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Mnye umntu kubo bonke ubomi bethu: lowo uhlala ethembekile, ongaze abe nomsindo, kulula ukuthetha naye, kwaye akazukuyikhathaza le, leya, okanye enye nokuba iphazamise kangakanani.

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Kulungile ukufuna ukunceda. Sifundisa ukuba abantwana bethu ngalo mzuzu izakhono zabo zeemoto ziye zibe sesidimeni. Kulungile Linda , unesisa, uvelwano, kwaye akazicingeli. Ezi ziimpawu zempucuko.

Akulunganga, nangona kunjalo, ukuba zonke ezi zinto xa intetho yabo ingeyonyani ngokupheleleyo.

ungaxelela njani ukuba umntu othile usebenzisa wena kubudlelwane

Obo bubomi babantu obonwabisayo.

Bathatha indima 'yomfo olungileyo' ukuya kwinqanaba eligqithisileyo. Kukho into ecacileyo eyonwabisayo yengqondo ekucingelweni njengokuya komntu, kodwa xa kukho imfuneko yokuthandwa, ukuthandwa, ukudibanisa, okanye ukubonwa njengoncedo kugqitha amandla okuqinisekisa iimfuno zakhe, kuvela iingxaki.

1. Ukungabikho kweZazisi

Abantu abakholisayo abaze bonwabe ngabo kuba abaze bafike kuba ngokwabo. Baye baba yingcali ekubukeni abanye kunye nasekucinezeleni nantoni na enokuthi ithathwe ngokuchasene nemeko ethile. Ukuba kukho ithuba lokuba umntu angakhubekiswa, izimvo eziyinyani zomkholise ngokuqinisekileyo ngekhe zaziwe.

iingcebiso ngokuphila ngalo mzuzu

2. Ingcwaba Ingcwatyiwe

Xa abantu abaninzi bekholisa bezama ukukholisa, ixesha elincinci banalo kwizinto ezizezabo, ezinokubashiya ndiziva ndikrakra . Kananjalo, ukuba abacingi ukuba bafumana inqanaba lombulelo okanye indumiso ebafaneleyo, kukho ingozi yokuba cwaka bacaphukele abantu abanethemba lokubakholisa, nangona bezakuqhubeka nokuzama ukubakholisa.

3. Ukudinwa kwengqondo

Amandla amaninzi engqondo aya kubantu abasebenza kamnandi ukuze bathethe into abacinga ukuba abanye bafuna ukuyiva okanye benze into abacinga ukuba abanye bafuna amandla ayenzileyo anokubangela ukhenketho lwabo oluhle. Endaweni yoko, bahlala bephindela kwigobolondo lamava / ukuhlola okulinganiselweyo ukuze baphinde bahlaziye usuku olulandelayo.

4. Ukusasazeka kweNtlalo

Ukuba yinto eyonwabisa abantu kuthetha ukubeka emngciphekweni ekugqibeleni ubonwa ngokunganyaniseki okanye Iyacaphukisa , Kwaye xa sele yenzekile, akukho mntu ufuna ukuba ujikeleze. Abanye banokuthi babone abantu bekholisa imayile enye kwaye baya kufumana iindlela ngeendlela zokungabakhupheli ngaphandle kokuba into eyonwabisayo iyafuneka ngalo mzuzu.

5. Abahlobo bobuxoki

Nabani na ozama ukukholisa abantu ngalo lonke ixesha kungcono ukuba aqhele ukusetyenziswa. Abo bantu baya kuba ngabo bahlala becelwa ukuba bancede ngokuhamba, bukela izinja ngelixa abanye bekwiholide, baphume ebhedini kusasa ukuze banike umhlobo abahambe kakhulu, emva koko bakhuphe kwiiyure ezimbalwa kamva ukubabuyisela emotweni yabo ...

umgcina njani umfana onomdla emva kokuba ulele naye

Abantu abakholisayo abayi kuthi, nangona kunjalo, babe ngabo bamenyelwe i-bowling, bebaleka, bequbha, ukuya kwi-brunch yangeCawa, loo bhanyabhanya upholileyo uthetha ngayo wonke umntu, okanye naliphi na inani lezinto ezenziwa ngabantu abafuna ubukho babanye.

Ayizizo zonke izihlobo zabo eziza kuba zezobuxoki, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo baya kuphuhlisa iqela labantu abakhohlisayo ababonakala ngathi banomtsalane.

6. Umona

Ukukholisa abantu kunokuba ngumdlalo we-cutthroat, kunye nokukholisa ukufumanisa ukuba umntu usebenze ngcono ngomnye umntu ngaphandle kwabo isenzo semfazwe. Abathandi ukungxenga indumiso abayinikiweyo ngokwabelana ngezinto zabo zoqwalaselo, kwaye baya kugwetywa ukuba omnye umntu okholisayo uphumelela.

Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):

7. Ukungoneliseki

Abantu abakholisayo banokufumanisa ukuba abanalo nofifi lokuba yintoni eyonwabisa ngokwabo. Uluvo lwabo lokonwaba kunye nokuxabiseka kwezinto okanye imisebenzi zivela ekubonakaliseni ukoneliseka kwabanye. Oku kukhokelela kulonwabo, ukutya, kunye nezinye izinto ezilungileyo zentlalo eziza njenge 'meh' kubantu abakholisayo abazifumana bebodwa besusa impembelelo yemithombo yangaphandle.

8. Akukho Nhlonipho

Njengokukholisa abantu, iingcebiso zikabani ziya kuncitshiswa emva kwayo yonke loo nto, umonwabisi uzama ukukholisa, hayi ukuba nenjongo. Abantu banokuzikhangela njengebhodi evakalayo ukuze bazive belungile, kodwa ukuba umntu akanakubalwa ekunikezeleni uluvo olunyanisekileyo, izimvo zakhe aziyi kuba ninzi kuninzi.

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Kananjalo bathanda ukubuya umva kwiingxoxo, bahlala beginya ezabo iinkxalabo okanye izikhalazo. Oku kukhokelela ekubeni baphinde baxhamle (kwaye bacinge ngeziqu zabo njengezixhamliweyo, ezondla ingqumbo yengqumbo).

9. Ayikwazi ukukholisa wonke umntu

Nokuba unganceda njani umntu okhangayo, nokuba ungathandeka kangakanani na, baya kugijimela umntu ongakhuselekanga kubo imfuno yokuvunywa , eziya kuziphosa kwi-tailpin ngenxa yokuba ziqhelekile- ubuncinci- zisetyenziselwa inzuzo kwaye-ubukhulu becala-ziziva ziluncedo okanye ziyafuneka.

Ulawulo lwexesha

Ixesha. Ixesha yeyona nto ixabisekileyo kuba abo bayaziyo ukuyisebenzisa kakuhle babonisa uluvo lolawulo, nokuba kukwimisebenzi yabo, kwizifundo zabo nakwizinto abazithandayo, okanye kubomi babo ngokubanzi. Abantu abonwabisayo baphila ubomi obuphazamisekileyo: iimfuno zabo, umdla wabo, kunye neminqweno yabo ithatha isihlalo esingasemva kwiimfuno, umdla kunye neminqweno yabanye. Ixesha lokuzonwabisa alikho elabo.

11. Ukubetha imali

Isipaji sabantu abakholisayo sinesefu. Nokuba bayaboleka imali okanye bahlawula isidlo sasemini okanye baziva benyanzelekile ukuxhasa wonke umhlobo-womhlobo we-Kickstarter oza kubo, banobunzima bokuthi hayi kwiidola zabo ezinyamalalayo.

12. Thanda uBomi

Ukuba uyathandeka ebantwini, ubudlelwane bakho buya kuba bubi icala elinye . Amashumi amathandathu anamashumi amane? Uya kuba nethamsanqa ukufumana amashumi asixhenxe anamashumi amathathu. Kuya kulindeleka ukuba ucwangcise ukuphuma, ube yindlebe okanye igxalaba elinobuzaza, ubizo, uze nezinto ezimangazayo ezimnandi, kwaye ungalindeli ukuba uya kufumana okufanayo.

Akunzima ukubona ukuba oku kungakhokelela njani kuthotho lobudlelwane obufutshane obulandela ipateni ebekiweyo: uvuyo kunye nokonwaba ekuqaleni, emva koko kukhawuleze iimvakalelo zokudinwa kwinxalenye yomntu okonwabisayo, emva koko ingqumbo, emva koko ukubambana ngobumnene, ukuhlaselwa Inxalenye yesithandwa, kunye nokupheliswa okungaphephekiyo.

Umgaqo wokuzonwabisa

Kulungile ukuba abantu bazive bonwabile, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba sincedane, kodwa ukukhonza njengabantu abakholisayo kwenza nawaphi na amava azive eyingozi zombini iindlela. Kulula ukuba abanye bawele ekufuneni into ekholisayo kakhulu (ngokwenza njalo babe sisixhobo), kunye nesiyolisayo sibe sisixhobo esiluncedo kunokuba sibe ngumntu wokwenyani (ngaloo ndlela siqhubeke nomjikelo).

yintoni eyenza abantu babe bangobani

Ngalo lonke ixesha gcinani engqondweni ukuba kufuneka sizikholise thina kuqala ukuze sibe nefuthe elihle ngokwenene kubomi bomnye umntu. Ulwaneliseko luphumela ngaphandle, kwaye iziphumo zalo ziyosulela.

Ukuthi hayi akumenzi umntu abe ngumntu ombi, kananjalo nokuzimela ngamaxesha athile ngeemfuno zakho ngandlel 'ithile.