“Ndixelele ngawe…”
Ngaba ukhona umbuzo owoyikekayo phaya?
Ngaphandle kokuba umakhulu notatomkhulu wakho ebuza ephindaphinda ukuba ukhe wadibana nomntu olungileyo, oko kukuthi!
Kunokuba nzima ngenene ukuthetha ngawe ngaphandle kokuvakala ngempazamo okanye ngokuzikhukhumalisa, kodwa awufuni nokuzenzela phantsi.
Nokuba ungodliwanondlebe nomsebenzi, ngomhla wokuqala, okanye udibana nabantu abatsha ethekweni, sinazo iingcebiso zokuba ungazi kakuhle kanjani 'ukuqhayisa okuthobekileyo'…
1. Yigcine imfutshane kwaye ukhawuleze.
Unomdla njengoko unjalo, akukho mntu ulindele isincoko njengempendulo.
Ngelixa abantu bezimisele ngokwenene ukufumana okungakumbi malunga nawe, bafuna ukwazi inguqulelo emfutshane yobuntu bakho… ukuqala ngayo, ubuncinci.
Kudliwanondlebe, umzekelo, iimpendulo zakho mazibe mnandi kwaye ziye kwinqanaba-uninzi lwabaqeshi abanokubakho bafuna ukwazi ukuba unokuhambisa ulwazi ukuya kwezona zibalulekileyo.
Ukuba udibana nabantu abatsha, iincoko zihlala zilandela ipateni ethile. Nangona kuninzi kakhulu okwenzekayo ebomini bakho, abantu ngokubanzi bafuna ukwazi ukuba yintoni umsebenzi wakho kwimizuzwana emithathu yokudibana nawe.
Siyazi, siyazi - imisebenzi yethu ayisichazi, kodwa iyabanceda abanye benze izigqibo ngokukhawuleza, kwaye zizinto ezininzi ezincoko zentshayelelo malunga nazo.
Ngokuphendula ngokukhawuleza kolu hlobo lwemeko, uya kuba nakho ukuchonga ibhondi enokubakho kwangoko.
Unga Buza imibuzo nayo, kunjalo, kuthetha ukuba unethikithi ekhawulezayo yokufumana okuninzi malunga nomnye kwisithuba esifutshane sexesha.
Emva kwemizuzu embalwa umva-nangaphandle, niya kwazi nobabini ukuba ufuna ukuqhubeka nengxoxo kwaye ungene kwiinkcukacha ezithe kratya.
Yicinge njengokuthandana okukhawulezayo- unika okuninzi okunqamlezileyo, okubizwa ngokuba yi-punchy titbits kwangethuba ukuze ubenomdla kunye nokuzibandakanya, emva koko uthathe isigqibo sokuba ufumane isiselo sesibini kwaye uveze ulwazi ngakumbi.
Umzekelo-ngomhla wokuqala, chaza ukuba uhlala phi, yintoni umsebenzi wakho, kunye nenye yezinto ozithandayo. Ezi ngxelo zintathu zinamandla ziya kuphendula imibuzo embalwa elandelayo ebinayo omnye umntu, kwaye uya kuba usendleleni yokuseka umhlaba ofanayo.
2. Thembeka-uyakuxabisa oku kamva, sithembe!
Akukho ndawo yokuxoka okanye ukuhombisa umdla wakho okanye impumelelo.
Thatha ilizwi lethu.
Ngokwamava akho, ayikho enye into ebuhlungu engaphaya kokuba umphathi wakho kraca abuze ngento oyenze ngathi unomdla kuyo…
… Iziphumo zomdlalo phezolo? Hayi umkhondo, kodwa baya kuthatha ukuba uyazi njengoko wawunjalo ke ndiyayithanda kudliwanondlebe lwakho.
Ngokulinganayo, ukuthetha ukuba ungathetha ulwimi lwangaphandle xa ungenakubonakala umhle kwi-CV, kodwa kuya kujongeka kububudenge kwintlanganiso xa usokola ukukhumbula i-GCSE Spanish. Akukho ntshukumo intle!
Uyasikhumbula eso siqendu sabahlobo apho uJoey athi angathetha isiFrentshi kwaye athabathe umdaniso? Khange isebenze kakuhle. Ukuba ungathoba igaloni yobisi phantsi komzuzu, nangona kunjalo, yiya kuyo…
Oku kusebenza ngobuhlobo kunye nobudlelwane, nako. Kungaziva kulungile ukuvumelana nomntu kwinto ethile oyithandayo okanye kwindima yomsebenzi, kodwa, ngokuzenza ngathi uzibeka kwimeko eyingozi.
