Ngaba uyakuthanda?
Lowo ngumbuzo omnye osengqondweni yakho.
Kodwa akakenzi ntshukumo, ke unamathandabuzo athile.
Ungathini ukuba ibikhona indlela yokufumanisa ezona mvakalelo zakhe ngokujonga nje kuye?
Ewe, ikho.
Umzimba wakhe unjengebhilibhodi yokuhamba - igcwele imiqondiso.
Ngokujonga nje ulwimi lomzimba womntu, unokufumana umbono olungileyo nokuba uyakuthanda na kwaye unomdla kuwe.
Zeziphi izinto ekufuneka unike ingqalelo kuzo?
Ewe, zininzi izinto ezincinci anokuzenza, kodwa kungcono ujolise kwezona mpawu zinkulu nezicacileyo zolwimi lomzimba.
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Iimpawu ezinje ngezi…
1. Uye ancume ebusweni.
Uyalwazi uhlobo loncumo olungaphumi nje ngomlomo, kodwa olwenza ubuso bonke bukhanye?
Ewe, ezo luphawu olukhulu lokuba umntu utsalwa nguwe.
Ukuba, xa encuma, ubona amazinyo akhe kwaye namehlo akhe eqhuqha kancinci, unokuqiniseka ukuba bubushushu bokwenene abuva.
Phantse akunakwenzeka ukukhohlisa olu hlobo loncumo.
2. Umi mde.
Indoda iya kufuna ngokungazi ukukubonisa ngomzimba wayo (nokuba mkhulu kangakanani okanye mncinci kangakanani).
Ukwenza oku ngokuma umde ngamagxa ngasemva kunye nesifuba ngaphandle.
Uyakuqaphela ukuba iinyawo zakhe zityalwe macala zibanzi nje kancinci kunamagxa akhe. Unokubeka izandla zakhe esinqeni.
Kukho okwahlukileyo koku, kulapho…
3. Ungqiyama ngaphakathi.
Xa umntu egqibile ukukuchukumisa ngamandla akhe okuma, uya kusithambisa isimo sakhe kwaye asondele kancinci kuwe.
Ukuba mde kunawe, oku kunokuthetha ukuba woyame kuwe kancinci.
Ukusondela kwakhe kuwe ngokuyinxenye kungenxa yezizathu ezibonakalayo ukuze abe nokuva ngcono into oyithethayo, kodwa ikwayilelwe ukuvavanya ukulungela kwakho ukumvumela asondele.
4. Udlala ngeempahla zakhe.
Xa umntu etsalwa ngumntu, uya kufuna ukubonakala emhle. Icandelo lokuqinisekisa ukuba iimpahla zakhe zijongiwe.
Unokudibanisa iicuffs kwihempe yakhe, alungelelanise iqhina lakhe, anyuse iikawusi zakhe phezulu, atsale ihempe okanye isikipa sakhe ezantsi, okanye ajikeleze ngolunye uhlobo lwempahla okanye izacholo.
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5. Ulungisa iinwele zakhe.
Ngokuninzi ngendlela efanayo njengoko efuna ukuba iimpahla zakhe zijonge kwinqanaba, indoda iya kuyichukumisa ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwaye ihambise iinwele zayo ukuze ibe yindlela ezithandayo.
Oku kunokuthetha ukuyilungisa okanye ukuyiphazamisa, kuxhomekeke kwisitayile ahamba ngaso.
Iimpahla zakhe kunye neenwele zakhe ziyinxalenye enkulu yokubonakala kwakhe, kwaye ukuzilungisa kuya kumnika ukuzithemba.
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6. Uphakamisa amashiya akhe.
Olu luphawu olufihlakeleyo ngakumbi, kodwa olunika uphawu olucacileyo lomtsalane.
Xa eqala ukukubona nakwesiphi na isihlandlo, amashiya akhe aya kunyukela phezulu ngokufutshane.
Oku kumnika olona luvo luhle ngawe xa ungena egumbini okanye utshixa amehlo naye.
Amashiya akhe aya kulahla emva kweqhezu lomzuzwana, kodwa aya kuhlala ephezulu kancinci kunoko xa ekhululekile ngokupheleleyo. Oku kwenza ukuba amehlo akhe abonakale emakhulu kunye nobuso bakhe bunobuhlobo.
7. Ubuso bakhe buyadandatheka.
Xa indoda okanye umfazi evukile okanye onwabile, izidlele zabo ziya kuhamba zibomvu kancinci. Luphawu lwakudala lomzimba.
Kwamanye amadoda, oku kubonakala kakhulu, ngelixa kunzima ukubona kwabanye. Kwaye, ewe, ukukhanya okukuyo kuya kugqiba ukuba uya kuba nakho ukukubona.
Isitshixo kukujonga utshintsho kwizidlele zakhe hayi izidlele ezibomvu kuphela.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, inokuba ebephandle ebanda, ehamba okanye esenza imithambo, okanye etshiswe lilanga!
