto engasakusebenzeli.
Kwaye umntu osasaza ngabom amarhe ngawe ngasemva kwakho kungenzeka ukuba angangomntu ulunge kakhulu ukuqala ngaye.
Abantu abahloniphekileyo abasasazi amarhe amabi malunga nabanye abantu ngasemva kwabo.
Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokujongana nomntu, kufuneka uqokelele nabuphi na ubungqina obunakho, njengeekopi zeelog zokuxoxa ukuba zikhona.
Ukuba uyazi ukuba lo mntu usasaza amarhe, ungaphinde ujongane naye ukuze ubone ukuba bazothini, ukuba baya kuvuma na kwizenzo zabo okanye bazame nje ukuxoka indlela yabo yokuphuma kuyo, leyo ngumlinganiso olungileyo wesimilo sabo.
Kuya kufuneka uthathe isigqibo seyona ndlela ilungileyo wena kunye nobomi bakho, nokuba kukungqubana okuvulekileyo okanye ngokuthe cwaka ukunyathela ukugcina uxolo lwakho.
