Ngaba uhlala ufumana ixesha lakho elidlulileyo likurhuqela phantsi, likubamba umva, kwaye likuthintela ukuba uqhubele phambili kwindlela yakho yobomi? Ukuba kunjalo, le ngqokelela yeekowuteshini malunga ukuyeka ukuhamba kwexesha elidlulileyo kufuneka ibe luncedo oluthile.
Funda, uphinde uzifunde, kwaye ungene kwizifundo zabo. Wabhale kumanqaku eposi kwaye ubambelele ekhayeni lakho wenze incwadi encinci yeekowuti kwaye ufunde ezinye xa uvuka naphambi kokuba ulale wenze nantoni na ekukhumbuza mihla le ngokubaluleka kokuyeka.
Awunakho ukwamkela obu budlelwane butsha, elo qabane litsha, loo msebenzi mtsha, obo buhlobo butsha, okanye obutsha ubomi obufunayo, ngelixa usabambelele kwimpahla yokugqibela. Vumela ukuhamba… kwaye uzivumele ukwamkele okukulindeleyo kanye ezinyaweni zakho. - USteve Maraboli
Yiba lula, musa ukuphatha imithwalo yexesha elidlulileyo, vula izandla zakho, kwaye uyeke. -Debasish Mridha
Kunzima ukucaca malunga nokuba ungubani xa uthwele imithwalo evela kwixesha elidlulileyo. Ndiye ndafunda ukuyeka ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza ukuya kwindawo elandelayo. - UAngelina Jolie
andazi ukuba ndiyamthanda na
Ukuyeka kukuzimisela ukutshintsha iinkolelo zakho ukuze uzise uxolo kunye novuyo ngakumbi ebomini bakho endaweni yokubambelela kwiinkolelo ezizisa iintlungu kunye nokubandezeleka. - Ingcebiso yeHal
Ukuba ufuna ukulibala into okanye umntu, ungaze uyithiye, okanye ungaze umthiye. Yonke into nayo yonke into oyithiyileyo ibhalwe entliziyweni yakho ukuba ufuna ukuyishiya into, ukuba ufuna ukulibala, ngekhe uyithiye. -CoyBell C.
Xa ndiyeka into endiyiyo, ndiba yilento ndinokuba yiyo. -ULao Tzu
Izinto ezipholileyo ekufuneka uzenzile xa ukruqukile
Abanye abantu bakholelwa ekubambeni nasekuxhonyweni kukho imiqondiso yamandla amakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, kukho amaxesha apho kuthatha amandla ngakumbi ukwazi ukuba kufuneka uyeke nini kwaye uyenze. -U-Ann Landers
Phambi kokuba uphile, inxenye yakho imelwe kukufa. Kuya kufuneka uyeke into enokuba ibikhona, indlela obumele ukuba wenze ngayo kunye nento onqwenela ukuba ngewawathethile ngokwahlukileyo. Kuya kufuneka wamkele ukuba awunakho ukutshintsha amava adlulileyo, izimvo zabanye ngalo mzuzu ngela xesha, okanye iziphumo kukhetho lwabo okanye olwakho. Xa ekugqibeleni uyibonile loo nyaniso, uya kuyiqonda eyona ntsingiselo yoxolelo lwakho kunye nabanye. Ukusuka kweli nqanaba ekugqibeleni uya kukhululeka. -U-Shannon L. Alder
Ndidiliza iibhlorho zam emva kwam… akukho ndlela yimbi ngaphandle kokuya phambili. -UFridtjof Nansen
Vumela izinto zihambe. Bakhulule. Zikhuphe kubo. Akukho mntu udlala obu bomi ngamakhadi amakishiweyo, ke ngamanye amaxesha siyaphumelela kwaye ngamanye amaxesha siyaphulukana. Sukulindela nantoni na ukuba ibuye, ungalindeli ukuba iinzame zakho ziya kuthakazelelwa, ubukrelekrele bakho buya kufunyanwa, nothando lwakho luza kuqondwa. Yeka ukuvula umabonwakude okhoyo ngokweemvakalelo ukuze ubukele inkqubo enye kaninzi-kwakhona, ebonisa ukuba uhlupheke kangakanani kwilahleko ethile: loo nto kukutyhefa kuphela, ayikho enye into. -U-Paul Coelho
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Ukubandezeleka akukubambanga. Ubambe ukubandezeleka. Xa ulungile kubugcisa bokuvumela ukuba iintlungu zihambe, uya kuthi uqonde ukuba kwakungeyomfuneko kangakanani ukuba urhuqe loo mithwalo ujikeleze nayo. Uya kubona ukuba akukho mntu wumbi ngaphandle kwakho owayenoxanduva. Inyani yile yokuba ubukho bafuna ukuba ubomi bakho bube ngumthendeleko. -Osho
kutheni kufuneka uphile ubomi ngokupheleleyo
Ngaba uJohn cena usalwa
Ukubambelela kukukholelwa ukuba kukho kuphela into edlulileyo eyekwayo kukwazi ukuba kukho ikamva. -UDaphne Rose Kingma
Ekugqibeleni ndaye ndayiqonda into yokuba ngokugcina ingqumbo, ubukrakra nengqumbo kwabo bandivisa kabuhlungu, bendibanika izintso zolawulo kubo. Ukuxolela kwakungekho malunga nokwamkela amazwi kunye nezenzo zabo. Ukuxolela kwakumalunga nokuyeka kwaye ndiqhubeke nobomi bam. Ngokwenza njalo, ekugqibeleni ndandizikhulule. -U-Isabel Lopez
Ayizizo izenzo zabanye ezisikhathazayo (kuba ezo zenzo zilawulwa yinxalenye yabo elawulayo), kodwa zizigwebo zethu. Ke susa ezo zigwebo kwaye uzimisele ukuyeka umsindo, kwaye uzakube sele ungasekho. Uyiyeka njani? Ngokuqonda ukuba ezo zenzo azihlazisi kuwe. -UMarcus Aurelius
Ukuyeka kungavakala kulula, kodwa kunqabile ukuba kube yinto yexesha elinye. Hlala uvumela ukuhamba, kude kube yimini enye ihambile. -U-Eleanor Brownn
Ukuyekelela kusinceda ukuba sihlale kwimeko yoxolo kwaye kusinceda ukubuyisela uzinzo lwethu. Ivumela abanye ukuba babe noxanduva ngokwabo kwaye nathi sizisuse izandla zethu kwiimeko ezingezizo ezethu. Oku kusikhulula kuxinzelelo olungeyomfuneko. -UMelody Beattie
Kwezi ngcaphuno-kunye nabanye abafana nazo-ukuba sisixhobo esisebenzayo sokwenza utshintsho ngaphakathi kwakho, zama ukuzikhumbuza ngazo rhoqo kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ukuba akukho nto uyenzileyo, bhukhmaka eli phepha ukuze ubuyele kulo rhoqo.
