Ngaphandle kokuba ubenethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo lokufumana ilifa elibalulekileyo, kuya kufuneka wenze uhlobo oluthile lomsebenzi ukuzixhasa ngokwasezimalini, yintoni ngesidingo sokuhlala unxibile, wondliwe, unendlu, kwaye konke.
Nje ukuba baqeshwe, abantu bahlala befumanisa ukuba iindawo zokusebenzela ziindawo ezingaqhelekanga zokuhamba, zithini ngokudibana kwabantu, ezopolitiko eofisini, ulindelo olungachazwanga, nokunye okunjalo.
Kodwa kuzo zonke ezi meko, iimfesane zinenzuzo ephawuliweyo: uyakwazi ukukhetha iindlela ezifihlakeleyo ezingafunwayo ngabanye, kwaye ke unokuthintela ubungqongqo, kwaye utsibe uye empumelelweni yomsebenzi.
ungaxelela njani ukuba uyayithanda inkwenkwe
Nditsho noomatshini abaziqeshileyo kunye / okanye abasebenza ekhaya banokutsala kwezi talente bazalwe kuzo ukuze baqhubele phambili, njengoko amandla anokufunyanwa ngokubanzi kude, kwaye intuition isebenza naphi na apho ukhoyo.
Nokuba usebenza ekhaya okanye kwiofisi exakekileyo, unokufumana inani lezakhono zakho ezizodwa ukuze uphumelele kwaye uqhubele phambili kwikhondo lomsebenzi wakho.
Kuqala kwaye ngokuPhambili, Khetha uKhetho oluLuthandayo ngokunyaniseka
Abantu abaninzi baphelela kwimisebenzi abangayithandiyo, kodwa abalungileyo kuyo.
Oku kuhlala kwenzeka xa belandela iingcebiso zabazali, abacebisi ngezikhokelo, njl.njl kwaye batsalele kwisakhono esithile abanaso, endaweni yoko kusezintliziyweni zabo.
Ngoku, kukho okuhle nokubi amakhondo abantu abanovelwano , Kuxhomekeke kwinqanaba lamandla akho kunye nenqanaba ukwazisa are.
Indawo engalunganga yokusebenza inokuba yiyo kukuseze okanye ukubeka kwimeko yokuvuselela amandla, ngelixa ekunene kunokuvumela ukuba uchume.
Nokuba loo mizila yamakhondo enomtsalane kuwe inokuba yingozi ukuba uza kuphelela kwindawo engalunganga.
Njengomzekelo, imfesane ebisoloko iphupha ngokuba ngumongikazi isenokudinwa kwaye ibe nokuqhekeka ukuba kufuneka basebenze kwigumbi likaxakeka elixakekileyo, kuba yindawo enoxinzelelo oluphezulu ene-alamu ezininzi, iialarm, kunye noxinzelelo olukhulu lweemvakalelo.
Ezo mpawu zinokuphumelela kwindawo yokunyamekela abantu abadala okanye kwindawo yokunyamekela abantu abagulela ukufa endaweni yoko, kuba bebeya kuba nakho ukubeka konke ukugxila ekunyamekeleni abaguli babo, kodwa kwindawo ezolileyo, ethuleyo.
Landela ubuNtu bakho!
Ngaba wakhe wanika intetho okanye wabamba intlanganiso kwaye waziva ngathi izinto azihambanga 'zilungile'?
Kungenzeka kuba ubulungiselelwe abanye abathathi-nxaxheba ukuba baziva njani, kodwa ngekhe uziqonde iimpendulo zabo ngelo xesha.
Ngexesha elizayo xa oku kusenzeka, thatha umzuzwana kwaye uvumele amandla akho ukuba ahambelane nawabanye ababandakanyekayo. Ngaba baziva benestres? Ixesha? UKUKHULUZA?
Usenokuba uyathetha kubo kakhulu kwaye ayibandakanyi nabo , ukuze usebenzise olo lwazi kwaye ujikeleze intlanganiso.
