Ngeli xesha, apho uguquko ludunyiswa kwaye ukuzifunxa kubonakala kungoyena ndoqo wazo zonke izinto, iAlfa Male ibonwa njengeyona nto ibambekayo.
Umtsalane , ukuzithemba, ukuthetha phandle, ukuba ndlongondlongo ngokwesini, kwaye ihlala iyinto encinci ye-badass, u-Alpha Guy luhlobo uninzi lwabasetyhini abaqeqeshelwe ukulufuna kwaye 'baphumelele.'
Ewe, kulungile, kodwa kwenzeka ntoni xa umfumene? Ukuzithemba okwakufunyenwe kuqala kunomtsalane kuvela ekubeni nekratshi. Ukonwaba ekuphumeleleni lo mfo kuguqula ngokukhawuleza kukukhathazeka kunye noxinzelelo xa esenza kucace ukuba unjalo ngaphezulu kokufikelela kuneqabane lokwenyani .
Amadoda eBeta luhlobo olwahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo, kwaye enza amaqabane angcono ngakumbi ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi. Ngokwabalinganiswa beTV, cinga ngo-Sam Winchester endaweni ka-Dean kwi-Supernatural, okanye u-Jamie Fraser wase-Outlander.
Ukuba ubona uninzi lwezi mpawu kulomfo wakho, unokuba kumhlaba weBeta… kwaye yinto entle kakhulu leyo.
1. Ufuna ngokunyanisekileyo ukuchitha ixesha nawe
Ngokungafaniyo nomfo ka-Alpha, oya kuthi umve ngokwenene xa kuthe kwavela isimilo, umfana weBeta wenza iinzame zokwazisa ukuba ucinga ngawe kwaye angathanda ukukubona.
Unokufumana isicatshulwa esingahleliwe embindini wemini nje ukuba ubulise, nokuba sisithombe nje esisidenge sento acinga ukuba inokwenza uncume, kwaye uya kuqinisekisa ukubuza ukuba injani na ishedyuli yakho ninokucwangcisa ixesha kunye.
Amathuba okuba ade aye kumnyhadala wokunitha okanye achukumise umzi wezilwanyana kunye nawe kwaye onwabe ngokwenza njalo, kwaye uya konwaba ukuba uya kuhamba naye ukuya eComic Con.
2. Uyalukhumbula usuku lwakho lokuzalwa
… Nezikhumbuzo, kunye nosuku lokuzalwa lukanyoko, kunye neyona ice cream yomntwana wakho, kunye nazo zonke ezinye iinkcukacha ezenza ukuba ukrazule xa uqaphela ukuba lo mfana uyakhathala.
Kwaye uyayenza.
iimpawu ukuba umhle ntombazana
I-Betas zinemvakalelo, kwaye ukuba kukho into ebalulekileyo kuwe, kubalulekile nakubo, nokuba kubonakala kungabalulekanga.
3. Ukwabelana ngesondo akuyiyo injongo ephambili
Uyonwabela isondo ngokungathi ngumfo olandelayo, kodwa ulunge ngokupheleleyo nangokukhapha xa ubukele imovie. Akahlali nje nawe kuba efuna ukuphuma: uyayonwabela inkampani yakho, incoko yakho, kwaye nokuhleka okuhlekisayo kuyadlala ngelixa udlala iiCards Against Humanity okanye ezifanayo.
Kodwa sithetha ngesondo…
4. Uneliso Ebhedini
Amadoda eAlfa athambekele ekubekeni ezabo iimfuno kunye nokukhetha njengezona zinto ziphambili, kwaye babeke kancinci (ukuba kukho) iinzame zokukholisa amaqabane abo. Ukulawula kwabo kunye nobukhali kunokuba kukujika ngamanye amaxesha, kodwa konke malunga nokuba yintoni bona njenge. Nje ukuba bagqibe, bagqibile.
Iqabane lakho eliyindoda leBeta liza kuthatha ixesha lokufumanisa ukuba yintoni ekholisayo kuwe, kwaye eneneni lifuna ukuqiniseka ukuba uyazonwabela njengaye.
5. Unxibelelwano lubalulekile kuye
Endaweni yokuhambisa amehlo okanye ukufumana into ebaluleke ngakumbi ekufuneka uyikhathalele xa ufuna ukuthetha naye ngento ethile, umfana wakho weBeta uya kuthatha ixesha lokumamela kwaye asebenze nawe ukusombulula imiba enokuvela.
Ngaphezu koko, uya kuva ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba yintoni na le umxelela yona, kwaye akazukukrwela nje kule nto uyithethayo njengobuninzi bokukhathazeka okanye ukukhathazeka ngokungeyomfuneko.
Ngapha koko, amathuba okuba xa kukho into avakalelwa kukuba ifuna ukuthethwa, uyakuthetha nawe ngayo: ngekhe ayigalele kwaye ayicaphukise de ekugqibeleni aqhume kwaye / okanye aphelise ubudlelwane . Uya kunxibelelana, nokuba oko kubandakanya ndinibhalela iileta okanye ii-imeyile malunga nesihloko ukuba unxibelelwano ngomlomo lubonakala lunzima kakhulu.
6. Unobuchule
Amadoda e-Beta ahlala enezinto zokuzonwabisa okanye ezokuzonwabisa ezinento yokwenza nobuchule, nokuba kukupheka, ukusebenza ngomthi, umculo, njl. Njl. .
