Kuncinci kakhulu okufunekayo ukwenza ubomi obonwabisayo kuko konke okukuwe, kwindlela yakho yokucinga
-UMarcus Aurelius
Ukuba ufunda le nto ndingacinga ukuba uziva ngathi ubomi bakho buyabambisa ngoku. Ngethamsanqa, andifanelanga nokuba ndikwazi ukuba lo ngumthwalo wobubhanxa kwaye ndiza kukungqinela.
Ndifanele ndothuswe linani labantu abathi bacinga ukuba ubomi babo abunanjongo kwaye andonwabi, kodwa bendikhe ndayiqonda indlela ekulula ngayo ukukholelwa.
Kungenxa yoko le nto ndiziva ndikulungele ukukuxelela ukuba uyaphosisa- kwaye ungayitshintsha le ndlela uyijonga ngayo.
Njengoko isicatshulwa sikaMarcus Aurelius ngasentla sithetha, konke kusendleleni yakho yokucinga.
Umoya kwimingcunube yesikhephe
Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ukuba kutheni kubonakala ngathi ubomi bakho busondela ngeli xesha langoku? Kungenxa yokuba ubona kuphela ubumnyama, ukungoneliseki, ukuphelelwa lithemba. Ubomi bakho bomsebenzi, ubudlelwane bakho, umzimba wakho, ubutyebi bakho kunye nezinto onazo, impilo yakho, iimeko zakho zokuphila-ndiyabheja xa ucinga ngezi zinto, uzele kukungakhathali.
Ufuna umsebenzi ongcono, ubudlelwane obuhle, ukubukeka, izinto ezingcono, impilo engcono kunye nendlu engcono. Konke okwenzayo kugxila kwinto enokuba ngcono.
Kodwa uyazi ntoni? Ngaba ukhe wema wacinga ngendlela izinto ezinokuba mandundu ngayo
Hayi, awukwenzi, kuba ingqondo yakho inombono wetonela kwaye yonke into efuna ukuyicinga yindlela enziwe nzima ngayo yindlela obuphethe ngayo ubomi bakho inkunkuma.
Unqwenela ukuba ungomnye umntu ujonge abahlobo bakho okanye abantu abakumabonwakude kwaye ucinga ukuba baphila ubomi babo. Kula maphupha, awuboni ngxaki, ubona okuhle kuphela.
Kodwa ngenxa yokuba ungazithelekeleli iingxaki aba bantu banazo, oko akuthethi ukuba abakho. Emveni kwakho konke…
Ukonwabela kwakho ubomi akunanto yakwenza nento onayo (okanye awunayo) nayo yonke into oyenzayo ngombono wakho wezi zinto.
Umothuki.
Uziva ngathi ukhe wayiva yonke le nto ngaphambili kodwa ukuba unayo, kutheni ungakhange uphulaphule? Kutheni usafunda eli nqaku?
Ngenxa yokuba awukwazanga ukuvalela kule nyaniso isisiseko usenayo 'ndinqwenela ukuba ngcono ...'
Imicimbi yokuthemba emva kokuxokiswa
Awukakholelwa ukuba uyakufanelekela ukonwaba uyakholelwa ukuba uyasilela ebomini .
Kodwa kubonakala ngathi ukusilela kujongeka njani?
Akukho ndoda iyintsilelo eyonwabela ubomi
- UWilliam Feather
Ukungaphumeleli akusebenzi kumntu ohluphekileyo onika idola yakhe yokugqibela komnye umntu osweleyo. Ukusilela ayinguye umntu owenzayo buphila ubomi ngokuzeleyo nangona ukhubazekile. Ukusilela ayisiyo ukucoca isitrato esenza umsebenzi wayo ngoncumo ebusweni kunye nengoma entliziyweni yayo.
Ukusilela akuboni konke okuhle izinto ekufuneka unombulelo ngazo . Ukusilela kujonga ubuninzi obukhoyo kubo bonke nakubomi bonke.
Kodwa oku kusikhokelela kwisiphelo esilula: ukusilela kunokujikwa kube yimpumelelo ngaphandle kokutshintsha kwesimo sengqondo.
Isiphene kuphela ebomini sisimo esibi
- UScott Hamilton
Ke ndiyakhunga-uyeke ukugxila kuyo yonke into onqwenela ukuba ibengcono kwaye uqalise ukujonga zonke izinto ezinokuba mbi kakhulu.
