Umfanekiso wengqondo uninzi lwabantu luza nawo xa uxoxa Iimfesane ayisiyonto yokuncoma.
Impaths zihlala zicingelwa ukuba zilulamile, kunye ne-melodramatic, hypersensitive, ixhala, kunye kuxhomekeka .
wazi njani ukuba kuphelile
Inxalenye yolindelo olusengaphambili malunga nale miphefumlo ibuthathaka kungenxa yokuba abantu abaninzi abanovelwano unako , enyanisweni, isimilo sokuziphatha esidityaniswa nezo mpawu.
Ngomndilili ophakathi, ubomi bemihla ngemihla bunokuba nzima. Ukongeza ekubanjweni ziingcinga zabanye abantu kunye neemvakalelo ezivela macala onke, kukwakho nokuhlaselwa kolunye ugcino-luvo oluninzi.
Uninzi, ukuba alukho uninzi lweemfesane oza kudibana nazo zikwanomdla kwizinto ezifana nokukhanya, isandi kunye nevumba, phakathi ezinye izinto .
Kananjalo, into ethathwa ngomnye umntu ukuba yimilodrama okanye ukuxhomekeka kwikhowudi kunokuba yinto enkulu kuzo zonke izivamvo zabo kwi-hyperdrive, kwaye bafuna ukuxhomekeka kumaqabane / kubahlobo babo ukuba babakhathalele xa bekhubazekile kukuvezwa kakhulu.
Oku akuthethi ukuba iimfesane zibuthathaka. Hayi nakancinci.
Ngapha koko, uninzi lweemfesane zikwabonisa ngokwesiko ukubonwa njengeempawu zeAlfa, nangona kunjalo kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo kunokuba zinokuthi zidibaniswe neentlobo zeAlfa.
Banokuba Nobumnene kwaye Bomelele
Uyazi ukuba zingaphi Iimfesane zingena kwimisebenzi apho basebenza khona awona malungu asemngciphekweni eluntwini? KAKHULU.
Ukuba uhlala phantsi wathetha neqela labongikazi elingahleliwe, abasebenzi behospice, kunye nabahlaziyi bezilwanyana, uya kufumanisa ukuba inani elothusayo labo ngabantu abanolwazelelelo, abanolwazelelelo.
Babetsaliwe kwimisebenzi yabo abayikhethileyo kuba bachaphazeleke kakhulu kukubandezeleka kwabanye abantu kangangokuba bafuna ukwenza into, nantoni na, ukunceda.
Kulapho inkalo yamandla yenziwa yacaca.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ezinye zeentlobo zokuphilisa zinokubonakala ngathi zithule kwaye zilulamile, kodwa qwa lasela nje okomzuzwana ukuba umntu kufuneka omelele kangakanani ekusebenzeni nabantu kunye nezilwanyana ezinezifo ezinganyangekiyo okanye ezingapheliyo.
Ayidingi kuphela ukuba babe namandla okomoya ngokwaneleyo ukuze bakwazi ukubonakalisa, imihla ngemihla, kwaye bancede abanye abanokuba bebandezeleka ngokunzulu bobabini. iintlungu emphefumlweni nasemzimbeni , kodwa bakwanokuzithemba nokuzithemba.
Umdala onesifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo angangxamela umongikazi ngenxa yokuba nobuganga bokumnika amayeza awadingayo.
iphume nini ibhola yebhola enkulu
Umntwana ojamelene nolunye unyango lomhlaza wabantwana ufuna iqela labongikazi eliya kuba likhuthazayo kwaye libe nemfesane.
Isilwanyana esonzakeleyo esingaziyo ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni kwaye sifuna ukuthintelwa ukuze siphiliswe siyakukhala kalusizi.
Khawufane ucinge amanqanaba omeleleyo kunye nesibindi afunekayo mihla le ukwenza lo msebenzi.
Banokuba ziNkokeli zeNdalo
Impembelelo yeAlfa inokuphumelela ngokumangalisayo kwindima yobunkokeli kuba inesakhono sokuthetha-thethana ngoncedo lokuqonda okuqinisekileyo.
Xa unokubona indlela abantu abavakalelwa ngayo kwintlanganiso yakho yebhodi, unga 'sebenza' igumbi ngokufanelekileyo: ukufumana abo bathandayo babe nomdlandla, bathobe abo banomsindo, kwaye baqinisekise abathandabuzayo.
Iimpawu zeAlfa zikhokelela kwindlela yabantu, edityanisiweyo: ziyinyani, zixhomekeke kwintsebenziswano, kwimizamo yokusebenzisana, kwaye baqinisekise ukuba abo basebenza nabo baziva beqinisekisiwe kwaye bexatyisiwe.
Ziba yinyani yentliziyo yombutho: eyona ndawo iphambili apho isikhokelo, ukuthunyelwa, ukudunyiswa kunye Inkuthazo iyakwazi ukuhamba.
Benza unxibelelwano olugqwesileyo nabasebenzisanayo kunye nabatyali mali, kwaye banokwazi ukuxelela xa iqela lifuna ipitsa kunye nobusuku bobhiya.
Umphathi onovelwano unokuzilolonga xa omnye wabasebenzi enengxaki, nokuba bebenxibe isigqubuthelo esithi 'NDIMNANDI' ngelixa useofisini.
