14 Iimpawu eziCacileyo zoMntu okuSebenzisayo: Indlela yokuXela ngokuqinisekileyo

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Akukho mntu uthanda ukuziva esetyenziswa.



Xa umntu omthandayo okanye umkhathalele ngokunzulu, kungaba kwezothando okanye njengomhlobo, kubonakala ngathi uhlala ethatha kwaye engabuyiseli ngendlela eqhelekileyo, inokudodobalisa kwaye ijongele phantsi ukuzixabisa kwakho.

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Kungenzeka ukuba umntu othile acele izinto ezimbalwa kakhulu, kwaye sekunjalo 'uxakekile' ukukunceda.

Kungenzeka ukuba bakuthwalise uxinzelelo ngayo yonke i-c ** p yabo kwaye balindele inkxaso kunye neengcebiso zakho nge-24/7, kanti xa unengxaki, akukho ndawo banokubonwa kuyo okanye bangabonisi mdla wokwenyani kwiingxaki zakho.

Okanye kusenokwenzeka ukuba ucinga ukuba uyinxalenye yesibini esithandanayo, ukanti iqabane lakho libonakala linomdla wesini kunokuhlala nje kunye nokuzonwabisa kunye.

Zonke ezi zizikhokelo ezinkulu usebudlelwaneni nomsebenzisi.

Ukuba ulwalamano lwakho luziva luhlangene, zikhumbuze ukuba ubuhlobo kunye nentsebenziswano yothando, ziindlela ezimbini, zizele zinike kwaye zithathe kwaye zixhasane.

Leyo nkxaso inikwa ngokukhululekileyo, ubusuku okanye imini, ngaphandle kwe-ajenda efihliweyo, kwaye iyabuyiselwa ngaphandle kwengcinga yesibini.

Ukuba awuqinisekanga, kodwa uziva nje ukuba kukho ukungalingani kubudlelwane bakho, kukho iindlela ezithile zokuziphatha ekufuneka uzijongile nyusa iflegi ebomvu kwaye ubangele ukuba usebenzise i-radar yakho.

Imiqondiso yokulumka yokwahluka phakathi kobuhlobo okanye ubudlelwane nabantu ohlala nabo endlini ngokuchasene nobudlelwane bobuhlobo, nangona ezinye zisebenza kuzo zombini.

Makhe sijonge eminye yemizekelo yokuziphatha komsebenzisi ukuze sikunike izixhobo zokuhlalutya ubudlelwane bakho kwiimpawu zokuba uyasetyenziswa…

1. Bajolise kubo kuphela.

Eyona nto iphambili kumsebenzisi yeyakhe.

Bazibona njengeziko lendalo yonke eyaziwayo, ejikeleza kuyo yonke enye into.

Konke malunga nemisebenzi yabo, iingxaki zabo, impumelelo yabo, iintsapho zabo.

Kwaye konke malunga nento abayifunayo, abayifunayo, kunye nento onokuyenza (nabanye).

Xa bexakekile begxila kubo bonke, abayi kuba namdla kwinto eyenzekayo ebomini bakho.

Bayakulindela ukuba uchithe ixesha elininzi uphulaphule i-monologue yabo yokuzikhethela, nangona kunjalo.

Iimfuno zakho ngekhe zinikwe ingqwalaselo enkulu.

2. Abakumameli.

Kuba umsebenzisi ekugqibeleni unomdla wokukhathalela inani lokuqala, iinkcukacha ze-ins kunye nokuphuma kubomi bosapho bakho, izihlobo zakho, kunye nobukho bakho bemihla ngemihla ziya kuhamba ngqo phezu kwentloko yabo.

Abayi kuba nakho ukugcina ulwazi owabelana ngalo malunga nomphathi wakho onzima okanye abazali bakho abagulayo kuba lithetha nto kubo.

Kulula ngokwaneleyo ukubuza eminye imibuzo ukufumanisa ukuba zimbalwa kangakanani iinyani ezibalulekileyo ebomini bakho abazikhumbulayo.

Inyaniso yokuba abanamdla ngokwaneleyo wokugcina olu lwazi kwiintloko zabo sisalathiso esomeleleyo sokuba ayingomhlobo / iqabane lokwenyani kwaye basebenzisa ubuhlobo bakho / ubudlelwane ukwanelisa ezinye iimfuno (zokuzenzela).

3. Bafuna ukuboleka imali.

Sonke sidinga ukuncediswa ngemali amaxesha ngamaxesha, kwaye ayikaze ibe yingxaki ukunceda umhlobo ngaphandle kube kanye okanye kabini.

Kodwa umboleki uthotho ngumcimbi owahlukileyo.