Uya kuba nexhala lokutyibilika kwaye utyhile loo nto uxoke ubumhlophe uyakuyeka ukonwabela nakuphi na ukuhlangana naloo mntu.
Zama ukukhumbula ukuba umkhulu njengokuba unjalo kwaye unokunyaniseka malunga nento oyenzayo, kunye nento ongayenziyo.
Akukho nto igwenxa ngokungavumelani nomntu, kwaye ayizizo zonke izinto zokuzonwabisa eziza kwabiwa. Ukuba awunomdla kwinto yokuqala efanayo, qhubeka kwaye ufumane indawo eyahlukileyo, efanayo. Kuya kubakho omnye apho kwenye indawo!
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Umzekelo-tyhila imfihlelo, inomdla malunga nawe okanye yiya nje kwinto eyinyani, njengokukwazi ukuthetha ulwimi lwangaphandle okanye uhlobo lokuchukumisa. Ingangabonakali iyonwabisa kuwe, kodwa inokuthi ivele incoko entle.
Qhuba kwaye uphendule (ngokufanelekileyo!)
Ukuba umntu ukhankanyile ukuba bayayonwabela into oyithandayo nawe, le yindlela elula yokuthetha ngawe ngaphandle kokuqhayisa.
Kuya kukunceda ukubandakanya umntu othetha naye, baya kuba nakho ukunxibelelana nawe ngakumbi, kwaye incoko iya kuziva indalo ngakumbi.
Ngomhla wokuqala, umzekelo, ukufumana umhlaba oqhelekileyo kunokuba sisiqabu esikhulu xa kuthelekiswa nezo zolula zokuthula.
Ngokwabelana ngokuthanda kwakho into ethile, uya kubonakala ngendlela 'yomntu' kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba unonxibelelwano lokwenyani.
Ukuba udliwanondlebe, kuhlala kulungile kumqeshi ukuba azive ngathi baya kuqhubeka nawe mihla le.
ukuba wenzeni isithandwa sam ngemini yokuzalwa kwakhe
Sonke siyakwazi ukuba yingcali xa kufuneka njalo, ke ukuchukumisa komntu kubaluleke kakhulu kwaye kubonisa ukuba ungoyinyani, ungumntu onomdla abaya kuthi bathethe naye.
Ngokuphendula kunye nokunxibelelana ngakumbi, uyazivula njengomntu kwaye ubonakale njengoyinyani, onokuba yinto entle kuphela.
Qinisekisa ukuba ulungile kudliwanondlebe, ewe. Ukuya kusela rhoqo ngeempelaveki kunokuba yinto oyithandayo, kunye neyabo (!), Kodwa awudingi kuyinyusa loo nto.
Gxila kuthando lwakho lwesiFrentshi, ukuthanda ukunyuka amatye, okanye uhambo lweveki kwithala leencwadi lasekuhlaleni. Kukhuseleke ngakumbi.
Umzekelo - baxelele ukuba uyakuthanda nokuya kwiimarike zamafama ngempelaveki kwaye uqalise incoko malunga nalowo ubukhe waya ekuhlaleni. Ngubani owaziyo?
4. Qiniseka - okanye uzenze ngathi!
Wena uzazi ngcono ngaphezu kwakhe nabani na, kwaye ukwimeko entle yokuzibonakalisa kwelona khanyiso libalaseleyo.
Nokuba ludliwanondlebe okanye usuku, uqala ngesileyiti esingenanto, oko kuthetha ukuba bonke abantu baya kwazi ngawe yile nto ubaxelela yona nendlela oyixelela ngayo.
Ukuzithemba ngumceli mngeni kubantu abaninzi. Zama ukuzikhumbuza ukuba nabani na othetha naye akakwazi, ke ngekhe bazi ukuba unentloni kwaye uyakucaphukela ukuthetha nabantu ongabaziyo.
Ukuba uzenza ngathi uyazithemba, baya kuthatha nje ukuba unjalo. Siyazi ukuba akukho lula kangako, yiyo loo nto sicebisa ukuba ukuziqhelanisa kuphelele.
