'I-Sigma eyindoda' isenokungabi ligama olibonayo, kodwa ulungile ukuba ungazibona iimpawu zento enye - nokuba kumhlobo okanye kuwe!
Uninzi lwethu yenza izigwebo ngokukhawuleza malunga ne-alpha yamadoda (abanekratshi kunye no-extroverted) kunye Ububi be-beta (ndineentloni kwaye ndingenisile), nangona ezi zingasoloko zichanekile.
Kodwa kuthekani ngamadoda angama-sigma? Yintoni ebenza bahluke?
Yintoni iSigma Male?
Ukubeka nje, ngekhe ukwazi ukukhomba i-sigma eyindoda kwangoko.
Ayilulo uhlobo lwepikoko ejikeleze, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba acinezelwe kwikona ezenza ngathi ayikho.
Bavame ukonwaba nje ngokwabo kwaye baqhubeke nezinto zabo, oko kuthetha ukuba abemi mpela.
Khawufane ucinge isikali sabantu-i-alphas sisiphelo esinye sobubanzi kwaye kulula ukufumanisa ukuba ii-betas zikwelinye icala kwaye, njengoko bezama ukuzifihla, kulula kakhulu ukuzibona.
ukukhula njani ukukhula
IiSigmas? Ukulala phakathi ngendlela eyimfihlakalo…
1. Umvukeli ngaphandle kwesizathu - ii-sigma zesilisa azihambelani ncam. Hayi kuba befuna ukwenza enye indlela kwaye bavele, kodwa ngenxa yokuba banokhetho- kwaye bayenza eyona nkululeko.
Abesilisa beAlfa badla ngokwenza izinto ngomboniso, ezinje ngokuzibekisa 'ngenkwenkwe embi,' ngelixa ii-sigmas zikwenza nje ngokungagqibeki.
2. Uyakwenza - olu hlobo lomntu alukhathazeki ngokubanzi ngokuba kwiqela okanye kwiqela. Endaweni yoko, bonwabile ukwenza into yabo kwaye bamatsha ukuya kwisingqi segubu labo.
I-Betas inokonwaba xa ithatha inxaxheba ekuthobeleni kuba ihlala inomdla, kodwa isigmas ngokuqinisekileyo ayikhathali!
ungaphaya kokuziva ungathandeki
3. Amadoda angaqondakaliyo Iigama zesigma zihlala ziyimfihlakalo. Ngenxa yokuba abafuni ukuhambelana okanye ukuma ngaphandle, bayimfihlakalo epheleleyo.
Awunakuziqonda, nto leyo ekwenza ukuba ufune nangakumbi… Unokuthelekelela indlela ii-alphas ezinokuzama ngayo ukuziva malunga nazo.
4. Ukuya nokhozo -Ukuchasana nemigaqo ayisiyiyo inzame yokuma ngaphandle okanye ukuba ngumvukeli kumadoda angama-sigma. Yindlela nje yokusebenzisa inkululeko yabo kunye nokusilela kwabo kukhathalelo xa kuziwa kukungena.
I-Betas zihlala zineentloni kude nengqwalaselo kwaye zifuna ukudibanisa imvelaphi ngaphandle kokuxakeka - oku akunjalo kumadoda angama-sigma, njengoko befuna ixesha labo bodwa.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Iimbono ezi-6 eziPhosakeleyo Abantu abaninzi banazo malunga namadoda eBeta
- Iimpawu ezi-9 zoMfazi oLungileyo weAlfa
- Iimpawu ezi-6 zaBantu abaNomdla ngokwenene
5. Ukuphila ngendlela eyingozi - olu hlobo lendoda luthanda ukwenza le nto bayifunayo. Oku kunxibelelana nengqondo yabo yokuba ngabantu babo kwaye bangahambelani.
Kananjalo, banokuhlala befumana ngokungakhathali- kwaye ngesizathu esihle! Ukuhamba ngokuchasene nesiqhelo ngamanye amaxesha kunokuthetha ngokuchasene nomthetho. Lumkela la mafutha ...
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6. Ngengozi abstract - ii-sigma zamadoda zibonakaliswa yinto yokuba bazama ukudibanisa (oku akufani nokuthi 'kufanelekile'). Endaweni yokuba beme ngakumbi nangakumbi kuba babonakala bemangalisa kakhulu.
