Ubudlelwane nzima . Nabani na owakha waba nolwalamano kunye nomnye umntu uyazi ukuba ngaphandle kwayo yonke imiba emihle yobambiswano, kukho iintlungu ezininzi ezibandakanyekileyo. Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi xa kuphakama ungquzulwano ngenxa yokuziphatha okungafunekiyo, ukungahoyi, okanye ukungakhathali.
Apha ngezantsi kunamagama asi-8 enza isiseko sobudlelwane obomeleleyo, nobusempilweni. Ukunqongophala kokunamathela kwezi zimvo kungoko ubudlelwane obuninzi buwela eziqwenga, ke naka ingqalelo.
Unxibelelwano
Kukhankanyiwe ngaphambili, kodwa ndiza kuphinda ndiphinde: kude kufike umhla womlingo apho abantu bekwazi ukufunda iingqondo zabanye, kuya kufuneka sithembele kumagama ukunxibelelana. Oku kuyakhohlisa xa abantu bengathathi ixesha lokumamela ngokwenyani koko omnye azama ukukubeka, endaweni yoko baneempendulo zamadolo ngokubhekisele kumava abo kunye nokukhetha, okanye nokuchasana namagama athile.
Isitshixo sonxibelelwano oluhle kukuzama ukushiya i-ego yomntu emnyango, kwaye umamele ngokunyanisekileyo nangesazela-unika ingqalelo ithoni yomnye kunye nolwimi lomzimba njengamagama ngokwawo. Ukuba ukufumanisa kunzima ukuthetha, bhala iileta. Ukuba ufumana kunzima zombini, fumana ugqirha okanye omnye umlamli ongathathi hlangothi onokukunceda uthethathethane ngala manzi akhohlisayo. Ubudlelwane obuninzi buqhekeka ngenxa yokunqongophala konxibelelwano, ke hlela i-sh * t yakho ngaphandle.
Intlonipho
Iqabane lakho alikho lula kuwe. Ukuba bakunye nawe, kungenxa yokuba bakukhathalele kwaye kukho into ekhethekileyo malunga nawe ukuze babambelele. Bahloniphe , indawo yabo, nezinto zabo, nayo yonke into kufanelekile ukuba isebenze kakuhle.
Owu, kwaye ukuba nabani na ukhe wathetha inkunkuma malunga nabo, kungcono ube ngowokuqala ukuphakama ubakhusele, nokuba (ngakumbi) ukuba umntu onenkunkuma-ethetha nabo ulilungu losapho lwakho. Ukuba ukhethe lo mntu ukuba abe liqabane lakho, ke kubalulekile ukubaqinisekisa ukuba unomqolo, nokuba ungathini.
Masonwabe
Amathuba kukuba esinye sezizathu zokuba utsaliwe kwiqabane lakho kukuba ubunesihogo sokonwaba kakhulu kwinkampani yomnye nomnye. Oku akuthethi ukuba kuya kufuneka uchithe lonke ixesha lakho lokudlala okanye lokudlala imidlalo ezantsi kwindawo yokutyela okanye nantoni na, kodwa endaweni yokuba kukho imisebenzi kunye nezifundo onomdla kuzo.
Ukugcina ulonwabo uphila yenye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokuqinisekisa ukuba ubudlelwane bakho buqhubeka nokukhula, kodwa olo lonwabo ludinga ukuthatha umdla kumaqabane omabini. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba sonke siyasazi isibini apho ukuthanda elinye iqabane kuthabatha elinye phezu kwelinye, kwaye le yokugqibela iza kuthi cwaka kunye ngentliziyo engagungqiyo ukugcina uxolo, kodwa loo nto ikude namandla afanelekileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo zininzi izinto eninomdla kuzo nobabini, kwaye ukuba ezinye iinkanuko akuvunyelwananga ngazo, ukuyekethisa kungangena.
Njengomzekelo, ngelixa omabini amaqabane enokuba ngenene kwimibhiyozo yabo yanyanga zonke, iqabane loku-1 linokuphakamisa inzondelelo kwimidlalo yebhola ekhatywayo yempelaveki, ngelixa iqabane 2 linokuzama ukubeka inzame kwimidlalo yebhodi yangoLwesihlanu yangokuhlwa nabamelwane.
… Ufumana umbono.
Umonde
Ukwenza iimpazamo ngumntu, kwaye sonke siyaphazama kakhulu. Zonke izidalwa ezinesiphako ngeendlela ezininzi, ke eyona nto iphambili kukuyiqonda inyani yokuba iqabane lakho liza kujika ngamanye amaxesha. Kungabathatha ixesha ukuba bafunde imida yakho , okanye into oyithandayo ebhedini, kwaye banokulibala ukuba uyayithiya ikhukhamba okanye umntu akakhankanyi umakazi uDiane kwindibano yosapho, kodwa uyazi ntoni? Kulungile. Uyazi ukuba kutheni? Kungenxa yokuba nawe uza kuzisonga, kwaye ukhetha ukuba babenomonde kwaye beqonda nawe endaweni yokuphulukana ne-sh * t kwicala lakho eliqhelekileyo.