Buza izimvo zabo, vula itafile kwizimvo ezahlukeneyo, kwaye uvumele unxibelelwano luqukuqele phakathi koontanga abahlonitshwayo.
Oku kuyakuba neziphumo ezininzi ezahlukeneyo: hayi kuphela abo usebenza nabo (kunye nabaphathi bakho) baya kucinga kakhulu ngawe ngenxa yendlela ehambe ngayo intlanganiso, uyakuthintela 'abandimameli!' imvakalelo.
Oku kuhlala kusenzeka xa abantu bengabandakanyekanga ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye xa bengaziva bexabisekile.
Njenge-empath, unesakhono esinqabileyo sokwenza abantu bazive beviwe, babonwa, kwaye Baziva, ke xa kufika ixesha lokuphononongwa kokusebenza kwakho, uyazi ukuba uya kufumana iinkwenkwezi zegolide kuyo yonke ibhodi.
abantu ababaleka iingxaki zabo
Molo umhlaba wokwazisa!
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
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- Imizabalazo yeemfazwe ezili-11 zijongana nesiseko semihla ngemihla
- Ukutyibilika ngokutyibilika Kokungakhathali: Isilumkiso kubo bonke abantu
- Uxoxa njani ngokuba yi-Empath Nomnye umntu
Uyayazi into efunekayo phambi kokuba ibuzwe kuwe
Olunye uphawu olumangalisayo uninzi lwee-empaths zabelo kukukwazi ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni efunekayo ngaphambi kokuba icelwe.
Kukangaphi ulinga ukuba umphathi wakho angafuna / afune into eyenziweyo, kuphela ukuchukumisa isihogo kubo xa beyicelile kwaye wayinikela kwangoko?
Ewe. Oko.
Isakhono sokulindela iimfuno nakweyiphi na imeko-kwaye emva koko sithathe amanyathelo ngayo-yenza ukuba amandla axabiseke kwaye axabiseke kwiqela leqela lomsebenzi.
Usenokuba uqikelele okwesibini kwezi mvakalelo kwixesha elidlulileyo kwaye awuzange uzenze, nokuba kungenxa yokoyika ukugqitha okanye ukuthandabuza kuba ubungazi ukuba 'kulungile' ukwenza njalo okanye hayi.
Ukuba oku bekunjalo, licebo elihle ukwenza ezinye ukuzilolonga ukwakha ukuzithemba nokuzithemba kwakho , kwaye ufunde ukuthembela kwimvelo yakho.
Ukuba uziva ukuba kufuneka kwenziwe into, yenze.
Lo ngumgaqo olungileyo onokuwulandela ukuba uyasebenza. Kuba unoxanduva olupheleleyo kwimpumelelo yakho (okanye ukusilela kwayo), ungalandela intuition yakho kwaye ufikelele ebantwini kwinto oziva ukuba lixesha elifanelekileyo.
Iindawo ezilungileyo zokuhamba xa ukruqukile
Oku kunokuba yiyo nantoni na evela kwintshayelelo ye-imeyile etsala amehlo kuyilo oluqaqambileyo-kodwa-olungenasiqhelo loyilo lwegraphic komnye wabathengi bakho.
Ubuchule bobuNkokeli
Izakhono ezabelwana ngeendlela ezininzi, ezinje nge-intuition, umnqweno wentsebenziswano, uvelwano, kunye nokuxabisa ukulunga, zizakhono 'ezithambileyo' ezifanelekileyo kwabo bakwizikhundla zobunkokeli.
Ukuba uthe wazifumana kwindima yomphathi (nokuba ngumphathi weprojekthi okanye umphathi), endaweni yokuba ungumphathi onedonki ongalalanisiyo nolawula ngenqindi lesinyithi, uya kuba yinkokeli emangalisayo elawula ngobulali kunye nenkxaso .
