Umhlaba awunakuqonda, kodwa wena uyaqonda. Wena, imfesane, ubazi kakuhle kakhulu ubumnyama obuza ngenxa yesi sipho singachazekiyo. Intlungu nosizi olwahlukileyo kwabo baziva yonke intshukumo yamandla abangqongileyo ngokungathi sisigidi seminwe sikhupha imitya yomphefumlo wabo.
Nguwe lo mntu abanye baye babhenele kuye xa befuna ukukhulula imithwalo yabo, kwaye, ngenxa yoku, ubonwa njengomntu ozinzileyo, othembekileyo. Ewe unovakalelo, kodwa ubonakala umelana kakuhle nengxwabangxwaba yeemvakalelo ekuwe.
Aba bantu abayazi loo nto, ngaphakathi, uyibhola ekhuphisanayo yeemvakalelo ezichaseneyo, zonke zixutywe kunye ukwenza ingxolo engaqondakaliyo kwaye engapheliyo osokolayo ukuthula.
Ngamanye amaxesha kuyothusa kangangokuba kuvakala ngathi isandla esingabonakaliyo sibambeke ngokuqinileyo entanyeni yakho uxinzelelo olunamandla kangangokuba kuthatha onke amandla akho ukuba ungafuthanisi.
Utshintsho ngequbuliso nolubi kumandla zezona zimbi ngenxa yokuba ziphuma zimnyama ngokupheleleyo kwaye zikunika ixesha elincinci lokuzilungiselela. Bakubetha njengololiwe wempahla, bekuqhubela kukudideka, ukuphanziswa kunye noxinzelelo.
Ngokudabukisayo, ngamandla angathandekiyo oziva kakhulu, kwaye ayenziwa mandundu lihlabathi olibona likungqongile. Ukubandezeleka, iintlungu, kunye neempembelelo ezinobundlobongela ezibangela ukuba zikuthwalise ubunzima ngaphezu kokulungileyo, kwaye olungileyo unokukuphakamisa. Umbutho nje wawungeyilelwanga abantu abafana nawe.
Ngaphakathi kwentliziyo yakho, iimvakalelo zihlala ziziva zinzulu kwaye ngamandla amakhulu akukho ndawo iphakathi, akukho mshini wokucofa umthamo oza kunciphisa izivamvo. Kukokwasemzimbeni kwaye Ukudinwa engqondweni ukuhlala ubomi bakho kwimeko engagungqiyo yemvakalelo, kodwa uyabamba ndawonye… ubukhulu becala… ukunika ukudibanisa, ukuba ngamanye amaxesha kunzima, ukubonakala.
umboniso omkhulu kunye nesigebenga
Inokuba bubomi obunesizungu njengempathana nokuba ujikelezwe ngabantu, ukuxubana kwamandla kungakushiya uziva ulahlekile. Awuqinisekanga ukuba uphelela phi kwaye abanye baqala phi, kwaye oku kuphazamiseka kwemida yobuqu kusebenza kuphela ekunciphiseni imeko yakho yokuba.
Ngelishwa, oku ukuziva ulilolo inokukuqhubela ezandleni zabantu abafuna ukukuxhaphaza. Ukulangazelela kwakho ukuba ungubani, nokuthandwa okanye ukuthandwa ngenxa yento oyiyo, kunokukubona usiwa kwimigibe ebekwe ngabaxhaphazi nabaxhaphazi. Bahlasela abantu ababuthathaka njengawe Ndifuna ukuziva ndinoluvo lokuba ngumntu .
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- Iimpawu ze-4 Uyi-Impathical Impath (Ayisiyiyo nje i-Empath)
- Iindlela ezi-3 ezizezinye zeempathazi ezidiniweyo kukuzikhusela
- Imizabalazo yeemfazwe ezili-11 zijongana nesiseko semihla ngemihla
- Ukutyibilika ngokutyibilika Kokungakhathali: Isilumkiso kubo bonke abantu
- Ungabusebenzisa njani ukumamela okunyanzelekileyo ukukhulisa ubudlelwane obukhulu bomntu
Wena, ekubeni ulungile kwaye unothando lomphefumlo, awububoni ubungozi obukujikelezileyo. Uzibone zineenjongo ezimbi zabo bangenalo uvakalelo, kwaye kwiinzame zakho zokubanceda, ubeka emngciphekweni wokuzibandakanya kwimidlalo yabo.
