Ngaba wakha wahamba malunga nomhla wakho xa ngequbuliso ingcinga ephuma ebaleni lasekhohlo kwaye eyenzakalisayo igxuma ingqondo yakho ibaleke, ikushiye udidekile kwaye ungaqinisekanga ngento owawuyicinga ngaphambili nge-ironclad?
Okanye mhlawumbi wakhe wazibuza ukuba buya kuba njani ubomi ngaphandle kwakho? Okanye ngaba wawugxeka into engenanto yakwenza nawe?
Ngokwesiqhelo sicinga ukuba iingcinga ezidodobalisayo zolu hlobo ziziko lamagcisa, abangonwabanga, okanye abaxinezelekileyo, xa inyani ikukuba sonke sinento ekuthiwa yi 'Iimbovane' (iingcinga ezizenzekelayo ezingezizo), 'Oomakazi' (iingcinga ezizenzekelayo ezingafunekiyo), nee-OWs (ngokucacileyo uvavanyo olungelulo).
Zibetha nje ngokukhawuleza kwaye zinamaxesha amaninzi kangangokuba sizamkele njengengxolo yesiqhelo yobomi ngaphandle kokuqonda indlela eziyingozi ngayo ezi ngxaki zincinci zengqondo zengqondo yethu.
Umntu oswelekileyo kombat 11 ronda rousey
Masithathe usiba nephepha kwaye siqwalasele ukuba zingaphi esiphembelele kuzo.
1. Andilunganga ngokwaneleyo
INkokeli ePhakamileyo yazo zonke. Ngubani ongalinganisanga apho afuna ukuba ngokuchasene nalapho abanye beza kunye ' Andilunganga ngokwaneleyo ”Njengesona sizathu sokuphumelela okungahambelaniyo?
Le nxalenye ityhefu iyingozi isinika imvume yokuba siyeke ukuzama ukuthintela ukungaphumeleli. Lilizwi likaSathana elisebezayo entlango, lihlala lilungele ukuqhutywa yimimoya yethu yengqondo.
Ngaphantsi kwesibongo, yingqondo yecikilishe kuthi edlala ngomlo wethu okanye impendulo yendiza. Isixelela ukuba sibaleke kwizithunzi zethu. Kodwa ukuba siyayenza loo nto, ngaba asikhe sibalekele koko sicinga ukuba ngumthombo wokukhanya osimfamekisa kuphela? Ndithi thatha 'Andilunganga ngokwaneleyo' kwaye uyijike ibe 'Ndingafunda ngakumbi.'
2. Akakho umntu ondithandayo
Lo mbane ukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza uqhele ukubonwa kuphela yindlela esiwubuyekeza ngayo endaweni yesitrayikhi sayo. Sinokuhamba kancinci ebhodini xa sizama ukuba luncedo, okanye sibuyise umva kwaye singasebenzisani. Gcina iliso kule. Ithanda ukutsiba xa i-ego phakathi kwabantu iziva ngathi ithotyelwe.
3. Oku akunantsingiselo
Njengasebomini. Njengoba iphela . Njengakuyo yonke into. Kodwa nantsi into, ukukhanya kwelanga, UPHILILE ngoku. Oko kinda kukwenza uthixo wazo zonke izinto zakho. Wasebenzise kakuhle loo mandla.
4. Andisoze ndaya
Tshata. Yiba sisityebi ngokwaneleyo ukuba uthenge isiqithi. Umhla URosario Dawson. Bhala othengisa kakhulu. Unomzimba kaDavid Beckham. Yenza ipayi ye-lemon meringue efanelekileyo. Ungaze ufikelele kwinxalenye yokutshintsha kweenjongo, ezinkulu okanye ezincinci.
Kodwa akukaze kubekho isizathu ngasemva kwalonto, ikhona? Isitampu seenyawo esinobubungqina kunye nepout. Yiba nomonde apha kuwe, luvs. Uyazi ntoni? Unako, awunakho, kodwa ukungahambelani ngokucacileyo kwi-Hayi ukuba iqela lakho eliphambili lokugcoba (wena) likuxelela ukuba unikezele kwaye uhambe ubhiya.
5. Ndihlala Ndihlala
Iwele elidibeneyo elithi Andisoze. Iimpazamo zezona mbewu zimbi esinokuzityala kwiintloko zethu, zisebenza kuphela ukusiqhubela nzulu nakweyiphi na isanti yomzuzwana wexesha esisiphose kuyo. 'Ndihlala ndijija izinto phezulu,' zihlala zilapha phezulu kuluhlu I Ihlala lihleli. Mhlawumbi ungaphantsi kwesikrufu kunabongameli bamazwe amaninzi. Oko kubalulekile kwinto ethile.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
ngenxa yehart unobangela wokufa
- Iziqinisekiso ezi-6 zokuphinda kwakhona xa ucinga kakhulu
- Ukuxhalaba okuSebenza ngokuPhezulu kungaphezu kokuba ucinga ukuba kunjalo
- Izinto ezi-7 zabantu abazinzileyo ngokweemvakalelo Benza ngokwahlukileyo
- Iimpawu ezili-10 zokuCinga nzulu
6. Ndingumntu Oyoyikekayo
Ngokwenene? Ungu? Imizimba kwigumbi lakho elingaphantsi, ukutya kubanjelwe umntwana olambileyo? Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ususwe kude kwinto embi kangangokuba kuya kufuneka sinike iFedEx ixesha elongezelelekileyo lokuhambisa lo myalezo kuwe.