Abantu obathandayo baya kuhlala bekho ukuze banike inkxaso, ke kutheni ungaqhubeki nodliwanondlebe oluhlekisayo kunye nabo? Okukhona uqhela ukuthetha ngawe ngale ndlela, kokukhona kuya kuzithemba ngakumbi. Iziva isisiyatha ekuqaleni, kodwa iya kuhlawula ngenene.
Eli nqaku liphela limalunga nokukunceda uzive ukhululekile kwaye uzithembile xa uthetha ngawe. Inyaniso yokuba siyibhalile ibonisa ukuba ungakanani umcimbi onokuba yinto eninzi kuthi, ke zama ukuzithuthuzela kwinto yokuba awuwedwa.
Njengoko besitshilo-yinyani de uyenze. Uyakumangaliswa yindlela oza kukhawuleza ngayo ukuhlala kwindima yakho entsha njengomntu ophumayo kwaye ngelixa isenokungabi yindalo yesibini, uya kuba nakho ukuyikhupha xa kufuneka njalo.
Umzekelo - musa ukuzibamba, yiba nesibindi ngale nto uyithethayo. Abantu obathandayo banomdla xa uthetha kuba bekwazi wena - abo bangenamdla kuba befuna ukukwazi, ke zama ukukhumbula oko.
5. Yamkela isigwebo esinokubakho.
Singathanda ukukuxelela ukuba akukho mntu ukugwebayo, kodwa isenokungabi yinyani. Into esiza kukuxelela yona, nangona kunjalo, kukuba ayinamsebenzi.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, abantu baya kwenza izigwebo ngokukhawuleza , kodwa akukho sizathu sakuxhalaba malunga nokuba bangayintoni. Kufuneka nje wamkele ukuba oku kuyakwenzeka kwaye uzikhumbuze ukuba ayisoloko iyinto embi.
Umgwebo ongacacanga unokuthi, 'Wow, sixhawule ngokuqinileyo!' okanye, 'Owu kulungile, ndiyakuthanda nokudlala intenetya ngokunjalo, kulungile' - akusoloko kufuna ukuba yile nto iphakanyiswa lilizwi entlokweni yakho.
Ukuba ujolisa kakhulu kwizinto ezinokucingwa ngabantu okanye abangazukucinga ngazo, uya kulahleka ngokupheleleyo kwaye uyilibale indlela onokuba yiyo wena .
Khumbula ukuba nabani na othetha naye ufuna ukufumanisa ngakumbi ngawe, nokuba kungomsebenzi okanye ungumhlobo omtsha. Ukuba bagweba kwaye abakuthandi , ayingomdlalo ofanelekileyo.
Khumbula ukuba nantoni na eyenzekayo, uyakulunga-ukuba awufumani sibonelelo somsebenzi kuloo mphathi uziva ngathi uyakugweba, yeyona nto ilungileyo. Ngaba uyafuna nyani ukusebenzela umntu oziva ukuba ukujongele phantsi?
Umfana obenomhla kunye naye usenokucinga ukuba izinto ozithandayo ziziziqhwala, ngoko ke uye waba nethamsanqa lokubaleka ngokuphepha umhla wesibini. Izinto ngekhe zisebenze ngokwenyani ukuba uneembono ezahlukileyo kwizinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
Ukuba uzama ukuqala unxibelelwano olutsha ngale mindset, uya kuba nexhala kakhulu malunga nesiphumo kwaye ube nakho ukugxila ekubeni ngumntu wakho omangalisayo. Iziphumo, yonke into iya kusebenza ngokungcono ekugqibeleni.
Umzekelo-yitsho into oyifunayo uze ungayihoyi eyakho ixhala malunga nokuba abanye bacinga ntoni .
6. Lungisa into kwangaphambili.
Ukuba uziva usoyika ngalo naluphi na unxibelelwano olutsha, ukucwangcisa yenye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokuphelisa olo xinzelelo.
Bhala phantsi uluhlu lwezinto zezinto ozenzayo ngalo mzuzu-ziqhelanise nemisebenzi yakho yemihla ngemihla kunye nezinto ozenze ngempelaveki kwezi nyanga zimbalwa zidlulileyo. Cinga ngezinto ozenzayo kunye nezinto ozithandayo, kwaye ukhumbule ukuba zinokwahluka kakhulu!
