Ukuba ubambelela kwiingcinga ezinxulumene neAlfa, iBeta, njl.njl kubo bobabini abesilisa nabasetyhini ubuntu, kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhokelwe ekubeni ukholelwe ukuba i-alpha yowesifazane ibonisa iindlela ezithile zokulawula nokuziphatha okukhohlakeleyo.
Abasetyhini be-Alpha bachazwe njengabalawulayo, abakhohlisayo, abanesondo, abazithobayo, kunye nabathumileyo, kodwa ezo ziimpawu eziboniswa ngabantu abafuna ngamandla ukulawula, kodwa kungenjalo.
UKUYA ngokwenene UAlfa obhinqileyo unokuba no ubuntu olomeleleyo , kodwa yintoni emenza inkokeli, yintoni ekhuthaza ukukhuthala kwakhe kunye nokuzimisela, kukuziqonda, kunye nenjongo.
1. Udibanisa abantu.
Umfazi weAlfa unokuba sisiseko 'esiphambili' kwisangqa sakhe sentlalo, kwaye uyakuthanda ukudibanisa abantu. Kwimeko yeqela, njengepati okanye inkomfa yomsebenzi, uya kuqhuba isihlwele esijikeleze yena njengeokhestra. Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, unokufumana umhlaba oqhelekileyo, unokuzola uxinzelelo, akhuthaze incoko emnandi, kwaye abenze abo bamngqongileyo bakhululeke.
Uyakwazi ukubona iAlfa yokwenyani nakweyiphi na indawo ekuhlaleni, kuba wonke umntu omjikelezileyo uya kuhlala ejonge kwicala lakhe lezinto zentlalo.
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2. Uyayimela into akholelwa kuyo.
Uninzi lwabantu luzama ukuthulisa abafazi abanamandla ngokubathuka okanye ngokubasongela, kwaye eli nenekazi alinakuba Nanto kuloo nto. Ayilulo uhlobo lokuba nekratshi okanye umntu ongakwaziyo ukunganyamezeli konke-konke, kodwa, endaweni yoko, unesimo esomeleleyo sobulungisa kunye noxanduva, kwaye akazukubamba ulwimi phambi kobulungisa.
Oku kusenokwenzeka ukuba kuye kwabangela abanye ukuba bamqwalasele “njengonobunzima,” kodwa ngenene kukuba akazimvu zingenankathalo, zingenangqondo, kwaye zithobela ezonwabileyo ukulandela umhlambi wonke. Uyayazi eyakhe ingqondo, uzifundisile kwizifundo ezibalulekileyo kuye, kwaye uya kuba nenxaxheba kwimicimbi egcina umlilo wakhe wangaphakathi uvutha.
Uya kuhlala ufumana abafazi beAlfa kwiinkqubo zokufikelela eluntwini, okanye imibutho eyahlukeneyo engenzi nzuzo ekhonza okuhle ngakumbi.
3. Ukomelela.
Ubomi bunokumkhahlela phantsi amatyeli ambalwa, kodwa uzibonakalisile ukuba ubuya njani nakweyiphi na imeko azifumene ekuyo. Inokuba ujongene nokugula, ukungabikho kobulungisa, iimeko zokuhlukumeza, ubuhlwempu, okanye nalo naliphi na elinye inani leziphazamiso ezibi, kodwa yena unyamezele kuyo, kwaye uya kuphinda, ukuba kufanelekile. Kuyo yonke le nto, uya kugcina imeko yenjongo- nokuba nethemba- kwaye yena. ndiza kuthanda. hayi. nika. phezulu.
4. Unyanisekile kwisizwe sakhe.
Ukuba ulufumene uthando kunye nokunyaniseka kwabasetyhini beAlfa, unokuqiniseka ukuba uyithatha njengengcwele. Uya kukukhusela, ame ecaleni kwakho xa umfuna, kwaye uya kuba lapho kuwe ebunzimeni nasebubini. Ukuba wenza isithembiso kuwe, kuphela kwezizathu zokuba esoqhekeza eso sifungo kukuba akakwazi, okanye akasekho.
