Ukudibana nabazali yinto enkulu- kukho iimovie ezenziwe ngalo mzuzu, emva kwayo yonke loo nto!
Nangona ngokucacileyo ukwinqanaba elikhulu kubudlelwane bakho ukudibana nabazali beqabane lakho, kusenokuziva kunzima.
Ngaphandle kokuvumela ikati ukuba ibaleke, azikho izinto ezininzi onokuzenza kakubi.
Oko bekutshiwo, sidibanise uluhlu lweengcebiso zokudibana nabazali, ukukunceda apha endleleni.
1. Yiba nomtsalane.
Jika ujonge ubukrelekrele! Akufanelekanga ukuba kuthethwe, kodwa kumava akho, abanye abantu yenza Ndifuna ukuxelelwa.
Sukuya kwi-OTT kwaye uphakamise i-tux okanye igawuni yebhola, kodwa wenze umzamo wokubonakala ubonakala.
Ufumana ithuba elinye lokwenza umbono wokuqala kubazali babo, ke yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukubonakala ulumkile, unxibe ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye njengomntu omdala.
Bopha ihempe enemikhono kunye nomphezulu osikiweyo ongaphantsi, cinga ngokunxiba izihlangu hayi iiteki, kwaye ususe iinwele zakho emehlweni akho.
Ngelixa kungafanelekanga ukuba uzive isidingo sokunxiba ngokwahlukileyo kunesiqhelo okanye ukufihla isitayile sakho esahlukileyo, ukwenza umgudu omncinci kancinci kuya kuhlawula izabelo.
2. Thatha isipho.
Jonga neqabane lakho ukuba oku kufanelekile- abanye abantu abazithandi izipho njengoko zibenza bazive bengonwabanga.
Kwabanye, kukho izikhokelo zenkcubeko malunga nokuba zeziphi izipho ezicaphukisayo, ke kufanelekile ukuba ujonge ukuba awuqinisekanga.
Ibhotile yewayini, ezinye iintyatyambo, iitshokholethi, okanye iidizethi zizimvo ezilungileyo ukuba uza kutya isidlo sangokuhlwa.
3. Lumkisa ngazo naziphi na iimfuno zokutya.
Qiniseka ukuba iqabane lakho libazisile ukuba unazo naziphi na iimfuno zokutya ngaphambili bakuphekela ukutya!
Banokucinga nje ukuba utya inyama, okanye awunalo nofifi lokuba awunyamezelani ngobisi, kwaye kungcono ukuba ulungiswe phambi kokuba ufike kuncedo olukhulu lwe-lasagne kunye nesidlo sangokuhlwa esingathandekiyo.
4. Funda igumbi.
Khumbula ukugcina incoko ifanele abaphulaphuli. Ibali amaqabane akho afumene ukuba lihlekisayo lisenokungakulungeli ukwabelana phambi kwabazali beqabane lakho - ubuncinci ekuqaleni!
Ngelixa sivumelana ngokupheleleyo ukuba kufuneka ube nguwe kwaye bayakukuthanda kakhulu njengeqabane lakho, kufuneka ugcine iithebhu eyiphi iinkalo zobuntu bakho ukhetha ukwabelana ngoko nangoko.
Kanye njengokuba mhlawumbi uyeke ukuqalekisa njengesiqhelo xa ukunye noomawokhulu bakho, lungisa intetho kunye nezenzo zakho kubantu abakufutshane nawe apha.
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5. Yiba nentlonipho, ungabi sistarmy.
Akukho mntu uthanda ukuncanca, ke fumana ibhalansi elungileyo phakathi kokuziphatha kakuhle nokuba nenyaniso.
Sukwenza umboniso omkhulu wokunceda okanye ukuncoma into, yishiye nje ngokungakhathali okanye ngokuzolileyo unike isandla.
Awudingi ukutsalela ingqalelo kolu hlobo lwento - iya kuqatshelwa kwaye ixatyiswe ngaphandle kokuba wenze ingoma kwaye udanise ngayo!
6. Landela imithetho yasekhaya.
Ukuba kukho imfumba yezihlangu emnyango, khulula ezakho. Ukuba inja ayityiswa etafileni, musa ukuyinika intsalela kwisitya sakho. Ukuba bathi ubabalo, hlala uthe cwaka okanye ujoyine ukuba unenkolo.
Ukulandela imigaqo yabanini bamakhaya yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokwenza umbono wokuqala xa udibana nabazali besoka lakho okanye lentombi.
Ikwathetha ukuba abayi kuziva bengakhululekanga bekucela ukuba wenze into - uza kuba kuyo!
7. Bonisa umdla.
Ukuba bathetha ngento ethile, naka ingqalelo. Bonisa umdla kwaye ubandakanyeke ngokunyanisekileyo kubo.
Isenokungabi sisihloko onomdla kuso buqu, kodwa kuya kufuneka wenze umgudu wokujoyina incoko kunye nabo.
