Ukuba uthandana nomfazi weAlfa, unokuqiniseka ngenani lezinto, ubuncinci kuzo ziya kuba zezinto ezingenakulindeleka ukuba zingadinisi.
Ukhethe ukuba kunye nawe, ke kuyacaca ukuba unomdla ngokwaneleyo ukuba ubambe umdla wakhe (kunye nentliziyo yakhe), nokuba yeyiphi ayinike ngokulula, ke oko sele kuluncedo kuwe.
Apha ngezantsi zizinto ezisibhozo eziza kuziswa yinkosikazi yakho yeAlfa kwintsebenziswano yakho, nokuba uzilungele okanye akunjalo. Zonwabele.
1. Zero Bullsh * t Okanye iDrama
Njengoko sele isekiwe, abafazi beAlfa abanalo ixesha, okanye umonde kwimidlalo okanye ububhanxa bokungakhathali.
Kananjalo, uyazi ukuba ngekhe ujongane nokukunika kwakhe ukungathethi cwaka , okanye ukugoba iingcango, okanye ukutsala yonke 'ukuba awuyazi into oyenze kakubi, andizukuxelela' crap ukuba abantu abaninzi benzelana.
Akwenzeki ukuba abambe inzondo, ke xa niphikisana, ninokusombulula imicimbi apho emva koko niqhubeke, njengoko ayilulo uhlobo lokuqhubeka nokuhlaziya ububi obudala ngonaphakade ngenxa yedrama. Nje ukuba kugqityiwe, kugqityiwe. Ukuphela kwe-.
2. Ukuthembeka
Ukuba wakha waba kubudlelwane apho ungakhange ukwazi ukuxhomekeka kwiqabane lakho ukuze libekhona kuwe xa ubufuna, kuyaqondakala ukuba unganakho Lumka kancinci ngokuthembela ngokwenene iqabane lakho leAlfa.
Musa ukoyika: unokuthembela kuye.
Abasetyhini beAlfa baxabisa kwaye baxabisa ingqibelelo , kwaye bahlala bezibambe kumgangatho ophakame kakhulu kunokwenza abanye.
Ukuba uyamdinga, ukhona kuwe. Ukuba wenza isithembiso, uya kusigcina ngaphandle kokuba akanakhubazeka. Ukuba lithuba lakhe lokuthabatha abantwana, okanye ukuba uvumile ukuya kwikhosiyali yomzala wakho, uya kuba lapho.
Kwangoko…
Ngokutya okulula.
Ngapha koko, unokuziva ukhuselekile kulwazi lokuba ukuba uzibophelele ukuba liqabane lakho, oko kuthetha ukuba uliqabane lakho ngazo zonke iindlela.
indlela yokujongana nokutshintsha kwemozulu kubudlelwane
Uya kubamba okwakhe-nokuba kungokwezemali okanye ukugcinwa kwendlu- kwaye akunakulindeleka ukuba avumele ukungalingani kungene kuwo nawuphi na umba wentsebenziswano yakho.
3. Ukunyaniseka, Kungeyomfuneko
Uyaqonda ukuba ukunye nawe kuba efuna ukuba nawe, kwaye hayi ngenxa yokuba efuna ukuba, akunjalo?
Unokuba nokungazithembi malunga nokuba nesidalwa esinamandla kangaka, kodwa uqashele ntoni? Wakhetha wena. Akakudingi.
Akalilangazeleli iqabane, akazimiseli nabani na ukuze angabi yedwa: ulungile xa ehamba yedwa, kwaye angathanda ukuba yedwa kunokuba nomntu ongonwabanga kakuhle naye.
Lo ayingomfazi ozakukhala xa uphuma nabahlobo bakho kuba uyakukhumbula xa ungekho iyure, kwaye akakwazi kusebenza ngaphandle kokuba ube yintsika yakhe yenkxaso.
Usenokufuna ukuba ubekhona kuye ngamaxesha obunzima, njengoko ebezakubakhona, kodwa iyafana. Ayikho i-ragdoll enqwenela ukuba iqhutywe kwaye ifakwe ikhowudi.
4. Inkuthazo noCelomngeni
Khumbula into ebesiyithethile ngasentla ngokubhekisele kwi-zero BS? Oko kubandakanya ukuvumela ukuba uzenzele izizathu zokuba kutheni ungalandeli iinjongo zakho.
Lo mfazi uyabazi ubuchule bakho kwaye uyazi ukuba uyakwazi ntoni: iimpawu ezinokubangela ukuba aqale kuwe.
Ukuba ufumanisa kwislump, ndidimazekile , kwaye uswele inkuthazo yokulandela iphupha okanye enye into, uya kuba ngumphathi wetotshi ogcina idangatye livutha phantsi komva wakho wokugcina uqhubeka.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Iimpawu ezi-9 zoMfazi oLungileyo weAlfa
- Iimpawu ze-12 Uthandana nomntu weBeta (kwaye Kutheni le nto iyinto elungileyo)
- Iimpawu ze-13 unobuntu obomeleleyo obunokoyikisa abanye abantu
- Ungamxelela njani ukuba intombazana iyakuthanda: Iimpawu ezicacileyo ezili-12 ukuye
- Yintoni Abafazi Abayifunayo Kwindoda: Izinto ezi-3 eziphambili ezenza ukuba izinto zoMyeni
5. Ukuzithemba
Ukuba uhlala uphupha ngokuba yi-knight kwizikrweqe ezikhanyayo kwintombazana ekubandezelekeni, akuyiyo into oya kuyifumana kule ntsebenziswano.