Kuyavunywa, awufezekanga uyalala, utya ikuki yokugqibela, uyekile ukukhathalela inkcubeko ye-pop kwakudala… kodwa awoyiki kwaphela. Ke kutheni uyicinga? Hayi, kuba ucinga ukuba unjalo ukugwetywa ukusilela okuncinci kokuphakamisa omnye umntu (okanye lonke uhlanga lwabantu).
Qikelela ukuba? Ufika uthi hayi, ungavumelani, ude uphoxeke: ungumntu, kwaye nabani na ukubambe kumgangatho ophezulu kunalowo usebenzisa wena.
7. Ukunqwenela Ukugula Kwabanye
Abantu bayasicaphukisa. Kakhulu. Rhoqo. Kwaye inxenye yokuba nengqondo yecikilishe inale nto incinci uZeus ayibeke phantsi kookhakhayi bethu abathi baphose imibane. UZeus, nangona kunjalo, ulunge ngakumbi ekukhohliseni abantu njengerhanisi, lolunye uhlobo lwengxaki (yenziwe kakuhle ukuba uyayifumana intsomi yamaGrike).
Sonke sinethemba lokuba umqhubi osinqumleyo uza kucima indawo engalunganga esicinga ukuba yisuphavayiza okanye ezimbini ezingacaciswanga ngokufaka iikhabhathi endinazo ndedwa ndicinga ngokusebenza kwindawo endihlala kuyo kunye nomgangatho wokuhlalisa impahla kubamelwane. Ngaba.
Ezi ngcinga ziyafika, ezi ngcinga ziya, zihlala zingakhunjulwa kwimizuzu embalwa emva kokuba ulwaphulo-mthetho ludlulile. Sukuba nexhala malunga nabo… ngaphandle kokuba uqala ukukhulisa kunye nokuzingela. Akukho nto intle evela ekubambeni nasekuzingeleni.
8. Ndiyayithiya
Inzondo lilizwi eligqwesa ingqiqo ukuya kwinqanaba lokuba senze izinto ezinobungozi, eziyingozi kwabanye ukuze sigubungele uloyiko lwethu. Ukuvavanywa, uninzi lwethu luya kufumanisa ukuba asiluthiyanga kwaphela, siyacaphuka, sifana nezinto zikaZeus kodwa siphose malunga nokubhabha ngakumbi. Awuyicaphuki loo nto?
izinto zothando ukwenza usuku lokuzalwa nesoka
9. Ndiyi-Fail
Kanye kanye? Yabona, le iyathanda ukuzikhathaza kwibhola eshinyeneyo yobubanzi ukuze ingavavanywa ngokwenyani. Ukusilela entweni? Wena, ngokwakho, ukuchaza njani ukusilela? Le yinkcazo ebaluleke kakhulu yokujonga indlela ojonga ngayo ubomi buya kuphuma kuyo.
Kwakhona, ubufuna ngokwenene nantoni na oye wayifikelela kwaye waphoswa? 'Ngonaphakade sikholelwe ukuba asinakuhlala apha kwaye sonwabe ngezinto ezimbalwa,' ucule uSting kwingoma ethi 'Ukuba Uyamthanda Umntu Wokubakhulula.' Cinga lonto. Zikhulule.
10. Ubomi buyadika
Ngaphandle koko yaziwa njengeNgubo yoKhuseleko yeha. Le ngcinga ivela yonke indawo. Hayi ubomi bakho kuphela, kodwa ubomi ngokwabo. Ngaba ubomi buyafunxa? Iya. Kodwa ikwangabahlali. Okuninzi kakhulu. Ngokunokwenzeka ngendlela ephindaphindwe ngakumbi kunathi nawuphi na kuthi oya kuzinika ithuba lokuba siqaphele.
Kodwa le yingcinga yokuba umntu ngamnye kuthi wonwabile amaxesha ngamaxesha. Ingena ngaphakathi, yehlisa eyethu amanqanaba e-serotonin , kunye no-zips ngaphandle, okusishiya sivulekele ekuhlaselweni zizo zonke ezinye iingcinga ezonakalisayo.
Into kukuba, nangona kunjalo, ukuba ubomi buncancile ngokwenyani, akukho namnye kuthi obengabafuna ubulumko, abafuna ukonwaba, abathatha uhambo, abamangalisi ababukeleyo, okanye abaphethe izibane zabanye apha endleleni. Ubomi indibaniselwano yeempembelelo ezikhawulezayo zombane ezingqubana neebits yinyani yonke imihla. Senza ubomi ngeengcinga zethu kwaye banokuba ngenene ngamanye amaxesha, babe yingozi ngokwenene. Lihlabathi elikhulu le-whizzing-highways, ngoko ke masilumke phaya.
Le mizekelo yahlukile kuvavanyo lwezonyango, olusekwe kuxinzelelo iingcinga ezingenayo , ezinokuba nempembelelo ephezulu nangaphezulu ngokukhawuleza kubomi bomntu bemihla ngemihla. Ezi ziingcinga esicinga ngazo amaxesha ngamaxesha, ixesha elininzi azikhathazi ukuzivavanya, kodwa ubomi obungachazwanga luhlobo lwentshabalalo ephilayo, ezele ziingcinga ezimbi ezizenzekelayo.
Akukho mntu ufuna i-ANTS. Uya kufumanisa, nangona kunjalo, ukuba ukuchonga ezi ngcinga ziyile nto ziyiyo (iimbovane, oomakazi kunye neeyows) ezingqina ziluncedo kakhulu. Ukutshabalalisa kancinci amaxesha ngamaxesha kuvelisa iziphumo ezihlala zihleli ngokumangalisayo.