Unokuba nabantu abaninzi abamaziyo, kodwa u-Alpha oqhelekileyo ungumfazi kuphela unabahlobo abambalwa abasondeleyo awabavumeleyo ukungena ngaphakathi, ngokungathi kunjalo. Nangona enako ukuseka ubudlelwane kunye naye nabani na, njengoko ephatha ngeenxa zonke kuye ngentlonipho nangentlonelo, akathembi ngokulula. Xa umntu efumene ukuthembana kwakhe, uya kubajonga 'njengentsapho' kwaye uya kwenza nantoni na kubo.
Ngokufana ne-alpha wolf female, uziva eyomeleleyo uxanduva kwabo bakwipakethi yakhe. Uyakwenza oko kufunekayo ukugcina beqinile, besempilweni kwaye bekhuselekile.
5. Uyazithemba kwisiqu sakhe nakwizakhono zakhe.
Imbono engacacanga yeAlphas kukuba ziyi-cocky kwaye zincinci abanekratshi , kodwa oku akunjalo.
Umfazi wethu u-Alpha uqinisekile ukuba ungubani kwaye unakho ukwenza ntoni, kodwa akazigwagwisi okanye afune ukunconywa nokuqwalaselwa kuko.
Endaweni yoko, uhamba ethe cwaka ngobomi bakhe nohlobo lokuzithemba okumnika amandla angaphakathi kunye noxolo lwangaphakathi. Ukungathandabuzeki akude ixesha elide engqondweni yakhe xa ezikhumbuza ngokwakhe into anokuyenza.
6. Uyazihlonipha kwaye unesidima.
Ukuba owasetyhini oyinyani u-Alpha uzifumana ekwimeko apho kuya kufuneka abeke bucala imigaqo-nkqubo yakhe ukuze onwabe abanye abantu, unokuqiniseka ukuba uyakubeka ecaleni oko kulindelweyo ukuze agcine ukuzihlonipha kwakhe. Akayi kulalanisa imigaqo yakhe.
Ngokufanayo, uya kuziphatha ngendlela ethile yesidima kunye nobabalo. Ukuba ukwiminyaka ethile, akunakulindeleka ukuba anxibe iimpahla zentombi yakhe ukuzama ukubambelela kulutsha, kodwa endaweni yoko uza kunxiba impahla emenza azive emhle kwaye enamandla.
Lo ngumfazi ongazukugoba kwiindlela ezihlekisayo zokufumana ingqalelo yomnye umntu: ukuba umntu othethiweyo akabeki xesha okanye umzamo wokumazi, makube njalo. Banokuzisola ngexa abalikhethileyo, ngekungaba… kodwa nokuba kunjalo, uzibeke yena kuqala. Njengoko kufanelekile.
7. Ufuna ukukhula afunde.
Ukuzithemba kwakhe kuvumela umntu obhinqileyo u-Alpha ukuba anyuke kuzo zonke iintlobo zemiceli mngeni, kwaye unomdla wokutshatisa amandla akhe.
Uhlala ejonge isifundo kwizinto kwaye uzabalazela ukuba ngcono kwaye enze ngcono. Nangona anelisekile ngulo mntu ayiyo, uyazi ukuba kukho uvuyo olufumanekayo ekuzikhuliseni kunakwisiqhelo.
iimpawu zokuxelela ukuba intombazana iyakuthanda
Uhlala kumda wobugcisa bakhe, ufunda uluhlu olubanzi lwezifundo, kwaye ubukela amaxwebhu amaninzi. Zonke ezi ziyanceda ukumila kwaye zinike oko akufunayo ukuze akhule.
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8. Uphila ngenyaniso yakhe.