Ukuba unengxaki, buza abantu obathandayo ukuba bacinga ntoni xa becinga ngawe. Oku kunokunceda ukuqala ezinye iinkumbulo zento obukade uyiyo. Kunokuba nzima ngokwenene ukukhumbula izinto esizithandayo xa sibekwe kuloo ndawo, kwaye ukukhumbula into ebesinayo isidlo sakusasa kunzima ngokwaneleyo kwiintsuku ezithile!
Yenza olunye uluhlu lwezinto onokuzenza njenge ukwenza ngobomi bakho. Oku mhlawumbi kwahluke kakhulu kunoko uninzi lwethu lwenzayo.
Ukuthetha ngawe akufuneki nje ukuba ibe yinyani engenakuphikwa malunga nobomi bakho bemihla ngemihla. Izicwangciso zomntu ezizayo kunye nezinto anomdla kuzo zinokubandakanya ngokwenene, kwaye kuhlala kumnandi ukuva malunga nendlela abantu abazama ngayo ukuhambisa ubomi babo.
Ukukhankanya ukuba ufuna ukunyuka nokuhamba-hamba kwihlabathi ayisiyonto intle ukuyithetha kudliwanondlebe lomsebenzi, kodwa kuya kuyivusa incoko enkulu nomhla okanye umhlobo omtsha.
Thetha ngeminqweno yakho yokujoyina iklabhu yomdaniso okanye uqale ukudada kwakhona. Ezi ntlobo zezinto zisenokungabi mnandi kuwe kuba awukazenzi okwangoku, kodwa ziya kunceda ukunika abantu ngakumbi umbono wobuntu bakho.
Umntu owazisa njengebhanki usenokungabonakali ebangela umdla kwangoko, kodwa injongo yabo yexesha elizayo yokuhamba esibhakabhakeni e-Australia? Kuhle kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kufanelekile ukuncokola.
Ngokuzilungiselela olu hlobo lombuzo, uya kuya kwiimeko zentlalo uziva uzithembe ngakumbi.
Umzekelo-khankanya into oyenzileyo kwimpelaveki ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo- akufuneki bazi ukuba ubucwangcisa impendulo yakho ukusukela ngoko! Ungathetha ngezicwangciso zexesha elizayo, kwaye, kwaye ubaleke uluhlu osele ulwenzile ngeenjongo zakho zobomi.
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7. Buyela umva kumbuzo.
Ukuba uziva ngathi ufuna imizuzu embalwa ukuphinda uqokelele emva kolu hlobo lombuzo, nika ulwazi oluncinci emva koko uwubuyisele umbuzo kubo.
Ayizukuvela 'njengobuthathaka' kwaye ngekhe bazi ukuba uyenza ngokuyinxenye ukuphambukisa ingqalelo. Uyakufika utyalomali kwaye unomdla wokwenene kuyo nayiphi na imeko okuyo.
Ukuba uthandana nomhla okanye udibana nomntu omtsha, omnye umntu uya kuziva evuya ukuba ubakhathalele kwaye ubonakala ngathi uyakhathala. Uyakufumana ulwazi olutsha malunga naloo mntu, oluhlala lunomdla.
Kudliwanondlebe, uvumelekile ukuba ubuze imibuzo! Kungenxa yokuba unguye kwisitulo esishushu, oko akuthethi ukuba awunakuyijika le nkqubo kwaye ubuze imibuzo embalwa.
Qinisekisa ukuba ziyahambelana kwaye zifanelekile (ungabuzi malunga nomvuzo!), Kodwa zama ukuziva ukhululekile ukuphonononga ngakumbi. Unelungelo lokubuza ngaphezulu malunga nendima, okanye malunga nokuba ngubani na umphathi wesebe lakho.
Bonisa ukuba ulwenzile uphando lwakho ngokubuza ukuba yintoni umphenduli wodliwanondlebe owayesabela ku-X okanye ku-Y - bayakuchukumiseka ukuba uyazi ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni kwihlabathi labo lomsebenzi kwaye bayalixabisa ithuba lokubopha.
Ikwabonisa ukuba unomdla, ulayite kwaye ufuna ukuzibandakanya kwishishini.
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Umzekelo -babuze ukuba balindeleni kuwe njengomqeshwa okanye bafumanisa njani ukuba basebenza kwiqela.
8. Sukoyike ukuthetha ngokwakho…
Akukho nto igwenxa ukuba neqhayiya ngesiqu sakho kunye nempumelelo yakho.
Lumka ngendlela othetha ngayo olu hlobo lwento (siza kuya kule ilandelayo!), Kodwa ungaziva ngathi awunakukuzibhiyozela kunye neempumelelo zakho.
