Wonke umntu ufuna ukuqondwa ngabo basondele kuye, kwaye lelinye lamava anzulu ububele into onokuyenza kukuthandana nolunye uhlobo lwabo.
Xa besebenzisana nolunye uluvo, baya kuba namava apho esinye isiqingatha sabo singabaqondi nje kuphela kwinqanaba elisisiseko, kodwa banokuziva ukuba baziva njani na.
Apha ngezantsi kukho ezinye zeenzuzo kunye neengozi ezenzeka xa ii-empaths zibini zidibana.
Eziluncedo:
Ukuqonda komphefumlo
Xa iqabane lakho lingafumani 'into oyithethayo', kodwa ungaziva ukuba uziva njani, uyakufumanisa ukuba bayakuqonda kwinqanaba ongakhange ucinge ukuba linokwenzeka.
Usenokuba uye wadlula ebomini uziva ngokungathi akekho omnye umntu onokunxibelelana ngokwenene nendlela ohlangabezana ngayo nehlabathi, ngakumbi ukuba uqhubekeka nezinto ezithile ngendlela eyahlukileyo, okanye unovakalelo lokukhuthaza, njl.
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Ngequbuliso kukho omnye umntu onokuziva ukuba unjani, kwaye nokuba bahluke kakhulu kuwe ngeendlela ezininzi kwaye abaliboni ilizwe ngale ndlela, banokubona ngamehlo akho, bazive ngolusu lwakho, nkqu okomzuzwana. Kwaye kukhulu kakhulu.
Leyo yenye yeemvakalelo ezintle kwihlabathi.
Ulonwabo ekwabelwana ngalo lulonwabo oluqinisekileyo
Uyazi xa usiya ngenene, NGOKWENENE wonwabile kwaye wonwabile ngento ethile kwaye ufuna ukwabelana ngolonwabo kunye nomntu omthandayo? Ewe, xa nobabini ningovelwano, yiloo nto kanye eyenzekayo.
Kufana…
Uyakhumbula ukuba ukuqhuma kwentaba-mlilo kwiklasi yesayensi xa wawusengumntwana? Xa uxube isoda kunye neviniga kunye kwaye bekukho i-WHOOSHsplosion enkulu? Ewe, injalo, kuphela ngovuyo kunye nolonwabo kunye nee-unicorn zebhabhathane ezibengezelayo kunye nezinto.
Uya kuba nabaHlebi beZilwanyana eziMangalisayo kunye
Inye into phantse zonke iimfesane ezifanayo luthando olunzulu lobuhlobo bezilwanyana.
Kunokuba nzima xa i-empath ikubudlelwane kunye ne-non-empath, kuba loo mntu unokungayiqondi indlela ekubaluleke ngayo ukuba neqabane elingelolamntu ekhaya.
Xa ii-empaths ezimbini zisakha ubomi kunye, kuqinisekisiwe ukuba kuya kubakho i-furred, feathery, kunye / okanye i-fishy friends ezabelana ngobomi bazo nawe.
Uya kufikelela esofeni uhleli kunye cwaka ngokukhululekileyo, ubambe amantshontsho akho okanye oonogada, okanye-ukuba unethamsanqa kwaye unethuba lokwenza njalo-ungagqibela usebenzisa uhlobo oluthile lwendawo yokugcina izilwanyana okanye ukuhlangula kunye.
Ngaba ayinakuba yinto entle leyo?
ungayibona njani inkawu ebhabha
Unonophelo olumangalisayo kunye noKukhulisa
Ii-empaths zihlala zibeka iimfuno zabanye abantu ngaphambi kwezazo, ke xa ii-empaths ezimbini zikubudlelwane, zikhathalelwe kakuhle.
Cinga ngako oku: ukuba ukonwaba kweqabane lakho yeyona nto iphambili kuwe, kwaye ukonwaba KWAKHO nokuba sempilweni zezona zinto ziphambili kubo, kwaye ungaziva iimvakalelo zomnye nomnye ukuze uxelele iimfuno zomnye nomnye… loo nto intle kakhulu.