Kwelinye icala, ukuba uyenza icace kuye ukuba uzikhathalele izinto azithandayo, uya kukhanya kwaye akubonise ngomdla oko asebenza kuko.
indlela yokwenza ixesha lihambe ngokukhawuleza ekhaya
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Ukuthandana nomnye umntu onexhala: Izinto ezi-4 zokwenza (kwaye ezi-4 AKUZUKWENZA)
- Imibuzo esi-7 yokuBuza ukuba Ngokwenene Wazi uMntu
- Iimpawu eziqinisekileyo zoThando lwakho loMntu azifuneki (Kwaye kufuneka wenze ntoni ngayo)
- Izakhono ezi-5 zoNxibelelwano eziBalulekileyo kuMsebenzi wakho, ubudlelwane kunye nobomi
- Iimpawu ezili-13 zeSigma Maduna ezibabeka bodwa ngaphandle kwabanye
- Ungamxelela njani umntu obathandayo ngaphandle kokuba kube nzima
7. Ulungile Ukuhlala Ekhaya Endaweni Yokuphuma
UAlfa dude uhlala efuna ukulungiswa rhoqo, kwaye oku kubandakanya ukoyiswa esidlangalaleni. Ukuba ufuna ukukhupha naye, kusenokwenzeka kuba ekujonga njengeelekese zengalo kwaye ufuna ukukubonisa njengesixhobo somzuzu.
Ukuba unendoda yeBeta, ngokuqinisekileyo, uyaziqhenya ngokubonakala kunye nawe xa niphuma kunye, kodwa naye upholile ngokungena kwiimpahla ezimnandi kunye noku-odola ukuthatha ngelixa ubukela i-Netflix esofeni yakho.
Ngapha koko, unokukhetha kakuhle ukuba, njengoko niza kuchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye kwaye niyonwabele intwana yekhaya.
8. Amakhaya aBalked At
Lo ayingomfana oza kwenza izizathu zokuba kutheni engakwazi ukwenza isabelo sakhe somsebenzi wasekhaya, okanye akhalaze kakhulu xa umba wasekhaya ufuna ukukhathalelwa.
indlela yokujongana nobuxoki kubudlelwane
Xa kukho into ekufuneka yenziwe, uya kuyenza.
Ukuba nihlala kunye, uyakwenza izinto anokubona ukuba kufuneka zenziwe ngaphandle kokuba anyotyiwe, kwaye akazukufuna ukuba iinzame zakhe zamkelwe njengezinto ezithile ezizodwa.
9. Ungathembela Ngaye
Lo ngumfana onokuqiniseka ukuba uza kubakho xa umfuna, okanye ukunyuka ngamaxesha anzima endaweni yokubaleka. Awuyi kuthwala lonke ilizwe emagxeni akho, wedwa: uliqabane lokwenyani, hayi nje into yokudlala.
10. Uyazixabisa izinto ezincinci ozenzela yena
Abafana be-Alpha bahlala benemvakalelo yokuba xa usenza into emnandi okanye ethandekayo, baya kuyithatha kuba beziva ukuba bayifanele. Okanye, baya kuyigubungela, bajikeleze amehlo abo, kwaye bazive ngathi unamathele kakhulu ekuthandeni kwabo.
Umfana weBeta uya kuncuma xa efumana inowuthi oyityibilikileyo kwisidlo sakhe sasemini, uya kuyixabisa inyani yokuba uthathe ixesha lokufunda ukuba uyithanda njani ikofu yakhe. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba onwabele isipho esincinci osenzele sona endaweni yeqhekeza elibizayo, elibizayo oligcinele ukungqina ukuba umkhathalele kangakanani.
11. 'Ukuzibophelela' Ayisiyongcinga eyoyikisayo kuye
Ngelixa abafana beAlfa badla ukunqanda ukubamba iimvakalelo kwaye bakhethe ukuba nexesha elifutshane, ukungqubana okuqhelekileyo, amadoda eBeta anje ngombono wokuzibophelela emntwini nasekuhlakuleleni ubudlelwane bokwenyani kunye nabo.
Ukuba uwe kuwe, ungowakho.
Abafana beBeta kunokwenzeka ukuba bathembeke, njengoko ingqibelelo ithetha isihogo esikhulu kubo, kwaye bebengayi kufuna ukwenza nantoni na ukukuvisa ubuhlungu. Bayayithanda imbono yobambiswano lobomi kunye nomntu abamthandayo: ubuhlakani nomntu abanokukhula naye, kwaye bahlakulele ubomi obuhle.
12. Xa Esenzela Abanye Izinto Zobubele, Asikokuze Uqwalasele
I-Betas zihlala zilungile kubafana. Baza kuhlala bephuma ukwenza izinto ezincinci zobubele kwabanye abantu, kwaye bakhathalele ngokunyanisekileyo ukonwaba kwabanye kunye nokuba sempilweni.
Ukuba u-Alpha guy unika utshintsho kumntu ongenakhaya okanye avule ucango lomntu onempumelelo enkulu, uya kuhlala ejonga-bheka ukuze aqiniseke ukuba isenzo esinjalo siqwalaselwe kwaye samkelwe. Izenzo zakhe zonke zenzelwe umboniso, ukonyusa ukuzithemba kwakhe.
Ukuba umntu othandana naye unceda umntu-nokuba kukunceda umntu ongaboniyo awele isitalato, okanye enze umnikelo kwisisa ngaphandle kokukhwaza malunga nawo kwimidiya yoluntu-Kungenxa yokuba intliziyo yakhe ikwindawo elungileyo kwaye ufuna ukunceda .
Xa kuziwa kubunyani, ubudlelwane obunentsingiselo, abesilisa beBeta ngokuqinisekileyo yindlela yokuhamba. Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba ukunye nomfana obonisa uninzi lwezi mpawu, ukwazile ukukhawulela omnye wabafana abalungileyo.