Bayaqonda, enovelwano , kwaye unokusebenza nabantu ukulungisa izisombululo ezisebenzela bonke ababandakanyekayo, endaweni yokungahambelani kunye nokufuna ngenkani.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Iimpawu ze-4 Uyi-Impathrive Empath (Ayisiyiyo nje i-Empath)
- Icala elimnyama leempaths
- Ukutyibilika ngokutyibilika Kokungakhathali: Isilumkiso kubo bonke abantu
- Xa iiMpaths ezimbini ziwa eluthandweni
- Iimpawu ezi-9 zoMfazi oLungileyo weAlfa
- Izinto ezi-8 zeAlfa zaBasetyhini zisa kuBudlelwane
Abanawo umonde wokuSetyenziswa gwenxa
Enye yezona zinto ziphambili ekubeni yimpathiso kukuba, ekubeni benika kakhulu, abathandi abanobubele, uninzi lwamaqabane (ngakumbi ama-narcissists) abambelela kwiimfesane kuba bafuna ukuzigcina njengezilwanyana zasekhaya.
Iimpawu zintle kakhulu kumaqabane abo afanelekileyo, kuba aba bantu banovakalelo ngokubanzi bayayinyamezela i-LOT yokuziphatha gwenxa / yokuziphatha gwenxa kuba bayazibona iintlungu kunye nemvelaphi yezenzo zonakalisayo.
Ukubanakho ukuzikhusela kumarhamncwa adlakadlaka kufuna amandla amaninzi, ukuzithemba, kunye nokukwazi ukunyamezela ngokupheleleyo i-zero bullsh * t, nokuba bayayiqonda ukuba ivela phi.
Impembelelo yeAlfa inokuba nemfesane ngokubandezeleka komntu, kodwa ikwagcine oko ' Ndikuthanda ngokungathandabuzekiyo ”Ayithethi ukuba“ ndiza kuyinyamezela impatho-gadalala yakho kunye nokukhohlakala kwakho kum ngonaphakade. ”
Akukho ukunyamezelwa kokuziphatha gwenxa kubo kwindawo yokusebenza, nokuba ngumphathi obaphatha ngokungafanelekanga okanye umntu osebenza naye ongazitsaliyo ubunzima bakhe kwaye alahle umsebenzi owongezelelweyo kubo.
Bayokuma kuye nabani na obaphatha kakubi, kwaye nangona beya kwenza njalo ngomlinganiselo wokuqonda kunye nemfesane, abayi kubuya umva ekukhuseleni imigaqo-nkqubo yabo.
ngaba ukhona umahluko phakathi kwesondo nokwenza uthando
Akunakulindeleka ukuba zilawulwe
Ukwakha phezu kwenqaku eladlulayo… ezinye iimfesane ziphela zisebenzisa ubuqhetseba nokuphathwa gadalala, ngakumbi i-narcissistic kunye nezinye iintlobo zokuzenzela kuba ezo jerks ziyazi ukuba iimvakalelo ziyayithiya ingcinga yokubangela abanye abantu iintlungu okanye ukubandezeleka.
Uhambo olunetyala apha, ezinye ukukhanyisa ngegesi phaya, okanye nokuba uhlaselo lweemvakalelo olupheleleyo lwaluthetha ukunxiba oluntununtunu luhlala lusebenza ngokumangalisayo kumkhohlisi ukuze afumane into ayifunayo.
Oku akubhabhi kunye ne-Alpha empath.
Baza kuphakamisa nje ishiya kwaye bakhumbuze umntu ukuba uyazi ukuba uphi umnyango, kwaye bamkelekile ukuba babuyele kuwo.
Ukuba novelwano, lo Alfa uya kuba nakho ukubona kumzamo oqinisekileyo wokukhohlisa, kuba unokubona ukuba uvela phi umntu.
Oku kwenza ukuba kube lula ukuphepha nokuzidibanisa, kwaye nokuguqula iinzame zomphathi zibuyele kubo (zihlala zibahlazisile).
Banobudlelwane obuzalisekisayo ngokumangalisayo
Xa ucinga ngeAlphas, uninzi lwabantu lucinga ukuba banekratshi kwaye bafuna ngenkani, kodwa ayisiyiyo le nto.
Umntu onovelwano kwaye ophetheyo ngokwendalo unokuba lolunye lweentlobo ezilungileyo zokuba nobudlelwane naye.
Bayakuziqonda ezabo iimfuno kunye neemfuno, kodwa abayikubeka ezo ziphambili kunabanye.
ndizifumana njani iizazisi zam
Kwaye nangona benokuba nemibono ethe ngqo malunga nendlela abafuna ukuqhuba ngayo ekhayeni, bafuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba wonke umntu uviwe, wamkelwe, kwaye unelizwi elifanelekileyo kwiimeko zasekhaya.
Xa iqabane lakho zombini li-empath kunye ne-Alpha, amathuba alungile ukuba lo mntu uya kuba nakho ukuqonda kwaye alindele iimfuno zakho ngaphambi kokuba wazi ukuba unazo.
Baza kuthatha inyathelo lokukufumanela into oyifunayo, kwaye baya kuqinisekisa ukuba nezabo iimfuno ziyafezekiswa.
Akukho ndawo yenzondo okanye Ukuba ndlongondlongo nalo mntu: ezo ayisosimbo sabo.
Ukuba kukho ingxaki efuna ukulungiswa, baya kuphakama bathathe inyathelo lokuyilungisa, ngelixa beqinisekisa ukuba basondela kuwe ngendlela eqondayo, enemfesane kunye nenkxaso.
Abaphumanga ukuze babangele nakuphi na ukwenzakala, kodwa bajonge ukusebenza nge ukuphumeza esona siphumo sihle kubo bonke ababandakanyekayo.
Ngaba uzijonga zombini u-empath kunye nohlobo lwe-Alpha? Ukuba kunjalo, uthethathethana njani ngokudibana? Singathanda ukuva kuwe kwizimvo ezingezantsi!