Eyona midlalo ilungileyo ye-2016
Ukuziqhelanisa kuya kuthatha ixesha, kwaye ukusukela ukuba abantu bahlala bekhula kwaye beguquka, amathuba okuba nobabini nibe nethuba lokuba nomonde omnye komnye izihlandlo ezininzi (ezilikhulu) ngexesha lobudlelwane bakho.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Iindlela ezili-15 Intombazana eyophuke kakuhle ithanda ngokwahlukileyo
- Iimpawu ezi-6 eziNkulu zeQabane lakho likubona njengokhetho, hayi eyona nto iphambili
- Ungamthemba Njani kwakhona: Ukufunda ukuvumela umntu ukuba angene ngaphakathi ngaphandle kwentlungu eyadlulayo
- Iindlela ezi-4 zokungabikho kovelwano ziya kutshabalalisa ubudlelwane bakho
- Indlela yokwenza ukuba umntu azive ebalulekile, ekhethekileyo kwaye uyathandwa
- Xa Uthando Luguquka Lube Kukuncamathela Kweemvakalelo Okungenampilo
Ukunyaniseka
Kukho amawaka eendlela ezahlukeneyo zokuba nobudlelwane obusempilweni, kwaye ukunyaniseka kuchazwa ngcono ngabo basebenzisaneni, endaweni yokulindela okubekwe ngabanye.
uthuli lwegolide ngaphandle kwepeyinti yobuso
Kwesinye isibini, ukuthembeka kunokubandakanya iqhina elizinikeleyo elibandakanya ukuthandana komntu omnye ngokwesini kunye nonxibelelwano olucacileyo. Oko kwahluke kakhulu kukunyaniseka okunokubakho ngaphakathi kweqela elinamandla elinamandla, okanye ubuqabane bobathathu emnye. Okokugqibela, okubalulekileyo kukuba onke amaqela abandakanyekayo aneengxoxo eziphandle malunga nokuba ukuthembeka kuthetha ntoni kubo, kwaye nje ukuba kusekwe iiparameter, kubalulekile ukuba wonke umntu abambelele kuzo.
Itrasti ithatha ixesha elide ukuyiphuhlisa, inokucinywa ngaphakathi kwemizuzu, kwaye phantse ayinakwenzeka yakha kwakhona . Ukuba ukhe uzifumane ukwimeko apho ungazi nokuba ungahlala unyanisekile na kwizithintelo ezisekwe, jonga uphawu # 1: unxibelelwano. Thetha neqabane lakho (ama) ngokukhululekileyo nangokunyaniseka malunga nokuba uziva njani, nangona kuya kuba nzima ukwenza njalo. Iiparameter zihlala ziphinda-thethwana, okanye ukuba kukho unobangela owahlukileyo wokungonwabi kwakho, onokuqwalaselwa ngokunjalo.
Ngokuzithoba
Khumbula ukuba iqabane lakho alikho njani xa ukulungele? Gcina oko engqondweni. Kwakhona qaphela inyani yokuba ukuba ukhululeke ngokwaneleyo kunye nabo ukuba nihlala ndawonye kwimeko yolonwabo oluyinyani ngokupheleleyo, oku akukuniki blanche ye-carte ukuba ibe sisiporho esilahlayo.
Sukubakhwaza nje naphi na apho bakhoyo endlwini ukuba ufuna into: hamba uye apho bakhoyo kwaye, ukuba awuphazamisi nantoni na abaphakathi ukuyenza, KE BUZA malunga nantoni na udinga. Vala ucango lwangasese xa ulapho (nceda), ungashiyi iikawusi ezimdaka etafileni yasekhitshini (okanye naphina ngaphandle kwesithambisi sokuhlamba impahla), kwaye ubuze ngaphambi kokusebenzisa, ukuhambisa, ukuthengisa, okanye ukulahla izinto zabo.
Uxabiso
Ngaba iqabane lakho likuphathela ikomityi yeti okanye ikofu xa bezenzela enye? Okanye ngaba batya isidlo sangokuhlwa xa ufika ekhaya ubuya emsebenzini? Ngaba bathabatha emva kwezilwanyana okanye abantwana ngaphandle kokucelwa? Okanye ukugubungela ngengubo xa ulele esofeni?
Zazi izenzo zabo ezincinci zobubele kwaye ungaze zithathe kancinci . Benza ezo zinto kuba bekuthanda, ke yazi, kwaye ube nombulelo. Babonge rhoqo, ngokunyaniseka, kwaye uqiniseke ukuba uphuma kwindlela yakho ubenzela izinto ezintle kubo-ungabi sisiqingatha sokungenzi nto ulwalamano olunye .
Uthando
Lo unokuba ngowokugqibela kuluhlu, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ayibalulekanga kangako. Ngokuchasene noko: kubaluleke kakhulu. Ukubekwa kwayo njengento yokugqibela apha kwenza ukuba ibe yeyokugqibela oya kuyifunda, kwaye ngethemba lokuba iya kuba nefuthe kakhulu.
Ukuthanda umntu kuku vumela ukuba ubuthathaka kunye nabo , kwaye oko kunokoyikisa… kodwa kufanelekile nomngcipheko xa olo thando lubuyisiwe. Ukuthanda umntu kuthetha ukuzamkela nokubakhathalela njengokuba benjalo, kunokuba ungathanda ukuba babe njalo, nazo zonke iziphene zabo ezintle kunye neebhithi ezaphukileyo. Unethuba lokwakha ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nomntu oya kuba lapho xa ubadinga, bhiyozela nawe, mhlawumbi ujonge umhlaba ecaleni kwakho. Yinto enqabileyo, emangalisayo ukuba uyifumane, ke ukuba unethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo ukuba wenze njalo, qiniseka ukuyibhiyozela ngokufuthi njengasebantwini.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungabenza njani ubudlelwane bakho busempilweni? Thetha kwi-Intanethi kwingcali yobudlelwane kwi-Relationship Hero enokukunceda ufumane izinto. Ngokulula.