Kudliwanondlebe, kulungile ukuthetha ngeempembelelo ezilungileyo obukhe wanazo kumashishini ngaphambili. Uya kubhala impumelelo yakho kwi-CV yakho nangona kunjalo oku kukunika ithuba lokungena kwiinkcukacha ezithe kratya kwaye ungeze ubuntu kumagama.
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Ukuba udibana nomhlobo omtsha okanye umhla onokubakho, kuhlala kulungile ukuzithemba. Musa ukuba nekratshi, ewe, kodwa uzive ukhululekile ukuthetha kakuhle ngawe. Amabali ahlala enomdla ngakumbi xa umntu ebaxelela enomdla wokwenene kwinto abayithethayo!
Thetha ngezinto ozithandayo kunye nomdla - izakuthetha lukhulu ngawe. Thetha ngokuzingca ngezinto ozifezileyo, njengoko oku kubonisa ukuba uyazihlonela kwaye uyakuqonda ukubaluleka kwakho.
Lowo ngumgangatho obaluleke kangako ngeendlela ezininzi. Abantu aboyikayo ukubhiyozela impumelelo yabo banokubonakala bengakhuselekanga okanye bengaqinisekanga- oku kuyacaca, kodwa isenokungabi bubungqina obuchanekileyo bobuntu bakho.
Zama ukusebenza ngokuthetha ngokungafihlisiyo ngezinto olunge kuzo - unokuziqhelanisa nabantu obathandayo njengoko usazi ukuba bayokuxhasa kwaye bajoyine ekuthetheni phezulu!
Umzekelo - musa ukuzibamba ekuvuleni malunga nezinto ezinomdla nezinomdla ozenzileyo. Udliwanondlebe yindawo yokuba uthethe ngokufezekisileyo ukuze ungoyiki ukuthetha ngamathuba akho okuphumelela!
9.… Kodwa sukuthetha kakhulu!
Ukwenza isandi sakho njengomntu obalaseleyo (ekucacileyo ukuba ukhona!) Kulungile. Ukuya ngaphaya kwebhodi kwaye ufike ngokukhawuleza? Akunjalo kakhulu.
Kukho umgca ococekileyo phakathi kwekratshi kunye nokuzikhukhumeza, kwaye sifumene iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokuhlala kwicala lasekunene lalo mgca.
Ukuba udliwano-ndlebe, ukuthetha malunga nokufezekisa kubalulekile. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthetha malunga namaxesha okusebenza kunye nokwenza kakuhle, kodwa qiniseka ukuba uxela ibali elipheleleyo.
Enye yezona mpumelelo zakho zinkulu yayikukusebenza kwakho njengenxalenye yeqela. Sukuyidelela le nto njengomzekelo nje kuba ayikuthethi ukuba wenza into wedwa! Ukwenza izinto kakuhle kakuhle ngelixa usebenza nabanye kusenza izinto kakuhle kakhulu.
Isalathiso kubantu osebenza nabo apho kufuneka khona-ukuthatha ikhredithi eyedwa kumzamo weqela kunokuqhushumba ebusweni bakho kamva ukuba kufunyenwe ukuba umsebenzi owenzileyo ubandakanye abanye abantu.
Ukukwazi ukubona iinzame zakho kunye nokukwazi kwakho ukusebenza nabanye kulungile kwaye abaqeshi bathanda ukuva ukuba abantu bayasebenziseka.
Oku kunokukwenza uzive ukhululekile xa uthetha nawe ngokunjalo - ungayibhekisa iminikelo yakho kwiqela, kungoko kukho uxinzelelo oluncinci lokuba uthethe nje ngokuqinileyo ngawe.
Ukuba unomhla okanye udibana nabantu abatsha, ukuhlala kancinci uthobekile luluvo olulungileyo, ubuncinci ukuqala ngalo.
Khawufane ucinge ukuba ungaziva njani xa ungadibana nomntu omtsha kwaye konke abakuthethileyo bubukrelekrele babo, ukuba balunge kangakanani emsebenzini wabo, kunye nemoto ebizayo abazithengele yona.
Ngazo zonke iindlela, njengoko sicebisile, zithembele xa usabelana ngezinto ngawe, kodwa khumbula ukuba iincoko zihamba zombini iindlela.
Gcina omnye umntu obandakanyekayo ngokumema uluvo nangokubuza imibuzo, ungazithethi ngalo lonke ixesha!