Lo mfazi unokuphila ubomi obungahambelaniyo abanye abangayiqondiyo, kwaye ulungile ngokupheleleyo kuloo nto. Abanye abantu banokuhlebeza ngasemva kwakhe, bamgwebe ngokungathathi ukhetho olufanayo nobomi ababelwenzile, bahlekise ngefashoni yakhe, kwaye ngokubanzi abaqondi nje ukuba angaphila kanjani ngendlela aphila ngayo… kodwa izimvo zabo azinamsebenzi. Inyaniso yakhe yeyakhe. Ukuphela kwe-.
9. Akabeki abanye abafazi phantsi.
Abanye abantu basetyhini ababizwa ngokuba ngu “Alphas” badume ngokuba nenkohlakalo kwabanye abantu, ingakumbi abanye abantu basetyhini. Baye baboniswa njengabanekati, ukugweba izidalwa eziza kuhlekisa ngezinye iinketho zabasetyhini kunye nokuthotywa kwabaphantsi kwabo eofisini ukubonisa nje ukuba bangabaphathi.
UAlfa oyinyani akanamsebenzi walolu hlobo nzulu ngamampunge.
Uyazazi ukuba ungubani kwaye wafika njani apho, kwaye kunokwenzeka kakhulu ukuba akhuthaze abo abona ukuba kunokwenzeka. Uya kunyuka ileli ngokukhawuleza, kwaye xa esenza njalo, angathanda abafazi abanobuchule, abazithembileyo ukuba balandele ekhondweni lakhe.
Uyazi ukuba ugwetyiwe ukuba ekuphela kwexesha ajongele ngalo umntu kuxa athe wamnika isandla sokumnceda, kwaye akanasidingo sokuqinisa ukuzithemba kwakhe ngokuzama ukutyumza eyomnye umntu.
10. Uyasebenza.
Lo mfazi uthatha inkunzi ngeempondo zayo kwaye uqinisekisa impembelelo yakhe ebomini.
Akalindi ukuba izinto zenzeke, yena yenza ziyenzeka. Ungumenzi, wenza izicwangciso kwaye azilandele, ubeka iinjongo kwaye azisebenzele ukuziguqula zibe yinyani.
Uhlala engamandla okuqhuba kwiqela labantu, eququzelela iminyhadala, ecebisa ngezimvo, eqinisekisa ukuba izinto ziyenziwa.
11. Uyala ukudlala imidlalo.
Oku kuhamba nenyaniso yokuba uya kuthetha ngengqondo yakhe kwaye avakalise into ayifunayo: akanamsebenzi kwaphela kwimidlalo, kwaye uyala ukuyidlala.
Akanawo umonde wokwenza into eyodwa phakathi kwabahlobo bakhe, imidlalo yamandla eofisini, okanye intlebendwane, ngakumbi ukuba ayilunganga. Ukuba umntu othile uzama ukudlala nzima ukuze afumane ubudlelwane ukuze amgxothe, uya kuthi 'f * ck leyo,' athathe enye into, kwaye achithe ubusuku ngokuzonwabisa.
Akayi kubandakanyeka kubundlongondlongo nje, okanye ukuzama ukwenza omnye umntu abe nomona ukuba uziva ukuba akafumani ngqwalaselo yaneleyo. Akanazo neentloni zokuba avuleke kakhulu kwaye anxibelelane nabantu malunga nendlela aziva ngayo kunye nezinto azifunayo, kwaye ulindele ukuba abanye baziphathe kwinqanaba elifanayo lokukhula.
Kwintsebenziswano-nokuba yeyeshishini okanye yeyomntu-ufuna ukulingana. Ayinguye umntu oza kuzama ukunciphisa amadangatye akhe, okanye umntu ofuna ukuba abe ngumama ongumama. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba sele ebalekile ukuhamba, wafunda kubo, kwaye wathi 'ngekhe aphinde.'