Uyayiqonda into yokuba abantu abakusebenzelayo ngabantu abaya kuthi bakuqhekeka ngamanye amaxesha, banemicimbi yosapho / yobuqu enokuthi ichithe iiyure zomsebenzi, kwaye nabo bafuna ukuxabiswa ngegalelo labo.
Uya kulungela xa bafuna ixesha elinye nelinye, ubathembe ukuba basebenze ngokuzimeleyo, kwaye bakhuthaze xa beziva bedimazekile.
Umphathi onje ufumana inani elothusayo lokunyaniseka kubasebenzi babo, abaya kuthi banike iipesenti ezili-110 zamandla abo, kuba baziva behlonitshwa kwaye bexatyisiwe nguwe.
ImiSebenzi kunye neZikhundla zeAlpha Empaths
Ukuba uwela kwi Uluhlu lweAlfa udidi (<– click that link to find out if you do), you might be ndiziva ndilahlekile ngendawo ongena kuyo.
Unokujongana nenani elifanelekileyo le-hypersensitivity to stimuli sensory, kodwa ube nentliziyo yengonyama kunye nedrive yokuphumelela.
Le inokuba yindawo enzima ukuhamba kuyo, njengoko indawo yengqesho egcwele ingxolo kunye nengxoxo eqhubekayo isenokungabi yinto entle kuwe, kodwa kufuneka ucelwe umngeni kwaye uzibandakanye okanye uza kuphuma ekukruqukeni.
Ngumbono olungileyo ukucinga ngezinto onomdla kuzo ngokuzenza, kwaye ke ubone ukuba ungasebenza njani kakuhle kwezi nkalo ukwandisa iiAlfa kunye neempawu zakho.
ixabisa malini usapho lwe-ace
Ukuba ungokwemvelo ekwenzeni unxibelelwano, kunye / okanye ufuna ukubeka iitalente zakho ukutshintsha umhlaba ubengcono , jonga indima yokuxhasa kwezopolitiko okanye njengomphathi womsitho.
Unokukunceda ukubeka yonke into endaweni yeziganeko kunye nezinto ezinje ukuba zenzeke, kodwa emva koko uzisuse kwi-maelstrom ukuze ungoyiswa sisandi, ukukhanya, okanye izihlwele zabantu.
Ndikubhala oku ngamava, njengoko bendisebenza njengentatheli yomculo iminyaka eliqela: yayiyimeko efanelekileyo kum, kuba ndingaya kwiikonsathi kwaye ndenze udliwanondlebe neemvumi xa amandla am ephezulu.
Emva koko, ngeentsuku zokuchacha emva koko, ndingabhala uphononongo kunye nodliwanondlebe ndonwabe ngeofisi yam yasekhaya. Ibhalansi egqibeleleyo.
Nokuba ungakanani na amandla akho, kwaye nokuba yintoni na ekwenza wonwabe xa usenza, landela ulonwabo lwakho.
Unokuhlala ufumana iindlela zokwenza zikhusele Ukusuka kuhlaselo, nokuba kukwindawo yeofisi yabucala emsebenzini okanye ngokunikela ngeeseti zentloko kunye nokucofa ivolumu kwezinye zeetunes eziqhubela phambili.
Oku kuyakuvumela ukuba ubeke onke amandla akho ekuphumeleleni ngokwemiqathango yakho, ngendlela yakho.
Inqaku lokugqibela : ukuba ugqibela ngokusebenza eofisini, njenge-empath, kuya kufuneka ubenako ukuzikhusela kumandla amabi, ngakumbi ukuba kukho ii-narcissists kunye ne-sociopaths ezisebenza kunye nawe.
Baza kuba nakho ukuzenza bhetele kwizakhono zakho zokuvavanya kwaye bazame ukukusebenzisa, okanye ukukuxhaphaza.
Kunzima kwaye kuyatyhafisa njengoko kunokuba njalo ukugcina udonga lokukhusela ngelixa uzama ukwenza umsebenzi, kukwenzela impilo yakho kunye nokukhuseleka.