Ukanti awunako ukumelana nesihendo sokuzama ukunceda abanye kungumntu wakho ukujika ingqalelo yakho kwizifo kunye neemfuno zabo basengxakini kuba uziva ngathi ukubanceda kuya kuzinceda.
Awuboni mthwalo ukuba le nqanaba lokungazithembi libeka ebomini bakho, okanye ukuba uyakwenza oko, uyasichasa isilingo sokusivuma ngenxa yokoyika ukuphinda unyanzelwe ukuba ujongane needemon zakho. Ukhetha ukuhamba ezitalatweni uzingelwe kunye nobunzima behlabathi bukucinezela, kunokuba uhambe ngokukhululekileyo kwaye ubone eyakho intlungu kunye nokwenzakala phambi kwakho.
Olu thintelo alunakulungela ixesha elide kuba kungekudala okanye kamva intliziyo nengqondo yakho zingena kwi-spasm, ziqhutywa elunxwemeni kukusilela ukulungisa imicimbi yokwenyani. Ngokulibazisa ukuqala, umba umngxuma onzulu apho uziphosa khona ngokuzithandela ukuba ubaleke umhlaba wangaphandle. Uyarhoxa kuyo yonke into kwaye uzikhuphe ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo ukuze ungene nzulu ngaphakathi kwaye ulwe amanxeba akho aphantsi.
Ukubandezeleka kwakho ngeli xesha kukhulu kunokuba kutheni kungaphantsi komntu ofumana iimvakalelo ngendlela enzulu kwaye enzulu? Intuthumbo yakho injalo ngenxa yokuba intliziyo yakho ifana nokukrazula njengoko usilwa nazo zonke iintlungu ezihlala apho- zombini ezakho kunye noko ukufunxileyo.
uthumela umyalezo kumfana emva komhla wokuqala
Ukuthetha ngeentliziyo, awusoloko ukwazi ukunika okwakho ngokupheleleyo kwiqabane elinothando, kwaye oku kukushiya unosizi nokuzisola. Kodwa ukuvula ngokupheleleyo kuya kuthetha ukufumana ubungqongqo, uthando olungalawulekiyo ngohlobo lwalo. Awazi nje ukuba ungamelana na namandla anamandla kangako, kwaye uyathandabuza nokuba iqabane linganakho na ukujongana nalo ukuba uzama ukungenisa konke.
Ke uyazikhusela ngandlela thile, ungaze ubonakalise isandla sakho sonke ubambe enye into ukuthintela ukubakho kwentliziyo yexesha elizayo ekukutshabalaliseni ngokupheleleyo. Ukanti ulangazelela ixesha apho ungalwamkela uthando kuyo yonke inkanuko namandla alo, kuba uyazi entliziyweni yakho ukuba yile nto uyifunayo ngokwenene.
Akufanele uvumele ukuba woyiswe sisipho sakho esinamandla, sekunzima Kukho ithemba… .kuhlala kukho ithemba.
Icala elimnyama akufuneki liphumelele ngonaphakade. Unako, ngokuziqhelanisa, kunye nenkxaso yabo bakuthandayo, funda ukumelana nobunzima beemvakalelo oba nazo. Intlungu kunye nentlungu yakho inokuncipha, kwaye ungafunda ukuqonda ukuba zeziphi iimvakalelo zakho kwaye zivela kwimithombo yamandla angaphandle.
Awudingi kuhlala unogada rhoqo phezulu kukho indlela yokuvumela abanye bangene ngaphandle kokuba boyiswe yinto oziva ngayo. Kuza ngokwamkelwa, umzamo onyanisekileyo, kunye nokuzimisela okukhulu kunye nokuzimisela ukungavumeli umgangatho wakho oxabisekileyo ube yintolongo yobomi bakho bonke.
Ungaze unikezele, ungaze unikezele.