Uya kulufumana olu hlobo lwento lula ngakumbi xa uthetha nabantu abatsha, ungakhathazeki - ayisiyonto inzima njengokuba izandi.
Umzekelo-khankanya iqela obusebenza kulo xa uthetha ngempumelelo yomsebenzi. Oku kubonisa ukuba awuzicingeli wena ngokwakho xa kufikwa ekuthatheni ikhredithi ngokusebenza nzima, kodwa ukuba uyazihlonela kwaye uyakuqonda ukubaluleka kwegalelo lakho.
10. Yigcine ikhululekile.
Nokuba ucwangcisile ukuba uza kuthini kwinqanaba le-nth, zama ukwenza izinto ngokungaqhelekanga.
Kuhle ukuba uzilungiselele, kodwa abantu banokukufumanisa kuyinto engaqhelekanga ukuba ubonakala ufunda kwiskripthi sengqondo.
Ukuya kule nto ufuna ukuyithetha kuhle, njengoko besesitshilo, kodwa zama ukugcina izinto zikhululekile kwaye ziqhelekile xa uthetha.
Ngexesha lokudibana kwakho (udliwanondlebe, umhla, ipati njl.njl.), Uyakuba ungaphaya kwezimvo zakho amaxesha amaninzi kangangokuba baya kuziva njengohlobo lwesibini. Oku kuthetha ukuba uyakuyazi 'isihloko' sakho ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwaye amagama aya kuhamba nje.
Qiniseka ukuba oku kuyakwenzeka kwaye uzame ukuphumla. Ukuba sele sele ngokwendalo umntu onexhala , oku kunokuba nzima ngokwenene. Zikhumbuze ukuba sele uziqhelile, ngokungathi kunjalo, kwaye ngoku ukulungele ukwenza i-ad-lib ngokusekwe kulwazi lwakho.
Abantu baya kuqonda ukuba uthatha imizuzwana embalwa ukuphendula kumbuzo, ngakumbi inyama enkulu enje!
Udliwanondlebe uya kuba ulindele ukuba uthathe ikhefu apha. Baza kufuna ukuba uzilungiselele kodwa abayi kufuna ukuba bazive becocekile. Yithathe kancinci, phefumla kwaye uzame kwaye ube yendalo kangangoko unako.
Umzekelo -bhala ngokwakho iskripthi ukuba uyafuna, emva koko usiguqulele koonotsheluza. Ngale ndlela, uya kufunda amanqaku aphambili kunokulandelelana kwamagama kwisivakalisi. Oku kuya kukunceda uthethe ngokwendalo kwaye uyakukhumbula ukukhuthazwa kunokuphinda ucwangcise igama elicwangcisiweyo ngelizwi!
11. Zibuyisele umva.
Ukuba uya kudliwanondlebe, ezinye iipropathi zinokusebenza ngokwenene. Iipotfoliyo zinokuba yinto emnandi kwimisebenzi emininzi kunye neenkcukacha-manani yindlela entle yokuxhasa le nto uyithethayo ngawe.
Ukuba uthetha ngabathengi oguqukele kubaxhasi, okanye ukuthengisa okungaphezulu okufumeneyo ngokusebenza nenye inkampani, yiza namanani ukuze uchaze.
Ukuthetha ngawe ngolu hlobo lwengqondo kunokuba yinkohliso- nokuba ungoyikisa kangakanani, uninzi lwabantu lufuna ukubona ubungqina bokuluxhasa. Ukuthi wenze izinto sisiqalo esihle, kodwa ukukwazi ukungqina ephepheni (okanye kwilaptop!) Ngokwenene upakisha inqindi.
Qiniseka ukuba uzilungiselele ngokupheleleyo ukuya kolu hlobo lwento. Awufuni ukwenza intetho, kodwa ufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba unamaxwebhu afanelekileyo kunye nawe kwaye usendleleni elungileyo.
Cinga ngeyona ndlela ibalaseleyo yokubonisa idatha yakho kunye nokuyilungisa kwinkampani odlan 'indlebe nayo. Ukuba ufaka isicelo sendima yokuyila, bonisa loo nto yomsebenzi kumaxwebhu akho. Ukuba yinkampani ethe nkqo ethe tyaba, yiya kwakudala kwaye ubonise itshathi yepayi okanye igrafu.