Amadoda eBeta angenza konke okusemandleni ukuhambelana, ii-alphas zifuna ukuba yintloko yepakethi, kunye ne-sigmas ngokungathandabuzekiyo bayayamkela ipakethi.
7. Indoda ezimeleyo - olu hlobo lwendoda aluxhomekekanga kwabanye abantu. Oku akuthethi ukuba abakhathali ngabahlobo abasondeleyo, usapho, okanye amaqabane. Kuthetha nje ukuba abantu bayinxalenye eyongezelelweyo yobomi babo kunokuba ibe yeyona nto kugxilwe kuyo.
Endaweni yokuxhomekeka kwabanye abantu, bayaqhubeka nobomi babo.
8. Iingcinga ezinzulu - amadoda angama-sigma athanda ukuba neengqondo zokuhlalutya kakhulu, funda: ukujonga ngaphezulu! Bazi okrelekrele kakhulu , ke cinga izinto kwaye ungene phantsi kwi-nitty gritty.
Basebenza ngeendlela zokwenza thintela umdlalo nengqwalaselo, ukuzigcina kubucala kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, kuyimfihlakalo…
9. Inani eliqhekezayo - amadoda alolu hlobo ayonwabela ixesha lawo elizolileyo. Ukuthula kuyigolide ngokwenene kula manene, kwaye bayonwabela ixesha lodwa .
umboniso omkhulu ujingle yonke indlela
Bonwabile ngokwaneleyo ukuba babe kwindawo yeqela ngaphandle kokuba igalelo alifuneki ngokwenene. Kananjalo, nayiphi na iminikelo abayenzayo kufuneka bayimamele.
Abathuli ngenxa yeentloni okanye ukungonwabi, abafuni nje ukuchitha amandla kwinto engenantsingiselo.
Oku kwahlulahlula kwi-alpha yamadoda esemgangathweni ethanda ukuhambisa imisipha ngendlela yabo kwiincoko.
10. Icookie efanelekileyo -Oku kuyayichukumisa imeko yabo yohlalutyo, kwaye kuyacaca ukuba iyacacisa. Olu hlobo lwengcuka eyedwa luhlala lulambele ulwazi, nokuba luyinyani okanye luziphethe ngoontanga bakhe.
Ungamnika njani umntu indawo yakhe
Amadoda eSigma athambekele ekubeni akrelekrele njengoko enengqondo ethanda ukugaya zonke iintlobo zolwazi- bahlala benememori eyomeleleyo yenyani kunye nezibalo, kodwa banokufunda nabani na ngokujonga kube kanye.
Abazi kangako ngokwasemphefumlweni njengamadoda amaninzi e-beta, kodwa banokuqonda okuhle ngokuziphatha kunye neemvakalelo zabantu ngokuzijonga nje.
11. Uhlobo olomeleleyo, oluthe cwaka - abesilisa besigma banobukrelekrele, njengoko kuxoxiwe, kodwa uninzi lwazo alunazo izakhono zentlalo I-alpha yamadoda. Amandla abo amaninzi achitha ukuhlalutya iimeko kunye nokufunxa ulwazi, ke akusoloko kukho indawo eninzi yezakhono zentlalo.
Oku akuthethi ukuba bayadika ukuba kufutshane, nje ukuba awunakulindela ubuntu obufanayo obuya kufumana ne-alpha.
12. Inomdla kwaye inomdla - ii-sigmas zihlala zikhangela amava amatsha kunye nolwazi. Iingqondo zabo zihlala zilambele izinto ezintsha, ke baneendlela zabo zokufumana ngakumbi malunga nabanye abantu.
Oku kongeza kuphela emoyeni wabo wemfihlakalo kwaye kubenza babe nomtsalane ngakumbi kwabafazi abaninzi. Bavame ukudibanisa ukuqhayisa okucingelwayo kwe-alphas (nangona kungenjongo!) Kunye nokuzola kwamadoda e-beta.
13. Iingcuka ezihamba zodwa - kwakhona, abesilisa besigma abafuni ukuba kulo naluphi na uhlobo lwepakethi. Akukho mfuneko yokuba balandele nabani na kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo abafuni ukuba abantu babalandele.
Ngelixa i-betas bonwabile ngokulandela kwizithunzi zomntu kunye nee-alphas bonwabile ekhokelela phambili, i-sigmas ngokungakhathali iyazityeshela ezi ngqondo kwaye uqhubeke nje nayo.