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Ukuba kukho izicelo eziphindaphindwayo zokunceda, nokuba ziidola ezimbalwa apha okanye phaya okanye izibalo ezinkulu, ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka ulumke.

Kuya kufuneka ugcine iithebhu ukuba kufikelela kangaphi kulowo ufikelela kwisipaji sakho, ukugubungela isidlo sangokuhlwa, iiteksi, kunye nezinye iindleko xa niphumile kunye.

Ukuba uhlala ucelwa ukuba uhlawule indlela yabo okanye uboleke imali, kwaye kubonakala ngathi baxhomekeke kuwe njengomthombo wemali, ayisiyondlela yokuziphatha leyo.

Ibonisa ukuba ixabiso lakho kubo linxibelelene ngokusondeleyo nokuhamba kwemali ukusuka kwisipaji sakho kuye.

4. Izinto ezithandwayo 'zilayishiwe.'

Abasebenzisi banobuchule bokupeyinta ngokwabo njengabanceda kakhulu.

Benza oku ngokwenza intando encinci kakhulu kuwe, kodwa bevuthela into enkulu, begxininisa ukuba ubatyala ixesha elininzi kwaye uzenze uzive unetyala olicelileyo.

Xa bekubuza indlela enkulu ngokubabuyisela, uya kukhunjuzwa ukuba zininzi kangakanani izinto abakwenzele zona kwaye udlale ityala abasele belityalile engqondweni yakho, likwenza uzive unetyala kubo.

5. Zintle kuphela xa zilungele bona.

Abasebenzisi banamaqhinga ngokwaneleyo ukuba bazi ukuba kuya kufuneka babelungile ukuze bafumane into abayifunayo.

Banokuba mnandi kakhulu kwaye bacinge xa ​​bafuna ubabalo, uncedo oluthile, okanye ukuboleka into.

Kodwa uyakufumanisa ukuba baya kukunika isinqumleli esifutshane bakube bephumelele ekufumaneni nantoni na.

Bazokuvala umtsalane xa bengasakhangeli nto.

6. Abaze benze mgudu.

UKUYA ulwalamano olunye , Apho nguwe wedwa obonakala ngathi wenza izicwangciso, ukuthenga izipho, ukuba nemibono, okanye ukubeka umzamo, eneneni ayibobudlelwane kwaphela.

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Ulwalamano oluhle lolunye olulinganayo ukuze amaqela omabini atshintshane ukucwangcisa zombini izinto ezimnandi kwaye aphathe izinto zemihla ngemihla.

Akufanele ube nguwe wedwa owenza ukubaleka.

7. Banxibelelana kuphela xa baziva bephantsi.

Sonke sivile ngomhlobo wemozulu olungileyo onomdla wokuchitha ixesha nawe xa yonke into ilula kwaye imnandi kodwa ukude nomxhasi othembekileyo xa kuhamba ubunzima.

Olu hlobo, nangona kunjalo, ngezinye iindlela luchasene nomhlobo wemozulu efanelekileyo. Bafuna ukuxhoma kunye nawe xa bephantsi kwaye kunzima.

Xa bephezulu kwehlabathi kwaye yonke into ihamba kakuhle kubo, awubaboni ngothuli.

Kuya kufuneka uqaphele ukuba uyasetyenziswa njengengubo yabo yokhuseleko, ukuba ulahlwe xa isidingo senkxaso yakho sidlulile.

8. Bayakulahlekisa ukuze ungathi hayi.

Abasebenzisi baziinkosi ekuphatheni abanye babeke kwindawo apho uziva ungenako ukubaphika.

Luhlobo lokudlala okungaqhelekanga, kunye nabo batsala imitya kwaye udanisa kwingoma yabo.

Ukuba umntu othile ukubeka uxinzelelo kuwe ukuba wenze into ngelithi ukwala isicelo sakho kuya kupela isiphelo sehlabathi kuye, uyasetyenziswa.

Isenokuba sisongelo sokungabinabahlobo okanye ukulahlwa nto leyo ekwenza uzive ungenamandla okumelana nayo, kodwa ezo ndlela zoyikayo kufuneka zibonwe yile nto ziyiyo: uhlobo lokungcungcuthekiswa ngokweemvakalelo .

9. Batsalela umnxeba ebusuku kuphela.

Le yindlela yokuziphatha yomsebenzisi. Ukuba iqabane lakho elithandanayo likubiza kuphela okanye itekisi ezinzulwini zobusuku iphakamisa ukuhlangana, oko kungumqondiso wokuba uyinto yokugqibela xa kungekho nto ibhetele.

