Ukuba ubethe nje, okanye sowuzakubetha, uphawu lweenyanga ezi-3 kubudlelwane bakho, kungokwemvelo ukuziva unovalo.
Sonke sivile malunga nokurhawuzelelwa kweenyanga ezi-3, kodwa ungakhathazeki - ulwalamano lwakho lusekude ukuba lutshabalale! Ngokuqinisekileyo, izinto ezimbalwa zinokutshintsha, kodwa ayisiyonto imbi leyo.
Nazi izinto ezili-13 ekufuneka ujonge kuzo kwaye uzilindele njengoko uwela uphawu lwenyanga ezi-3 kunye neqabane lakho…
1. Ngesiquphe uziva uyinyani.
Isenokuqalisa ukuntywila ngokwenene ekubeni ufanelekileyo nomntu! Iinyanga zokuqala zobudlelwane zinokuhamba ngokukhawuleza okukhulu, kwaye ayikokude ukuba ufikelele kwi-milestone 'apho uqaphela ukuba kudala nikunye.
2. Uxabana okanye uphikisana ngakumbi.
Okukhona niqhelelana kwaye yeka oonogada bakho behle, kokukhona kuya kubakho ukungqubana.
Oku kuqheleke ngokupheleleyo-emva kwayo yonke loo nto, uphikisana nabahlobo bakho abasondeleyo kunye nosapho! Luphawu lokuba ukhululekile kunye nomnye.
Uyazi ukuba niyathandana nobabini, ke impikiswano encinci malunga nento engekhoyo ayizukugungqa isikhephe. Ukwelinqanaba apho kungasekho mfuneko yokoyika ukuba into encinci izakubatyhalela kude!
3. Uyothuka.
Kuqhelekile ukuba nenkululeko encinci enxulumene nokuzibophelela xa ubetha uphawu lweenyanga ezi-3.
Kukukhumbuza ukuba usebudlelwaneni, kwaye nangona uthanda omnye umntu, unokukhawuleza ndiziva ndibanjisiwe okanye uxhalabile, de uzibuze ukuba ungaziphelisa na izinto kunye nabanye abantu.
Oku kuye kube kukuphakuzela okufutshane kubantu abaninzi, kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuziva ngale ndlela. Ukuba ihlala engqondweni yakho kakhulu kwaye uqala ukukhangela indlela yokubaleka, kuya kufuneka ucinge nzulu malunga nendlela oziva ngayo!
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Uziva usondele ngakumbi kunangaphambili.
Ewe, ukuba izinto zihamba kakuhle, ibhondi yakho mhlawumbi iya kuba yomelele ngoku.
Unenyanga ezi-3, ngoko ke nizakuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye kwaye nobabini niza kudlala iindima ezinkulu kubomi bomnye nomnye.
Uthatha inxaxheba kuninzi kwaye ucwangcise ixesha lakho ujikeleze omnye nomnye kunangaphambili.
5. Unokuphumla.
Esi sisibonelelo esihle sokubetha iinyanga ezi-3 kubudlelwane bakho. Akusekho midlalo, akusayi kuba naxhala lokuba kutheni bengaphenduli isicatshulwa sakho kwangoko. Ngokucacileyo nobabini niyathandana kwaye ninokuphumla nisazi ukuba nobabini kwiphepha elinye.
6. Inene lenu liphuma.
Oku kunokuba yintsikelelo nesiqalekiso!
Uninzi lwabantu baziphatha kakuhle xa beqala ukuthandana nomntu. Bafuna ukwenza umbono olungileyo ukuze benze umzamo, bagcine indlu yabo intle kwaye icocekile xa usiza, kwaye babe nokuziphatha okuhle kwetafile.
Njengamaxesha aqhubeka, uyonwaba ngakumbi komnye nomnye - kwaye indlela yokuziphatha efanelekileyo inokuqala ngokutyibilika.
Ungaqaphela imikhwa ecaphukisayo abayigcine iyimfihlo, okanye banokukuxelela izinto abebengafuni ukuba wazi ngaphambili!
Ngelixa kunokuba yinto eyoyikisayo, kwaye ide idanise, ukuqonda ukuba iqabane lakho ebelikade lilungile liyinyani enkulu, zama ukuyibona njengefanelekileyo ukuba baziva bekhululekile kwaye bekhuselekile ngokwaneleyo ukuba ngokwenene, babekukujikelezile.
7. Usenokuwisa la magama mathathu mincinci.
Ukuba awukabikho, usenokuba ucinga ngoku ukuthi 'Ndiyakuthanda' kwiinyanga ezi-3 zobudlelwane.
Ewe ulwalamano ngalunye luhamba ngesantya salo kwaye akufuneki ungxamele kuyo nantoni na ongonwabanga ngayo.