12. Ukhokela ngaphakathi kwiqela.
Ngaphandle kwento abantu abaninzi abayicingayo, umfazi weAlfa akakhokeleli ngaphambili, ukhokelela ngaphakathi.
Ukhuthaza ilungu ngalinye leqela ukuba lizalisekise amandla alo kwaye liqiniseke ukuba abantu basebenzisana ngokufanelekileyo ukugqiba umsebenzi.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, unika abathunywa, kodwa akaluphephi uxanduva kwaye unakho- kwaye uya kubambeka nakweyiphi na into ekufuneka eyenzile. Oogxa bakhe okanye abo badlala naye bayayithanda le nto kwaye banomdla wokunyusa umdlalo wabo ukuze bahambisane nomzamo wakhe.
13. Uthobekile.
Akukho mntu uya kwenza iimpazamo. Akukhomntu ogqibelele. Sonke siyazenza iimpazamo, u-Alpha okanye hayi.
Kodwa u-alfa oyinyani akoyiki ukusilela kwakhe. Akazami ukutyhola nabani na okanye nantoni na eyenye ukuba ngenene yeyakhe.
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Unokuvuma xa ephosakele okanye xa esilele ukufikelela kulindelo oluphezulu.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuzithemba kwakhe ngokuzithemba kuthetha ukuba akanazintloni zokukhubeka nokuwa kuba uyazi ukuba angaphakama, azivuthulule, azame kwakhona.
14. Akoyikiswa ngamadoda.
UAlfa obhinqileyo ujonga indoda njengomnye umntu kwaye angaziva engaphantsi okanye esoyikiswa.
Uyakwazi ukuzibamba egumbini eligcwele amadoda ukuba kukho imfuneko yoko, kwaye akuqhelekanga ukumbona engena kwimimandla yobudoda eyomeleleyo emsebenzini nasemidlalweni.
Uwaphatha ngembeko amadoda, kodwa ufuna inqanaba elifanayo lentlonelo libuyele kubo.
15. Uya kuhamba ukuba kuyimfuneko.
Umfazi weAlfa onyanisekileyo kuye kunye neemfuno zomphefumlo wakhe uyaqonda ukuba uyimbumba kuye, kwaye angakwazi ukuhamba kuyo nantoni na ukuba uyafuna. Imeko, ukuthandana, isixeko… ukuba uphethwe kakubi okanye akahlonitshwa, akanalo uloyiko malunga nokupakisha kunye nokuhamba ukuze anyaniseke kuye.
Usenokuba ngumntu owomeleleyo kakhulu, ozithembileyo, nonamandla, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba akanaluvelwano okanye ukhohlakele. Ukuba yiAlfa yindalo / ulungelelwaniso lokondla: abanye abantu basetyhini bazalwa benazo ezi mpawu, ngelixa abanye bezikhulisa ebomini babo.
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Nangona kunjalo umfazi uguqukele ekubeni ngumfazi oyinyani weAlfa, qiniseka ngale nto: unokuba nomonde kwaye anyamezele okwethutyana, kodwa ukuba umtyhalela kude kakhulu, ayizukuhamba kuphela: uya kuqinisekisa ukuba akukho ndlela isihogo sokuba uza kumlandela naphina apho aya khona.
Ukuba umfazi ukrwada, uyalawula, ufuna ngenkani, okanye ukhohlakele kwabanye, kunokwenzeka ukuba akanguye u-Alfa wokwenyani konke konke. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ngumntu ongakhuselekanga ngokumangalisayo owonzakeleyo kumanqanaba amaninzi, kwaye imiba yakhe enzulu ibonakalise indlela yokuziphatha enobundlongondlongo, ukungazithembi ngokuqinisekileyo.
Khumbula ukuba izinja ezincinci ziyarhola kwaye zilume kwaye zikhonkxe kwabo babangqongileyo kuba zinobunzima obuphantsi kakhulu.
Iingcuka azenzi njalo.
Akukho mfuneko.
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