10. Bafowuna kuphela xa abanye abahlobo babo bexakekile.

Abanye abahlobo babo baxakekile kwaye abafuni ukuba bodwa, ke bakubiza ukuba ugcwalise isithuba.

Ukuba uziva ngathi le yindima yakho, amathuba kukuba bakubone nje ukuba usecaleni kwesangqa sobuhlobo babo, ukulungele ukubagcina kwinkampani xa kufanelekile, kodwa kungenjalo.

Jonga izithuba zabo kwimidiya yoluntu. Ukuba kucacile ku-Insta ukuba umhlobo wakho unomnenga wexesha nabanye xa ungamenywanga, lixesha lokuba uphinde ujonge ulwalamano lwakho.

11. Zonke ziyathetha kwaye akukho zenzo.

Abasebenzisi bahlala befihla i-ajenda yabo yokwenyani besithi baya kwenza into, kodwa bayasilela ukuhambisa ixesha kunye nexesha kwakhona.

Ngokwesiqhelo, isithembiso sabo sixhomekeke ekubeni ubenzela into. Ugcina icala lakho kuthethathethwano, kodwa basilele ukugcina elabo.

Le patheni yokuziphatha ekugqibeleni ijongela phantsi ukuthembana komnye umntu nakulwalamano.

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12. Bazaphula izithembiso.

Njengokuziphatha okungasentla, abasebenzisi bahlala bephula izithembiso.

Bahlala bekhetha ukubeka umntu okanye enye into phambi kwakho.

Awubonwa njengeyona nto iphambili kwaye ukujonga njengento encinci yokunyusa, ongazukukwenza nkxalabo nokuba uhlala uphoxekile kukwaphula kwabo ukuthembana.

Ukuba iimvakalelo zakho ezibuhlungu xa ujongene nokudana okuphindaphindiweyo azibalulekanga kubo, kukho into engalunganga ngokucacileyo kwaye uyasetyenziswa.

13. Zikwenza uzive unenzondo.

Ayothusi into yokuba zonke ukukhubekisa ityala , ubabalo, iimfuno zokuqwalaselwa kunye nokungabikho kwembuyekezo kukhokelela ekwakheni ingqumbo.

Kubudlelwane obusempilweni, obulungeleleneyo apho zombini iimfuno 'zifezekiswa ngokulinganayo nomoya wesisa kunye nenkathalo yokwenyani nenkxalabo, akukho sizathu sokuziva unomsindo.

Ukuba ufumana imvakalelo ekhulayo yobukrakra kunye nenzondo malunga nobuhlobo okanye ubudlelwane bokuthandana, ke i-100% uyasetyenziswa.

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14. Benza ukuba uzive ungonwabanga okanye ungonwabanga.

Ubudlelwane, nokuba yeyothando okanye yiplatonic, kuya kufuneka uzive ukhululekile kwaye ukhululekile.

Nangona kunjalo, inyani kukuba ngamanye amaxesha banokukwenza uzive uchasene ngokupheleleyo.

Kunokubakho izizathu ezininzi zoku, kunjalo, kodwa oku kuxhalaba kuhlala kubangelwa yimvakalelo yakho engaphakathi yokuba kukho into engalinganiyo ngolwalamano.

Xa usebenzisa, ngethuku lemvelo uyazi ukuba kukho into engalunganga ncam, kwaye oku kukushiya ungonwabanga.

Kusenokwenzeka ukuba indibaniselwano yezinye zeendlela zokuziphatha zomsebenzisi ezingasentla eziye zakhokelela ekuphenduleni kwesisu sakho.

Mamela imeko yakho kwaye uqhubeke nokuchitha ixesha nabantu abakunye nabo uziva ukhululekile kwaye wanelisekile.

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Igama lokugqibela.

Into yokugqibela endiyithethayo kukuba kufuneka uzive unenzondelelo ngokwenza ukulunga kumhlobo, iqabane, okanye enye ebalulekileyo.

Ukuba umntu omthandayo okanye umkhathaleleyo ufuna umlenze ngamanye amaxesha uphethe imali, uncedo oluthile, okanye batyelele iiyure ezingaqhelekanga kuba beziva bedimazekile, ezo zizinto esizenzela abahlobo bethu, usapho kunye nabo sibathandayo ngaphandle kokucinga okwesibini. .

Into endiyithethayo kukuba kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo ezi flegi zibomvu njengoko zisanda ngokuhamba kwexesha.

Ukuba uziva ulungelelwaniso lobudlelwane lutshintshele kude kwicala lomhlobo / iqabane lakho kwaye nguwe owenza konke okusebenzayo, ngokuqinisekileyo lixesha lokuba uthathe isishwankathelo kwaye uphinde uphonononge apho umi khona.

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