Ungaqala neengxoxo, ewe, unonophele ukunqanda nantoni na enokubangela ukudumba okanye ukuphikisana. Kulungile kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukungavumelani nomntu malunga nezopolitiko, umzekelo, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uyizise okokuqala udibana nabazali beqabane lakho.
8. Musa ukuba coupley kakhulu.
Ke, umama notata weqabane lakho bayazi ukuba nikunye, kodwa loo nto ayenzi ukuba kungakulungeli ukuba ube ngokudibeneyo ngokugqithileyo phambi kwabo.
Unokwenza kamva, ke gcina nje kakuhle kunye ne-PG ngelixa ukunye nabazali babo!
Isenokuba sisihlandlo sokuqala ukuba babone umntwana wabo kubudlelwane, ke kusenokwenzeka ukuba kungumnqa ngokwaneleyo ukuba badibane nawe, kungasathethwa ke xa bekubona ubetha iinwele zabo.
Yiba nembeko, ube nembeko, kwaye ubonakalise ukuba nesazisi sakho ngokuba ukhululekile ukubamba incoko ngaphandle kokuxhomekeka kwiqabane lakho.
9. Sukulawula izinto wedwa.
Ewe, lo ngumsitho wentlalo owenzelwe ukuvumela abazali beqabane lakho ukuba bazi, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba malunga nawe!
Zama ukungabinayo incoko, kwaye uqiniseke ukuba wonke umntu uyabandakanyeka.
Kulula ukuhlala nje apho kwaye uvumele abazali bakoyike ngemibuzo, kodwa uya kwenza umbono ongcono ngakumbi ukuba uqala ngokuqala incoko, wenze umgudu wokugcina wonke umntu ebandakanyeka, kwaye unokuzibamba.
10. Yiba novelwano.
Awunakulindela intlanganiso yokuqala egqibeleleyo, ke ungazibekeli ukudana ngokwenza oku!
Yenza okusemandleni akho ukulindela ukuba kunokuba nzima, kwaye uvume ukuba unokufumana ukungonwabi ngamanye amaxesha.
Kuya kuba kuhle ngokubanzi, kodwa zama ukugcina ulindelo lwakho luyinyani njengoko usiya kulo msitho wentlalontle.
11. Zilungiselele ukubona icala elahlukileyo kwiqabane lakho.
Unokucinga ukuba uyalazi iqabane lakho ngaphakathi ngaphandle, kodwa uya kufunda imfumba engaphezulu wakuba nje ubabone bejikeleze usapho lwabo!
Banokuba yinto emnandi kakhulu, enamahloni ngakumbi kubazali babo kwaye babuyele ekubeni ngumntwana. Ngokulinganayo, banokuphinda babuyele ekubeni ngumntwana ofikisayo kwaye babe nomsindo omncinci.
Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela, lungela ukubona icala elahlukileyo kwisoka lakho okanye intombi yakho xa udibana nabazali babo.
12. Yiba nenkxaso.
Iqabane lakho linokuba noxinzelelo olukhulu malunga nokudibana nabazali babo ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi- mhlawumbi abakaze babathande abalingane babo bangaphambili, okanye mhlawumbi abanalo nje ulwalamano olukhulu nabazali babo ngokwabo.
Banokuba neentloni malunga nalapho bavela khona okanye indlela yabo yokuphila yakudala, ke yibani nomonde kwaye nibabonise inkxaso.
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Bakhumbuze ukuba uyabathanda kwaye ufuna ukubenza bonwabe, nokuba oko kuthetha ukuya ngaphaya kwesidlo sangokuhlwa okanye ukubheyila ngomzuzu wokugqibela kuba baziva bexhalabile.
Khokela kwaye uhambe ngesantya sabo.
13. Yivumele uyonwabele.
Sidla ngokugxininiswa kakhulu 'kwimisitho' kunye neziphumo zayo (umz. “Baza kusicela ukuba siphinde sisitye kwakhona?” .
Usenokuphoswa ngempazamo ngamabali amyoli eqabane lakho njengomntwana ngenxa yokuba uxakeke kakhulu ugxile kwindlela ohleli ngayo nakwindlela yokuziphatha etafileni!
Yiba nengqiqo kwaye ukhumbule, kodwa uzivumele uphumle kwizinto kwaye ukonwabele ukuba ubaluleke kakhulu emntwini abafuna ukuba wonke umntu adibane nawe kwaye akuthande nawe!
14. Phelisa inqaku elilungileyo.
Le yinto ebonakalayo, kodwa qiniseka ukuba uthi enkosi ukuba bakuphekele isidlo sangokuhlwa, okanye ukhankanye indlela ekumnandi ngayo ukudibana nabo.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqole kwaye uvume umzamo abaye kuwo. Bayakuvuyela kakhulu ukuphelisa izinto ngenqaku elincomekayo, kwaye iya kuba yinto entsha ezingqondweni zabo xa beqala ukuthetha ngawe kwakamsinya / xa bemkayo!
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