Unokuba usemsebenzini ngengqele elusizi kwaye iqabane lakho liza kubonakala nge-thermos yesuphu ngenxa yokuba benemvakalelo yokuba niyayidinga.
Okanye unakho wothusa iqabane lakho ngepikniki ecwangcisiweyo okanye ukunyuka ehlathini kuba uye wabona ukuba badinga ixesha elithile ngaphandle.
Uya kulindela iimfuno zomnye nomnye, ngamanye amaxesha ngaphambi kokuba waziqaphele ngokwakho ukuba zithini na iimfuno zakho, kwaye isixa esikhulu sothando nenkathalo siya kuhamba phakathi kwakho.
Ukwabelana ngesondo kuyamangalisa
Ngaba wakha waba namava apho wena kunye nomthandi wakho nidibene kakhulu ukuba namandla-olumkileyo, awunakukwazi ukuxelela apho omnye wenu aphela khona kwaye omnye waqala? Oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukwenzeka kwi 'empath yesini.'
Uyayikhumbula loo nto malunga nokukwazi ukuqikelela iimfuno zabanye, kunye nokubeka phambili? Ewe, xa omabini la maqela egxile kulonwabo lomnye umntu, banokuziva ukuba bafuna / bafuna ntoni, kwaye bakho ngoku, ngalo mzuzu, bajolise komnye nomnye… akukho nxibelelwano injalo.
Ukusondelelana okunokwenzeka xa abantu ababini benokubumba amandla kwaye bazive ukuba omnye uziva njani akukho nto imfutshane ngommangaliso.
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Bendlela:
Iimvakalelo ezimbi ziyosulela
Ukuba yimpembelelo iyamangalisa xa ishukuma kakhulu, amandla 'onwabileyo' ajikeleza, kodwa xa esinye isiqingatha sakho ubunzima ngeemvakalelo ezinzima, banokukuchaphazela ngamandla.
Hayi kuba iqabane lakho likukhuphela ngaphandle, kodwa ngenxa yokuba unokuziva indlela abavakalelwa ngayo.
Kunganzima ukuhamba, ngakumbi ukuba kwaye xa kubonakala ngathi zilungile ngaphezulu komhlaba, kwaye uxhalabile okanye unomsindo kwaye ungazi ukuba ezi mvakalelo zivela phi.
Ukuziva uqhwithela lweemvakalelo ngaphandle kokukwazi ukubona apho zivela khona kunokuba yinto ephazamisayo, ngamanye amaxesha uyakufuna umgama omncinci womzimba ukuze ubuye ube noxolo.
… Injalo Nentlungu Yomzimba
Akuqhelekanga kwiimfesane ukuziva uvelwano xa abo basondele kubo bebuhlungu. Kungenxa yoko le nto usiva izinto ezinje ngovelwano kwiintlungu zomsebenzi xa elinye iqabane lizala kwaye elinye liziva.
Ukwazi ukuziva iintlungu zomzimba zabanye abantu kunokuba yinto engaqhelekanga, kwaye kunzima ukujongana nazo, ngakumbi ukuba baneemeko zentlungu engapheliyo njenge-arthritis okanye i-fibromyalgia. Ungazilawula njani iintlungu ezivela kwimeko ongenayo?
Banokuzazi izinto Ngawe Phambi kokuba ulungele ukubaxelela (OKANYE iVice Versa)
Uninzi lweemfesane zinokujonga umntu kwaye zikwazi ukufunda ibali lobomi babo kulusu lwabo, emehlweni abo, kumandla abo.
Oku kunokuba luncedo kakhulu ukuba umntu usebenza njengonyango kwaye azame ukunceda ukuphilisa abaguli ngokugqibeleleyo, kodwa kunokuba yinto enzima ukuhamba kubudlelwane.