Awuwonwabeli umsebenzi wakho? Usenokungaphangeli.
umboniso omkhulu ujingle yonke indlela
Awuphangeli? Unokuba likhoboka kwelinye ilizwe.
Ikhaya lakho lincinci kwaye lisisiseko? Usenokungabi namakhaya.
Ndithanda abafana ababini ukuba ndenze ntoni
Awutshatanga? Unokuba kubudlelwane obungenaluthando okanye obuhlukumezayo.
Unesifo esinganyangekiyo? Unokuba sele ubhubhile ukuba khange kufunyaniswe ukuba yayiyintoni na.
Yongeza konke kwaye kungekudala uza kuqonda ukuba, enyanisweni, awuzange ufumane konke okubi - kukho izinto ezintle ebomini bakho ekufanele ukuba unombulelo ngazo.
Uya kuyeka ukujonga kwikamva 'elingcono' kwaye uqalise ukuxabisa zonke izinto ezintle ezikhoyo ngoku.
Ubuninzi asiyonto esiyizuzayo. Yinto esidibana nayo
-UWayne Dyer
Ngokukhawuleza xa unako tune kubuninzi , uqala ukububona ubomi ngenye indlela. Uyayiqonda into yokuba unezinto ezingaphezulu lee kunoko unokucinga - kwaye eyona nto ixabisekileyo bubomi bakho.
Ngaba uza kwenza umgudu wokwenza oku?
Owu, ubucinga ukuba kungalula? Ndiyoyika ukuba kuthathe umzamo ukutshintsha indlela esebenza ngayo ingqondo yakho. Kodwa, nokuba umncinci okanye umdala kangakanani, ingqondo iyakwazi ukuphinda izijike ekuhambeni kwexesha kwaye iingcinga zakho zezona zinto zibangela olo tshintsho.
Ukuba uqhubeka ucinga ngobomi bakho, emva koko unxibelelwano lwe-neural luya kuhlala lomelela kwaye lomelele. Ngokuchaseneyo, ukuba utshintsha indlela ocinga ngayo kwaye uqalise ukuxabisa ubuninzi obukujikelezileyo, emva koko uyenze kwaye uqinise olo nxibelelwano, kunye ukucinga kakuhle ivela kubo.
ndifuna ukuziva ndithandwa ngumyeni wam
Ubomi yi-10% yento eyenzeka kum kunye ne-90% yendlela endisabela ngayo kuyo
-UJohn Maxwell
Nokuba yeyiphi na imiqobo ubomi obuphosayo kwindlela yakho, indlela obajonga ngayo iya kugqiba ukuba uphumelele kangakanani na Ukoyisa zona . Ukuphendula kwakho kwiimeko zobomi kubaluleke kakhulu.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni, indlela osabela ngayo ebomini-indlela ophendula ngayo kumahla-ndinyuka angenakuphepheka-kuphela kwento oya kuhlala ulawula kuyo.
Ke, nceda, nantoni na oyenzayo emva kokufunda eli nqaku, ukuba uthatha into ibenye kuyo, mayibe yile: ubomi abuncamisi kwaye ngekhe uphinde ufune nje ukutshintsha iingcinga zakho kwaye uzingise ngokulindela kuba ingqondo yakho ekugqibeleni tshintsha.
Uluntu lwanamhlanje luzele ngabantu abaphila ubomi babo ngaphandle kokuxabisa ngokwenyani konke oko. Ungakuvumeli oku ukuba uphile ubomi obugcweleyo uxabiso kunye nombulelo kwaye awusoze uphinde ucinge ukuba ubomi bakho buyabila.
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- Owona mgibe mkhulu ebomini bethu ayisiyiyo impumelelo, ukuthandwa okanye amandla, kodwa kukuzigatya - uHenri Nouwen
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- Yiba nguwe wonke umntu sele ethathiwe - uOscar Wilde
- Ukungazingci ongasekhoyo akusaphili- E. E. Cummings
- Eyona nto ibalulekileyo ekubambeni ebomini yenye nenye - U-Audrey Hepburn
- Ngamanye amaxesha uvuyo lwakho lungumthombo wokuncuma kwakho, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha uncumo lwakho lunokuba ngumthombo wovuyo lwakho- Nhat Hanh