Oko kuthethiweyo, abantu abaninzi baziva ngathi xa bekunye iinyanga ezimbalwa, bayamazi omnye umntu ngokwaneleyo ukuba bangawathetha loo magama mathathu- kwaye bayakwazi ngokwaneleyo ukuba bazi ukuba impendulo yakho izakuba yintoni…
8. Nisisibini esipheleleyo ngoku.
Uya kuqala ukuqaphela ukuba usebenzisa amagama athi 'thina' kwaye 'thina' ngalo lonke ixesha ngoku! Ungumlingane ofanelekileyo kwaye wenza okuninzi ngakumbi kunye - abantu bayakwazi njengesibini, uhlala kunye nabanye abahlobo abatshatileyo kwaye ugcwele 'kuthi'!
9. Ubomi bakho bobulili buyatshintsha.
Oku kuqheleke ngokupheleleyo kwaye akufuneki nokuba kubangele inkxalabo. Nje ukuba ukhululeke kunye neqabane kwaye nichithe ixesha kunye, omnye okanye bobabini kunokwenzeka ukuba yehle kancinci ngokwe-libido.
Oku kunokuba ngenxa yokuba beqinisekile ukuba bazokwabelana ngesondo rhoqo ukuze bangasaziva isidingo sokwenza ngalo lonke ixesha befumana ithuba!
Isenokubakho ngenxa yokuba ukhululekile ngakumbi komnye nomnye kwaye ungonwabela ukuxhoma nje, endaweni yeentsuku zokuqala zokuthandana apho isondo yayiyindlela yokubonisa iimvakalelo zakho ngaphambi kokuba ukhululeke uzixoxe!
10. Ukuthandana kuyancipha.
Kwakhona, le yinto nje edla ngokwenzeka xa izibini zikhululekile. Uyazi ukuba niza kuba nexesha elimnandi ukuphola esofeni kunye, ke ngaba ngenene kuya kufuneka wenze umgudu omkhulu kwaye uphume kunye nesidlo sangokuhlwa esimnandi?
Okukhona uyonwabela nje ukuba kunye nomnye, umzamo omncinci uya kuziva ukuba kufuneka wenze.
Ewe kulungile, ukuba usafuna ukwenza omnye nomnye azive enewayini kwaye etyile, kwaye nenze omnye nomnye azive ekhethekile kwaye enqweneleka, kodwa ungothuswa ukuba ngequbuliso usofa kwizitrato zakho usitya ipitsa kwaye uthetha ububhanxa. !
11. Ubomi bakho buhlangene ngakumbi.
Usenokuba uqaphele ukuba uchitha ixesha elininzi njengesibini kunye nabahlobo kunangaphambili.
Xa uqala ukuthandana, uzama ukufumanisa ukuba ninokulingana njani kubomi bomnye nomnye. Xa ubetha inyanga ye-3, kusenokwenzeka ukuba uye wadibana nabahlobo babo kwaye mhlawumbi nosapho, uqikelele ukuba zeziphi iindlela zokuzonwabisa onokwabelana ngazo kwaye ubomi bakho budibana ngakumbi.
12. Uyekisa ukugada kwakho.
Nje ukuba uneqabane lakho iinyanga ezi-3, niyazana kakuhle. Kananjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba uyeke ukulinda, wabelane ngeemvakalelo zakho, kwaye uthethe ngokukhululekileyo ngezinto ezibaluleke kuwe.
Oku kunokunceda ukomeleza ulwalamano lwakho kwaye kuya kulinceda iqabane lakho ukuba likuvulele ngakumbi.
Uya kufumana ngokwabelana ngeemvakalelo ezinzulu, iimfihlo, kunye nokungazithembi njengoko usondela.
13. Ezasendle ezinye ziyaphuma.
Ngoku ukuba nobabini niqhele inkampani yomnye nomnye, amacala enu angenangqondo aya kuqala ukuphuma!
Eli linqanaba elimnandi kangaka lobudlelwane kunye nento ekhethekileyo yokwabelana nomntu omkhathaleleyo.
Uyeke ukuziva ngathi ufuna ukuba 'ngogqibeleleyo,' awusaziva uneentloni okanye uneentloni ngee-quirks zakho, kwaye ungavumela iflegi yakho engaqhelekanga ukuba ibhabhe!
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Ke, kuyo yonke into oyifundileyo malunga 'nesiqalekiso sobudlelwane beenyanga ezi-3,' khumbula ukuba zininzi ezinye izinto ezimangalisayo eziza kufikelela kweli nqanaba nomntu.
Uyaqala ngokwenene ukwazi umntu xa nikunye ixesha elide kwaye ninokwabelana kakhulu kakhulu nabo.
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