Umfazi wakho weAlfa akayena inkosazana odinga ukonga: uyindlovukazi ezisindisayo, kwaye uza kuyitshisa ngomlilo xa kufuneka njalo.
Akunakulindeleka ukuba ufowunelwe ezinzulwini zobusuku kuba uyakudinga ukuba uze kumchola kwimeko ethile engaqhelekanga, nangona ekhulelwe, ANGAKUcela ukuba umqhubele esibhedlele xa izithintelo zakhe iqalile.
Ibhegi yakhe sele izakupakishwa, nangona kunjalo, ke ngekhe kufuneke ukhathazeke ngaloo nto. Owu, kwaye isihlalo somntwana sele siza kufakwa emotweni yakho, kuba naye uyakuyikhathalela lonto.
I-brock lesnar vs i-braun strowman
6. Ukwazisa ngento ayifunayo, kunye nokuBuyiselwa
Umfazi wakho weAlfa unolwazi olomeleleyo oluqinisekileyo ngento ayithandayo, nokuba yi-bagel emenyezelwe ngobhontshisi enesonka samasi se-anyanisi kuso, okanye isikhundla esithile xa usondelelene.
Ingakumbi eyokugqibela.
Ayisiyiyo kuphela le ntokazi ukuba yintoni eyenza ukuba ikhamise, ayinangxaki kwaphela ngokukuxelela into efunekayo ukuze yenzeke.
Njengokuba kunjalo, abafazi be-Alpha bahlala bonwabela ukupha kanye njengokufumana, ke unokuqiniseka ukuba xa umxelela into oyithandayo, uya kunyanzeleka.
Emveni kwakho konke, yintoni inqaku lokusondelelana ukuba bobabini abantu abazonwabisi?
7. Unayo iMva yakho
Kubudlelwane kunye nomfazi ka-Alfa, ke, unayo inkxaso yakhe kunye namandla akhe nakweyiphi na into enokukuphosa ngayo ebomini.
Lo ayingomfazi oza kubuya umva ebunzimeni: uyakuba secaleni kwakho ngamaxesha anzima, nokuba kungokugula, ukusweleka kosapho, ubunzima beemvakalelo, okanye elinye inani lezilingo onokuthi ujongane nalo.
ukuba wenzeni xa udikiwe endlini
Ayilulo uhlobo lokusika nokubaleka xa izinto zizaliseka, kodwa endaweni yoko, yima ujongane nayo nantoni na ojamelene nayo, njengeqabane lakho.
Usenokude akhwaze umphathi wakho kuwe, ukuba oko kuyafuneka. Yitsho nje.
8. Ukunyaniseka
Lo mntu kufuneka athethwe, njengoko kubaluleke ngokungaqhelekanga xa kufikwa kubudlelwane kunye neAlfa female.
Siye sayiphinda indlela eli nenekazi elixabise ngayo ukuthembeka, kunye nokunyaniseka kubudlelwane- kunye naye-kubalulekile ngokufanayo.
Xa ubandakanyeka emfazini onje, yazi ukuba awuzukufumanisa nje ngenye imini ukuba izinto bezingakhange zisebenze okwethutyana, okanye ebesoloko enamajita nomphathi wakho ngasemva kwakho.
Ukuba kukho imiba kubudlelwane bakho efuna ukusetyenzwa kuyo, uya kuthembeka kwaye achaze ngokucacileyo malunga nawe ukuze ukwazi ukuyilungisa ngokufanelekileyo kwaye usebenze kuyo kunye.
Ukuba uyayilahla le nto, uya kuyinyusa kwakhona, kwaye anyanzelise ukuba izinto zithande ukuba njalo. Akayi kushiya nje isifundo, kodwa uya kwenza into ekufuneka yenziwe ukulungisa izinto…
Kodwa ukuba kuyabonakala ukuba inguye kuphela owenza iinzame ezinyanisekileyo zokwenza utshintsho, uya kuhamba.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba unyaniseke kuye, nokuba yintoni umcimbi. Ukuba ukhathazekile, okanye awonwabanga, okanye unento nje oza kuyidibanisa njengesibini, yibeke etafileni ukuze kujongwane nayo.
Akayiyo intyatyambo ethe-ethe ezakukhala xa kusihla umnqwazi: ukunye nawe ngesizathu, kwaye uyakusebenzisana nawe ukulungisa izinto ezifuna ukulungiswa ukuze ubudlelwane busebenze.
Nyaniseka kuye, rhoqo.
Uya kwazi ukuba kukho into omfihlela yona, kwaye ukuba ukhe wamxokisa okanye aphule ukuthembana kwakhe, kuphelile: ayizukuphulukana nentlonipho kuwe kuphela, kodwa akasokuze akwazi ukukuthemba kwakhona.