8. Uchukumisa ubuso bakhe.
Ukuncamathela ebusweni okwesibini, umfana uya kubuchaphazela ubuso bakhe rhoqo ngakumbi kufutshane nomntu amfumana enomtsalane.
Oku kungenxa yokuba ulusu lwakhe luba ethe-ethe ngakumbi, ngokuyinxenye ukutsala umdla walo, kwaye ngokuyinxenye kuba efuna ukuqiniseka ukuba konke kulawulwa.
Ukubamba isilevu okanye intshebe, ukuchukumisa iindlebe zakhe, kunye nokuziva izidlele zakhe ngasemva kweminwe yakhe (uhlala ujonga ukuba blush) zizimpawu eziqhelekileyo ekufuneka uzilindile.
9. Uyayiqhekeza imilebe yakhe.
Ngaba umlomo wakhe uhlala uvalwe ngokuqinileyo, okanye ngaba umhlathi wakhe ukhululekile kunye nemilebe kwindawo evulekileyo?
Okokugqibela yindlela yokubonisa ukuba ufuna ukuthetha nawe. Libinzana elifudumeleyo nelamkelekileyo elikutsalayo.
Imilebe yakhe eyahlulwe kancinci isenokuthetha ukuba ulungiselela ukumanga (okanye ukucinga ukuba inganjani).
10. Abafundi bakhe bayathanjiswa.
Ukuba unako, jonga kakuhle emehlweni akhe.
Ngokukodwa, qaphela ukuba bukhulu kwaye banzi kangakanani abafundi bakhe.
Xa indoda itsaleleke emntwini, abafundi bayo bayanwenwa ukuze bangenise ukukhanya ngakumbi ukuze abajonge kakuhle.
Ukuba amehlo akhe ajongeka njengamachibi amabini amnyama amnyama athandekayo, olo luphawu olukhulu lokuba uyakuthanda.
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11 Kuthatha amathumbu akhe;
Ngaphandle kokuyazi, iimpumlo zomntu zivuleka kancinane nanini na xa ekufutshane nomntu anomdla kuye.
Oku kuhlala kuhamba kunye noncumo olukhulu, ukuphakamisa amashiya, kunye nemilebe eyahlulayo ukunika umbono opheleleyo wolonwabo, onobubele, nomntu ophilileyo.
Isenokungangqinelani kunye naye ukuthatha okukhulu, ukuphefumla okunzulu ukuzola yimithambo-luvo.
12 Izandla zakhe ziyagungqa.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku kuyakucaca ukuba izandla zakho zihlala zitshixekile, kodwa unokujonga imiqondiso yokuqina nokuba umi ngaphandle.
Uya kuzama ukomisa iintende zakhe ngokusula kwibhulukhwe okanye ihempe yakhe. Ukuba uhleli, unokubeka izandla zakhe phantsi emadolweni.
Ukuba izandla zakhe ziyatshisa, phantse ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ufumene iindawo zakho.
13. Uvula imilenze.
Xa indoda ikufumana unomtsalane, inokuhlala imilenze ibanzi bucala, ikubonise crotch yakhe.
Oku kukuthi, njengoko unokucinga, indawo yokucebisa ngokwasemzimbeni, nokuba iyazi okanye ayazi, yenzelwe ukuhenda amehlo akho ezantsi ‘phaya.’
Ngoku, amadoda ahlala ahleli ngolu hlobo, kodwa ke xa umntu emthanda, ithatha intsingiselo eyahlukileyo.
Kwelinye icala, ukuba indoda ayitsaleleki emntwini, inokuthi idibanise imilenze yayo ngandlela ithile.
14. Uyakubonisa.
Ukuba umntu utsala umdla kuwe, unokuqaphela ukuba ukuma kwakhe nokuthambo kwakhe, nkqu nembonakalo yobuso bakhe iqala ukulinganisa eyakho.
Esi sibuko yindlela yakhe yokwakha ubudlelwane. Kubonisa ukuvumelana nemvisiswano phakathi kwenu nobabini.
Sinezimvo ezilungileyo ngakumbi zabantu abajongeka nabenza ngathi, kwaye le yindlela afuna ukuba ucinge ngayo kwaye uzive ngaye.
Ke silapha, iindlela ezili-14 onokufunda ngazo ulwimi lomzimba womntu ukuxelela ukuba uyakutsala okanye hayi.
Izitshixo kukujonga imiqondiso emininzi kunye nokuhambelana kwezi mpawu. Ukuba umbona kakhulu kwaye ubonakalisa imiqondiso ixesha ngalinye, kusenokwenzeka ukuba uyakuthanda.
Ubuhle bolwimi lomzimba kukuba kunzima ukwenza inkohliso, kwaye kunokubonwa kwanaxa indoda ineentloni ngokukodwa okanye ibambe iimvakalelo zayo emva kwesizathu esithile.
Ke uya kuhlala ukwazi ukuxelela ukuba ungaphakathi kuwe ngaphambi kokuba amazwi akhe abonakalise indlela aziva ngayo.
Khumbula, gcina amehlo akho exutywe!
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