Yiya kwizinto nomntu omthembileyo ngaphambi kokuba ungene kudliwanondlebe. Baza kuba nakho ukujonga-okwenzayo kwaye baveze naziphi na iimpazamo ozenzayo.
Baza kukunika ukuzithemba kwaye bakuncede ufumanise iodolo ekufuneka ubonise ngayo izinto. Eminye isezantsi kuwe.
Umzekelo -ukubandakanyeka kwakho kwiphulo lokuthengisa lenkampani kukonyusa ukuthengisa nge-X%, ke bonisa oko ngetshathi yepayi okanye, ukuba kufanelekile, kuyilo lwenkcubeko
12. Yiba ngokungaguquguqukiyo.
Oku kusebenza ikakhulu kudliwanondlebe lomsebenzi-gcina le nto uyithethayo ifanelekile kwi-CV yakho.
Ukuba ngokungakhethiyo ukhumbula into kudliwanondlebe lwakho ongakhange ubeke iCV yakho, ukuyizisa kulungile! Kodwa zama ukunamathela kwinto osele uyingenisile.
Udliwanondlebe wachukunyiswa ngokwaneleyo yiCV yakho ukuba ayise kudliwanondlebe, ke baya kufuna ukuva ngakumbi malunga noko bakufundileyo apho.
Yenza i-CV yakho kwakhona amatyeli ambalwa ngaphambi kodliwanondlebe. Oku kuyakukhumbuza izinto ezikhoyo kwaye kunokukunceda ukhumbule ukuba kutheni uzifakile.
Ukukhumbula imihla kunokuba yinkohliso ngamanye amaxesha, ngakumbi xa uziva uxinezelekile okanye unovalo. Ukungahambelani nolu hlobo lwento kuya kubonakala ngokwenene, nangona kunjalo, kwaye uvalo oya kuthi emva koko uve ngathi luyoyikeka.
Ukuba umntu ubuza into kwi-CV yakho, zama ukuhlala uzolile kwaye ubaleke ubuyele kumanqaku akho engqondo. Ukuba unamathele ngokwenene, zama ukwenza ihlaya malunga nalo okanye ubuze umbuzo ngokubuyisela, njengokuthi 'Uxolo, uthetha ntoni ngaloo nto?' okanye into yokukuthengela ixesha kwaye ikuncede ucacise ukuba ungubani kufanele Nditsho!
Oku kunxibelelana nayo yonke into ebesiyithetha ngasentla kwaye kuyibopha kunye. Thembeka kwaye uya kuba nakho ukunamathela kwibali elifanayo - kuba kuyinyani!
Ngokucwangcisa kwangaphambili, uya kuyazi kakuhle into ofuna ukuyithetha kwaye uyakuthetha nodliwanondlebe ukugqitha I-CV yakho, ikakhulu.
Ukuba unxibelelwano luyinto eqhelekileyo, nomhla okanye umhlobo omtsha, oku kuyasebenza…
… Uya kubonakala kwangoko unokuthenjwa ukuba awuhambelani. Abantu abagcwele yonke indawo banokudibana njengabangenangqondo okanye abarhanela kancinci.
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Asitsho ukuba kuya kufuneka unamathele kwisihloko esinye sencoko, nangona kunjalo. Thetha ngawe kunye nezinto ezahlukeneyo ozenzileyo ngobomi bakho, kodwa hlala ungaguquguquki kuwe.
Umzekelo - ukuba ubhalile ukuba usebenze emsebenzini wakho wokugqibela ukusukela ngo-2013 - 2017, qiniseka ukuba yile nto uyithethayo. Nje ukuba uphambuke kwinto obuyibhalile / oyithethileyo ngaphambili, unika udliwanondlebe ithuba lokukuthandabuza.
Ke, ngoku sele sibalekile kwezi ndlela zilula zokuthetha ngawe, inye kuphela into ekufuneka uyenzile - ukuziqhelanisa!
Ungafunda malunga nayo kangangoko kunokwenzeka emntwini, kodwa amanyathelo awazukuyenza intsingiselo yokwenyani ngaphandle kokuba uqala ukuyibeka.
Ukuthetha ngawe kungaziva usoyika kakhulu ekuqaleni, nangona uzazi ngcono kunaye nabani na. Okukhona utyhileka kwezi ntlobo zonxibelelwano, kwakamsinya uyakufumana indlela esebenza ngcono kuwe ukuze uzive ukhululeke ngokwenyani kwaye uzithembile.