Sonke sikhe sinexesha elinzima, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba sifuna ukuchitha amandla ethu kumaqabane ethu ukusukela ngosuku lokuqala: kuthatha ixesha ukuvula umntu - njengokuxobuka ungqimba lweatswele ngongqameko- kwaye asiyenzi 'Sifuna ukuba bazi izinto ezithile ngathi ngaphambi kokuba sive ukuba lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuba sabelane ngazo.
kutheni izinto ezimbi zisehlela
Ukuba ugqithe ebubini obungekakulungeli ukuthetha, kwaye iqabane lakho likhankanya ezo meko zichanekileyo kuba 'bayazi' ukuba ubaphethe, impendulo yakho isenokwahluka ukusuka ekungonwabini ukuyokuqhekeka ngokupheleleyo.
Kukwanjalo nakwimeko echaseneyo: iqabane lakho lisenokungafuni ukuba wazi kwangoko ukuba bajongane nezinto ezinje ngeziyobisi, okanye ukubetha, okanye naliphi na elinye inani lezifundo ezibuthathaka, kodwa endaweni yoko banokukuvulela ngexesha labo… kodwa uyazi yonke loo nto ukuchitha nje ixesha elithile kunye nabo.
Oko kunokuba nzima kakhulu ukulwa nako.
Niya kufuna nobabini ixesha lodwa ukuze nitshajele
Iifaths ziyazi ukuba zifuna ukuba wedwa ukuze ziphinde zihlaziye iibhetri zazo, kodwa oku kulula kakhulu ukuphatha xa omabini amaqela ekhulile kwaye ezazi iimfuno zabo zokuzinakekela, kwaye banokunxibelelana ngokufanelekileyo nomnye umntu.
Ukuba umntu akakho bayayiqonda imeko yabo yovelwano , okanye luhlobo lokuncamathela kunye kuxhomekeka , Banokuthatha imfuno yeqabane labo lokuba bodwa njengohlobo lokwaliwa.
Nokuba umntu wabo omthandayo uzama ukucacisa ukuba bafuna nje indawo ethile, enokuchazwa njengokugxotha, okanye ukuba abasabathandi, okanye banomdla komnye umntu, njl.
Le yinto efuna ukwaziswa ngokucacileyo nangokufanelekileyo, ngoqinisekiso oluninzi.
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Awunakho Ukuzifihla Iimvakalelo Zakho
Ukuba ujongene noxinzelelo, usizi, okanye naziphi na ezinye iimvakalelo ezinzima ngokubhekisele kubudlelwane bakho, iqabane lakho linakho (kwaye liya kuthi) lithathe kubo.
Uninzi lwethu lukhetha ukugcina iingcinga zethu kunye neemvakalelo zethu kuthi ngelixa sizicubungula kwaye sizama ukuqonda ukuba loluphi ulwalathiso ekufuneka siluthathe, kwaye kungathatha ixesha elincinci kuthi ukufumana okunene ukuthwala, ngakumbi ngomsebenzi kunye noxanduva losapho.
Xa nobabini nithandana, kwaye nichola iimvakalelo (kunye neengcinga, ngamanye amaxesha), awunabunewunewu bokusebenza ngokwakho.
Kungakhathaza ngakumbi xa bengakuniki indawo yokuzilungisa, befuna ukuba bayazi ukuba kukho into engalunganga kwaye bafuna ukuba uthethe ngayo kuba ilifu liyabachaphazela.
Kukho amanqanaba ohlukeneyo ovelwano, ewe, kwaye akukho ubudlelwane babini buhlala bufana. Ezinye iimfesane ziya kucofa kunye nomnye, abanye banokufumana ukuba banamandla kakhulu okanye abaxhunyiwe ngokwaneleyo. Yinto eqhelekileyo leyo.
Ukuba u-empath, kwaye unethuba lokuzibandakanya nomnye onjengawe, onokuthi ukhulise ubudlelwane obuhle naye, kufanelekile ukuzama.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba zimbini iindlela ezinokuthi zisebenze kunye njengesibini? Thetha kwi-Intanethi kwingcali yobudlelwane kwi-Relationship Hero enokukunceda ufumane izinto. Ngokulula.
